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>>18681569
finally nobody responds. apologies for breaking that streak

>>18681570
Thread was made less than two hours ago, there's still time.

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>>18681569
Dear op, lack of replies is also a reply. You simply provided no information whatsoever. Your thread is stupid and even as a bait is weak.

>>18681432
It is called going outside from your comfort zone. Normies use alcohol.

>>18681432
I kind of know how you feel. I'm probably not quite as confident as you are yet, but I find myself in situations where I have a good opportunity to approach someone and simply choose not to. For me, it's because I begin thinking about how the interaction will play out and decide that it's simply not worth the effort. I think the solution is not to think about it and just do it.

When you see someone and feel like you might want to approach them, just go for it right away. Don't give yourself the time to think about what might happen. As soon as the idea of approaching someone comes to your mind, juat go for it right away.

Not sure if this is the advice you're looking for, but it's the best I've got. I hope it helps.

>>18681432
Convinced at this point that the random casual approach is a myth.

there are specific contexts in which the social rules change, ex. bars, concerts.

Most relationships seem to start from shared social circles. It's hard enough as a male to even get anywhere from a warm start like online dating.

I do have friends who have made this work somehow, one of my buddy is in a 3 year relationship with a girl he met in line at a taqueria. Another buddy is pretty successful with getting numbers while talking to customers at work. I've had it work once, with just bumping into a girl outside a concert smoking a cigarette and later texting/banging.

It can work, but prepare yourself for an overwhelmingly high rejection rate.

If you didn't sign anything you're not tied to anything. Be free, and tell your friend his taste is shit.

>>18681339
Alright, I just hope that he doesn't get mad or anything

>>18681189
Stay awake until afternoon and sleep then

>>18681189
Get a job. That forces you to get up in the morning otherwise you lose your job.

>>18681127
>ask them to write something really specific, preferably someplace specific on their body
>force them to video chat with you
>literally never get catfished

It's 2017, how does this even still happen?

Thanks, but I meant... I wanna have a "gotcha!" moment, showing that the pic is from the Web.

Google Reverse Image Search doesn't work, but this is obviously from somewhere.

I kindly request that someone with superior skill to my own, returns with a startling and dramatic result.

Thank you.

>>18681209
Jesus Christ don't be a retard just ask them for what >>18681131 said, this isn't hard

I would consider an actual LDR only if I met her at least once, for a long period of time at that one meeting.
Later on, if it holds more than half a year with more than 3 meetings, I'd seriously consider going "official". Later on, after a year or two (or after finishing studying whatever I'm studying) moving to her (or the opposite, if possible. Depends on you.)

But generally, I wouldn't recommend LDR AT ALL. Only sexting ldr works. Not actual romantic relationship.

>>18681101
how long have you been talking?

>>18681168
Few weeks now

>>18681153
Yeah i was thinking something along the same lines. an aunty of mine has a fiance in new zealand and she is in australia and they alternate seeing eachother every second weekend.

>>18681077
All I need need is it to run an old version of fl studio

>>18681077
No, when your laptop was initally set up it also installed drivers specific to your hardware. You can just pull the hard disk out and use it as an external drive with a cheap enclosure. Reinstall your software on your new computer and you're good to go.

>>18681094
So buying a converter to make the hard drive connect to USB on a working laptop is the only way?

is he really that good of a friend? are you seeking his approval?

because you're asking anonymous people on the internet for reasons not to rather than just doing it

Get it for his birthday so you don't seem creepy

>>18681014
I don't know, with that kind of slang

>>18681014
a year is not really a long time. go to Canada with your mother.

>>18681024
I'm not going with her regardless if just stay to make sure she leaves safely with my little brother.

>>18680983
you can not sleep for 3 days before you'll start hallucinating. I recommend getting some shuteye before that starts happening.

>>18680983
Yes, it's normal. Get some benedril and go to bed.

>>18680983
yes when i do this i freak out about my future. just sleep and eat some good food

Have you been yourself while texting? If you have just keep doing that, she likes you the way you are. No need to "act alpha".

>>18680966
you're 99% not bad at kissing, just place your lips on her lips and copy her, that easy. and shi better prepare your roof for her arrival on your house.

>>18681277
and btw this guy is right ^

also, i shower twice a day, shave, use deoderant/anti-perspirant, and i dress nice and try to carry myself. i started working out slowly, but i still feel down. ive also been treating my face with moisturizor and trying to drink a lot of water. girls have always called me cute, and im not a complete social retard, im funny and extroverted, but i am shy to start with and i do have some anxiety. are these just the motions of life? im in uni currently. any advice on how to pick myself out of this rut? im thinking only time can really help.

>>18680970
>im thinking only time will help
yup. sounds like you got some prospects for yourself there bud so just keep doing what you're doing.

>>18680980

thanks. ima try to fix my sleeping schedule and eat a bit more healthy and not beat my fucking beat all the time.

>>18680948

dont shit where you eat. youre going to lose a friend for a hoe

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>>18681002
this. I jus Lost a best"friend" of 16 years from this.

>>18680948
She's leading you on,
and you're accepting it because you want something that isn't yours.

Take a step back and really ask yourself why you want to fuck this girl.

>>18680903
Don't, be yourself is shit advice. I mean the sentiment is correct, but its a really bad way of delivering that message.

You can understand it in the sense of be the best version of yourself. Work on your issues, but don't remove the things that aren't causing aby problems.

>>18680903
>>18680906
I disagree with this guy. think about the people you like, do they seem fake to you or genuine? Would you say that they should be any different then they are for someone elses sake?

Okay.

lol if you think that is hard. It's just gonna get even harder, boy.

>>18680846
*growling through teeth*
JUST BEE YOURSELF

>>18680846
Because you are stupid frog poster.