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>>18711998
Meditate and change your thought patterns.

>>18712154
I'm in too deep.

>>18712242
kys then

This is why you always tell people that you dont have a job, and see who stays with you nontheless.
I have acquired some amount of money, which enables me a life without working. This is not a small amount, so I live pretty good.
But I always tell people I am not employed, which is also true.
Fuck people who are only with you because of your money, what kind of friends are they? And what, do you buy them food or something?

>>18711782
I've bought phones, paid bills, bought food, rent, paid deposits..

>>18711792
Hey man wanna PayPal me $5 for advice?
Joke, but seriously, dont do that, its lame, people wont respect you

>>18711727
How about you go to a clinic and get yourself checked out insted of worrying and whining about it? Not much you could do if she's pregnant, you just have to wait it out. (No, I don't think you've cought something nor do I think she's pregnant) /In a bad mood giving angry advice on the internet.

It looks like she gave you a infection or STD. You better get it checked out by a doctor.

>>18711727

Sounds like it might be genital warts, but I could be wrong. Best ask a doctor.

>>18711643
Literally do it now OP, it probably won't change the answer anyway, if she goes away she's got more chance of meeting someone else, even if you get rejected you'll have your answer and you can crack on with your life. If you see her in person then tell her, if not then ask to meet her today or tomorrow. Even if she says no you'll feel like a fucking demon for going up and doing it in person

Hard to tell, from what it sounds like she's fucking you over a little bit. Trust me I'm a girl, and we can be overly sweet when we feel like it but then we sort of calm down. Don't get your hopes up too high, don't be naive and don't let yourself be used. You are a person and generally it's cool if you make the first move, but don't be her slave.
But I know the feels and if I were you I'd see her again. Just don't have any expectations no matter what she says. If she's serious about you, the closeness and affection will come with time, there's no use in using up your energy in the first few weeks because you'll just crash and burn and the aftermath could be unbearable. Keep me upd8ed plis ly dude

>>18711643

Don't "confess", rookie. Ask her out RIGHT NOW, and make it clear that it's a date. Make your move on the date.

You're gonna look like the crazy lesbian black chick from Orange is the New Black

>>18711633
but im a guy who looks similar to him

>>18711637
the length of the hair really makes a difference

>>18711606
You can't.

>>18711612
why not

>>18711618
You're here forever.

OP (cont.)
-text here and there then a few days later ask her out for dinner.
-she says yes, I go pick her up and date goes ok, decent chat then make out in car and take her back to her place.
-make out a bit more in her room while cuddling but she keeps saying she is cold and tired and really didn’t seem to be into it so after a while I leave
-wait about a week with sporadic contact in between and finally ask her if she wants to catch up again because I’d like to see her again.
-she says yes, but after a little while she says during the day… which I already took like a very bad sign. And in retrospect should have just said no to it.
-catch up for coffee had a decent conversation but felt very awkward and she kept saying how she was going to go back home at end of year and sort of had an epiphany or sum shit about moving back home blah blah blah.

-at this point I’m just in my head screw it, don’t even make an attempt to kiss and take her back home. on the ride home she didn’t talk much at all and just walks straight back in the house when we get there.

been about week and have not heard anything from her. (i know i sort of fucked up but i just can't seem to stop thinking about her.)

just move on?
any way back from this?

FML i really liked her, hadn't felt about anyone like this since my last ex.

Break off from her. She sounds sketchy and will flake on you often.
It's very rare that a date involving going to someones house ends up carrying on and if she does this type of thing to you at the beginning? Get out of there.

I've been single for literally 24hrs but when i first met my ex, our first satd was to a waterfall park in the uk. After that we went to hotel and had sex. The next weekend, she drove me to her house, we had sex and the next day i went home. This was a lucky incident in my case as we shared so many interests and were head over heels for each other so for us it worked out...if only for 13 months.

The first and second date are pivotel. Depending on the reaction from the first, depends what you get away with on the second. So pick your 2nd dates wisely.

But all in all, move on. It doesnt sound like you've known her for that long and the first opportunity you get to feel any form of affection for anybody, it makes it that much harder for you. But like anyone here would say, you're strong and you can do it. You deserve better for your future.

>>18711752
I know just letting it go is the right thing to do.its just i keep thinking if i hadn't done certain things it would have worked out better..

I feel like i got too sucked in too quicly and turned beta af and ruined my chances.

ho well. live and learn i suppose.

ps. sucks about the break up wish you all the best man

If she's contacted the police and the bank, there's not much else you can do but wait and see. Chances are, she's not going to recover the money, or at least the majority of it. It's an expensive lesson to learn, but that's just how it is.

Also having a phone number means nothing, all they have to do is take out the SIM and throw it away and bam, they're untraceable.

>>18711530
I'm sorry to tell you, but anyone who lets themselves be scammed out of so much almost deserves it as a lesson.

Interesting. Kind of in the same boat mate. Literally bummed out as of yesterday.
>Couple years back get tired of chasing tail and playing games
>Start focusing on my financial situation, kind of forget about the ladies for awhile
>Couple months back start going out and meeting people
>Come across a country beauty
>Start courting her around, taking her out and about more than occasionally
>She comes over and we fuck on a weekly basis
>Decided to go visit her at her workplace, as she's told me I should come visit
>Didn't tell her I was coming, just went as it was an old employers place
>Holy hell, quite a few people I knew still worked there
>They ask me what I'm doing and I mentioned I'm looking for Jessica
>They gave me a funny look, told me she's out with Chad
>Literally the definition of the suburban phenomenon Chad is who she's with
>Decided I'm already here, I'll go see an old friend
>Later on find out she's been screwing us both

It was the usual "I'm confused" bullshit we've all been fed.

Why is finding a faithful woman so difficult?

>>18711594
Eh, not really the same thing I was saying but sure, here's your (You).

Imagine trying to find someone you described who hasn't fucked a million people

I'm screwed

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>>18711508
Vlc media player

>>18711512
I have VLC Media Player on my computer too. How do I move the subtitles around the screen?

>>18711515
This is why they invented google. There are probably thousands of NEET autismo freaks who want to position their subs mid screen and they probably already asked this on other forums.

Stay the course!

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>>18711453
I really wonder what will you do when you find out that casual sex is one of the most overrated activity ever and that the whole time normies lied to you.

Also sex with condom feels worse than fapping. But hey, at least you will touch her boobs.

>>18711484
>sex with condom feels worse than fapping
Get better condoms fag
And fapping feels a lot better than sex.

>>18711398
No, I don't think so. It doesn't look like a target, but it might develop into that. Where do you live? When were last somewhere where you might have picked up a tick? When did you first notice this?

I live in Illinois and my neighbors have seen ticks. I'm just freaking out because it hurts so badly and gets worse under water. I can't even use my hand bevause any pressure is painful. I got prescription medication and it's gotten worse since then.

>>18711416

Call your doctor and explain that.

that's not a meme

>>18711380
By understanding that it's not a meme

>>18711383
>>18711393
It is a meme and basically a hamsters wheel to keep yourself entertained while you move towards death.

Don't do anything you don't enjoy doing, especially for "self improvement".

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1: I try to phase out/replace the guy. They've mainly bonded over their mutual liking of bands and although it wasn't a major part of our relationship, it turns out that I like a lot of the same music. I figure if I'm her "go to guy" for sharing music then eventually she won't need this other guy. I'm already trying to make up for lost time by trying to see her every day I finish Uni early (she has a cerfew on school nights), but I'm not sure if it will be enough.

2: I ask her to stop seeing him. I really don't wanna do this, but it has come up in conversation and she said if I asked her to she would. Their friendship has only began quite recently so it's not like I'd be asking her to stop seeing her childhood friend or anything, but this is a slippery slope that I'd rather not go down.

I really do love this girl (I know most of you guys don't believe in it or think I'm naive, but I truly do), and I wanna spend my life with her. That's really the only reason I came here. Any advice you guys could give me would be truly appreciated as I'd hate myself if I fucked this up.

TL;DR: GF has a male BFF and I'm worried about her developing feelings for him. Advice appreciated

She's fucking him, bro.

I'm just being 100% honest with you, she's either cheating on you or is within weeks of doing so. Just saying. Remember these words lmao

>bf is indifferent

Do you want or expect a man who didn't really want a kid, to help you/be compassionate when the baby starts screaming at 4am and you both have shifts tmrw morning? Or if the baby has some genetic disorder or comes out autistic and you really need his support but he just cant be fucked to care about the kid?

>>18711306
>Tell me I'm crazy for wanting to fulfill my biological imperative
You know what's crazy? This modern drive to tell everybody how much you hate kids and how you never ever want to have children. It's a society-wide mental illness. You are completely normal OP even if you wish to think otherwise. However, if your boyfriend is indifferent and you're unable to talk him around to it you're probably going to end up a single mum.

>>18711312
>Child bring autistic
That's why I want to have a kid sooner than later...

But it's true, he's indifferent in the sense that he's not hoping for one and not against the idea. More so, if it happens he'll be fine and if it doesn't he'll be fine. I'm not going to have one without his agreement though. I just don't know if I should try convincing him. I really want one, but it's probably just hormones.