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Industrial job, working with chemicals.. yeah, they'll have a drug policy. Time to clean yourself up, anon.

Is it possible to clean up beforehand and resume my degenerate lifestyle post drug test?

>>18722247
If that's a priority for you, I suggest changing your career path.

This is stuff you can google. Also it's HSV1, it's not the end of the world. Stop being such a drama queen, most people already have it.

>>18722146
Should I ask my doctor for medicine so I minimize the chances of giving it to someone else? He said I don't need meds but I feel like I should be taking something?

>>18722160
If you have money to burn and want to waste it on another appointment only to be told not to worry about it, go ahead.

Also chances are, you've had it a lot longer than you've thought you've had it.

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That's because she get paid to have you come back. For crying out loud, south park dedicated an entire episode to this. 12 year olds realise this. smdh

>>18722109
Well, have you tried having a non-work-related conversation while she's on her break or during down time?
There's a cutie working at my local supermarket and it's pretty empty around closing time. One Friday evening I'll just ask her what she's doing after closing up.

>>18722131
>>18722109
You shouldnt ask them waht theyre doing after work it'll make them a bit afraid i think. Better to go with asking for their number to give them a bit of space before you ask them. Also this way you have plausable deniability and dont have to avoid getting checked out but a chick who shot you down hard af.

>>18722100
How long has it been?

>>18722108
About 4 years. Whenever I hear from her or see her the feels rush back.

>>18722132
Try finding a new hobby. Get your driver's license and get a new job if you don't like your current one. Improve yourself. You won't move on by staying in a rut

>>18722063
>is it a good idea to use them?
Probably not going to give you any issues but condoms are cheap as fuck, why is this even a thread? Walk your ass down to Walgreens and get more you absolute retard

>>18722063
why risk it just to save a few bucks?

I've used condoms that were latex and about a year past the expiration date. They are more prone to breakage but if you use a good amount of lube/she gets extremely wet you should be fine.

Also condoms are cheap, get a variety pack off ebay for like $20. The one I got had all name brand condoms, no bs knockoff trash.

what were they like?

You had more time for them.

>>18722054
I still have a lot of free time. I'm not some fantastically successful busybody now.

>>18722050
Thots.

Climb the wall and get them from Mexico.

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>taking SSRI's
I would rather go insane than take those fucking pills. I will only do stims or benzos.

>>18721975
Dude how were you taking zoloft with bi-polar? I took that shit when they thought i had depression and it made me so fucking manic that I was diagnosed as bipolar and put on lithium and shit.

>School continues on as usual
>The class gets introduced to another language assignment
>The teacher was going to pair us up and our job would be to spend as much time with them as possible, asking them questions and getting to know them better during the course of a couple weeks
>Suprise suprise, I get to work with the girl from earlier
>Let's call her Tasha
>I ask her a lot of questions and we apparently have a lot of the same interests
>Somehow I can look at her without problem even touching her lightly, teasing her and genuienly having fun
>She wants to add me on social media to get to talk more and we exchange details
>Once again more time passes
>The day we were supposed to present the assignment she got sick
>She continues to be sick for a week
>Present day
>She did not come to school because she was sick once again
>I had talked to her earlier about telling her about all the stuff she missed in school
>At 7 pm I get a message from her and she asks about school
>We continue talking responding very quickly
>I flirt with her
>She says she is going to do some volunteer work this saturday
>I once again muster up the courage and say I'd love to come and help since she obviously was still sick
>She actually says she would love to see me
>We continue messaging until night time
>Too tired to care so I just say
>"I'd love to contine to talk to you but I have a date with my bed."
>She respond with the usual awwwww
>I quickly type
>"Are you jealous?"
>She responds yes
>I say goodnight and she happily replies

What the fuck am I supposed to do now?

Are you interested? Yes.
Is she interested? Yes.
It's not complicated.

>>18721976
>What the fuck am I supposed to do now?
Ask her on a date you fucking retard

>>18721966
It's his own fucking fault. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to fix his situation. He's just unwilling and maybe retarded and/or delusional in some way(s).

That's really the long and short of it, but if you want to theorize, or even waste your time on him as he grows resentful of you, that's absolutely your choice.

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>>18721974
I know it's his own fault. I just know that if I was in his situation, I'd want an old friend to at least make an effort to help. I'm not going to go full bore live fixer on him, I just want to reach out in a constructive way and am looking for adv on how to do that.

For reference, this is his social media cover pic.

>>18721979
when you say reach out in a constructive way you are being vague on purpose

you do want to fix his situation, unless you are referring to just showing your sympathy or something like that (which I assume is not your goal)

Fuck it

I'm going to give it a week to fucking clear up without any pressure on my side to continue any conversations or meet up
I would've escalated each time I met her but she straight told me she was interested in just friends. Should I still try and put the moves on her? Seems like respect is just taken for granted these days.

>>18722038
Just friends is code for "I am not attracted to you" If you are interested in her romantically then you should give up and ghost her.
She won't give a fuck so why should you.

Gone through the same situation a lot of times and I am currently going through it now.
Best thing to do is cut her from your life.

She doesn't owe you a relationship. Just because she doesn't want to date you doesn't mean she doesn't care about you. Do what you want, but if you cut her off because you feel entitled to a relationship, the only one who loses here is you. She has a life outside of you, you don't seem to have a life outside of her. You're going to end up miserable and lonely, she's not.

>>18721930
You can fuck them and not pay but they'll hold your deposit and you will be evicted. look for somewhere else to live

>>18721934
Won't this hurt my credit? Thus fucking my chances to find another place to live at?

>>18721930

get a copy of your lease. Read it word for word like you should have when you moved in.

If its not in the contract, they can't legitimately do it. And if it is in the contract, you need to not waste any more energy and do something else.

where are you now?

>>18721901
Greece

Go to the Netherlands.

what's in your pants?

>>18721877
>It feels like I'm doing pretty well

Isn't this all that matters? I don't see the problem here.

>>18721891
Because I also want a family. That's something I really want outside of work and hobbies and money.

>>18721885
This is 4chan, assume it's a penis.

Things you can do after class instead of sitting in your apartment

>ride a bike or skateboard/longboard
>play sports outside, it's early fall there should be plenty of guys out playing
>go talk to randoms. early of the semester, lots of lonely approachable people around
>hang out around the library for similar reasons as the last post
>go to your student union and hang out
>go to seminars offered by your institution. you can learn important life skills and it's another place to talk to people

There are so many things to do on a college campus and early in the semester people are very approachable. It's easy to make friends. Just do anything instead of sitting at home alone.

>>18721876
just do drugs.

>>18721893
>>ride a bike or skateboard/longboard
Don't own one

>>play sports outside, it's early fall there should be plenty of guys out playing
All I see while walking around is a couple of friends throwing a frisbee usually. I'm not any good at most American sports to begin with.

>>go talk to randoms. early of the semester, lots of lonely approachable people around
>hang out around the library for similar reasons as the last post
How so? I'd feel stupid or awkward just walking up to random people sitting by themselves and trying to spark conversation. Do people really do this?
I'm not very socially adept, so this kind of thing seems odd.

>>go to your student union and hang out
See above

>>go to seminars offered by your institution. you can learn important life skills and it's another place to talk to people
I intend to do so, though none have really happened yet.

>>18721862
A lot of people do try to get into jobs.

>>18721862
Customers and the degenerates yout have to manage.

Plus, busy times of the year, depending on your products, you put in 60+ hours on salary.

anyone who has ever worked retail part-time never wants to return to that kind of work the prospect of spending your entire life managing degenerate and trying to achieve post set by the higher ups dont seem very appealing