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got blamed for something i didnt do at work and now i got anxiety all over the place and am afraid of next week when i come in

plz help
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Story?
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Whatever the result worrying about it won't change it.
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>>18062484
there is damage to a car i have droven earlier that week, only heard about it half a week later

pretty sure i didnt do that and i didnt notice it either, so on paper i might be the last person who drove it but the thing is another guy also drove it for a few days after me

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> talk to a guy on tinder for days
> agreed to meet up
> the night before I still am up for the meeting
> the time period before the date I started freaking out
> didn't answer his text on tinder when he said he's about to go to the date
> text him I'm running late
> didn't login to see his text anymore
> feel bad. Want to make up for what I did
> how to talk to him again and arrange another date?

Help me. I know I'm mean and I'm a bitch, but at least I knew it and wanted to make things right.

Besides it, the reason I was reconsidering about the meeting is because I felt like he had been stood up several times that he predicted it by saying in one of those text " hopefully to see me tomorrow night".
> he didn't even ask my number though
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be honest and hope he isn't completely pissed off at you
also plan better next time. exchange numbers and plan to meet early
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>>18062417
How do I open up about it? I feel really sorry cause he seems like a nice guy. Nerd and totally introvert.
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>>18062412

>I felt like he had been stood up several times that he predicted it by saying in one of those text " hopefully to see me tomorrow night".

beta

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Do you ever think about the fact that there are people who are born and then die and never experienced joy or happiness once and never got to know what is like?
What do you have to say about that?
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>>18062306
You can't miss what you never knew.
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wish that was me imo
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>>18062309
That means I will never miss life when I kill myself?

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Have any of you with a cut benis attempted foreskin reconstruction? Is it safe? Is it worth it?
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>>18062300

There are plenty of forums about that topic on the internet.

I'd lurk in some of those.
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yeah, doctor? hey doctor? yeah, it's anon, and I don't like my chopped up dick, so I was wondering if you could get in there with a scalpel and try and oragami my shit? no, not like a transwoman, I don't want a vagina, just a normal goy dick.
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>>18062327
>goy dick
I thought that's what cut dicks were though

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If I wanted to get into male-on-male prostitution, how might I go about that?
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download grindr, invite them to your place, record it in secret, blackmail any of them that aren't openly gay.
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>>18062337
OP wants to get paid, not murdered by some dumb gay slut.
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>>18062293
create a name for yourself.

you can do this by either sucking any dick without almost any exceptions. Or you can suck the best dicks in town.

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I am about to start University in a week.

what can I do to make my time in uni a positive experience?
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>>18062263
Say hi to the person you sit next too. When you break the ice, it reliefs that awkwardness between people. Usually people tend to open up when you introduce yourself
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>>18062263
don't procrastinate. you see these stories of people having to pull all nighters but they only have to do that because they pissed the whole entire week away that they had to do the assignment.
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>>18062285
Got it.

I was also told to join societies to expand my social circle so I'm gonna give that a go as well.

>>18062330
Taken on board.
I'll be sure to start assignments early.

I want to live a life where I can dress like this and own the part. What career, attitude, music, etc. do I need to become like this?
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Develop your own identity. /Thread
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>>18062252
This guy is a faggot. Ignore him.

>>18062246
For starters, it's a fictional character.

>career
Pilot or mechanic type work.
>attitude
Assertive. Not bitchy, just assertive.
>music
Sonic Youth and Motorama. Also learn to sing and play bass. To do covers of male songs.
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Watch Top Gun

I'm an extremely unconfident person, especially when it comes to females, to the point that even when I'm shitfaced drunk if a girl came up to me I'd probably sort of awkwardly stand there or back away.
However, once I'm semi comfortable with a girl I seem to have a quite high success rate really (much better over messaging than in person but whatever) so how do I gain the confidence to actually approach girls, and just be confident in myself in general?
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>>18062225

Start doing sports.

Have you ever seen a shy athletic guy?
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>>18062229
I've recently started playing football (soccer) and I go to the gym 2-3 times a week, but even when I used to play sports a lot I wasn't confident except when I was actually playing
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>>18062235
>times a week, but eve

That's fantastic, keep training as much as you can. Get confident in it. After a few month you will start noticing how your character starts to change.

source: personal experience.

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I have a habit of taking drugs and contacting someone from my past.

i was abused as a kid and they are the first person I told.

I took some Opiods this morning and messaged her.

On some level I want their validation because my own family doesn't care about me.

When I'm sober it's not a problem and I don't do it.
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Don't take the drugs?
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>>18062228
I have nothing else, it helps me cope.

I mean I can resist gambling, smoking, alcohol but it's the thing that makes me feel alright in the world
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Fuck /opi/ dude that shit wrecks your mental health. You're not supposed to feel good that way, really.

If you're being a nuisance to her, you really have to step back and think about how unfair it is for her. She didn't ask for this. The world doesn't revolve around you and your problems and she probably doesn't want to help. The only one that can fix you is you. It's fine if you don't want to fix you yet, but please stop doing opiates man. You don't know what you've got til it's gone. For real.

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How do I improve on drums. My arms get tired when trying to play 8th notes and anything quicker on the hi hat. I don't know any rudiments I've been playing for 5 years and feel like I am the same.
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>>18062205
Use minimal movements. You should be focusing movement in your wrists and not your arms.

I haven't played in like a fe5cade though so I've forgotten a lot. I was alright though.
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Play for as long as possible, until your arms are literally rubber bands.

Do this at least 5 times a week. Add 3-5 minutes on to every session until you can play for an hour nonstop.

Endurance training OP, get with it.
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>>18062209
When you say using the wrist you mean to move the wrist up and down instead of at the elbow which is causing it to tense up? Would learn rudiments help me play faster and more consistent

I get panick attacks whenever I see my ex or whenever I stroll around the zone where she lives, anybody encountered that? My heart starts pounding and I get excessive sweat, shaking and all of the stuff.
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Panic, sorry for the typo.
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>>18062175
Yeah. I go to school with my ex and burst in uncontrollable tears when I happen to see my ex.
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Used to feel that way yeah..

but my life is so unbelievable in this very respect, that I wish my experiences upon no one..

i had an Asian ex that made me feel that way, years later i saw her again and i didn't feel the same, just thought it was pointless to stick around and left.

years go by, fall in love with girl, lose v to girl even, eventually she leaves me, now the crazy shit starts.. mind you, this was a LDR. I only saw her once in person... okay so I saw a video of her on the main tinychat page, like...original tinychat videos looping...she was in one...dude...like...you have no idea..so i go to this show every year, and at the show, there is a girl that looks nearly identical to her...to the point that i felt scared and felt like my energy was being sucked out of me.. it wasn't till a year later that I developed the courage to approach her..the girl must have been creeped the hell out, because I asked for her name to double check.. and I explained my situation, but then I got a good close look at her, and her teeth were smaller than my ex's..but dude..I was so anxious that i was crippled internally..

things happen. but you become stronger.

Hi /adv/.
>I've done a decent job saving money from my shitty job.
I have apx $14,000 USD in savings from shitty job because I don't really buy or do stuff.
>I have no debts.
>Go into community college to major in whatever the fuck.
>After bouncing around decide the best option for me is to get an associates of arts degree (a degree in whatever the fuck).
>I've had a REALLY good time in school, I've really grown and learned a lot just in the short time I've been doing college stuff.
>Realize an associates of arts degree is just a ticket to transfer to another (exponentially more expensive) school.
My question to you is this...
>Do I stay and complete my associates of arts degree just because I'm almost done (and THEN pursue a degree worth a shit)
OR
>Do I say fuck the associates of arts and get an associates of pre-engineering so I can actually attain a degree in something worth a shit?
If I stay at the community college I'll be there until spring 2019 because of all of the calculus I still need. I'm 21 y/o now, so there's no big rush.
Tl;DR.--> OP isn't sure if he should bother to take another semester of bologna useless courses to finish his associates of fuckall when he can start pursuing a good degree in the fall.
Will bump with cool photos periodically.
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bump because help me
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would your pre-engineering degree actually transfer to an engineering degree at a decent college? do the credits and courses transfer?

if you look at
http://catalog.valenciacollege.edu/degrees/associateinarts/articulatedpremajorsatvalencia/computerscienceuniversityofcentralflorida/
for an example they've got a special associate of arts course set up for a transfer to a state university computer science course, same with a lot of the bachelors available at UCF.
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I don't know where you live OP, but I think that life out there is really hard especially for young people. You will not find a decent job with an arts degree (ok maybe you could, but the chances are not good at all). My suggestion is to go into engineering/computer-related shit as fast as you can. Trump can argue about "bringing back jobs" that the Chinese stole, but all that shit will be useless soon as machines, programs and AI will take over all the jobs next.

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I don't know what branch to join.

>Here's me
>20
>spoiled white kid
>second year at college
>20 on ACT

Idk what branch to join. I like to work with my hands, pretty shit at math, can do as told without question. Thoughts?
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>>18062157
air force will have you working with your hands constantly. they're more of a support branch but still the coolest.
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I'm gonna leech off your thread. College grad thinking about doing navy.
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OP here.

Thought about marines after college
Or maybe doing my colleges rotc program. Still not really sure what I want to do

Hey,

Does anyone here have any advice for Micro-dosing LSD? It's not that I'm having trouble doing it, I'd just rather get some perspective from people who've done it SUCCESSFULLY. I've been at a weird point since 2016 where I'm trying to make things happen for myself, but I'm in a constant rut and a lack of motivation. I bought some LSD this past summer, but I could never find the right time to dedicate to the trip.

I heard that at a micro level it can alleviate one's depression suppose to make them slightly more creative, productive and happier. I would love to start screenwriting again without any fear or doubt. It's something that I really like to do, and I want to put more time towards that with hating myself each time I start.

How did it work for you guys?
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I cut a little around a fifth of a supposedly 100ug blotter

I think mine are underdosed tho, doesn't matter I didn't pay that much for them anyways. It really is sub-perceptual, but sometimes my mind state changes because I realize I'm getting work done, not because of the drug

Anyways it helps me be more attentive and less impulsive whilst at school and when I'm coding

It won't give you magical confidence tho, there is no "push" like with amphetamines. At least for me microdosing just shuts annoying parts of my brain up. It won't work if you do it too much, once every week or two is absolute max for me, more than that and the effects start to diminish really fast
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I actually microdosed today.

It was good. I went for a hike, played with my dogs, played some guitar.

It can be helpful, but if you're looking for a daily use anti-depressant try st john's wort. LSD even in low doses leaves your brain fried after the effects wear off. I just picked up my guitar again and I was barely able to play, felt kinda bummed out but I'll be better tomorrow. Right now I just feel burnt, might smoke a bowl or something now.
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>>18062170

What would have to say to someone who always felt like shit and they're thinking about LSD?

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have a boyfriend who i love dearly but were apart alot due to me being at university, its costing a smal fortune and part time work isnt covering enough, been offered money from a sugar daddy but never considered being a cheater, would it be wrong if i did go ahead with it?
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>>18062134
Is this troll or bait? You're a whore if you consider the offer.
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no im not trolling, genuine advice only please
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>>18062146
Is that your pic above? You'd be a good prostitute.
To answer your question, yes, it would be wrong.

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