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>>18064305

First of all, you are 18+, right? This sounds like high school drama, but to be fair, I know actual 20-somethings that behave this exact way.

>I never wanted to love anyone

How long has this been going on?

>>18064322
yea, I am. He is too. He literally just messaged me saying I'm too young, though there's a year's difference in us.
Is it because I don't respond to his dick jokes?

Since i broke up with my last boyfriend. Had enough of that bullshit. Besides, nobody I met, even though I went to parties and made an effort to socialize, nobody really interested me.

I've been very passive in my feelings to anyone which is why this is weird.

Holy fuck! Are you my ex-girlfriend or what? That's almost the same way we met, and she had the same self-esteem issues I was never aware of.

Don't beat yourself up. He's interested in you, either sexually or romantically. Believe it, and take it (very deep). And stop thinking in "leagues", 'tis ain't a monarchy. We are all people, some make and perfect impression superficially, but beneath there's always some shit to dig up. Stay grounded.

And your jealous friend, well, guess he wanteds to fuck you but is mad for not making any moves. Happens, we can't always get what we want.

At our highschool reunion, this random hottie said she had a crush on me since gradeschool (Idk if she's mistaking me for someone else but I have absolutely no idea who she is). So now I have her phone number, what's the quickest way to have sex with her. Prefer date ideas that will lead to sex, time constraint is one week.

>>18064060
>netflix and chill?

>>18064060
Offer her a ride... on your dick!

It's just a natural reaction against SJWs.

>>18063808
I doubt it's that, but what do I do about it?

>>18063865
Go to church.

Neither

>>18063624

London

>>18063624
Those two are full on degenerates.
Enjoy your cucked famiry senpai

How you do it is up to you, but basically become someone she can be proud of. That and give her lots of attention. It's not as hard as you might think.

>>18063252
>should you hit the gym and gradually become fit

yes

>should you talk to ever single girl you find attractive

yes

though this doesn't guarantee success, it gives you the best odds of success

also were assuming you've hit the basic checkmarks like having a job, going or graduated from college, not a mouth breathing autist etc. etc.

>>18063252
you can wait until she gets older and experienced enough life :)

People still masturbate to porn, even though they are in a relationship or married. You are still going to find others physically attractive, this is because there is no such thing as a perfect match, so many guys will be attractive to one woman. If you love your boyfriend, just ignore it and don't act on it. You are having dreams because you are making yourself obsess over this. Just forget about it.

I'm just worried because I haven't had the dreams about him before, but last week every day pretty much I had a dirty dream about him. It makes conversations relatively awkward..

My female friend had an exact thing with my male friend. She told us, to the whole group and we all had a nice laugh. We still tease her about it sometimes, so I guess you shouldn't tell this to anyone. Anyway, dreams are dreams. I sometimes dream how I suck my own cock for some reason and I am a straight guy.

if you're a virgin yourself, no prob
if you're not saving yourself it's a bit hypocritical to only accept somebody who is

and yes i'm taking into account that men and women experience dating in very different ways

yeah its very bad, your mindset is completely the opposite of what it should be. there are plenty of attractive women that have great personalities, theres no correlation that says otherwise its just an illusion you created for yourself. women love to fuck just as much as men and pretty much any girl over the age of 18 has fucked at least one guy. you can accept this reality and live a life of happiness or you can continue to live in your white knight imaginary world where women are pure and continuously get your feelings hurt when you find out your perspective is way off. yeah shes had a dick in her before, its really not a big deal

>>18062667
Being extroverted gives less time for introspection and introspection leads to a good personality. People who are unattractive are often introverted and so partake in more introspection, making them better people on average. Not an exact science at all and I know that there people who are attractive and have good personalities, but if they have both, not only is it rare, but its even rarer if they're single and available.

I've met plenty of women over 20 years old who are virgins. It is not a stupid thing to expect and its not a white knight fantasy, its a fantasy of not being with used goods.

It has to be 35

it's 80

>>18061428
So:
>x+x=30
2x=30
x=15
>y*y+y*y=20
2y^2=20
y^2=10
y=sqr(10)
>z+z=8
z=4
>x+y*z=?
15+sqr(10)*4 ≐ 27.64911064067352


Hope that helps.

To help cure aging

I can't think of any similarly significant goals

>>18060673
Persona 5
Code Geass S3
Girls und Panzer OVA series

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>>18060673

>>18060432
In the end, it depends on the girl. It won't necessarily be a turn off if you say something along the lines of "I enjoy tripping for x reasons" but when you get into "i saw the light, my wavelengths synchronized, and my third eye was opened" is when you start to dip into weird territory.

I don't know. I was in a similar situation as you while I was in undergrad (abnormal psychology) and am even more interested in their use as a therapy tool now that I'm working towards my phd. I just feel that being able to actually experience various states of mind provide the best means to actually empathize with patients rather than, well, treating them as a patient.

>I never considered my personal drug use to negatively impact my life, as my use is rare and very methodical in nature.
This is the biggest thing. I know too many people who have simply let go of their minds in their psychedelic pursuits. As long as you can keep that grasp and hold it tight, you're fine. You know that song, by the beach boys, "hang on to your ego"? It's basically that.

Really all it comes down to is you and the girls (or people in general) that you connect with. If you do end up getting a girlfriend, and regardless of how she feels about tripping/psychs, just don't let it get in the way of the two of you building a strong relationship with eachother. Like, if she wants to go out for the day, but you want to trip, just go out with her. Who knows? Maybe she'll pick up your interests in psychedelics, which is most likely a good thing since I feel (when used properly) they're some of the best tools to bring people closer.

Good luck :)

>>18060432
>30 y.o. female
It's a bit depending on the life stages you are in, I guess. Years ago I wouldn't have minded someone who took the occasional psychedelic, and I considered it myself. I never did it however because through what we learnt about toxicology of certain molecules it became clear that stuff considered much more harmless (SSRI, adderall) have long-lasting effects, some life-long. I think that if you're bent on experiencing different states of mind meditation and other things can give you a good intro and I grew a dislike of all the drug aspect.

The main issue I had with people who took drugs was that back when I was young they would all get them from the black market, and I'm not for that. You're literally sponsoring crime. For a while our group of friends had an organic chemist as friend who would synthesize compounds and they used that but he got busted and they retracted his degree.
It felt like nothing good could come from it.

Now at an age where I'm trying to build up something steady and a place I can call home, with a family, I feel like that's not compatible with doing drugs like that.

So, I think it's sort of off putting, but it will increasingly become so as you grow older.

>>18060432
My girlfriend gave me my first ecstasy experience, my first DMT experience, and my first good mushroom experience.

She's a college graduate and about to start working at BMW.

So..............you just gotta find the right girl.

I traveled across the ocean to spend time with a woman I've known online for years and she left her current relationship she claims was abusive, found a new place and everything is fine except I can tell she hates working ( last guy practically kept her) and she's been paying for everything but get the feeling something of wrong
She left the guy a week before I arrived, which should've set off alarms I clearly willfully ignored, plus the whole abused thing, I've known plenty of women who lie about being abused, easy way to get sympathy
To be fair she knows I have no money so it makes me think maybe her 'love' is genuine

Do you have pubic hair follicles going up to the head on the underside of the shaft? Bothers the fuck out of me, not just by length, but by mere presence.

>>18057864
Definitely.

When I was younger my mom caught me with a pair of tweezers trying to pull them out. It was even more embarrassing when she asked if I needed help with anything after I slammed the door on her.

I didn't mess with them after that ever again.

>>18065824
Sometimes her vagina feels really tight even with my fingers so maybe it's because she's tensing up. If this is the case how can I help her relax? I feel like our relationship is fairly laid back and that she's quite comfortable with me but maybe not enough? She says she definitely enjoys it and especially since I've learned how to give her an orgasm so I'm not sure what else I can do.

>>18065835
Also I've never been able to fit more than one finger in, maybe I could but it usually hurts her when I try but I think that's to do with a sensitive clit maybe

Using lube as an assistant to vaginal lube is pretty normal. I'm not a sexologist but I imagine the amount of lube her vagina produces depends on a whole bunch of external factors in addition to stimulation. Maybe see if the side effects of the pill affect dryness, but it doesn't seem like an issues so long as she is still producing a bit of her own lube.

>>18065767
Listen OP, im now 20. Same life story here. You gotta cut these people out, if not immediately cut them out gradually. Once theyre gone, youll feel like a new person. Im moving out soon and only commuting with my new friends who make me feel like im worth something. Honestly, fuck people who dont try to raise you up. Do you. Dont concern yourself with the thoughts and opinions of idiots.

>>18065767
OP, would you like a new friend? Feel free to drop a kik username or something. Im here for ya.

>>18065858
no i don't need a friend. My parents and friends encourage me to do things but i just feel so worthless.

Woa man, settle down.
What happened to make you give up?

Welcome to live, get used to it.

>I want to end it by cop
Then you're gonna have to shoot up a gun-free zone then, otherwise the civvies will take you out first.

>>18065757
M E D I C I N E

used to lay in bed thinking about killing myself. wen to the gym, did shit, didn't help.
tried to kill myself, failed.

went to the doctor, got pills(wellbutrin)

i have not thought about killing myself in two months

Hahah I didn't read your post except for the first couple lines, but when I saw he had you listen to Skullcrusher Mountain and you thought that was his way of coming on to you, I had to laugh. It's about a schizophrenic scientist who is in love with someone but can't decide whether to kill them or not.

It's hardly Marvin Gaye.

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He works in the tech industry and while it might sound like I’m afraid of “scary brown skin people takin’ muh man”, that’s not the case, I’ve known him the better part of 2 years (we met through his best friend from high school, on skype. His best friend and I are co-workers and good friends.) and haven’t ever really gotten the “OMG ISIS gonna get ‘em” feelings, and his bosses like making money, too. He’s got a great talent in what he does. However, he gets over there and feels isolated and gets super depressed and turns to diversions to make himself happy. I’d like to offer him something more consistent, and I pray one day he won’t call himself a “disposable person” any longer. He jokes about living in a box truck if he stays in the USA, because he’s used to the isolation now, and it breaks my heart.
Part of the reason he came here, was to look at opening-up shop and work for himself. It will take an absurd amount of work to achieve, but of course worth it. I know he’s an amazing business person and can totally dominate if he puts his mind to it here as well- he can be his own boss, and make as much as he wants here, too. He doesn’t want to go back, but the trappings that his bosses give him are hard to turn down- he gets to play with all the cool toys while he’s out there that anyone could imagine, not to mention making great money.

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When I went to pick him up at the airport, I didn’t think for 1 second that I was picking up the man of my dreams. I couldn’t prevent my feelings any more than I could have stopped the Challenger from exploding. I’ve been so alone for so long, I thought that I’d never love again. Now he’s came in and breathed life into my heart and brain, I can’t help but love him, I just want the chance to show him the wonderful things in life.
Here’s a good song on how he makes me feel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rk_sAHh9s08

All I’m asking for is for you to send positive vibes his direction and tell him that he can do his thing on his own terms here and be much happier. If that means pray to God, Jesus, Joseph Smith, Mary, use the force, make a burnt offering, dance naked under the moon light, or meditate on it, pray to Kek, the flying spaghetti monster, Cthulhu or do a little bit of all of it, I would be forever in your debt. My heart can’t bear to lose him to “Agribah”.
TL;DR: Fell in love with best friend while he was visiting and now doesn’t want him to go back. Please send your good thoughts