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>>18122247
Do some research on what similar positions get paid starting. Also go in with that you can bring to the table and why your skills are worth paying for. If you don't bring anything to them they won't pay you for it

Some companies have fixed salaries for entry-level jobs. If that's the case they'll just tell you. If they say something "The salary for this position is x" and you're satisfied with it just accept it.

If they have no set wage they will most likely ask you how much you want. You should figure out what the average wage for people with your experience in the position you're applying for is. Then ask for something slightly above the average. If they say they can't give you that much ask how much they can give you. They usually don't give you a lower offer than what they'd really pay, they're not negotiators so if you're fine with what they offer you you should take it.

If, during the whole interview they make no mention of salary (very unlikely) ask them whether the salary is decided based on experience or something like that, just to let them know they forgot to ask you about the fucking salary.

>>18122247
Recent job searcher here in software development.

If they don't tell you outright over the phone or in the interview (unlikely) then at the end you can ask what a typical range is for the position. Then if they make an offer you will have an idea of where you sit. Research about the company on glassdoor, or just in general for IT should give you an idea of what to expect.

Beyond that Protip interview advice would to actually have good questions to ask them at the end of the interview instead of just about pay/benefits etc.

>>18122242
Call a Helpline. 4chan ain't really gonna help you.

>what do I do
Move out

>>18122309
>>18122315
I suppose I can call, thank you.

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>>18122199
Here is my advice.

>>18122215
LOL why

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It's not nice to your bf to go and get helplessly high + helplessly drunk with other men. You know that might lead to shit.

Even if you got "raped" you still have a responsibility for your own actions just like a drunk driver has responsibility for crashing his car into a tree.

If your bf is nice, he might forgive you this time and stick around, but don't count on it.
I provably wouldn't want to hang out with a girl who goes to "cuddle parties" and get drunk and high with random guys.

Yes. Get some fucking standards

Get off the the internet OP. Fatties that only talk about memes and Mario kart arent that amazing as you think they are

You can have my ex then...
In all seriousness, we all have our personal preferences and it's just a matter of whatever floats your boat, so unless you're into illegal and dodgy shit then you're golden.

>>18122183
>How could one afford to travel for a year?
trust fund kiddies don't worry about money

otherwise they're funneling the $10-20K that would've gone to their schooling towards travel

>>18122183
Think it's mostly rich kids, maybe some work while traveling. I think there's programs for that

>>18122183
Mommy and daddy

>>18122149
Eat everything before she can

>>18122149
sounds cute

Get a cabinet that has a lock on it

>best time to avoid cops

Rush hour---so many cars you can easily blend in.

Late at night there aren't as many cars out so a cop can spot you easier.

>>18122160
>Late at night there aren't as many cars out so a cop can spot you easier.
Less cops out patrolling though

Op best way to avoid cops is to always drive the speed limit and obey traffic laws.

>>18122325
This is incorrect.

The BEST way to avoid cops is to recognize their cars before you get close to them, or before they get close to you.

When you're on the road, you should always be passing people... always. You never want whoever is behind you to catch up with you at a light. It sounds stupid but you do this because if you are constantly passing people you have the opportunity to screen for cops. If you realize you might be passing a cop, you ease off throttle and eventually get behind him.

You can tell who is ahead of you... but you never have any idea who the people are behind you unless you passed them already. You don't want these "mystery" cars pulling up behind you. It could always be a cop.

>>18122137
You are dumb, and probably fucked.

Hope it wasn't a dream job you were applying for

Just one hit?

>10% chance

You should be okay...I hope

Depends on the test.
Hair test? You're screwed.
Piss test? You're fine.
Years ago on Mondays, my friend and i would smoke two blunts on a trip to and from Kenosha for gaming. I would only smoke on those Mondays. Then one week I got called for a job, had a drug test the following Friday. I smoked only one blunt on that Monday, drank water all Tuesday and passed the test just fine.

>>18122132
>I used to work at sea and she was at home and faithful the whole time

What makes you so sure?

>>18122171
no doubt whatsoever

>>18122132
Can't say I have any experience here; but have you thought about just talking to her about it? I'm certain she knows already something's not going right..

I'll try it

>>18122124
>wake up
>what if going to work is just waste of time?
>why not just keep laying in my bed until the life will make sence again?
>do i even like my work? My life? My bed?

By your adv i would get instant life crysis the next morning.

>>18122119
games or just go to some park or social place and talk about life stuff

>>18122119

If it happened this soon, maybe you aren't that good of a match. What do you have in common? Any shared interests, opinions, sense of humour? If you have nothing in common, then the 3 months were probably hormone fuelled haze and now that reality is setting in, you're starting to see each other more clearly. Try to work on it. Find common ground, do things together. If it doesn't seem to work out, accept it. Relationships that last are ultimately based on friendship and companionship. If you can't provide that for each other, there's no future for the two of you together.

>>18122159

honestly we talked online alot before meeting. she doesnt really have any hobbies at all. stays at home all day basically. Hot as fuck though and does have a good personality

What are some things we could do together? First 2 months she always came to the gym with me and that was our "thing" to do but now she basically never wants to go again

>>18122117

Just focus on you. Life is hard enough to consistently worry about other shit that doesn't really affect you. Focus on getting your shit in order and having a good time. If she doesn't want to come thats her problem.

>>18122117
better if she doesn't go bro, no awkwardness to worry about. say nothing

>>18122126
>>18122140
How does one act around ex's within the same group? We're friendly but I knows there's awkwardness, from her at least.

I can be like that part of our lives never happened but I know she'll just be cold and weird especially if she starts bringing a new guy around

>>18122099
yes, you are obviously too insecure for a relationship

>>18122099
You didn't want to take it to the next level, you wanted to skip about 2 levels and take it all the way up .. You shouldn't have to talkto or hear from them every single day

>You didn't want to take it to the next level, you wanted to skip about 2 levels and take it all the way up

How is asking someone out to the cinema skipping 2 levels? I don't get your post. She was the one heavily texting me daily.

>>18122077
The first one sounds normal, the second one sounds kinda robotic. I think rhyming is just a normal speech pattern, I probably wouldn't even notice the rhymes in that sentence if you didn't point it out

>>18122096
I am often told I sound robotic in general even when I'm not trying to rhyme. Why does it sound robotic?

I don't think anyone notices the rhymes

>>18122066
khan academy

how do people not know about this yet?

>>18122071
This.

Also, note that mastering math takes a lot of practice. I always thought I was terrible at math because I'd listen in class but still make frequent mistakes on tests/quizzes. Turns out most college math majors devote daily time to working practice equations like a musician would spend time practicing scales.

>>18122066
If you have to ask here, no