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So I've been dating this guy for half a year. He's really nice, and smart and listens to me but he's also really quiet.
He barely says im beautiful or participates in conversation even though i really try to get him involved in the latter. I've tried breaking up with him once in the past but he cried and i do care about him so i figured id make it work.
Recently however i was in the er for a concussion and he didn't come to see me even though the er was right next to our college. It kinda broke me cause i was alone and confused their for hours. I expected my trash parents not to come, but he didn't even blink an eye really. I've dated guys in the past who would have dropped everything so i'd like to think i know what im worth at this point.
I'm just really thinking of breaking it off with him, but there's a part of me that thinks I'm making a mistake...what should i do?
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>i
>confused their
>goffic dark humor XD.jpg
>Comparing current boyfriend to obsessive exes
You're going to keep playing the "I'm breaking up with you for attention" game for a couple more years before getting knocked up by some local rapper. Enjoy your lifetime meth habit, multiple eating disorders, and parole officer visits.
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>>18723536
alright alright, I'm dyslexic give me a break. plus this is 4chan, not an essay. And I'm just trying to not lead someone on.
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>>18723546
that guy really feels like shit about himself, or at least his position in society. that's why he has to put yours down.
OP I would leave him. A good friend cares when you're in the hospital. You know who your real friends and family are by how they react to things like that. Just make sure people are not legitimately busy before judging them.
Anyway, just admit you're dating him for loneliness. You think you're going to get married to someone you "gave a chance"? We give everyone a chance, but you already thought of leaving this guy so I guess you want to get married and divorce him?
Just admit you're with him because you don't want to feel abandoned. Being with him will make you feel abandoned though, obviously. It's better to form relationships with people who are present and kind, even though that takes more time and is not a quick fix.
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ok so it started off well
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risky move whatever
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more fucking around, seems like she isn't into it
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but then this
>00:07
is this a booty call? am I losing the v-card tonight? wat the fug do
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I need help. It's been 4 years. 2017-09-15 03:56:56 Post No.18723460
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I need help. It's been 4 years.
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Why do I do this to me?
> Get introduced to out-of-state 10/10 girl
> Exchange numbers, we start talking.
> We're able to text for hours and hours into the night.. Conversations about universe, society, science and technology.
> This repeats daily. She invests in the conversation, elaborates deeply on every subject.
> We meet personally one day, at a friends gathering.
> Try to kiss her, get rejected. Move on with life, but still like her.
> Both of us kinda stop talking, date other people, live life.
> Still, she's still liking my pictures. "So handsome", she sometimes coments.
> Here and there, we connect again over text; deep conversations, skype hangouts seshs, serenades, drawings, poems, texting throughout days and days. She invests, she elaborares, she talks profoundly about the myriad subjects we go over. "We have to meet and do this" / "We have to hang out, eat out..", both of us say.
> Decides to try again; I tell her I like her and want to be more than friends, get rejected again.
> Respect her decision, move on again, date other people, focus on academics and internships.
> Nearly a year later, she texts me on my birthday, finds out that I'm in town and we start texting again. We watch series together over Skype, we talk and talk and reinforce to one another how unique and irreplaceable our conversations feel to one another.
> I decide to tell her I like her again. Guess what? I get rejected for the third time.
> Instead of distancing myself like the last time, I swallow the rejection and both of us continue to speak normally.
> Since last week, we've been sleeping late everyday talking. We've texted extensively throughout the day.
> My vital force is drained, I spend so much time talking to her that my days seem to slip by.
> There's seems to be hope inside me, an idea that she likes me but just doesn't want to have a long distance relationship or is just afraid of messing things up between us.
Why does she do this to me if she's not interested?
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>>18723460
Because she can.
It's funny you guys talk so much about space since you are the greatest orbiter she has ever known.
She has you in the palm of her hands.
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>>18723460
Women were mechanically designed to confuse and make you feel bad. She likes the attention but not the commitment, you should try that out and appreciate that there's someone there who wants you to listen and be there with them, while it is not romantic.
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>>18723460
Who knows but you're a fucking spastic for wasting so much time on a woman who just uses you for self validation.
Go put your energies into a girl who'd actually appreciate and desire you instead of some cold fish.
Wake up to yourself
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I'm a 21 year old virgin. I know in reality that's not a big deal at all but over never had a gf and it really effects my self esteem and how I commicate with people in general, and especially girls. It's like I'm having obsessive thoughts with sex about nearly everyone I see and I really hate it. I set up an apt with a chick from BP to just get this thing over with (and she's hot). But I'm starting to have second thoughts.
Will fucking this hot girl and releasing this steam help calm me down and focus again? Or at least help me relax around girls once I finally have sex. It's not necessarily my virginity I'm concerned with but just getting this out of the way to see if it makes a difference.
Figure I won't really know until I try but I might as well ask.
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Meant to add that my looks aren't the issue. Hell I've had two girls come on to me in the past week. But I get so tense when it comes to talking with them and it really shows.
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>>18723449
Just have sex, it's simple as that. Sex is just a pleasure tool. Nobody cares in the end.
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Your name?
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Thinking about my future makes me feel unbearably trapped and hopeless.
>21 years old
>Hate university
>Only a sophomore by credit hours due to withdrawing from school for a year long mental health crisis
>Working toward meme degree, but can't switch to anything useful at this point
>The reality of wageslaving for the rest of my life makes me want to walk into traffic
I don't think I can do this. I have to fight so hard every day not to drop out of life and move in with my parents to wallow in self-misery. I know I will hate that life too, I can't stand living with my parents and the fact that I'm financially dependent on them is a huge source of shame for me.
Where the fuck do I go from here? Am I just incompatible with modern society? What the fuck is a career
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>>18723371
I've decided that my goal in life is to meet animals. That's it. Just gotta find a job that meets that, and/or do some of that in my free time. And it's fucking great. I'm not going to ever make a lot of money, but that's okay. Personally, I'm the type of person that needs to enjoy their work. I've never been the type that just tolerates eight hours of torture so that I can have a salary that funds my free time. I graduated with a degree in ecology. I know organic chemistry. I'm never going to use it, because that would fucking suck the soul out of me. I'm not even going to do research permanently, possibly not even much longer. I'm currently in a wildlife rehab position, and it's amazing. I could see myself doing it every day. I'm never going to make money, especially if I want to live in an area with a high cost of living. But I'm going to die and turn into dirt, just like everyone else. I'd rather spend the time I do have doing shit that makes me happy than spending my time in a cubicle of a building
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Maybe go to a trade school instead? Shorter, not as much bull shit classes, cheaper, start earning money sooner than everyone else? If the problems s you don't want to do something you don't think is fun, I don't know what to tell you. But maybe working with your hands like you would in trade skills will give you some fulfillment.
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>>18723384
I'm quite envious of you. You've found passion, and are willing to seek it. I wish I had a passion. I've tried so hard to find one, but I don't think I'm a passionate person. I don't feel like the world has a place for me in it, but I'm just too cowardly to leave it early
So uh im freaking out. This all happened today
>be me
>be high school seinor
>friends love the omea wa shinderu meme
>decided to write it down on a piece of paper in the middle of class so my friend behind me would see it
>use the same piece of paper to write my shitty essays
>never erase the message for my friend
>be me this morning
>get pulled out of first period
>get sent to class councilor
>thefuck.avi
>I've never done anything wrong in this establishment
>"anon your teacher saw this note on the bottom of your paper, do ypu know what this means?"
>OHFUCKOHFUCKOHFUCK.jpg
>"yea my asian friend told me it means to celebrate one's failure"
>(jesus fucking christ you dumbass thats too convenient)
>"anon it actually means you are already dead. We are going to have to follow FEDERAL PROTOCOL"
>"what do you mean Ms. Iwantedtobeasingerbutimafuckinglandwhale?"
>"basically anon we're going to call one of your parents and they will pick you up and you will not be permitted on school grounds until a psychologist says you're not fucking insane".
>parents are no tolerance sociopaths, if anyone they need a psychologist.
>nothing really happens for most of the day, but we do see a psychologist
>hellyeamedicalinsurance.png
>until we get a call on the home phone.
>its basically the lead administrator
>says when i comeback to turn in the psychologist's evaluation im going to need to speak with him with a parent with me
Am I getting expelled? My family is a legacy at this school, ive been the model student for the past three years. Please i need to know
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>>18723367
These people seem like the least interesting people ive ever met in my life. What bores. Always be very respectful but you will look back at this as being a fucking god send make the best of your new life out of shit ville
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why didn't you say it was a fucking internet meme joke, maybe show them a video
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>>18723367
this reminds me of some of the bs i had to deal with in high school. Just laugh it off dude, dont take it too seriously.
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Wish I lived in North Korea 2017-09-15 03:15:33 Post No.18723354
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Wish I lived in North Korea
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/08/marijuana-in-north-korea_n_4067341.html
Marijuana is legal in North Korea.
You know how people in the west think everyone in North Korea is brainwashed by propaganda? What if people in the west are brainwashed by propaganda to think North Korea is way worse than it actually is?
Completely serious, I wish I was born in North Korea. The more I've learned about the country, the more I love it. The west is in decline, while North Korea has strong family values, intact family structure, strong communities, very low crime rates, racially homogeneous, no feminism, no men getting their life ruined in a divorce, strong nationalistic identity, strong social connections with neighbors, everyone is guaranteed a job (and compensated for it much better than most American workers, even the most menial jobs in North Korea allow a man to afford a house, wife, and children, on his income alone, the vast majority of American workers can't say that).
I am very jealous of North Korea, I view it as the last bastion of civilization untouched by globalist capitalism and degeneracy. I don't like every single thing about it, but nothing bad about it can outweigh all these positive aspects.
What can I do about this? I need advice.
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Obvious troll is obvious.
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I do too. Free housing, no taxes, sounds ide to me. Media can't force any more anti-DPRK propaganda down my throat.
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>>18723354
welcome to the rice fields, bitch. hope you like starving to death
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Ultimate Barbershop Scam 2017-09-15 03:12:28 Post No.18723347
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Can I just go from one barber/salon to the next, and walk out saying, "You fucked up, I ain't payin' you shit," soon as the haircut is over? There are so many different salons in the area, enough to each give me one haircut over the course of two to three years. I don't think they have any communication with each other. Each barber is going to think, "Does he really believe that, or is he just trying to get out of paying?" and by the time they decide how to react, I'll be gone. I wouldn't do it to black barbershops, partly out of respect, and partly out of fear.
The key to the scam is that they'll be stuck thinking, "Does he really believe that?" and that they won't want to call the cops over $10 to $20. I also doubt I would end up going to court over that amount, especially if I played stupid the whole time and insisted the service was not what i asked for.
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>>18723347
>Ripping off honest nigs
You RE A MASSIVE PIECE OF SHIT AND PROBABLY MEXICAN
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>>18723561
look at you, all racism and no reading comprehension
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No, it won't work. Most adult men are not such pushovers that they would let that slide. Not only do they ask you if "this looks good" like a hundred times, but yeah they do talk to each other.
Why would this guy friend zone me :(
I've already written two threads about him in the past two days. I'm just hurt. We've been talking on and off for 3 years..we would have dated three years ago but I got in a relationship after we went out once, then he did etc we just talked in between etc. He would harass me to hangout with him, if I blocked him he would make fake accounts on Instagram and contact me and pretend he was one of his friends and be like "p misses you, talk to him" (I know it was actually him tho). Then he would say he having a mental breakdown n needs me, was in and out of the hospital, crazy stuff like that. I finally started hanging with him like a month ago, and all the sudden he "doesn't like me like that. He's only liked two girls and he just doesnt feel that way about me" he told me to move on and stop texting him. I asked him to block me so I can move on but he refused, finally I told him I'm blocking him and I did and he called me on a fake number and said he just wanted to explain so I wasn't driving myself crazy. Said that he feels super guilty about it and he cares about me, normally he would never talk toThe girl again but he cares about me "as a friend" and wants to be there for me.
And now we're back to talking "as friends" two Days later but I'm just so confused. This happened after me sending him tons of texts and he just said I'm obnoxious and then that he's not into me anymore so when I text him he gets annoyed. Is he not attracted to me? He kept trying to be sexual with me but I wanted to wait for a couple months so I can know. I mean it was a month that we hung out.
I just feel hurt and confused. I thought we both felt the same way. I wanna keep talking to him but idk if I even should. It's just going to probably fizzle out now so what's the point?
What should I do :( also he keeps looking at my Instagram stories on fake accounts. It's really weird. Like he scares about me he stalks my Instagram but
Isn't into me?
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>>18723342
This is the dumbest shit I've ever read. Block him, find someone else and move on.
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This is retarded. There is nothing that'd make this work
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>>18723342
Oh what the fuck are you doing back here again
Just fucking drop it you retard
We've had dozens of posts about this. Stop fucking talking to each other.
Ban this fucking bait thread
How do I accept I'm a little man on a big rock and stop taking life so seriously?
Please don't reply if you're a reddit tier normie thanks
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>>18723336
first you stop asking "reddit tier normies" to not reply to your threads
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>>18723340
Piss off reddit
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>>/out/
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I..i've got a confession to make.
A few days ago I almost raped someone.
She was distressed so I thought the sex would help (i've read somewhere about it).
At first she kissed me first and started the moves. But when we moved to bed she kind of struggled. I did not catch the message, until suddenly she cried. I stopped immediately but it was too late. (No we did not have sex. I've got my fingers inside her stockings)
I don't know how to apologize. Because words can't help it. She had a flight after, and she has not replied me since.
How do I..help her to fix it?
I've been traumatized since. And she acknowledges that her move was a mistake too. This thread might be gone. But I have nowhere to ask.
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Leave her alone
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>>18723308
I've made no contact since her reply.
It has been a few days.
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when she responds just apologize and hope for the best
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Girl I was dating said 2017-09-15 02:31:48 Post No.18723273
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> Girl I was dating said she doesn't want to see me anymore
> for 2 months I wouldn't commit.. and she decided she was gonna move on.
> I apologized today for how poorly I treated her.. I was literally trying to get her to leave me
Now it's like a bad movie where the guy doesn't realize he wanted the girl til it's too late..
My question is 've got her on the phone tonight. What can I say yo get her to change her mind.
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>>18723273
tell her that you're not perfect and you messed up because u were stupid
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Nothing. Let her go and move on. You probably only feel like you want her because she's about to leave you, but once you get her back you're going to treat her like shit again.
Next time, make sure you actually want to be in a relationship before you start one.
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Are you a lesbian?
Why would anyone with a pair of testicles go out of their way to play stupid head games?
Unless this is a fun way to trick her into slobbing your knob, you may want to question if you're secretly a faggot.
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Anyone here suffer from Candida?
has anyone tried this?
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I've struggled for years, tried many things, experienced many Herx reactions. I've never heard of this stuff though.I want to know how it works.
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Water fasting or cayenne/garlic drink
Water fast needs to be at least more than 3 days
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Don't fucking do it. There's a cheap solution that doesn't require a prescription. I have had recurrent Candida since I was 17 (7 years), the EASIEST way to make it stop is to do TWO things.
>1. Purchase Lactobacillus Acidophilus with a 100 million count dietary supplement.
This is a good one for less than $10.00 USD. https://www.amazon.com/Natures-Bounty-Probiotic-Acidophilus-Tablets/dp/B000GG7QKK/ref=sr_1_5_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1505455194&sr=1-5&keywords=lactobacillus+acidophilus
Take TWO pills once or twice a day, every single day for at least 2 weeks.
This will clear up what's causing the issue at the source.
>2. If the symptoms need to be treated, look for an antifungal cream/ointment that contains 1% clotrimazole.
This is a good one: https://www.amazon.com/Clotrimazole-Generic-Lotrimin-Anti-Fungal-Cream/dp/B00EXPYK4K/ref=sr_1_14_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1505455493&sr=8-14&keywords=clotrimazole
Let me stress, I have recurrent Candida because I lack an internal balance in "good" and "bad" cultures. I am not talking out of my ass. I'm speaking from personal experience and what doctors have told me. Also, just because I have it as recurrent, doesn't mean you will, so don't freak the fuck out.
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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>>18723134
This is ridiculously untrue. Having a steady job won't/doesn't help you get laid at all.
I had better luck when I was a college student who drank all the time and couldn't even decide a major, and my only luck was with older townie women who lived and worked in the area and one guy I had a gay fling with until he started trying to deal hard drugs to me.
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>>18723196
Yeah, I've never been interested in a dude because of the job he had, or the prospect of him having money or a job
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>>18723202
That's the more the case in long term relationships where you have to deal with the question "what will the parents think"? Or if you're planning on a two-breadwinner marriage.
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how do I become a homo? 2017-09-15 01:31:51 Post No.18723137
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I'm tired of despicable roasties, wanna try something new
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Doesn't work, I tried.
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>>18723141
must suck to be you
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>>18723141
did u try top or bottom? what about feminine trap?