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>>18268873
Why would you bother doing this? Computers are a thing you know?

>>18268881
What else am I supposed to do with an empty bedroom?

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>>18268883
You know what do.

She sounds funny. You dropped an uncommon word in casual conversation. I will probably do the same thing she did when the situation presents itself because it's amusing.

>>18268776
Someone thinks you're a sociopath and is testing you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nyiWMJZiH4A&feature=youtu.be&t=3m33s

>>18268808
Holy shit, this is pretty much word for word what she did. I'm not a sociopath! I do volunteer work, I give to charity. God damn.

>this girl this other girl who's hotter than the girl the girl I like the girl I'm banging the girl I like
what

>>18268770
Sorry, I'm trying to drink my feelings away. What I meant is
>I'm banging Jessica but I like Anna
>Me and Jessica have a nice connection and she's hot af
>Me and Anna are not that close to each other, she's not nearly as hot as Jessica and rejected me twice when I asked her out.
Why can't I seem to be satisfied with Jess and forget Anna? Is this love I'm feeling?

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Bump? Anyone?

>>18268743
Rogaine exists

I mistook that for a pic of Ryan gosling so I guess your life isn't that bad

>>18268749
thats not me and imo i dont like that look, if i looked like that i wouldn't be too happy

>>18268748
i use rogaine/finasteride but cut down my finasteride usage cause i started having literally no feeling when i came.

tfw never given a chance to be young, have good hair and a good sex drive all at the same time

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>>18268710

>smart, redpilled

Those two things can't happen simultaneously.

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>>18268716
lol

>>18268716
t. Minority who can only get with white women if they have daddy issues

This is probably bait, in any case

>>18268652
Why do you like fat and ugly girls?

>>18268652
Does she hate herself or what?

>>18268656
shes skinny and mentally ill

>>18268658
idk, shes a half asian which is kinda weird

>>18268581
>Is it because I'm black?

This has to be frustrating as all hell. But I wouldn't assume it until there was enough evidence to suggest such a thing.

>>18268581
>caring what people think of you

>>18268581
>Is it because I'm black?

Yes, this is why everyone hates you.

Even your parents.
Your mother crossed her fingers hoping it (you) would pop out Asian instead so she could get that sweet maths money.

Your dad now knows you're his, instead of Chung Fu's, so he's hella pissed because if shit hits the fan, he'll be paying child support for your sorry ass.

Your grandmother hates you for being black and having more than she ever yet, yet still having the audacity to complain about privilege.

Next door nigger hates you for being black too, even though he himself is a nigger.
Why?
Because you either act too white or too much like a nig stereotype for him. Either way, you're hurting the cause, brotha.

The Asians hate you for bring black, too. You could have been yet another Chang in their Wang army.

Whites hate you because of your blackness. We can't control what our ancestors did, yet because your black, we feel this awkward tension around you. Fuck that shit.

The shopkeeper hates you because your black, even though he's a nigger himself - he KNOWS niggers, and he's gotta keep his eyes on you.

Literally blackness is the source of all peoples dislike in you.
You got named le-a or some bollocks when you could've been John Chena, Asian athlete supreme.

>>18268392
because you have no female friends

Loneliness/ Lack of experience with women.

Get hobbies, run, workout, non-girl stuff. Interact with girls with the assumption nothing will come from talking to them. Learn how to have fun without girls attention. GL

>>18268392
Don't make chasing a relationship the focus of your life. Girls can't stand being chased by thirsty guys. Chase your dreams and they'll chase you.

>>18268379
Well what conversation was that? Tell us more

>>18268379
How old are you, son?

>>18268385
We weren't being able to have a 20min conversation about our day, she was too busy even to talk. I got mad with her a few times but I had in mind that she was not doing it on purpose.

Some persistent girl sent me naked pictures, you know the rest but nothing actually happened, physically speaking.

>>18268310
>tl;dr how to stay in relationship with best friend when you are in love with her
You don't. You stop hanging with them for so long until you completely forget about her and never go back to talking to her.
t. been in your situation but she wasn't a lesbian, just married

>>18268310
It's gonna hurt, but I'm gonna give you a golden phrase. This is your get out of feels free card. It's a mantra and in this situation it fixes pretty much every problem you have.

>I can't do this anymore

Just say it to yourself a lot. Start to distance yourself and eventually she'll ask and then just fucking say it to her, too. Just once, and then remove her, delete and block her number, avoid her at all costs.

Or you can stomp it down, get over it and force yourself to understand she just wants to be a platonic friend. She's obviously fucking with you just a little so tell her she can stay over but only if she sleeps on your sofa or a bedroll or something like that. If it bothers you this much these are your options.

>>18268325
She doesn't fuck me over, she isn't inviting herself to mine. It's always my fucking idea. It's me who is fucking myself over, but it's the best feeling I ever had when I wake up in the morning and just fucking cuddle her to death. She doesn't mind it, she just never iniciates it.

It's like heroin, I am so eufforic when I have her by my side but when she's gone I suffer like a pig.

It's really unreal to me that I'd just distance myself from her. She's the first person whom I could believe I'd love seeing until the end of my life. I really never cared about anyone as much as about her in my life...it's just that I'm jealous, I'm jealous that she's fucking girls that doesn't feel the way about her as I do in the slightest. I probably would've feel better if I'd just be friendzoned by a straight girl than this shit.

You know, we are that kind of friends that would end up with each other if circumstances were better. Everyone who knows us thinks that we are dating, or atleasting fucking each other. I just have to laugh it off everytime someone says shit like that.

>>18268036
Hit the gym, no point dwelling on looks you can change when you can get /fit/

>>18268036
Does the girl even know you exists?
Ask her on date? Get
>>>/fit/ ?

>>18268079
It´s not my body, I´m skinny, actually the problem is my face.

I get divorced some time ago and it was the same feeling. You are doing okey, going into some hobbies and avoiding drugs (because them don´t solve a shit, I was alcoholic for one year), one time you just get up and that day you see everything more clear. Go out with friends, spend time on cinema, do something you used to do before being with her, and one day you will see that it´s time to know some new people, trust me, I lost a lot with my divorce and now I´m pretty well.

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My salsa. :^]


Took this 5 years after ex broke up with me, I was basically losing my mind and didn't realize my brain was destroying me. Screaming at walls, lowest I've ever felt. In retrospect, had I actually DONE drugs, like the rest of my pothead friends, I think I'd have turned out alright. But I held on and stayed away from drugs, tried dealing with it naturally. Sometimes you can't deal with severe depression by yourself, you need help.

This worked for me, at least with the depression. I only took about 4-5 pills worth and it turned my brain kinda neutral.

>>18268001
>I was alcoholic for one year
I only spent one or two night, drinking beer while talking to a friend about my story via discord. Unique time I drunk to just get drunk.

>one day you will see that it´s time to know some new people, trust me, I lost a lot with my divorce and now I´m pretty well.
I try to be rational on what I do, and I know perfectly that one day I'll just get better, but seriously, some days I wonder if I'll really managed to go on with my life.

I just don't know if despite having feelings for her, and just feeling this bad, if it's okay to just get out and flirt with other girls or even try something. I got the feeling that if I try anything with another girl, it won't go anywhere, and I don't want to spend time with a girl I don't love.


>>18268008
The feeling I got about that is that I just need to spend time with my friends to eventually get better. I don't really feel like taking pills.
Is it normal to have so many
>connection error
in this board ?

>>18267885
USA sucks right now don't come here unless you're white and have money

>>18267963
You aint from the US.

>>18267885
OP where exactly would you end up moving to if you go.

what about Canada?

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OP picture is sarcastic, by the way.

I miss my life with her so dearly.

I'm 32 and in the same situation, only I'm finishing my bachelor's degree in Comp Sci. and eventually planning on an MBA after that. And I don't feel ashamed at all because I know so many people in similar situations or worse at the same age. You need to get some perspective on how people are really doing out there in the real world if you feel like a failure for living at home at 30 while finishing your law degree.

We look at other people's social media (or worse, characters on TV) and think "Oh, this guy is making 500k a year with his own business at 30. That's what I'm supposed to be doing" without realizing that's just where they are right now and they were either born on third base and think they scored a triple or they were dead broke three years ago and got a break when they needed it. And maybe your big break will come soon as well.

To give you more perspective, most Americans are not college graduates. They work menial jobs at WalMart now that their factory jobs have been automatized, and aren't thinking about finishing a law degree; they're hoping they have enough food stamps to last them to the end of the month. I grew up on welfare and we got $100 a month in food stamps to feed a family of four. Before that we were homeless. And I count myself lucky to have been born in America. Most people on this planet live on $2 a day. It's unreal.

I was heartbroken after the "love of my life" not only broke up with me but married a friend of mine. Then she ran off with his best friend, divorced him and sued for child support payments. Bullet dodged.

TL;DR: You're not a loser. Stop feeling like one. The world feels like it's ending after a big break up but it isn't. And there's something quite liberating about a "world" ending without you ending with it. No one wants to live at home in their early 30s but quite frankly, I've lived "on my own" (in shitty apartments with asshole roommates) and I much prefer it with family.

>>18267820
Thanks for the perspective.

It's good not to feel alone, but it's just hard nonetheless.

We'll make it eventually, bro.... eventually.

I phone the business, specify delivery or pickup, and then tell them what kind of pizza I want.

Mammia mia pepperoni you puta da pizza in dee hovana

>>18267609
Ask for big sausage