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How can I get my dad to leave my stopmom? I'm willing to do some bad shit, so give me your best advice.
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Fuck your stepmom, video it, tell him she cheated, and show him the video as proof
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>>18120282
/thread

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>be femanon
>lose my virginity
>blood everywhere
>not a normal amount, literally soaked through a duvet, sheets and into the mattress
>went to the doctor
>they told me to just wait for it to heal
>that was a month ago
>still can't have sex without excruciating pain and heavy blood flow

What's wrong with me? I feel terrible that I can't fuck my boyfriend. Pic unrelated.
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>>18120251
>What's wrong with me?
Ask your doctor. How long did they estimate it would take to heal?
>I feel terrible that I can't fuck my boyfriend.
Blow him. He won't care once he cums. If he actually cares about you, he'll wait for you to heal.
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>>18120251
Find a different doctor if at all possible. Also, what did your bf do to you to make you bleed so damn much??
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>>18120324
not OP but it's possible for women to start bleeding and not stop, requiring them to go to the hospital.

It's rare, but possible.

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I got married a little over a year ago. We both have severe depression and social anxiety, so we basically did everything together. I can't describe the type of bond that forms when you literally feel happiness for the first time in *years*. The bond that comes from only having one thing in your life keeping you living.

She and I have both been to the threshold of suicide, and for both of us, the reason to keep going was the other person. Some may be able to die alone knowing that people love them and they'd be there if they could. But for people like us... People like anon's wife... It creates a dependence. A constant state of disbelief that things could have gone so right. And when you die alone, all those horrible, overwhelming thoughts kept at bay by their constant presence don't have anything to hold them back.

Mental illness is stronger than the evidence we see for ourselves. I believe her pleas weren't because she wanted to be with him. I fully believe that she died with an overwhelming feeling of abandonment. He'd finally had enough, so he wasn't coming back. Those weren't cries for help. Those are the "please come back" texts my wife left me when I didn't answer for two hours and she *knew* I'd died in a car wreck. Babbling words that give me a chance because she knows she doesn't even have a chance left.

I say a lot of things on 4Chan. Jokes, bants, names, they're all in good fun. But not this time. These people have caused a premeditated, inexcusable level of pain. This is not the first, nor will it be the last time destroying lives. These people. Literally. Need. To die.

Anyone who knows the family or can get me in contact, let me know. If you know anon, even better. I want to work at closing this pit people fall into so they can't hurt anyone again.
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It's been over four years. What happened? Is he ok? I don't know if I'd commit suicide after that; once you decide, you still have to do it. What happened to this family? To her family?
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Help us. For Nicole. She didn't deserve to die alone.
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>>18120207
Kill yourselves you pathetic attention seekers. Not your personal depression army fuck off.

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Why the fuck do I get more interested in a girl when she basically rejects me? It's fucking stupid and I know I basically have no chance, yet I just start becoming more infatuated with her.
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She rejected you because she's not interested. Leave her alone.
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>>18120203
Yeah no kidding, look at my question
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>>18120195
the thrill of wanting what you can't have

I have so many chicks I still sometimes send a snapchat out to even tho I know they're not down unless I suddenly become rich (but think about it, the kind of women who would do a 180 like that arent worth getting down on yourself over)

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I've been trying to get some nudes or anything like that from a girl I met on kik. We've been talking for a bit, but I don't know how to ask for them without making it weird, especially if she says no.
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>>18120182
just ask
most girls send them if they are online cuz they like the attention
if she likes you she will send them
most girls like talking to a guy first then sending nudes so you're in the clear for the most part
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>>18120182
Put yourself in her shoes (this means stop thinking with your dick for a second)
>Is she the kind of person who would send nudes?
>Do you honestly think she'd be comfortable with that?
>Consider her feelings, assuming it's that type of friendship
If she says no, it WILL be weird. Know that.

If it's just a flirty type of relationship, just ask.
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>>18120182
"Send me some nude pics so I can post them on a "Pics we swore we'd never show anyone" thread on /b/"

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I'm seeing this chick from tinder. At first I thought she'd be a sleazy easy bang, she's a fast girl desu, but I caught some feelings even tho she's one of those pilled up depressed lowkey crazy (tho I've only heard stories not seen that side) chicks.

Went to her 18th birthday today, (17 is legal in my state) and I thought I'd be the coolest, oldest one there. I was the oldest, but all her friends (who I think are no more than a year younger than her) were all hyper and just off the walls in a way that not even i, a pretty social guy, could keep up with, I guess it just isnt my style. Like, there was this one little gremlin sized black girl who was just all over the other girls (not in a cool twerk way, in a 'trying to push me over so she could sit between me and the chick way'). I was also one of two dudes at the party

I was trying to play it cool because me and the girl aren't that serious and we're actually looking for a chick for a threesome, and her friends (my first time meeting them) are HOT little bitches, like damn. So I was telling her I thought one of her friends was cute (in any other scenario this would be bad, but I thought this chick was like not attached and wouldn't care)

Well, I couldn't help but get the vibe something was wrong. I tried to fit in with her friends, but I ended up mostly chilling with her sister's friends who were fucking around with a piano and not acting like fucking 13 year olds. I think maybe she wanted me to orbit her more and act like a bf? Or maybe she didn't, but didnt want to hear about her friends being cute (even tho I made sure to joke with her about how she's the best looking girl in here)

And the worst part is because I caught feelings I'm sitting here feeling shitty (and horny lol) over this and I don't wanna seem like the more attached one, and I really want her to message me because i know she was kinda sad/mad and I dont know why, and I want to vent to her.
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How old are you?
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>>18120192
21
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>>18120201
And you're surprised that you don't fit in with people who are basically 4 years younger than you?

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So i met this girl on Omegle and at first i didnt really think much about her but she grew on me and now i can't stop thinking about her
she lives far away but i can't help thinking maybe we could be together

Has anyone met and started dating/in a relationship with someone they met online? doesn't have to be omegle. Any tips or advice?
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>>18120173
I literally met my girlfriend of almost 5 years on omegle. Ask me anything specific.
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>>18120173
It doesn't work OP.
Unless you can meet each other in regular basis you are better of finding someone else.
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>>18120286
how far away were you from each other? countries/states?

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So, I have a Japanese girlfriend. She and I are very close, we spend a lot of time together, she was virgin until she and i got together (I was also her first kiss when she was 20 years old). We've been dating for 3 months, and I know she's a trustworthy person. If I ask her not to do something, she stops. We always work to take care of eachother, and pretty much have the best possible relationship that anyone could have. She legitimately seems not to have interest in anyone else, but I still remain having a hard time trusting her even though I know I should be. I can pretty much guarantee it's a problem with me and I want to fix it because sometimes I do things that are completely irrational and seem almost attention seeking like just to try to figure out if shes cheating or not. Please help. I want to love her the way she deserves.
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>>18120161
ass burgers
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>>18120161
you have trust issues, find where they stem from first
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>>18120256
How do I find where they stem from?

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I developed a crease goong from my nose the the corner of my mouth literally. over. fucking. night. This CAN go away with a good nights sleep and lots of water right. Im a 29 year old male and exercise regularly (even doing more cardio than I have in a long time recently). The only things I can think of that I do differently is cut back on moisturizer and drink water but its still annoying,that I would appear out of nowhere in less than 24 hours
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Yeah it's called a nasolabial fold or something. Just search on Google for remedial creams.
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>>18120278
Can it go away naturally? I really would like the think this is a fluke and can be fixed without relying on outside stuff
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>>18120310
You're falling apart. This is why 30 is "the wall" for women.

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I'm 27 and I'm really scared of receiving affection and intimicy.

Nobody has ever shown me affection my whole life. I've been in a pretty depressed state the majority of my life. But I've spent the last few years getting my shit together and really turned myself around. I got /fit/, good job, good clothes and everything. But I still can not handle affection. I have a few female friends who I became friends with the past year. All of them acted weird when I told them that I'd never had a girlfriend before. One of them, who I have known a while gave me a really long tight hug when she found out that I've never had a girlfriend before. When she hugged me it really gave me anxiety and things got a little awkward around her.

I just can't accept it. It makes me feel sort of down sometimes, because i feel as if I'm doing something "wrong". But, I never want to have a family anyways.. so, should I just start avoiding girls completely?
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>>18120107
Doctor, anxiety meds, time. It gets better.
A hug should feel good OP, warm and nice, not scary.
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>>18120122

I don't need feel comfortable talking to this with a doctor Tbh. Anxiety medication is not an option due to my career.

You don't understand. For someone who has gone their whole life without someone being affectionate to them, when someone finally is, its feels very unnatural.
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>>18120140
The opposite is also unpleasant. Feeling joy when hugged, but knowing it will probably never go further than a hug, and wishing for a relationship with the person. Just perspective.

How do I get hit on by girls at college parties?

>inb4 be interesting and attractive
I know 2 guys from my dorm, one complete skeleton and very boring, who got grabbed by a drunk girl and then fucked, and another skinnyfat shy manlet who got hit on by 2 girls, plus I keep hearing stories on the internet. I look a bit better than them(slightly more built and tall, can hold a conversation)

When I go to parties, girls ignore me and my friend group even if they're drunk and keep to themselves, and we were forced to make the first move and got all rejected.

How should I act for girls talk to me on their own? Disinterested, drunk, shy, load? Also we went to a regular open access frat party. Should I go to raves or find a way to be invited at exclusive parties?
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>>18120071
bmpdssdds
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sometimes drunk girls just happen to walk across the room and go for the first and best looking guy they see. It isn't so much that they picked ytour friends (who btw try to be less jealous of and more supportive of) OVER you so much as sheer circumstance led to the girl noticing them

If you know for a fact you're more built and whatever maybe it's just a matter of time until that kind of random shit happens to you, who knows. Maybe you're not as attractive in the face as you think, I don't know,

Generally, besides luck, just throwing out lines through a party is a good way. College parties are the most lax social environment out there, trust me, tyou'll miss them when you and your buddies are sitting in a bar with a bunch of fake ass people trying to interact and failing. Just mind your physical demeanor, are you staring? dont. are you wobbling? try to stabilize yourself

source: been to too many college parties, still sometimes go to them
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>>18120187
Those guys in question aren't my friends, just acquaintances. I am supportive of people in the same situation as me(my friends).

> just throwing out lines
What does that mean? Being loud and obnoxious?

Other than that, its luck, so i got it.

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A couple days ago I injured my pinky playing sports with some friends.

Ive been hesitant on going to the doctor to get it checked out as I dont have health insurance and dont want an uber big bill for a small pinky injury.

Im worried about receiving permenant damage in my pinky due to mal or nonunion and its really been bothering me.

Pic related, my pinkys resting position has been set like this, i can move it back in line on its own, and I can bend it a little.

Can I get some advice on what to do?
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>>18120070
Lose some weight
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>Can I get some advice on what to do?
Lose weight.
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You gotta lose a lot of weight

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Alright so the issue is..... I'm a 25 yo male sexually attracted to young girls.

I'm scared of going to a psychologist for obvious reasons. I have absolutely no interest in ever acting upon my urges I'm simply admitting they exist.

Imb4 kill yourself. No
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Ask yourself these questions:

>how young?
>Why?
>Does it go beyond physical looks?

I mean, let's face it. If a female meets your sexual criteria, it doesn't matter what her age is. She's going to arouse you no matter what.

It's biology. We desire what we find attractive. You can't turn off your instincts just because her birthday's a few months away.

Now, are you attracted to young, underage girls and crave sex with underage girls? Then yes, you need to see a psychologist before you end up in prison.
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>>18120101
Not an ephebophile which is teenage girls. This is completely natural. Much younger which is why I'm so concerned. Like I said.....I won't end up in prison. I never act on this urge unless asking for help. Just looking for the right way to tackle it. Afraid of the psych telling the police even though I know il not a risk
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>>18120116
Psychologists are doctors. They can't tell the police anything unless you plan on murdering someone. Then they can tell the cops AND the person you plan on hurting.

That's what psychologists are for. You tell them your problem and they help you. Do you really think they'd just report anyone who brought them something potentially illegal? No, they'd go out of business. They're there to help you. Don't be afraid to ask for help. That's what they're there for.

If you're already thinking about younger girls, you're in the orange zone and should consult a professional immediately. Again, they won't report you, they want to help you.

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My boyfriend is a nihilist and it's really starting to bum me out. He's cool most of the time but then he'll hold his face in his hands and go on about the utter futility and meaninglessness of existence.

That's cool and stuff but it's not something I really care about.
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>>18120047
what you need is a boyffriend with a Minions attitude.

I have that attitude. I can be your boyfriend
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>>18120047
Find a different boyfriend, or tell him to stop being a whiny emo bitch.
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>>18120047
That's not really nihilism, or at least it's nihilism's very beginning stage. A true nihilist acknowledges that life is without objective meaning and so invents his own subjective purpose in life. This is what Nietzsche meant when he described the Ubermensch.

So tell your boyfriend to stop being such a faggot.

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What the fuck is my problem?!

I met this girl the other day at the college, we talked for a bit, she was touchy and seemed approachable so i asked for her number despite being quite shy myself, she gave me the number, ok everything going smoothly, but then the other day i saw her walking around in the campus with a male friend who is a particularly attractive guy, she was also pretty touchy with him, suddenly i felt a mixture of sadness and jealousy.
I was like:
"Damn, wish she walking with me.... and i hope this guy is not trying to get into her pants.."

She told me that i should call her tomorrow and that she wants to go out with me tomorrow, yet i can't stop feeling insecure and thinking that she feels something for that guy because she seemed to enjoy herself a lot being around him and if i saw her with him that would destroy me.

Why am i so jealous of that guy?
Why do i feel so attached to this girl i met just a few days ago and only know the name of?
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This is like highschool level shit, I don't know, have you tried calling her? Maybe the guys just a friend.
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>>18120045
I know how you feel, OP. I too get attached to girls very quickly, and get jealous when a girl I like seems to be flirting with another dude. But you have to put yourself in her shoes. She probably gets hit on frequently, the fact that you got her number and she's being active in going out with you means that you are a step ahead. However, that doesn't make you two exclusive to each other, and she feels free to flirt.

My advice, is to not be turned off by this. Go out, if things get serious you won't have to worry about it any longer (unless she's a cheater, in which case she won't be worth it, and you can tell her to fuck off).
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>>18120075
Why does this happen?

I feel like if i saw she kissing that guy my heart would be broken in 1000 thousand pieces, and i don't even know her surname yet.
Wtf.

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