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>>18265643

My best advice to give you would be to accept reality for what it is and continue to pursue your goals and dreams in any moral way to find satisfaction in your life. Also, don't call yourself smart or dumb. You only act smart or dumb. You're just yourself in the end.

Just keep being you, and continue to try to be the best person you can be. The right friends will stay in your life as you show your true colors, and you'll find great happiness in staying true to yourself, whether you're looked upon as a genius, or an idiot. You're free to think for yourself, and not let others drag you down because they think less of you.

I hope I was able to help. Cheers!

(My picture is also unrelated, lol)

>>18265643
Why do you feel you aren't smart enough? If that's your attitude you're only limiting yourself man. There's a whole world out there full of art and knowledge, all you can do is try to absorb as much of it as you can and come up with your own satisfaction.

>>18265643
same

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Dangerous tip:
While you completely dominate your desire for women, it's better if you love another race, it will be harder to find, but you will focus your love and desire on something platonic, someone you know it's not possible as you don't live on asia and/or don't live near a community like that

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Develop dumb-high standars, such as looking for a virgin

>>18265633
>to know that most women aren't worth the effort

Don't worry, you aren't worth the effort either

Mental illness runs on my mother's side, but was never discussed by the family. I smoked a good amount of weed in my 20s and ended up having a "psychotic break" and was diagnosed bipolar. Dropped out of treatment and got my shit together, had a career for 20 years, was married. No crazy episodes, smoked weed on and off, sometimes regularly for years.

Last year smoked a very heavy amount for a full year, started to see the signs again. Six months ago, quit weed and pulled myself out of it. The difficulty with being crazy is that I look back on these times, and some elements of the delusions were - in my mind - completely real. /x variety stuff.

Your best bet is to avoid mind-altering substances if there is a strong family history. Good luck, Anon.

>>18265629
If you've experienced heavy daily use and not shown any symptoms of psychosis, you're probably safe. That being said, schizophrenia is a bitch and just because you're not manifesting signs early aggravated by drugs DOESN'T mean you won't have problems further down the road.

Just be careful. If you have an episode, quit smoking immediately and see a doctor.

>>18265672
As far as I know my mother's the only one with schizophrenia, and my one aunt has pretty severe depression. That's about it.

It's just shitty that we have to live in this constant fear of losing our minds because of genetic makeup.
>>18265672
I forgot to mention but I've also tripped on acid
a couple times, and I didn't wig out or have any feeling that I was losing it.

I'm just so unsure of what to do. I'm definitely not smoking for the immediate future, but maybe every so often? It all feels so silly.

>>18265611
Public Transportation.
If you can't afford Uber, try Lyft.

>>18265611
My friend was telling me she has an Uber subscription in LA and I forget what she said she pays but it was way less than what I pay for gas ($30-$40 a week).

>>18265611
As a Formula Drift Pro2 licence holder I do not understand this fear at all.
Get something ridiculously slow like a automatic geo metro.

>>18265607
Have you tried maybe talking to other guys, maybe get your mind off him with someone new?

>>18265607
>Lily and Marshall situation
I have absolutely no idea what that means.

>>18265651
Tried, dated, hooked up. Nothing get's the work done. I even tried to force myself into a serious relationship but the moment it got too real I just felt ashamed.

>>18265606
wow, I'm in a similar position in NE Florida. I have mild cerebral palsy so standing and walking is difficult for me and I don't have a diploma because I dropped out due to bullying and my health. monitoring this thread

>>18265606
I promise you a sob story wont get you hired. Most employers will sympathize with you but wont take such a weak pitch and genuinely hope the next person does.

There must be a government employment agency that will help you find work suited for you...

Or start learning web design or computer programming and start doing freelance work at home.

>>18265606
Call center. Telemarketers will take anyone.

Therapist
now

>>18265603
what the fuck

go to therapy, and don't even have sex before you 're fixed, so you don't accidentally create a baby to muder

>>18265603
You aren't fit to care for an animal. Give it away to a better home now.

>>18265562
Time 2 ask what's wrong and then prolly break up

You ever think about asking her what her happy medium of talking is?

>>18265567
I have and she's never really been that clear over it one day she's fine and wants to talk a lot and then another day shes moody and like doesn't want to talk at all
Well maybe not exactly like that but close

>>18265566
Why?

>>18265539
Have her do kegels

Kegels for her, get her into pompoarism. Also, my gf get reeeaally tight after cumming a few times, so even if skipping prelims is convenient some times, try that.

>>18265539
Try Yoni Eggs. I've heard people say they improve muscle control down there.

>>18265488
Are you failing? What is your major? We'll need more information.

>>18265488

yes

No; joining the military is about the most unproductive, immoral thing you can do with your life.

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>>18265481

You're both still children. Young relationships are supposed to end. It was a ridiculous pipe dream to believe that this adolescent relationship was going to lead to marriage.

Failing at relationship as children is how we learn what kinds of things we need in relationships as adults. We fuck up and make mistakes and through trial and error we refine our ability to maintain healthy relationships with healthy people.

I understand being in a young relationship is a very strong feeling. We've all been there. When you're young everything that happens to you is the most important thing that has ever happened because you're experiencing it for the first time. By committing to marry the first person you ever date you, in a lot of ways, rob yourself of being able to find out who you are out of the context of a relationship.

Wanting to be in a few relationships and discover who you are as a person both single and in a relationship before you commit to marriage is not a meme, its a sign of maturity. Sure, the way she handled it wasn't mature but she's a child.

Anyways, I'm sorry you're going through all of this but the reality of this situation is that we've all been through our adolescent heartbreak and this is just your turn. The likelihood that you will marry this girl is slim to none so avoid approaching every relationship like the goal is marriage. Not only is it unrealistic but most girls in your age group will find it a little overwhelming. You have a lot of life left to live, don't be in such a rush to set it in stone.

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>She has yet to do anything else that goes against me
>There's no proof that she did anything but maybe flirt with a couple dudes
>Haven't caught her lying since
>Claims that when she made the post when she was freaking out, figured out the next day she wanted to be with me, and didn't feel that way since

Now
>I haven't pressured her into getting married
>She wants to get engaged before we get out of college but married after we get out
>She fantasizes about our wedding
>Wants us to rent our own place and move in together this summer
>I have forgiven her for bugging out on me before or possibly flirting, but not for lying
>Having serious trust issues
>After introspection, can't say for certain that I can trust her.
>Get the urge to invade her privacy and I do sometimes
>Told her about how I'm insecure with the future of our relationship recently
>She's been very accommodative, and is obviously sorry about the past
>She says that she lied about it being her friend because she didn't want to hurt me
>She swears that she didn't say that she "needs to flirt to make friends"
>I don't know if she forgot or if shes lying again
>Trust issues remain unsolved

Am I retarded to stay? Is there a chance, or is the risk too great? What do you anons think?

>>18265520

>Am I retarded to stay?

Yes. Move on, dude. You're way too young to be caught up in this dramatic shit fest. We both know you're not going to marry this girl and even if you did it wouldn't last. You're a child. Enjoy being a child and stop trying to commit so quickly.

>>18265465

>Should I read into this?

No.

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>>18265465
Wut? I have a feeling you're describing this badly.

What does stic her ass out aggresivelt at younmean?

Like she was doing the hand on hip pose thing?
Like she was literally sticking her ass out like she's trying to grind you like a pole or some dude at a club?
Like she was doing some dumbass dance move/twerk?

What the fuck are you trying to describe?

Most likely they were just dicking around and it had nothing to do with you really.

>inb4 reeeee shitty women blah blah blah playing games blah blah blah
No. Just dumb college kids being dumb college kids.

>>18265456
lol no

>>18265456
>pervese hand holding in public
>fingered her before marriage
>>>/d/egenerate

>>18265456
>been dating her 3 times now and I also fingered her. do you guys think this will become a relationship?

consider yourself lucky

You'd have equal odds using snake oil.

>>18265431
Experience?

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>>18265424
When docs give up, it means only one thing.

She will DIE. Sorry op.

Go visit her and do pic related.

>>18265398
Yes, tell her.

Shitbag.

>>18265398
Don't tell her, it's a cunty move. Break it off easy.

Tell her. She deserves to know what happened. If you went out with the intention of this happening, state that you were unhappy and the relationship was over before this happened.