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hey /adv/, I was wondering if one of you may know how to access to private photos and videos of an instagram account, without following the person
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Why do we get so many threads asking this same thing? Is it always you, OP?
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Sure, but I will never ever do something like this for you in any universe ;)
google it yourself, learn, and do it.
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>>18487409
nah first time posting here
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My sister has apparently cut me out of her life because she thinks our relationship is "too broken". We've been best friends our whole lives, and literally nothing she said makes sense to our circumstances. She won't talk to me or respond to any emails now. She freakin iced me out completely and the way she's handled it, I'm literally questioning my entire history, my entire life, my fuckin sanity. I still cant' believe she's actually done this to me. But apparently she's able to move on, and she even told me that my contacting her to figure out wtf is going on was me violating boundaries because she said she just 'couldn't deal' with me anymore.
How the flying fuck do people make good friendships. I don't have a clue anymore and I'm completely alone. And I have bad social anxiety. I can't believe I'm actually struggling with suicide again after all these years, but I guess I just never imagined she would betray me so much. It's like she's died, except instead of dying she's just out of my life and she apparently doesn't care about our relationship enough to just listen to me.
Any advice on grounding yourself when you're entire world has shattered, or making friends or something. I'm so thrown I have no idea wtf to do.
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>>18487295
Ground yourself to yourself take comfort that there is always hope. Take some deep breaths and tell yourself you can do it.
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>>18487295
Well, it's possible that someone told her something extremely negative about you, and she's chosen to believe it.
Or she may just be bullshitting some trivial thing because you're extremely difficult to deal with and she's decided that she just doesn't want to do it anymore.
Or maybe you really did something pretty terrible to her, but you're so self-involved and incapable of reflecting on how your behavior affects others, you can't see it.
Or there might be something else.
No one here knows you, no one here knows the situation.
You might want to think about talking to the people who are close to you to see what they have to say. Parents still alive? Or any other relatives or guardians who know you well available? If not, you might want to think about talking to a mental health councilor of some sort.
If you're "struggling with suicide again", it suggests you really need help with your thinking that is well beyond suggestions that people here can give you. Again, you should think about talking to a mental health councilor of some sort.
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>>18487295
"I'm very sorry you feel that way, because I honestly do not know why you do. I will respect your decision while hoping you will someday change your mind and contact me again"
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Ask a stupid question....
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Greetings, my good people. I have a conundrum on my plate, and so I come to you, hat in hand for ideas.
My dumb, normie wife is frustrated with the real estate situation in Metro DC, and so she has suggested that we leave and spend 6 months working abroad. I have never heard of this.
So my question is this: Where should I suggest going? I don't want to die via Truck of Peace, or wind up with her getting culturally enriched. I'd also like to avoid areas that are totally cucked out, but I am willing to suffer if need be.
Where should I go?
(Valid answers also include 'This is a fool's errand, no company will hire on a 6 month basis across international borders.'
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You could also try house-sitting in the Metro area for shorter or 6 months. You can still work where you work now, house-sit, get payed for that and in the meantime have a roof over your head while you sort out places to live outside of the area but close to work.
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>dumb normie wife
>worried about her getting "culturally enriched"
ok first, you divorce ya wife
what should i do, i work on a 0 hour contract where the managers are bullies and its ruining my mental and physical health but if you leave i will have 0 income and make life for my family alot harder? also will be unable to claim universal credits since i voluntarily left
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>>18487191
Zero hour contract means lots of free time/ Use it to job hunt. Quit when you find a better job.
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>>18487255
i have been searching every day since last august i cant find anything
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Is it weird to have an irrational fear of getting tracked
I got in an argument online, and it got sorta bad. So I deleted my account because I use the same username everywhere.I doubt they'd go to the trouble of tracking me but its happened before.
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>>18487187
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLqMpnc54j8&t=15s
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>>18487187
Chill bruh. Most people talking shit are 90% of the time keyboard warriors. Probably nothing will happen.
Unless it's the other 10% of the spectrum. Then you are fucked.
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What was the argument about?
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I'm clinically depressed. For the most part, my main symptoms (Apathy/Anhedonia) leave me functional, but every once in a while at the slightest thing, my entire day falls apart and I can barely even continue working. For an example, I tried very hard yesterday to make work pleasant: I got up early, exercised, ate a healthy meal, showered, and even helped some stoic literature to help me get by. Despite this, it all collapsed when a coworker asked me something and I spewed out a bunch of gobbledygook because I was busy and not paying attention. I felt like a fool for trying to be a stoic personality when at heart I feel I'm clumsy, manic, anxious, and unsure to the point that any stoic traits I try to adopt would really only be a shallow mask on my actual self. And from there, my mood went through the floor.
Is there anything I can do to prevent these moments? As far as I can tell, I did everything right yesterday, and that wasn't in my control at all, but I'd like to hear what you have to say.
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>>18487172
People get depressed because they feel like they have no control. Do something that's makes you feel incontrol.
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>>18487297
Control is a part of the issue, but how am I meant to feel in control when I know as a fact that I don't control anything? My superiors regulate everything, and my mother holds all the power in the house. I don't even have freedom over my own actions due to Depression. I'm completely weak.
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>tfw I feel the need to go to a psychiatrist but don't have any suicidal thoughts at the moment
Why do I feel so bad about this?
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what? you're making excuses, just go
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>>18487091
I just feel like a psychiatrist would diagnose any person that ended up at their office and that makes me feel like just a bitch who can't handle normal adult life problems. I don't know what I am supposed to tell him or her.
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>>18487110
congratulations, you have an anxiety disorder. Medication is relatively cheap in the 1st world.
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My worst fear is this. Tonight I have a patient I know I won't be able to get blood from, as everyone else barely got anything on other shifts. I'm the senior nurse but I'm still so new. There are only 2 other nurses and they are newer than me. I'm terrified.
My anxiety is so bad it's doing that "death would be a better feeling right now" bullshit and I can breathe.
Then 5 admits are coming in.
I'm going to explode.
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>>18487051
people being upset has nothing to do with you personally, try not to internalize it.
Pretend to be an angry black woman.
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What chance do I have as a 24 year old graduate of studying in the US?
I have a bit of work experience and a bit of money saved up, but US universities are very expensive and apparently international students rarely get scholarships. How can I pull this off?
Also the course id like to attend (BS in engineering, master in aerospace) has a lot of competition and I'm pretty average academically.
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>>18486899
>How can I pull this off?
Have very rich parents/win the lottery.
I have no idea why you'd actually want to do this btw.
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>>18486911
I really dislike my degree and feel like even after all my education I still don't know anything. America has the best education in the world and a good degree from a good US university sets you up for life.
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>>18486939
>America has the best education in the world and a good degree from a good US university sets you up for life.
Everyone who isn't from the US thinks this. Plus you're assuming that you'll get into and be able to afford a good university, which you probably won't because you're average academically.
Why not just stay where you are and get a degree you like there?
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So lately I've been feeling that most of my highschool and college friends are now "too busy" to hang out anymore years after entering the corporate world, they won't even do as simple as giving back replies to my greetings on messenger.
Is this natural? Am I supposed to lose some of my best buds over time? Maybe it's because I used to be such a piece of shit introvert during my school days?
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>>18486843
The sad truth is friends don't last once you become an adult.
Even friends you make in adulthood don't last. Something will always get in the way, whether it be a job, a family, or something else, and you'll drift, de facto dropped.
You want someone to enjoy spending time with, get a spouse. It's the only option.
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>>18486849
God fucking damn that's depressing as fuck. I was never good at making friends to begin with and they were the only friends I had in my life.
Shit I guess it's time for me to stop moping around and move on.
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I'm leaving the country the 20th and I will very likely be gone for an entire month. My gym membership runs out tomorrow or Friday (6th or 7th). What should I do? I still have about 13 days left before I go, should I pay for another month knowing I will only be able to use half of it? It is €24,- a month, I go lifting 3 times a week and follow kickboxing there 2 times a week.
I could make do with the homegym I have, but I only have dumbbells and kettlebells. So I could barely do enough for maintenance when it comes to my lower body at home (female so have to focus on lower body more). I also could potentially find a place to do free bag training.
I'm a bit tight on cash btw.
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>>18486800
> €24 / 2
Not even worth bothering to cancel & resubscribe or anything.
Better do it with your telephone / internet contract or whatever else you spend money on.
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>>18486818
Don't have any other contracts I spend money on every month.
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>>18486818
I also don't have a yearly contract, it's going to automatically end tomorrow/Friday unless I pay again cash.
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So I got fired because I started a fight and I wanted to write a thank you/ apology letter to my old boss how should I go about this?
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Don't bother write yourself a poem instead about the clouds or something
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>>18486780
That's as worthless as talking a dead man to life.
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>>18486780
"Dear Boss. I understand completely your reasons for firing me, and I very much regret the behavior that made your action necessary. I do want to thank you for giving me the opportunity that I so badly misused, and for the many things I learned on the job. If I do better in my next job, it will be largely for the lessons I learned here"
Yes, it's grovelling. But you deserve to grovel, and this might mean the chance of a decent reference from him.
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My mom is very unhealthy. She's 61 because she had me late--though her parents are both still alive. I'm afraid and depressed for her.
I am trying to pursue my own dream while attending college, but it's hard to not feel guilt for not working instead or doing something that'd guarantee a huge paycheck. I feel as if I should just ship myself off to the Air Force or something after school...for her sake.
She is unhealthy in several ways; emotionally, physically, and mentally. Sure, she has her age working against her, but the thing is that her parents are much more energetic/lively than her (note: she's kind of the outcast from her family). It does help that both actually eat healthy and seem to get a proper workout. She? Not so much. Her diet is piss poor and occasionally doing yard work is enough for her. In fact--she considered that standing outside for the fireworks was moving around enough.
In the old days she used to play video games alongside us, her children. Sure, call it stupid, but I really enjoyed it and I found it nice that she found such a form of escapism.
And...for months, perhaps even years, she has said that she wanted to get back into it, but even if she keeps on buying games, she never gets around to playing them. Although it's trivial, I can't help seeing it as sad. And she told me that the reason why she hasn't picked up a game is that she'd become too absorbed in it, that she'd forget all the other things she'd need to do. I hate saying this but she doesn't actually have that much to do. She just watches tv.
She's been exceptionally tired these past few days and just laying around sometimes. She's overheating even during the night when the temperature's low. Just moving the dog off the couch overwhelms her to frustration. I have to go back to college in two months, but I have no idea if I can handle worrying about her. I don't know how to help her or if it's just out of my hands.
Please, /adv/, help me.
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Buy her a box of chocolates
Give her a cuddle
Tell her you're worried
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>>18486769
this
Why did she have you so late?
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>>18486817
I'm basically the last child she had--probably an accident.
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How the fuck do you french kiss? I was french kissing a girl and I had no idea what to do with my tongue during the entire time. I was literally spaghetti when it was happening. Any tips?
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>>18486756
>kissed a girl
Nobody believes you, OP.
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>>18486756
You essentially playfully lick all the places you want to lick, while she does the same. Or you can just let her go at it for a moment.
Mostly the same as foreplay in general, really. Various touching.
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>>18486756
DO NOT jam your tongue into her mouth. Just slip it out enough to lick her lips while you kiss.
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No sexuality. Feel very alienated.
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What's up /adv/isers,
I haven't had sex in 2 years.
The last time I had it was with my ex girlfriend. She's the only person I've ever had sex with. At the beginning of my relationship with her I had a really hard time getting an erection so we didn't have sex until about 6 months into our relationship. There was a vicious cycle of anxiety around not being able to get hard.
I think there is still a lingering anxiety about this that makes me afraid of intimacy with people. But at the same time I don't feel very attracted to many people. I'm not sure if this is just an excuse I've made for myself to validate my sexual inactivity.
Another problem is I've had a very difficult time getting over this ex. I still think about her a lot and I feel very different from other people who seem to be able to move on quickly. I still find her really attractive and masturbate to the thought of her which I think is counterproductive.
I feel like I have some kind of condition where I can't get into other girls. It's like I don't think anyone's good enough and I lose interest really quickly and only really want to have sex with my ex...
fuck. long post.
TLDR: Can't get over ex, sexually. Don't have the drive or the interest to have sex with/see other people. I have anxiety around sex.
Can someone diagnose this?
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>>18486744
As far as I can tell there is nothing special about not being over your ex.
Your erection problem is however not quite normal - maybe go see a doctor about that.
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idk I was over my ex the day after I kicked her the fuck out. helps if your ex was a massive bitch that ruined just about every facet of your life.
get over it. stop being anxious about sex. do you suck at it? what's the deal?
as for not being able to get hard idk man, I've never had that problem. I've had problems with staying hard recently cause jacking off is just like whats the fucking point anymore and I was diamonds for this one girl but that didn't pan out and now it's like my dick is depressed idfk.
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>>18486744
Focus on yourself before focusing on others. Get into porn and masturbation. Establish to yourself what you do and do not like, and go from there.