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Genuinely actually looking for advice on suicide, I'm I'll and suffer daily. I hate for my family to see me like this and I need to die. I don't have access to a gun or drugs. I'd rather keep my body intact but I'll jump if it comes to that, how do I kill myself?

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I need help.

Over the past week my girlfriend (of over 1 year) and I have been fighting. It's the beginning of a breakup. Today she broke up with me and threw me away. I didn't see it coming really, and I was super unprepared. Up until her, I haven't really dated anyone, and I've always been the shy reserved type. After she broke up with me I balled at any thought of her. Hours of crying. (She meant a lot if you couldn't tell) Literally anything set me off. I walked by a woman with familiar perfume and started balling as the smell resembled my ex gf.

Long story short. I got dumped, and have zero clue how to emotionally cope with this. I feel like cutting myself to death.

On top of that, she texted me back saying she missed me after completely destroying me. I can't take anymore!!!!

Please no stupid answers, I really need help. I'm about to plummet so far down into depression.

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Are ugly nipples a turn off? also, what qualifies as an ugly nipple cause im super insecure about my girls

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What type of people should I not trust in life?

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Because I've lost 60lbs my tits are now saggy.

If I were to go on dates, should I make a disclaimer before the first date 'btw I have granny tits'? Or when should I tell them so they don't feel like I'm leading them on?

Maybe I should just not date. I've got a lot more male attention now but they wouldn't be after me if they new what I looked like under clothes

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Who else is trying this? What's the longest you've gone without PMO?

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I feel like my recently acquired gf is too close with my best friend. They started bonding when we started dating. On two occasions on nights out she just flat out ignored me and kept talking and getting physical with my friend. When I saw him holding her from behind I just couldn't take it anymore and had to leave. I told her about my feelings and she assured me that it's just hard for her to show me affection in a social setting. It's worth mentioning that my friend is in a relationship, too. Today I noticed that I'm not her #1 friend in Snapchat anymore, even though we talk there every single day.

In the past my ex cheated on me with my previous best friend. I just can't help recognizing the pattern. I feel sick. Should I just dump her?

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Hi everyone. I'm trying to learn how to play sax but I have some deep-seated fears that are holding me back.

My parents shamed and teased me as a little girl whenever I tried to sing, play instruments and dance. They'd burst out laughing and tell me how bad I was and if I cried they'd tell me they were laughing with me not at me (I never thought it was funny). When I shut myself in my room and tried to sing or perform they'd barge in and do the same shit.

So I grew up unable to sing or dance comfortably, even when I'm alone. It's just a mental block but I'm having an unbelievably hard time overcoming it. I'm so afraid of people making fun of me. I want to stop giving a shit, obviously that's easier said than done.

Do I just need to stop being a little bitch and get over it? Therapy hasn't helped. I'm considering doing lsd or shrooms at this point.

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>have terrible horrible no good fetish taboo as fuck
>been with bae 7 years

I have no intention to tell bae. They do not need to know that I had repeated forced but mild beastiality encounters when I was a child and developed a liking for it many years later after I discovered porn for it. There was a big gap of time where I didn't think about it in the slightest. I go months without remembering it, but nothing makes my body react in the same way as this.

Is it horrible of me?
Not trying to ask advice on how or if to tell bae, just wanting to gague other's opinions, I have never talked about it to anyone, so I don't know how common it is. I do not often masturbate to it, but the fact that I do sometimes is the part I know other people would not deem normal.

I do get urges to try to do the real thing, but unless I'm in a fucked up state of drinking and popping pills it will never happen, so it will never happen since I don't do those things because I have an actual career and responsibilities to keep up with and I love my life.

I'm not a horrible person and I do not feel guilty about having this fetish or not telling bae. Just wish bae could know in case they didn't mind or even liked it.

I will not respond if you're here to tell me I'm a horrible disgusting person. I couldn't care less. I've tried to rid myself of this liking, but have now accepted that a feeling simply cannot go away. It's honestly a lot for me to even post about it.

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i'm an 18 year old girl in college and have always had an extremely active sex drive

i've been in school about a month, and my libido is driving me insane

i'm in an extremely hard bio pre med program, and i hate when sexual thoughts randomly creep into my mind until i can't focus on what i'm learning

i don't want to not do well in school because of these thoughts

recently i agreed to hooking up with a guy on tinder, but i don't think i'll go through with it because i don't want to turn into a roastie

i was on effexor all of last year, and it completely killed my libido and made my orgasms terrible.

they did genetic testing on me, and found out that i can't take any form of antidepressants because i have a weird mutation and if i take the meds i have terrible side effects

i recreationally use marijuana, focalin, and alcohol and i have a script for xanax

despite all this the libido is still there

are there any supplements/ways to lower libido?

i just want to be able to focus in school again with no distractions

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everything goes fine with girls until they make some kind of allusion to me successfully "earning" them. what does this have to do with earning in the first place? there is no such thing as earning. clearly to them If i'm earning them I am not equal to them, if i'm not equal to them, i'm lower than them. I stoop to no man and I certainly don't stoop to no woman.

the problem is that I as soon as that happens my brain goes full sociopaths rage mode and I get some kind of drive to see how much I can mess her up no matter how much I liked or desired her beforehand.

video semi related:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WFQK5eF_puo

what phenomenon is this and how do I avoid getting this drive so I can keep some extra side ass?

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Am i supposed to rub one out before going on a date? Like, the day before or an hour before?

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So, honest question: when you're a genuinely ugly 21 year old person/girl (or should I say "ma'am"--that's how people always seem to describe me...) how do you get over it? I don't mean I want a bf, I'm too messed up to have a healthy relationship. It's just...depressing to be such a gross human being. I've lost a lot weight (50 pounds) and have 20 to go...yet, I look so haggard and I probably will only get more haggard if I lose more. The experience has been jarring--think you're improving yourself only to be shooting yourself in the foot. What a downer. So much for the classic male adage: Don't be fat, girls.

I feel comfortable looking in some mirrors and don't feel bad. It's just that the camera reveals the truth and man, I look like a trailer trash troll or something. How do you psychologically cope with that? Hell, how do you completely relinquish all care for your looks altogether and be a happy wizard?

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This is the place to unload that baggage that's been weighing you down for days, weeks, months, or years; to relieve the pit in your stomach that won't go away, write a letter to someone, ask for advice, etc.

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Resources:

- A public Kik group for whomever wishes to connect with others and discuss their issues: #GIOYC

- Suicide Hotline Numbers are located above the catalog, or check your country's Hotline Numbers (here): https://www.reddit.com/r/SuicideWatch/wiki/hotlines

- A YouTube channel which pertains to therapy, mental health, depression, anxiety, etc.:https://m.youtube.com/#/user/KatiMorton

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I am generally not an interesting person. However, I have found that in my region, there's a pretty big community dedicated to full contact medieval combat (part of IMCF league). I am already very interested in the middle ages and childishly enough, as been renewed bt watching game of thrones. I already have some background in contact sports (football, judo) and my life being generally dull, I thought I'd have a great time as well as having a cool unique hobby. Has anyone ever heard of IMCF?