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In between semesters of college and an internship position I applied for didn't end up working.

Any kind of places out there that would accept work for only about a month besides just a fast food cashier or something? I'm in my senior year in accounting, have a pretty decent gpa, fraternity leadership experience and have had a number of jobs in the past. I'm a golf caddy on the weekends, so mostly just interested in getting myself back into a structured schedule for the sake of my mental health.

Google has only given me 6-month contract work and similar stuff.
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>>18486719
Generally speaking:
New hires take time from staff working similar jobs and also time from the accounting dpt and management and such.

Basically, companies try to or even MUST avoid hiring for such short periods, and the few that do usually are for the simplest jobs low-paid jobs like fast food cashier or store aid or such only.

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There's this girl that use to hit me up all the time to hang. She stop inviting me to anything after she had way to much to drink at a friend grathering and I had to leave early.

Recently she unfollowed me on every social platform. In the past she would drunk call or text me when she was heading back to our dorm hall to hang/smoke. She always keeps her distance and she isn't the shy type.

I barely have any friends because of my depression. I really can't afford to lose any friends. I could ask her to hangout but the last time I did I feel like she was only using me for the free weed.
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>>18486711
> I did I feel like she was only using me for the free weed.
Well, so you don't lose any friend.
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>>18486715
Now how to deal with the extreme loneliness and depression. Kinda hard to find new friends at this point in time.
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>>18486762
Join a table top group. Mostly young lonely guys which go there for a hobby and company.

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Feeling no Greif
I'm at a funeral of a person who was very close to me. I don't feel like crying/grief.

I never cry at funerals at all, is this normal?
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>>18486694

yes. there are tons of people who do not cry at funerals. people process grief in different ways, and for a lot of people they dont begin to process it until long after the funeral. others dont experience it the way others do, the intense longing. some people are simply able to cope with the reality in front of them.
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>>18486694
It sometimes takes a while for things to sink in. I once broke up with a gf and didn't feel anything from it for months.
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Yes it is normal

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Why do I wake up with sore/tender muscles after sleeping in for an hour longer than usual?

I don't feel this way after sleeping my regular time

I don't really exercise if it helps
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You're muscles need movement or they will feel sore.

Get out and do something.
Go an hour long walk everyday and do some daily calisthenics. You'll feel better.
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Could quite possibly just be dehydration. Especially since it is summer.

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Well, I just found out I want to take a completely different path in life than what's recently been unfolded to me, I can easily move up in this company I'm working for now because I'm tech-savy but I just got to the middle part of the Biology of belief and think I'd rather get into the sciences, what should I do?
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>>18486645
Depends on your age and relationship status. Young and unmarried? Take risks, the experience is worth more than a stable career at 20.
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>>18486645
Sooner or later you will feel the same way about sciences to. There are no jobs in the world you cream yourself over every morning. Just have some job and find meaning to life somewhere else.

19M, haven't bothered to get a gf/ask a girl out before but there's a cute cashier that works at the supermarket I live right by. I assume it would be pretty weird to just ask her if she wants to do something next time I see her - seeing as how I don't really know her personally.

What do?
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>>18486612
talk more to her, flirt more, smile and see what happens. don't go stalky on her though, but engage and be nice. you'll see quick enough if there's a chance there if she responds in kind.

then you can giver her your number/ask for hers sometime.
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Be extremely blunt and straightforward. Walk up to her and say "I find you attractive. Would you like to grab some coffee when you get off work?"
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>>18486612
Pay her a compliment and gage her reaction. Pick out a quality about her and say "has anyone ever told you x" or "I'm sure you hear this all the time but you have really nice x". Eyes, hair, dimples, whatever. Nothing sexual. If she acts like it's weird back off. If she gets shy or blushes ask her out. "listen, would you want to get coffee sometime?"

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alright guys, i need help with interview.
my previous job is a programmer job.
but i had unemployed for a year already.

currently, i found a job as cut fruit assistant.
if i'm asked why would i apply for that job,
or that i was an office worker, this job is not suitable for me,
or etc.

how should i answer?
this also applies to other jobs which is not my profession.
I don't want the employer to think that i'm just gonna work for awhile, and then leave when there's better opportunity, which is true.
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>>18486599
It's as easy as showing up, looking him in the eye, standing up nice and tall, addressing him as 'Sir,' giving him a nice, firm handshake, and telling him you want the job.

There's nothing to it.
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Tell him you''re sick of the office environment and wish to work more with your body, and that you like fruit so you thought this position was perfect for you.
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>>18486599
>i found a job as cut fruit assistant
>cut fruit assistant
>cut fruit
>assistant
nigga what?

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> Scored 8.5/10 girlie
> both sets parents wholefully approve of us
> still stuck at home as a NEET
> only thing going for me is in-the-nick-of-time charisma and endless loyalty
I'm honestly afraid of losing her before I can truly open up, can some of y'all point me?

P.s something just slammed and all family is sleeping, send help
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Have you slept with her? How long have you known her? Are you guys official ?
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Get a job

You have more worth if you are not a NEET sponging off your parents.

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Tinder veterans give me your best advice to increase pull game. I look half decent in my pics but I don't get much matches besides from whales I accidentally swiped right on.
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Can't be sure it isn't the pics unless you post them. Sometimes it's less the attractiveness and more the types of pictures you put and in what order.

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So can anyone guide me on using a mawanella type beat or something along those lines where I can spread a youtube link, for everyones VIEWING PLEASURE.

Videos not monetized, it's not for personal gain.
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>>18486540
Don't .. dunno where you live, but that shit means doing time in some places if found .. and you will be.

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Ive been very bored with my life recently and am seeking to occupy myself. I can no longer play video games as im bored of them and i wish to keep playing games because its fun, or it was how do i respark my passion for video games?
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>>18486517
>head tells you videogames are the answer
>videogames are the answer though!

making me think underageb&

A grill on online dating keeps not fully answering questions, or avoiding some. She keeps replying though even like today on July 4th, 68 messages between us over a week and a half. She's a real reader and spends time at libraries, I think she's shy.

Normalfags please advise on how to proceed.
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Pls respond
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Depending on the questions, she's likely hiding things she isn't comfortable with sharing. Even though you guys have been talking, you're still basically a stranger to her so it will take a while before she will open up to you. If she really is the shy type, she might just be too afraid of you possibly judging her. Whatever you do, don't badger her into sharing anything she doesn't want to share and just keep things relaxed.
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>>18486529
Like when I asked her if she had any questions for me, she was totally thrown. She was like are there questions you could ask me then I ask you them too.

Like the fuck?

She didn't answer about meeting up this weekend when we rescheduled, also because she said she usually takes more time to talk to people is what I took into account,and again about her fanfiction she writes. I suppose it could be smut so I'd understand her being shy about that. Other things too though.

Ech.

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Flockmod wants adobe flash player but I do. What should I do?
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Parents own a cat, fat, and seems depressed, also only seems to want food. Every night i see that cat waiting in the kitchen for its next meal in the morning. I want to feed the cat as much as she wants so she can live happy and freely, but my parents wont allow it as they want her to loose weight. She never gets enough attention either partly do to her always wanting food and never playing and combined with everyone working during days. Right now it seems like we arnt the best owners for the cat. What should I do?
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>>18486454
What are they feeding her? Read the label. Is there grain in it? Carbs that the cat, being a carnivore, doesn't need? Some cat foods now even have sugar in them.

The bad nutrition (and artificial flavors) in modern cat foods makes them want to eat more and more. Their bodies know they're not getting the right nutrition, so they eat and eat more empty calories.

If you really want to do something for the cat that will also meet your parents' goal of helping the cat lose weight, research making your own homemade cat food, or else research which store-bought foods are healthiest for the cat (high protein, low carbs).

I had some neighbors with a morbidly obese cat too big to groom himself; they began making their own food for him (mostly canned tuna), and he lost the weight and became healthy and much happier again. You could be doing that cat the best favor anyone ever has by taking charge of his nutrition.

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Guys I need help I'm pannicking I wrote this on a thread so copy paste pasta
The nice lady told me she'd call me monday for a follow up on my background check. Mind u i have nothing on record so no worries. Well she hasn't called its tuesday. She was on vacation till sunday. I'm gettint scared guys. I need this job.
I know she got it because the website she used to get it said its ready to be viewed. I'm scared she'll give the job to someone else. Its starbucks btw. The interview went great. She told me to sign things and get a background check. I'm really worried. I called monday and today. She wasn't "available." I'm calling again tomorrow again since an employee said "she is only available 4:30 to 10 am. What do I do? Idk if anons remember me Starbucks guy been waiting a week.
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>>18486445
Bump
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Jesus stop overreacting its just late as usual. Background checks aren't a pain in the ass to do and get. Just go ask her again tomorrow.

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