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does anyone else feel like they're two entirely different people? like depersonalization or something i don't know the word to describe it

i was genuinely in love with this girl, we had everything in common, she was perfect but she wasn't interested in dating anyone. i still like her a lot. but i frequently jerk off to her pictures, request "cock tributes" of her etc. I feel so fucking shitty about it, but it fills this lonely void somehow. I know that doesn't justify it...

if she ever does talk to me again, i won't be able to live with myself and will have to turn her down. i seriously don't deserve her

why am i like this anons? How do I change

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I start uni in two month and it's my last chance to travel. I can leave two week. Any of you have a recommendation where to go ? Backpack or hiking trip. On a thousand dollars budget

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Today I was at work (intern at software company) alone (my boss and coworkers are on a trip, it's a small company) and the reception girl who also doubles as in-building delivery girl (our building has multiple companies) came with a package for a guy who is lodged at our company's office but has his own company (he just works in the same office and shares the rent). So, she also came by yesterday and took the package back since this guy wasn't at work.

Today though, she dropped the package on his desk (a letter and a sealed box) and gave me a delivery ledger to sign in his stead. I don't know what fucking brainfart I had but I signed it - only to realize a few minutes later WTF I just did.

Now I'm back home, the company is locked down at nights (lately I've been the one to unlock it) but I'm afraid the package might disappear from his desk (where it was left, but not immediately visible from anywhere but his workplace) and I might just get my ass fucked hard because of this stupid mistake.

What should I do? How could I act in case something happened to the package? Or in case this guy comes back and is pissed at me?

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How do you tell a lifelong friend that you just dont want to hang out with them anymore?

I have a friend, ive been friends with her since kindergarten, but shes changed a lot as a person and evem though we have a similar sense of humor and have fun sometimes, we just dont have a lot in common anymore. She likes shit music that i want to turn off everytime i ride in the car with her. She isnt always funny and she hangs out with these really annoying people that i never wanted to be friends with.

I like her as a person, shes very nice and caring and ill help her out if shes in serious trouble, but i just dont have fun hanging out with her anymore. Shes changed.

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SORRY IF THIS IS THE WRONG BOARD:

-Trying to get out of work by lying to my boss
-Told boss I had a trip coming up
-Says I need to email an Itinerary and Hotel Reservation to HR before tomorrow
- I don't know if HR is actually going to call to confirm or if they'll just skim it and be done with it

HOW DO I DO THIS WITHOUT GETTING CAUGHT IN A LIE?

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I am speechles! Lifeless! I suck so bad demons dont answer! Im such a waste of life my family smiles without me wether im around or not! I am a worthless peace of trash. Dont use my opinion to put down the service. For I am the one that should be dead

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I have a math exam tomorrow tomorow morning and I've been doing periodical review, and upped the intensity in the past few days. I cannot concentrate whatsoever and I keep making small mistakes (like forgetting how to multiple 180*6). I've been diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder about a month ago and I'm afraid it may have something to do with this. I tried exercising for about 45 min and it did help me calm down, I just can't focus on these fucking problems, and to make me more on edge, I have an 88% in this class and I don't want to bomb this exam.

What do? Should I just stop studying and just try and relax? That alone makes me nervous.

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When I was in school I used to be depressed all the time, I was always made fun of how I look, I wasn't interested in relationships because of that, I was generally a sad person...but I always seemed happy to other people, made them laugh all the time, enjoyed people's company and enjoyed the laughing I was causing, I was generally a 'fun' person to have around, a lot of people told me that, I was always fun at parties when I would go and all that sort of thing.

Then I got older and things changed.

I don't look bad now, I actually put some effort now into looking better and healthier, made new friends in college I used to go to, party with them sometimes, I seem to have gotten out of that "hole" i was in and to some extent, made my life better.

Since college tho (I had to withdraw after 1st year) I've lost purpose, I keep trying to find things to do with my life but everything fails, the last time I did something was college (about 3 years ago) and since then its been mostly sitting at home, doing nothing, being alone, hanging out with college friends every few months (I had to move back home), trying to find something to do, I'm trying college again now so hopefully this time it'll work out but I feel like my life has been on pause for the last 3 years or so, I don't feel happy anymore like I used to in school, even despite all those things that happened back then I seemed happier than I am now.
I can't bring myself to entertain people anymore, I can't be funny as I used to be, I can't crack jokes, every time theres a window of opportunity I just feel like "...maybe another time" and never do it, I just can't bring myself to be that 'fun' person to have around again.

What happened? I feel like its still in me but I just can't get it out somehow. I really miss being the old me, even with all that shit from those times, I just seemed more confident and fun, now I seem miserable and its hard to be positive, I just want the old 'me' back, I want to be fun again...

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I'm in guy in high school, and I have a crush on this girl. She's a fucking mystery in a lot of people's eyes, because she's just so... chill. She can have a conversation with the most weirdest people, and completely not fazed or scared when she's talking to the 'school-shooter' types(you know, the ones actually talking about slitting people's throats open).
She's beautiful, she plays video games, you can have the deepest conversations with this girl and she doesn't judge you. At all. In my eyes, she's perfect.
But she's also weird, in a sense that I can't exactly describe her personality. She can be anything, really. She can be the sweetest person, or an unemotional bitch. Just depends on who she's talking to.

Some people say girls like that are psychotic, and have a SHIT ton of mental issues, but I'm not sure. We all have flaws, but this girl seems alright in my book. I don't want to get into a relationship with just some crazy- bitch, though.


What should I do, guys? Do any of you have experiences with these types of girls?

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I got a problem here

>Met a girl at my dorm
>She's a dancer, qt and cool as fuck
>We talk for a while, I get her snap
>We chat regularly on snap
>Like two days later I run into her again in the elevator
>We hang out and smoke a little pot
>Her friend comes down to meet her, we all talk for a bit
>I propose we go to my room and smoke some more
>We get super high and listen to her friends weird french music
>Eventually me and her start getting touchy, her friend kinda senses it and get right out

I should also mention I get super fucking talkative when I'm high. I'm usually a fairly quiet guy but when I smoke I start blabbing about art and philosophy and tons of nerdy shit, probably incomprehensibly. I was blathering on about Amadeus or something while I felt her up

>We have sex but she dosen't seem all that into it. She was stoned so I didn't really get why, I tried asking her, she kinda mumbled something about not wanting to be a hoe, but she also didn't really seem to care
>She cums but I don't, not because she was bad or anything I just have a shitty libido plus the weed
>She kinda rushes out after and we leave on a negative note
>This was yesterday, haven't spoken since

What the fuck do I do

Part of me thinks it might be her, she's upset about herself, but I'm more afraid I might've creeped her out cause I was high as fuck

I know i kinda rushed into sex but I don't want her to think I'm just there for her pussy

Also I left one of her Snapchat messages on read cause we ran into eachother when I was about to reply. I know I sounds petty but should I reply or try to talk to her in person

Thanks for any help guys. I don't usually post on /adv/ but I could really use some help here

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i am not scared to die is this because i'm senile, if so can someone explain what may be going on in my head

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Anyone have any tips for being a receptionist? I start training at a small office tomorrow and I'm worried about knowing when to transfer calls and take messages. I also have to know when to unlock the door (intercom systerms) and deal with sales calls. I am just all around nervous.

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So I'm a 21yo basically k/v as it's been so long. Very likely going to be having sex with a girl I've been seeing this weekend. Would rather it not be blatently obvious how inexpeerienced I am. Just so I don't autist out what are some examples of things I shouldn't do which maybe you or someone you knew did on their first times which I should steer clear of?

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I want to get a Master's degree and become a counselor. Should I go for a MSW or a Masters in Counseling? My main population of interest is children and adolescents if that makes a difference.