Is it wrong to masturbate to videos & pictures of your ex

yeah, its fucking weird
if you dont see your gf much then ask her for nudes

>>18029579
ehh, it's just like porn isnt it

>>18029599
no. it's fucking weird. if it was just like porn you'd be looking at porn. the difference between this and porn is the emotional connection. if you want to do it, do it, but don't lie to yourself lmao.

>>18029605
I dunno, i just find it really, really hot.

Ask her, not us. If you're too afraid to do that, then you already have your answer.

>>18029608
yeah cause it's personal lol. that's why you masturbate to those particular pictures and not similar amateur nudes of an even hotter girl. or of your current gf. she doesn't deserve you if you can't even rationalize this behavior

>>18029618
I know why it's hot, im just asking if its okay.

>>18029573
show me the vids and pics and I'll give my opinion on whether it's wrong or not

>>18029621
i'm explaining that there is an emotional component, unlike what you claim, you fucking dolt. your gf would probably be really upset if she knew. good luck having fulfilling relationships with this kind of attitude lol

>>18029634
Just seems like its hot because i was with her a long time and kind of grew up with her body, it's some weird fucked up psychological shit, i have absolutely no desire to be with her. Of course i wont tell her, I'm a shit, but i treat her better than any.

That one guy is being a dick about it, but I have to agree that the best thing for you to do is to delete that shit ASAP. It's better to completely cut things off and that includes photos, and if she found out your girlfriend would be crushed. She would think she's not pretty enough for you, or that you still have feelings for your ex.

Whether it is okay is something you have to decide, no one can do it for you. You might want to ask yourself if there is an element of dishonesty and lack of appreciation/respect towards your current girlfriend if you keep going back to your previous one mentally and emotionally. Like, is your current girlfriend not good enough to masturbate to? These are the thoughts she might have if she finds out. Of course, you might be able to hide this from her, but the point is whether _you_ have these feelings too. If you don't think so, you're probably okay with it, meaning it's okay _for you_.
But you did make this thread, so perhaps there is something inside you that made you ask yourself if maybe this is wrong. You should explore that, but nobody can do this for you.

>>18029573
would it piss off your girlfriend?
ask her
if yes
then yes

you are asking because you already see something intrinsically wrong with this situation and because you would be pissed off if the situation was reversed

why ask at all