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Me and my girlfriend just had anal, and now she's crying and has bad stomach cramps, someone please help

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Background: Met this girl through a mentorship program my freshman year. She's 23, just graduated, working now. She's a close friend and like a sister to me, I'm really close with her family too.

For 4th of July she and her BF of almost 3 years came over to my apartment to chill at the pool with me and some friends. When he went to the restroom she admitted to me that she had drunkenly slept with one of her coworkers (whos now out of state) she met during training a few weeks ago, and that she's been talking to him every day. Very hypocritical of her based on her previous relationships. She hadn't told anybody else yet and she thought I'd be the "least judging" of any of her friends about it.

Despite being ride-or-die 24/7 with her, I don't think I can support her with this. We went to eat after the pool and she's literally texting this other guy while sitting across from her BF. I'm not sure how to feel or what to do - it's not my place to tell her BF, but I get guilty every time I talk to him. I was kinda spooked yesterday spending time with both of them.

Should I try to advise her? Stay quiet?

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Well, the situation is simple.I'm unsure if going back to smoking.
You see, I used to smoke regularly, like between 5 and 30 cigarettes a day on average.
I already had smoked a couple of times before during high school, but it became an habit during university.
One day I decided that it was too much of a expense to maintain (back then I was working to pay part of my Uni fee and was lacking money)
That was a couple of years ago and since then I haven't smoked a single cigarette. Because family reasons I stopped working last year and my studies came to a halt this year. I should be able to get more money for it at the end of the year, but since its a little unsure I'm looking for a job also.
The """problem""" is that I have been craving for tobacco the last couple of weeks, like, I dream of myself smoking again.
I don't know. I'm not in a situation to spent money frivolously, but I not in red numbers nor really doing anything right now .

Thoughts? Suggestions? Advice?

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We started talking on my last day of high school. I never said a word to her that whole year in the art class we had together. I found myself oddly attracted to her cute shyness but never said anything to her until that last day. It was only a few weeks after me and the girl i'd dated the whole way through high school broke up. We instantly hit it off and had amazing sex all summer. It was a major shock when I found out she was pregnant, so I dropped out of art school and got a full time job. We stayed together for ten full years and raised a beautiful nine year old daughter. Then she started working as a maid at a hotel. She made new friends and started drinking and partying a lot. One day she got a traffic ticket and refused to pay it so her license was suspended. Despite offering to take her, she went to stay with her parents so her dad could take her to work in the mornings. We got into a fight over this and the one night i found her old phone which had a sex vid we made together and i was starting to miss her (it was over a week since she left). When I got into the phone i started finding vids she made for someone else. This led me down a rabbit hole where I found her saved passwords on the PC including reddit, gmail and facebook. All three things led to numerous evidence of cheating over the course of at least a year including meeting up with and fucking random strangers she met online. When I confronted her she said she was unhappy and was planning on leaving for a while. Two weeks later she tells me she's dating the guy she was friends with since they were kids and who she'd dated in hs before we met. I forgave her for cheating several times over the course of the next eight months and that i wanted her to give me another chance to make her happy and every time she was cold and told me i had to move on. We pretend to be friends and she calls me every morning and when she gets off of work and even stops by to sit on the back patio and chat for a little.

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It's been about 6 years that i suffer from IBS, my main symptons are diarrhea and flatulence, not as fun as it seems. Im a good looking lad but my disease is ruining my social life, no girl will ever date me if things keep this way. At college people make fun of me because of my belly gas noises , everyday i think about suicide. Ive been to many doctors but they didnt help much.

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There is this girl who I don't find phisically attractive but somehow Im attracted to her I don't know why

We attend the same school but we are not in the same class. As the summer vacation started I started to miss her although we have never spoken. Today I decided to add her on fb and she accepted it in a few minutes. I havent said anything to her yet.
Its almost like Im in love with her but there should be no reason I feel that way.

Why could I feel the way I feel about her if we have never even spoken?

Has anything like this happened to you? What did you do?

What should I do about her?

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I have health issues that are getting pretty bad. The specifics arent important, but they aren't entirely sure how long I have to live. Could be a decade, could be a few months. One day i'll become terribly ill, worse than I ever have, and supposedly that's how I'll know the end is coming.

Ever since I was 16 I've floated this idea in my head of buying a prostitute to lose my virginity while I can still do such a physical activity. I did not expect to be as old as I am now when I was 16.

I'm probably going do it. Just curious about any opinions or advice you might have.

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Can't ejaculate with girlfriend

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Have any of you ever taken breaks in your relationship? If so, did you wind up getting back together? Tell me your stories. I need to know if I should plan on moving on or keep being hopeful.

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What does it mean if she only texts you around midnight?

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So, recently my girlfriend (who suffers from depression and low self esteem) convinced me to block a long term internet friend - because she's paranoid my internet friend has a crush on me.

It took me about five days and a lot of arguments to make that decision and I have felt like I sold out my friend and my principles.

I unblocked my internet friend, and now they want to re-connect with me (I didn't tell them what happened) and the guilt is getting to me.

I promised not to contact her again, but I feel bad.

Opinions?

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Where can I play Warhammer FG/40k on dark eldars side or DnD on Drow side (not simly for the race, but on this evil race side (not protect city from drow invation but go invate the city with youre bros drows) I can play human, but on evil elfs side. And not play as a ruler or lord, more like simple traitor or rogue, one from many)? I dont have friends to play with. Or did game or mod to game exist where I can play what I want?

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So...how do train tickets even work?

I recall that I got this 5$ ticket from a machine and walked on board. It was never checked or anything. I didn't show it to anybody and after a while buying it to begin with seemed foolish in itself.

For the next two months I really need to find a ride back home two days a week, and possibly a ride to there. The thing is, the cost mounts up and I don't think I'd be able to afford it, I'm trying to save up money. I know it's not a good thing to skimp on paying, but there's a ton of open space on the train so...I don't know.

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So my younger brother, 13 years old wants to learn maths. He finished 7th grade and is very interested in maths, physics, chemistry.
He said he wants to learn everything up to 12th grade material, so he can then choose something more specific.

He often asks me for advice, but I really don't know about this one.
How should he learn maths, in what order and from where? Sources don't need to be only 8th grade and above, he also said he wants to revise older stuff.

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My friend and I used to always talk and joke about how we were never getting pregnant because babies cost too much, neither of us have our shit together, the world doesn't need more humans, etc...

But guess what she's pregnant and keeping it despite the fact:
>she and boyfriend physically abuse each other, like SERIOUSLY violent shit. She threw his cos at his television and broke it, he beat the shit out of her till she was COVERED IN BRUISES
>both are unemployed and live in his grandmas house
>both have cheated on each other half a dozen times
>she used to claim she never wants a kid cuz shed be a bad parent so I can't see her being mentally or emotionally prepared
>generally bad people who drink and smoke weed a lot
>I know I'm a grill and I don't know how to green text but plz

Basically I'm one of her best friends and she didn't even tell me about the pregnancy probably because she assumed(correctly) that I would not approve of her keeping it. I think she is trying to trap her man and I'm not trolling.

I'm filled with disgust and if I see her I don't know how to act around her. What am I allowed to say, what should I avoid saying? How the hell do I live on this planet knowing horrible people have kids? I know I'm not a perfect person either but I'd never bring an innocent baby into my shit life.

Part of me feels its my duty to humanity to be there for the kid maybe like a surrogate aunt because the kids probably gonna have a shit life and no one understands his mom like I do so I might be the best support... but my boyfriend argues that its not my place and I should stay out of their business entirely, he even suggests I should cut them off and part of me wants to but part of me feels guilty.

Despite everything this woman is really close to me... I'm filled with emotions of disgust, fear, shame, concern, and more... HOW DO I COPE WITH THIS /ADV/?