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I'm a 19 year old girl, who looks about 15 years old, about to travel 800 miles alone on the greyhound. Please give me advice on how to stay safe during this trip. If I had enough money to fly, I would have, but saving money is vital for me right now, as I'm moving to live with my dad and am unsure when I'll be able to get a job next, and I'm not sure how much he'll provide for me, so I gotta keep my sweet green.
The bus route I'm taking will be making 2 stops, both in this state, before a single bus making a multi state trek to my destination. Any advice that's not "why the fuck would you take the greyhound you idiot" is welcomed.
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>>18720406
Dress down. Try to look like you are joining the military or something.
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>>18720406
I used to hitchhike a bit. It's the same u gotta be alpha, and look alpha af. You'll probably be safe bu tjust keep a knife in your pocket and if anyone threatens you stick it right into there thigh unless ure real scared stick into their throat and just walk away.
>better than getting raped
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Stay away from basketball Americans and in the main terminal, you should be fine
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-09-14 06:55:05 Post No.18720386
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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Girl, Have you ever had anal sex?
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>gf is extremely insecure about her flat chest
>paranoid I'm going to cheat on her with some cowtits slut
>I actually prefer flat
How do I explain this to her without being a huge, insensitive asshole?
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>>18720534
I utterly don't understand man who likes flat chest
How do I raise a girl baby well so she doesn't become a super thot and is smart and kind and doesn't bully boys?
Femanons, what are some things you wish your dad did for you? How can I prevent her from being screwed up like you?
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>>18720315
Don't ban her from doing things you don't like. If you do, she'll do them anyway, just behind your back. Instead, train her to make smart choices and have self respect.
Seriously though, the number one way to make sure your daughter sucks a thousand cocks before finishing high school is to constantly be moralizing at her. Instead, if she wants to go to that party, let her, and make sure she's got a condom and a plan to get home if she decides to drink.
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>>18720315
Recognize that there are no genes for intelligence, or if there are, it's unlikely that you and your woman have them.
Next, recognize that the reason well-off people have smart kids who do well in life is because they have a home environment that is conducive to learning. For example, they read to their children, on the order of 1000 different books by the time the child is 5. They talk to them ~4 times as much as ignorant black parents do.
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Get her into guy things like sports or vidya early on.
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How the fuck can I afford weed for a daily medical habit? I mean it's ten fuckig dollars for a gram which is NOTHING it's like 600-900 dollars A MONTH for fucking a tiny barely even useful amount What THE FUCK
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>>18720250
Grow yer own.
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>>18720250
Medical habit my ass. Either pony up or go without. THC oil is a good option if you really do need it.
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>>18720250
Maybe I'm not understanding correctly, but why can't you just buy larger amounts?
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I need help picking up a guy 2017-09-14 06:16:04 Post No.18720242
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I need help picking up a guy
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So I'm really into this guy and need some advice as to how to get to know him better and how to get him to like me back.
I'm a 19 year old fem into nerdy shit like video games and magic and a lot of the stuff he's into but we are both awkward as fuck and I have no idea how to really engage in conversation and neither does he. I need some ways to talk to him that aren't like overly pushy and awkward.
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>>18720242
Have you spoken with him yet?
Other people will tell you otherwise but I'm always going to say be your self
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>>18720248
I have he's my roommates brother and I've tried engaging in conversation but it usually ends up in awkward silence.
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You're a girl you can ez mode everything in life. You can have a friend say "sheeee liiikes uuuuuuu tee hee" and throw the ball on his court if you want. Being a girl who is into a nerd there is basically no way to fuck this up. This is like the tutorial level.
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Confused about sadistic feelings? 2017-09-14 06:12:41 Post No.18720232
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Confused about sadistic feelings?
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Are sadistic feelings always sexual in nature? I am a girl and I consider myself straight and have a boyfriend. I have never had a girlfriend or wanted one. But sometimes I have weird violent urges towards women that are hard to explain. When I think about how it feels in my head it feels intimate, it is something borne of feelings of closeness. But the idea of having actual sex with a girl is not arousing to me at all. And the other side of it is that I have no sadistic desires toward my boyfriend or other men. What do you think, can the two be separate? Or am I even more confused than I already knew I was.
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>>18720232
Do you watch lesbian bdsm porn? Or would you like to?
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Internalized misogyny mixing with the sexualization and glorification of violence in Western media. Grow some self-awareness and get help if it bothers you.
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>>18720247
I have tried to watch some out of curiosity but I couldn't get into it. If I fantasize myself being in those situations it excites me, but watching others do it wasn't interesting to me. And I'm not 100% sure if that excited feeling is arousal either, it is different from what I feel with my boyfriend, it is more like an insane endorphin rush, it makes me feel powerful and alive.
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My wife was raped last night. She was with a friend of ours, admittedly doing some stupid shit (getting high).I wasn't there so I can't say exactly what happened, but she says things got really personal, and he eventually took her to his parents' room (this dude lives with his parents) and he laid her on the bed, and got in with her (which she wasn't expecting). She got really fucking scared at this point and started texting her friend "help me" and other things. I was at work while all of this happened so I could do nothing. He forced her head down by pulling her hair and made her suck his dick. He then stripped her and fucked her. She was high as shit and drunk. My wife has struggled a lot with depression, and he pretended to just be a friend looking out for her. He drugged her up and gave her alcohol after she told him she was having suicidal thoughts.
Look, I know how this sounds. It sounds like my wife made a mistake and cheated, but I know my wife. Her friends know her. She would NOT cheat on me. At the very least, she wouldn't with the ugly fuck who it happened with. She did make the huge mistake of accepting the drugs and alcohol, but we trusted this guy; hell I trusted him so much that I didn't even care he was with my wife. She was out of it and even being out of it she kept saying "no I'm married stop, etc." I was friends with this faggot too. I feel like I couldn't even protect my wife.
Anyway, what I'm asking is, do we have a leg to stand on here? I'm not looking to be called cuck or told my wife cheated on me, I know my wife better than anyone, we have been married a really long time. I just want to know how to move forward from here. Can she put him behind bars? He also messaged her afterward super paranoid telling her not to tell anyone, and to pretend she was never at his house, which I also thought was pretty incriminating. Today has been a very traumatic day. I never thought shit like this happened, I mean you never do until it happens to you.
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Report it ASAP.
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>>18720178
Did you go to the police?
Why didn't you go directly to the hospital? Yes, you should still go to the hospital IMMEDIATELY. Like right hte fuck now, take her right now they may still be able to find samples of semen and more importantly usually there is physical damage or signs from a force entry. They will contact the police when you get there and start all the stuff.
This is the way you move on. But getting justice, if you don't do this you will never be better.
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Get off your goddamned computer and take her to the hospital. Save every message he ever sent, and report this fuckhead to the police.
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So /adv/, my gf just chewed me out. My bad spending habits, to my bad sense of health, and she's right. I'm a wreck right now, and have been as such. So I'm going to get my shit together.
But I don't know where to start, you know? So far I've deleted porn and I'm slowly cleaning the house (It looks like a punk house right now, roaches and shit galore) but after that I don't know where to begin to do the bigger milestones, such as
>Stop drinking so much
>Quit smoking
>Get in shape
>Get out of self-hating depression/Stop being Cynical all the time
>Get driver's license (city has free busses so I never bothered to try)
I want her and myself to see myself as what I was like; A motivated, self-respecting man that she can more than enjoy being married to in the future. But where do I start? I've been in the hole so long that I need help.
Pic kind of related. I've stopped a majority of these things.
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>>18720127
Definitely go to /fit/ and read the sticky ignore the rest of that board. Maybe visit /ck/ too learning to cook could help a lot.
Do you have a job / go to school? Those usually have quitting smoking things for free.
When do you drink? Out with friends / alone?
If you don't have a job or are going to school consider one or both of those.
Don't beat yourself up if you fail at anything. Just get back on track asap. It might help to get her on board with all this having someone to cheer you on and support you when it gets rough helps amazingly.
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>>18720127
Make a list and pick one thing. Focus on that one things for a while. Then when you get the hang of it add another thing to your routine.
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Make a plan. But if you're just going to list all the goals it will overwhelm you. Divide the problem into managable steps and make a weekly schedule that is realistic. Also when you reach a goal or milestone that you've set you need to treat yourself (but not in a way that is detrimental to your long term goals).
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hi /adv/
i already asked /b/ this but i had minimal response
>me
>two girls seem to be pretty into me
>am about 7.5/10
>one is a 9/10 brunette with a great figure
>one is a 7/10 redhead with an above average figure
from what i've said, it seems that the brunette is the obvious choice to pursue
>brunette has about a 6/10 personality from what i've seen
>she also hangs out with an unsavory crowd
>redhead has 10/10 personality and is wonderful to talk to
>she also has friends that i have, so that wouldn't be an issue
i'm leaning towards the redhead, what do you think?
oswald mosley is picture because he has similar features to me.
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>I'm leaning towards the redhead. What do you think?
That we can't make that choice for you.
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>>18719943
yes we can. go for the redhead if shes natural, because I like redheads. bear in mind she's probably crazier than the average girl
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>>18719935
>from what i've seen
it sounds like you barely even know this brunette girl
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on tinder:
girl:
>how many years/semesters do you have left?
me:
>in my last year. how bout you?
girl:
>only in my second year sadly
me:
>haha ah man two more years eh
girl:
>yep! at least i'm enjoying most of my classes and all
what the fuck do I say to this? "haha yeah its important to enjoy your classes!"?
am i autistic or are conversations with chicks always this boring?
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Yes you're autistic. Yes girls on tinder are always this boring. Just ask her questions.
>"What are you taking?"
>"What's your major?"
Or, alternatively, change the subject.
>"So what kind of music are you into?"
><Question about her bio or pictures>
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You ask which class they enjoy most and why, you learn something about them with a question like that
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Just change topics.
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Getting angry at women 2017-09-14 03:16:28 Post No.18719840
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The past couple of days I've noticed I'm getting pretty mad at women for some reason.
>a couple weeks ago
>finished uni and going home
>walk past my station and some girl comes up asking for a cigareete
>she's really cute
>know a girl like her wouldn't like at me twice other wise
>get super mad and tell her to fuck off
There's also other little things like me giving a stink eye to random girls. What's wrong with me? A-am I becoming a new Elliot Rodger?
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Women see that as dangerous. You are something that might kill her in her eyes especially as a stranger. Be conscious of this girls are much less strong physically. Be aware of this. Dangerous isn't sexy, but risk taker is. Women like men who take risks because they are more likely to protect her if something happens. Riding a motorcycle is risky and therefore sexy. Being aggressive and angry is dangerous.
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>>18719840
Bump for advice
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Well clearly you have low self esteem and feel inferior as a potential sexual partner, which hurts your pride.
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When will my bad weed trip end? Please help 2017-09-14 02:51:24 Post No.18719799
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When will my bad weed trip end? Please help
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Background, I was hospitalized like a month before this because of a car accident. Being close to death has made me think a lot about life, the universe, consciousness, etc.
I smoked for the first time in months last night and after the third bong hit I felt myself waving in and out of my physical body. I was having a full blown panic attack and it still feels like my body doesn't belong to me. I feel like I don't have control over myself and I'm on auto-pilot while my mind is somewhere else. I feel like I have no control over my body and that I'm trapped.
I'm freaking out.
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>>18719799
you definetly smoked more than weed in there then...
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Sleep!
You need some time to get back to yourself. Try and get back to living life.
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>>18719800
Nah idiots literally can't handle psychedelics of any strength, they focus on the mental disassociation and carry it into their sober lives. They then find themselves unsure about the lives they were living before, mostly because there's nothing to be sure about. Desiring the ignorance they had before they will blame weed for fucking them up and eventually find some levelness that feels normal when the old normal becomes too old to remember correctly. The main takeaway is they start telling everyone weed is bad when really they're just confused people.
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You guys, I'm at a complete loss for what to do. My Australian shepherd, who my family has owned for 6 years, snapped on a family friend today while he was being pet gently and bit him in many places on his hands. My friend is upset, understandably, as are we. I know my dog had anxiety, but we normally don't let him interact with other dogs or stay with strangers because we don't want him to freak out. He has attempted to bite a groomer before. We do not do anything to encourage his behavior and even went to have him professionally trained, (where he bit the trainer.) He's never done something like this before to a person in the home and I am so heartbroken, but feel as though I have no choice but to put him down. My mother and brother are so upset. My mom can't stop lying on the ground next to her dog silently crying in her room. I feel like I've failed my dog and that he won't know what's happening or why he's been chosen to be put down. This is the hardest decision I've ever made in my life. Any advice would be appreciated.
Pic related, it's my dog hours before the attack, lying with me.
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>>18719763
>literally white people problems
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Shit man, I got feels just reading this, whoever you are, wherever you are, I am extremely sorry man. I don't have any advice at all, but I just want to say my condolences and love are with you. Go give that pupper one last good meal and time dude, I hope someone else comes with advice, but my heart goes out to you op.
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>>18719763
You dont have to get him put down, but just know that you will be held liable when people sue you because you know that your dog is aggresive.
So either you
1. Make sure he has no chance of biting people
or
2. Put him down.
or
3. Pay the money everytime someone gets bit, Which assumably medical bills aren't cheap.
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Should I kill myself ? 2017-09-14 01:49:35 Post No.18719642
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>be me a year ago
>be a true kissless hugless virgin sperg
>become Friend with Qt3.14 (8/10 face, 10/10 body. Imagine a brunette Kate Upton with hazeleyes and a nice butt. Let's call her Kate for this reason)
>Kate starts to sit next to me at uni
>switch seat, qt follows me.
>WTF.gif
>Kate's Boyfriend sits behind me
>Kate is a convicted thot (cheated former bf, then broke with lover for current bf)
>Go NOPE.avi instead of BEGONE THOT.jpg
>Become close friend of Kate
>At one party she greets me with a "try to break your ribcage and be lifted up by you" hug
>She must be high as fuck
>Later at party, see bf with another qt3.14
>WOT
>Turns out Kate and him broke last summer
>Gottagofast.mp3
>Kate is gone with another guy
>FFFFFFUCK.fuk
To be continued...
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>>18719642
Just learn from your mistake OP. Next time a Kate rolls around, say something. At the very least, you could've tried to figure out whether she was single.
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>>18719642
She probably gave u a friendly hug and went to get dicked by some chad who she actually liked.
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>>18719642
>killing yourself over another person
People aren't worth it.
Hello, how do I boost my confidence
Anything helps, I'm extremely desperate
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nothing desu
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>>18719467
Make plan, stick to plan.
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>>18719467
- get a job
- try to be active
- find something to do with yourself (hobby or something)
- Don't give a fuck about how people see you.
- Stop talking down to yourself
Basically get a life