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Yo, spotted a couple of these in my house.

Any idea what kind of bug these are? Fuckers just wouldn't die. Ended up crushing and flushing.

I'm 6 floors up in a city apartment. Seemed pretty clean and cared for moving in.

Any ideas?
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>>18078767
Bed bugs
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>>18078779
Well fuxk
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>>18078779
This. You're pretty much fucked.

I'm about to crash the product line of a fortune 50 company. They shouldn't have trusted me with so much. Half a billion dollars lost. How to I survive with this guilt? I'm a failure.
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You can think about it when you're in prison being fucked by your cellmate
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>>18078609
I did nothing illegal. The product just grew bigger than I could manage and now it's not sustainable.
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>>18078613
what guilt? you made it successful at one point who cares if it crashes.

Can someone recommend me some good ear plugs that will stop all noise?

My roommate snores like a fucking monster. I throw shit at him, which will stop it for maybe an hour and then he'll start snoring again. I've tried regular ear plugs that I bought at the pharmacy, but they don't fully stop the sound. I've also tried earphones, which work better if I put on some chill music, but my ears hurt in the morning and my phone is all hot in the morning.
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Being broke means you put up with more bullshit in life.

The less an apartment costs, the less soundproof its walls. The higher the rent is relative to your paycheck, the more roommates you will need to have. Your roommates will also be broke hobos much like yourself.
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I happen to be an expert on the topic of sleeping through noise. Earplugs will never work, because you're consciously trying to block all noise, which is impossible, and your mind will focus on trying to pick up the noises to see if you are indeed blocking the noises.

What you need to do is get a white noise maker or listen to one on your computer or something while you sleep. You will then focus on this constant foreground noise and the background noises will become irrelevant to you.
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>>18078005

I don't see how this is relevant, but I'm far from broke :^)

I'm technically still a student so I live in a dorm, go to work every day and get paid well above average for my country. I could easily get my own apartment but why the fuck should I, if I can pay $120 for a 50m^2 apartment with 100/100 internet.

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A while back I wrote a random note and left it at a public office. It was the typical tumblr sperg like "you matter :D" or something like that.
Turns out someone there found the note and kept it at their office notice board to make people happy, and everyone loved it.

Now. I want to write a feelgood letter, handwrite a ton of copies and leave it random places (in an envelope, maybe with a wax seal if I can get more wax). Maybe leave some in random mailboxes, especially for lone elderly people. I want it to cheer people up.

If you wrote a letter like that, what would it say? Please help me find the right words for it to make people feel good and not be creepy.
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i don't really know what you can write but i just wanna say i support this

you are a good person OP, never stop doing what you do
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>>18077460
Thanks. Hoping people will contribute :)
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>>18077457
Not exactly sure what to write, but I'd keep it short like the first one. Also, be careful not to do this too often. It could get old really quick.

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I want to be a writer, but everyone tells me I'm going to starve.
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Post your best writing
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Write a cook book.

Write it on rice paper.

Then even if it fails you won't starve.
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>>18080421
I want to go to college to study and learn how to write.

>inb4 debt
not american.

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How do you cope with the fact that humans really are tribalist in nature and only judge you based on how well you party, conform to norms, and appeal to the emotions of others rather than being a good person or a smart person or actually helping other people.

All I really want to do is just be a good person but all I get in return is nothing, while the real sociopaths not only get everything, but use me as a scapegoat. I don't want to every go outside ever again. I don't want to see another human being again. Even the people I care about the most listen to emotion rather than logic. Even at the top of science, politics takes presidency over logic and helpfulness. There appears to be no escape aside from the internet.
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Nope.
It's just you OP.
People aren't all that tribalist and don't care bow hard you party. Most anticonformists, yourself included are just hardcore conforming to another group.
Most normies are just being themselves.
You are just projecting and blaming society for your problems.
But i assume you won't even consider that and just tell me i don't understand.
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Me too OP, I'm so done with humanity. They're so petty.

I just want to be an isolated hermit. Everything I do in life now is to make money so I can save up enough to never have to see another humans face again if I don't want to.
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>>18080010
>IT'S EVERYONE ELSE THAT HAS THE PROBLEM.
I love the lack of self awareness of seemingly every op on this board.

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>start talking with a girl
>i'm romantically interested
>ask her out, tell her I'm interested
>doesn't want a relationship right now, bad breakup
>things lead to us hanging out occasionally
>amazing compatibility, calls me her best friend, talk for hours and hang out
>"I don't want to be friends right now"
>go with the flow, start developing feelings
>starts avoiding me all of a sudden
>ask her what's up, nothing
>learn she's back with her ex
>tell her she could've just told me the truth
>still bothered
>in events together in uni
>have to talk, she starts calling me almost everyday
>keeps on talking, "you are my best friend", acts all lovey
>feelings come back
>tell her, "i can't be friends. we don't have to be in a relationship right now. if what happened is going to repeat, we don't have to talk"
>"i'm never getting back with him. i'm done. we will be there for each other. you are the only person i trust"
>starts avoiding again, all of a sudden
>she's back with her ex

The thing is I don't think about her much now but when I see her, it's bad. I have developed some kind of weird trust issues because I trusted her so much. I can't get over what she did, I can't trust anyone's words. I'm at a position in life when my friends are distant and I'm doing bad socially and career wise (which are kind of correlated).

Advice?
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Just avoid her, she wants you as an emotional sponge anon. When she has her ex to fall back an you mean nothing to her and I think you already know that man I am sorry bro you will find someone better.
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Read The Sun Also Rises by Hemingway. I think you'll find out very relatable.
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>>18079579
this x1000 anon. Sorry man but you need to keep a distance or call her out on it.

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Hello everyone. How do I maximize the amount of dick I get in a relationship?

I've had 3 boyfriends so far, and then same pattern has held with each. Things start off good, and penis is plentiful. It then drops off. The harder I try to get some, the less I actually get. When I get discouraged and sad, and give up, suddenly he wants me. When I'm trying to be sexy and forward and am naked around him, he wants me less. When I'm bummed out and covered up, he gets flirty. When I ask him for sex, he acts put upon, but when I stop, suddenly he wants it.

Clearly I suck at understanding men, and it is frustrating. What is the sweet spot to maximize the dick I get? Why do guys only seem to want what is out of their grasp? Before you point out how stupid I am for not already knowing the answer, I know.
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>>18079503
Slut
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>>18079545
I've only ever been with my boyfriends, and have had 3. If that's your definition of slut, then that's your problem.
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you need a "sport fucker"

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>leaving class
>see girl with a big spiked mohawk (think pic related but with hair still on the side) and a jacket with a bunch of punk and metal patches on her jacket
>spend almost a month trying to think of the best way to talk to her
>don't have any classes with her and from asking around she doesn't go out much
>see her in the hall yesterday
>decide fuck it and go to talk to her
>as im getting up to her i realize i have no fucking clue what to say
>she notices i was coming up to talk to her and looks a bit worried
>"uh hey, i just wanted to ask where you got all the patches on your jacket..."
>she seems to relax a little bit and tells me she got them at record shops and even made some of them
>we talk about how expensive band merch is online and how little there is to do out here in bumblefuck nowhere
>were walking towards the school door and my ride is at the other exit
>"hey i have to go my friend waiting at the other exit. my name is *anon*"
>reach out to shake her hand
>she gives me her name but doesn't shake my hand at first
> i start to pull my hand away and then she reaches out to shake my hand
>most awkward handshake of my life
>we go separate ways

i think it went ok and she seemed nice enough to me.
but the handshake was a bit odd

what could i have done better?
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>>18079014
>what could i have done better?

You could have done better by not asking yourself that question.
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>>18079014
Not approach strangers out of the blue.
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>>18079034
Disregard that.
>>18079014
People who look like that want to be approached by people with similar interests. Next, ask her to go to a party with you, or angle your way into one of hers. You did real good, anon, here's a plant.

So I have no idea why but people think im a lazy shitty worker. Like I dont work with any of my friends and they just see me as a lazy guy. Like they said last night they wouldnt trust me to work at their store they work at since I seem like a lazy and slow working who doesnt work hard. That isnt true at all but I guess im giving off a vibe that im lazy? I asked why and they made a joke like something stupid that made no sense about the situation. I was serious because I just dont get why I have that vibe. Like if something serious happens im the last person on anyones mind to help and I want to help I want to do extra things wherever and learn and no one lets me because they just think ill either fuck it up or just be a lazy piece of shit. This comes from people who know me personally all the way to people I barely know. What can I do to reflect that i'm a responsible hard working guy who can be trusted with things?
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>>18078901
Bump because this is kinda concerning for me
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People have the same impression of me. I think it's partly cuz I always have a relaxed, daydreamy look on my face. Also when I work I'm efficient and make things look easy, rather than struggle and swear like others. Maybe your friends and others are secretly jealous of the aura you give off and wish they had it themselves.
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>>18079100
No I know they aren't jealous of it, they seriously just see me as someone who can't be in control of anything and will not take it seriously. I think its because I said at work im making 9 an hour so I dont go crazy hard everyday, only when I have to but I dont have to alot. I was saying how if needed I work super hard but not gonna waste energy to make 9 bucks an hour in a workplace I cant move up in and they dont appreciate me at all. Maybe that is why but I have no idea. Its kinda demoralizing because a girl in my friend group was texting me and said she wouldnt let me work at her dads market because I don't seem like I have good manners for public, or dont seem like a hardworker even though she never has seen me work before. The way I act with friends and the way I act with random customers are two different worlds but I guess she doesnt see me as that. Kinda hurt honestly. I really wanna change how others see me because I feel like I wont get far in life if people just don't trust me at all or thing im a horrible person just because I act different with my friends.

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Is cheating on someone ever ok?
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>>18078841
Yes
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>>18078843
This.

>>18078851
I'll bite. When?
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No.

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, that guy who says monogamy is dead and fart guy
Fuck off
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Girls, would you marry me?
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Why is every guy I meet either a total normie or straight outta /pol/?
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>>18078571
Because the globalists must be defeated.

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ITT: List things that made your past dates fail/end up bad

I will start
>not sparing enough time for your date
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>Had sex on the first date.

>Did not have sex on the first date.
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>moving too fast
>moving too slow
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She didn't feel the same for me.

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So, I think I would really enjoy cam whoring. I'll admit I'm an attention starved pathetic fuck, and when I've shared some lewdish type pics in the past I really enjoyed the attention I got.
Problem is, I'm going into a career where anything like that being connected to me would basically ensure I never get a job. I understand there's risk in everything, but I'm just wondering how likely anyone could connect anything to me so long as I'm not showing face. I don't have any tattoos, and the only identifying birth marks I have are on like, my ass where no employer is gonna be able to see or know about anyway.
But I'm spooked because I've seen 4channers connect such insignificant shit like a single freckle on an arm and then somehow find a girls facebook from it.
Just kind of curious, how often are camwhore's identities found out (provided they're actually trying to keep it a secret), and how can I best protect myself?
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>>18078013
Camwhore in an unrecognizable location? People can look in the background and think "where have I seen this room before?"

Personal information, even when vague, can create a character profile that could be tracked. People who know you could potentially piece together who you are based on what you've told them.

Also, the best cam girls are typically pretty personable and open towards their watchers. Efforts to keep yourself anonymous might negatively effect viewership as a result. Just a heads up.
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>>18078090
Yeah, I always took the background of my pics seriously in my lewds. Made sure there was nothing on the walls, plain white sheets, etc. I even would just badly edit shit in paint if I felt like there was anything notable.
Other concern I had was like clothes I wore though. Its not too damning I'm sure, so long as there's no like, unique logo on it. But I wondered if anyone could link my outfits. Therefore I tried to wear clothes that I never really took pictures in before.

Though my main concern is having like, undeniable proof on the internet with a simple google search of my name. I don't care too much if peers find out who I am somehow, I just don't want any future employer to be able to google my name and see absolute proof it's me in the photo.

Since I'm not looking to get paid, I'm just doing this for my own satisfaction, honestly I'd just probably be posting pics to like, soc.
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>>18078100

Be like LegendaryLootz on Reddit. She doesn't show her face ever

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If an ugly girl hits on you, what do you do?
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>>18076764
"thank you, that's really flattering"
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>>18076764
Fuck her anyway
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>>18076770
This

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