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any adhd/add here?
or anyone with anxiety at least

ive been prescribed ritalin and it fun and all but I get anxious and it sucks

I had a strong social anxiety throughout my teens and it went away with ssri's (wich im not taking anymore)
it usually comes back when im depressed or when I do weed for the first time in a while

also how do you sleep when on meds? sometimes I need to re dose late for some activity but then when im in bed I cant sleep for shit
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look into strattera
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I have adhd I'm taking adderal xr 20ng... All it does is sap my hunger abd make me feel anxious. I hate it and it's not working I can't focus

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Dumb question time. .do employment agencies/temp agencies give you a reference if you've been with them for a while?
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>>18489164
Depends on the place, you should phone them and ask

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Quick random question.

About a month ago, I took a ride down a cashless toll in a tunnel. Basically if you don't have EZ pass, they mail you a bill for the toll. They take pictures of everbody's plate, check the registered address, send bill.

I'm yet to receive the bill. Anyone know how long it takes?
Checked the site and no help. NYC if that is more info.

Only reason I'm worried is i dont want to get a penalty for unpaid toll somewhere down the road. Like a $100 penalty when the toll itself was like 5 bucks.
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>>18489155
1. Find relevant department
2. Email or phone department
3. ???
4. Profit

Don't if the correct section but, i desperately need someone who can get the password of a gmail account, this guy is messing aroung with our company and they asked me to basically hack his account, i would be better if we can algo know the user or something, so, anyone know something that can help, the company is kinda big, but i can't say the name. Thanks
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Have you taken his feelings into account, anon? I think you need to take a step back here, reflect on why empathy is important in situations like these, and ask yourself if that password is what you need or the trust and love that you might be giving up for the chance of a moment of what you imagine will be clarity.
Also, anon, I think you might be a bit insecure. Have you worked on self-affirmation lately?
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>>18489114
I may have been born at night, but it wasn't last night. If you can't make up a better story than this, you don't deserve a response.
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>>18489114
Try a tech board?

How do you make 10,000 dollars in a month? /PS: don't suggest cricket farming and/or prostitution./
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Is it normal to become exceptionally sad when you see other people happy?
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No it only occurs when you yourself aren't happy and become triggered when you see normal people going about theit lives. Sounds like depression.if you continue to think this way it is destructive. Just focus on you and not what other people do. People are happy/content with their lives should not affect you.
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>>18489074
Nope. Even when I'm really sad, seeing other people being happy (especially kids) cheers me up.

Try not to live your life as a contest in comparing yourself to other people and being upset that someone else has something that you want.

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I am 24 years old with no social connections, khv, no friends, no work experience and my only support is my overworked father, a debt-free associate's degree in accounting and a driver's permit (no car of my own). I have repeatedly failed to make friends or get hired (volunteer work or actual job) for 5 successive years. I do not have income of my own, as my dad earns "too much money" for me to apply for neetbux. What I would like to know is what my best course of action should be. Networking has yielded no results, so I'm wondering what my alternatives are. I know that I need to find work to solve nearly all of these problems but my problems are in the barriers to entry. I cannot even get a mcjob. I would appreciate any feedback.
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Where do you live?
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>>18489019
"Champ, I'm happy you've decided to take the initiative. Now let's take it a step further. It's only a matter of showing up, speaking with the manager, giving him a firm handshake, and telling him you want the job. How hard could it be?"
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Gain some more skills
Look up what most jobs require and learn he skills for them

Since at least 30% of the threads here revolve around the use of Tinder, I have to ask: how does one get a date if he runs GNU/Linux on his dinosaur laptop and on the occasions that he has a phone hates it for being a tracking device?
Pic related I wouldn't wear on a date but I do like it.
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>>18489016

either give up or give in.

if you want to use tinder, play by its rules. you can't stop it from tracking you. you can look around for some sort of emulator that will run it but they're difficult to use and kinda defeat the purpose of it.
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>>18489016
Two options off the top of my head:
1) Get a date without the use of apps, like meeting people at some organized local event
2) Try other competitors (sort by # users or alexa rank to gauge popularity):
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comparison_of_online_dating_websites
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>>18489016
>Since at least 30% of the threads here
All the threads here are asking for advice because of epic relationship disasters, inhuman levels of autism, and life choices that make Greek tragedy look like a how-to manual for upright citizens.
Why exactly do you want to join that 30% again?

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My stuttering is getting worse and worse...I don't know what to do. I started with extreme climbing on chimneys, skyscrapers. I am in big depression nowadays, I just like the moments when the death is smilling to me
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Are you using the climbing as a way to deal with speech stuttering? I had never heard of doing so before now, but googling it returned some actually interesting stuff. What more can you tell us about your history of stuttering and/or climbing?
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Try to learn how to take pauses while speaking. Being patient with yourself as you try to enunciate each word slowly. Practice with yourself lip syncing, anything to make words fun again. Don't hang up on the real words, you want to just go through the motion of speaking. I used to stutter a lot but liked to sing so I spent years exercising those muscles and suddenly I could rap. So speaking is a lot easier now, and when I do stutter I try to make a reason for it, explain further on where you're going with what you're trying to say. Once you stutter an opportunity opens up to really examine the word choices and possibilities you can work into it and shorten the sentence. Good luck anon! No one really likes speeches anyways, learning to shorten what you want to say will help.

Hi everyone, I need some advice.
I fell in love with an extremely private, closed off kind of guy last winter. We hit it off immediately, he fascinated me and I felt everything for him. It was a long distance thing, we live two hours from each other which is nothing in the grand scheme of things. He was always hesitant to see me, every time after spending time together, you could tell it was just too much for him. I felt further and further away from a committed relationship with him. I decided to move away to see if I could start my life elsewhere. He was upset about it and rightfully so but we still skyped all day everyday. We kept in contact until I returned a couple months later, completely broken about my failure to find a job or progress in my life. I really thought we would go somewhere but again he wasn't interested in pursuing further. I just couldn't understand how somebody I felt this connection with couldn't want me. He kept encouraging me to date other people and not to hold out for him. At first, I rejected the idea but I ended up dating a couple people casually when we would go on our many breaks. He always said "do whatever, just don't tell me about it." I kept a lot of my experiences to myself, I didn't want him to know that I was dating other people but holding on to hope that he would one day want to be with me. It finally came out full force during an argument in late April. I told him everything, I told him that I was sick of waiting around for something that was never going to happen. He lost it. He blocked me, and according to emails sent anonymously from his "friend," he prefers to pretend I don't exist.
I'm trying to pretend he doesn't exist either but it still hurts because I think of him. It's been over two months of no contact but I still wake up in the middle of the night and hope he's on the other end of the phone.
How do I get over this? I feel terrible, I just want to get better.
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>>18488997
youre a guy and he's straight. get used to it
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>>18489025
This.

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Which ice cream flavor do I buy? And is Haagan Dasz really worth it?
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I like Haagen dad because they have a high quality green tea flavor.

Other then that I fucking love Ben and Jerry's. (Phish food and Americone Dream are the best flavors imo)
B&J's has a lot of sugar though so it's a sinful treat- but I eat healthy on all other fronts so I allow it.
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>>18488975

for me im usually not a fan of the ice cream itself so much as the good stuff inside of it, ben and jerries is good cuz they tend to have a lot of cookie dough or phish food or other such flavors where really the ice cream is like 50% other junk.

recently i started eating tollhouse ice cream sandiwches. really soft cookies are used, almost like cookie dough, with some ice cream in the middle. it helps me with portion control and gives me what i really want.

when i legit want ice cream im fine iwth just a vanilla cone from mc donalds. love me that soft serve.

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Hey, me and my mother are getting kicked out by her husband, we have little money, I don't want to go with her because she makes me feel guilty as fuck and I'm tired of always feeling like that

I'm in Europe now, I might have the option to move to Canada by myself to work and keep making music, problem is, I have a desktop PC, 5 electric guitars, 1 bass guitar, studio monitors, screen, and a ton of studio equipment and guitar stuff, how the fuck do I move that across the ocean without fucking breaking everything? Note that I have no hard cases for any of the instuments nor I have the money to buy them.
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So I have a friend. Well, kind of a friend.

Basically, we met during freshmen year of college and were best friends of sort. We did literally anything together and it was a pretty good time. But then he decided to drop out of regular college (can't blame him, I kept telling him it wasn't for him etc) and moved to a different city and went to trade school. During this time, he started actively ignoring my messages, even if it was obvious he wasn't going out (I could see on Discord or whatever he was playing videogames) so it became apparent he either forgot me, was actively ignoring me, or replaced me. I was kind of salty over this but eventually I got over it and haven't really thought about him.

Just recently though, he messaged me asking if I wanted to hang out because he came back home during break.

I'm conflicted on how to handle this situation, because on one hand, sure I'd like to, but on the other I can't forget the fact he literally ignored every attempt at trying to talk to him for a good six months, so it feels awkward on my end.

Part of me thinks he might just be using me to avoid boredom while at home. To my knowledge I was his only friend while he lived here, so, forgive me for being a little paranoid about that.

So I guess my question is, should I even bother responding at this point? Should I just be confrontational about it? Or should I act like the past six months of silence were nothing?

A part of me wants to go full confrontational but I'm not sure it's worth the stress desu
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Just hang out with him. I think the only reason to confront is if he's a dick in person
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Maybe he just gave up on socializing for awhile or doesn't believe in talking to people who aren't directly in front of him. It's rare but there exist people who only socialize in person, not online.

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10 years ago I had an idea about a device that can change how malls and supermarkets work.

Unlike me,they are experts in electronics in many fields of science.

They refused to take me seriously.

A few years ago they changed their minds and went for it.

Prototype works!

NOW THEY WANT ME TO BECOME A GENERAL MANAGER FOR THIS!

I'm very surprised because they considered me as a family "black sheep".
As a crazy failure in life...

What are they trying to pull?

I'm starting to question my sanity.

Any advice?
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>>18488949
Be sure to patent/copyright your idea, and take the job.

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been dating girlfriend for about 3 months now, I'll have to move a bit further away from where I'm now and will only be able to see her on the weekends.

I'm not worried because we'll still see each other pretty often, but I was wondering if anyone had any tips on making sure the relationship keeps going well. Mainly, is this more likely to have a positive or a negative effect? What should I keep in mind when we communicate throughout mon - fri?
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>on the weekends
That's pretty normal for two adults who, you know, have lives.
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>>18488914
True, we're still pretty young though, I'm 21 and she's 19. I'm probably worrying about nothing since this was likely to happen anyway when classes started again.

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