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How do I tell my teacher I regretted her classes? I really feel like I didn't learn anything because she was shit at explaining and she was unfriendly towards me. It was not worth my money. How do I go about telling her this?
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>I regretted her classes
Just this will do, unless you want a refund or something?
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"Hi, I'd just like to say that I regret taking your classes, you are horrible at explaining things and as a result I never learned anything. You also hated my guts for no reason and it was incredibly obvious, quit teaching, you suck balls at it."
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>>18487795
What does anyone get from this? You won't get your money back, and your teacher will not give two shits about your opinion.

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Wanting to study for one year and then start my training at a bank.
Whats the best to study in that year?
currently considering math
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>>18487782
Financial mathematics, if that's an option

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What should I look for in a roommate?
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Okay this is a Part 2 from a post I made about asking how to spot manipulation.

I'm usually very honest and blunt about what I'm thinking because I don't like to waste time. A new-ish friend of mine and I have been getting to know each other better but she seems to want more from me. She can be chill but recently she's been trying to pry things from me by accusing me of acting suspicious. It's very unwarranted and I'm getting agitated because I wouldn't do that to her.

I fucked up by not telling her to stop, and she hadn't done it until yesterday evening. We were talking on the phone and I asked her "What do you want most in life?", just to make conversation. She mentioned something about her family and I asked her to elaborate, she got defensive and I told her to just drop it.

I don't know what the fuck to do about her. She was cool until this shit happened. Any ideas?
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She isn't manipulative. She likes you as more than a friend and wants to get closer to you. She might be clingy though.
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>>18487761
Huh. When you say it like that, it does make sense but how can I be sure? Plus, she has a boyfriend.
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Update: I asked her about it today and she said "Well Anon, my boyfriend and I keep it casual and since he has a life, I come bother you since you're the most available."

Am I crazy or is this a perfectly normal situation?

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This is a problem for me. I'm always second guessing myself on stuff. I know where it comes from but it's become so engrained in me that I want to undo that kind of behavior.

It's like I need confirmation from someone to validate a decision or belief on here, but I don't want to be in this mindset anymore.
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>>18487671
Your mother is the problem.
Don't talk to your cunt mother anymore.
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>>18487691

That is actually the problem.
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>>18487671
Sounds to me that you just need to experience more intense emotions. I remember that I was quite insecure about my life before I experienced my very first, debilitatingly severe panic attacks. After those, when I recovered slowly, it became easy for me to avoid second-guessing my desires and dreams.

Just do something you have never done before, OP. Easy for me to say, I know, but travel somewhere alone, treat it like a quest from a computer game, that you just need to complete it and analyse the details about it later. Just say to yourself "I am going to X museum in the X town and take the full tour and then go back home" or "I am going to X town and have a beer by myself, maybe make small talk with a stranger, then QUEST ACHIEVED and head back home".

Trust me OP. I am probably more mentally fucked up than you, and I found a perfect solution for myself.

Watch the youtuber called "Elliott Hulse" for motivation, he does some fitness-related stuff but he introduced me to this concept in the beginning. Good luck!

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I met a girl on the train a few days ago while traveling to Budapest who was a local and offered to show me around the city. It just felt like a date though. I wasn't scammed or robbed, it was just a night out. We haven't spoken since that night but im wondering if I should invite her out to something on my last night here. I really don't know what vibe she was giving me. I asked others if it's normal for a local to guide someone but they all said no.
Was she just being friendly or did she like me or what?
What do I do?
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>>18487629
Fuck her brains out and humiliate her.
Spit in her face after you're done.
If she's weird you gt rid of her and if she's a good girl you don't deserve her cause you're a faggot.

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How to get over fears? I want to become a fearless individual who can take risks and simply not care so much over little things in life. An individual confident in all areas of life. I think I may have developed a social fear as time has past when I used to be an outgoing individual. How can I go back?

How can I develop the fearless mentality to affirm life?
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>>18487602
You first learned to crawl then you learned to walk then run.
Take on little fears then bigger fears. You will build a fear resistance.
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>>18487602
Sometimes fear is necessary.
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>>18487612
Fear is always necessary. That not the problem, it's overcoming the fear people have a problem with.

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An OP wrote on here sometime ago about wether or not a girl is crazy because she doesn't have a "personality type", per se. Well, now I'm curious, because I know someone who's like that.

So, is the girl mentally unstable if she doesn't have a specific personality?
Examples:
>She says people scare her, but can have conversations with full-blown psychopaths.

>Says she's introverted and doesn't like parties, but will get shit-faced and be the life of one when she feels like it.

>Never has an opposing "side" or opinion on people. If you ask her how she feels about someone, she'll respond, but immediately second guess her own judgement. "Well, I get why she acts like that, so she's not all bad..."

>Switches from being immature (from college-student to a freshman at their first party), to a mother-gospel level of maturity.

>Says she hates small talk(prefers longer, deep conversations), but that's all she does. Actually, she makes small talk way less awkward than it has to be.

>She can get extremely goofy and immature, but as soon as someone asks some bizarre question like "what's the meaning of life?" She automatically goes into a serious mode.

(These are just small examples, I knew this girl for about half a year so it's all I really have)
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>>18487575
You basically described a normie girl. The typical "I'm not like the other girls" but is totally like the other girls. The most average and uninteresting and common type of girl.
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>>18487575
>girl mentally unstable
Betas get the broke ones.
Leave that hoe, life doesn't have to be hell.

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So my girlfriend's dad died when she was like 14. He was never a part of her life, yet she misses him to the point where it causes borderline personality disorder. I discovered that the emotions she suppresses are missing her father. It affects her sense of self worth.

Yes, daddy issues if you want to call it that, but this isn't about that.

I want to know what I can do or say to help relieve her of those suppressed emotions so she can prosper in life
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>>18487572
>borderline personality disorder
betas get the broken ones

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i have pic related vaio craptop,its old and overheats like a mofo,ill try and get the screwdrivers to be able to open it up and clean it,ill also format it, as of now i cant run shit, i tried running wc3 and the game stutters ,a 2004 game,if i do what i said above i should be able to easily play wc3 / old wow versions right? or is it maybe something else that makes it not run anything? is it possible for a pc to degrade that much to the point that it cant run those simple games? even with intergrated graphics?...

specs are i3 2310M 4gigs ram runs on w7 64 ...is this salvageable
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>>18487537
>unironically goes to the relationship advice board for tech related questions as opposed to the actual technology board
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>>18487537
All of the fans are on the botton. I've attached four small rectangular object to the bottom of my laptop so that air can freely circulate. It up about an inch off the surface of my desk.
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>i3

There's your problem

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I recently found out my girlfriend has been lying to me for a while about some stuff I can't mention. After knowing that, I feel like everything she says is disingenuine. I don't exactly have a group of friends I can talk to about this so anybody have some advice?
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>>18487530
>about some stuff I can't mention
It's an anonymous forum, m8. Tough to give advice without information. On a scale from "she secretly enjoys a TV show that I think is stupid" to "she's been fucking my best friend behind my back," how serious were the lies?
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>>18487530
If you don't confront her about this it will only get worse. RELATIONSHIPS BUILT ON LIES DONT WORK EVERRRRR. get some god damn self esteem and confidence and stand up for yourself. Because no one else will.
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>>18487530
>disingenuine.

no such word

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Hello /adv/ , i wanted to ask you if you think its okay or not to be a cam model behind your girlfriends back...

I've had a gf for over a year and a half and things got quite tough since she moved in with me, i had to quit my full time job since she was complaining that i dont spend enough time with her because she moved to another country to be with me, so now i got a part time job instead and the pay is not that good and i can really feel the financial pressure grinding my gears.

Before ive met her i used to be male cam model and a pretty succesful one, i told her about my past and she told me that she really doesnt want me to do it and i didnt do it since then.

I can easily make a few thousand dollars per month by cam modeling and it is really tempting and i can also easily come up with a way to do it so she will never know but the question is if its worth it or not?

If not what else could i do to help my situation?
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>>18487504

you're falling back on behavior patterns because you havent actually changed from that time of your life.

what are you doing right now thats making you shit with your finances?
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>>18487504
Wtf dump her. This has to be a bait thread

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Hi /adv/, I have a job interview in a few hours and need some advice.
You see, I have been looking for a job for a while now, it's not a life threatening thing but I want money for my studies.
I have been in some interviews the past months but I think I always fuck things up.
This one is for a small restaurant that's near home, it's more oriented to families rather than college outings or lonely middle-aged men.
I would like to work there, mostly for the money and being near home. So I need advice to win them in the interview and have them employ me.

>Pic unrelated
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small family businesses, especialy restaraunts, are looking for stability.

you should be too.

point out that you have that in common and sell yourself as a stable employee. foodservice has ridiculous high turnover rates.
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Demonstrate why they would want to hire someone like you.

I think the key is demonstrating reliability

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So I often get told I'm weird or creepy when I'm with girls or people in general. I've always had a hard time socializing and I'm trying to improve. What are some behaviors i have to watch out for and how can I come off as more relatable?
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I'm 20 and seen a few women. None of them are as virtuous as my ex or as I would like. It seems like they all loose it after 16 and I am not into younger women. They drink and get tattoos. I'm not really picky about looks the women I'm seeing are 3/10s I'm a 7/10 I am just looking for good Gal. How can I find one?
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