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All i want to do is play video games. I have no desire for a girlfriend or to hang out with friends, traveling and any kind of hobby that isnt a video game doesnt interest me in the slightest.
My honest to god dream is to live in a small little apartment and play games all day maybe go to tournaments etc. I graduated highschool last year and live with my parents working 1 or 2 days a week just so they dont kick me out, im accepted into university this september but it was literally just so my parents would get off my back about finding a full time job.
The last year of no obligations other than 1 or 2 days of 5 hour shifts has been the happiest iv ever been and i dont want it to stop. What do i do.
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>>18490483
Maybe quiting videogames (for a period) is the best option. You sound addicted.
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>>18490483
continue being happy? why get a gf/friends if u don't need/want them
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>>18490489
I realise its probably unhealthy to continue but its really the only thing that makes me happy right now. Even if i did quit cold turkey i have no clue what i would do.
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It's been 10 months and I still can't get over him. He unread my message with double grey ticks in Whatsapp.(He read it 3 months later which shown blue ticks now) Everything was fine before the day he left. Idk what's wrong and should I find him again? If yes,what should I say to him?
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>>18490386
He found better girl. Or you simply wasnt good enough for him. Finding ANY INFORMATION about him will hurt you more.
Block and delete evrything what reminds him. His phone number, photos, old conversations, gift, EVERYTHING HAS TO GO.
>out of sight out of mind
Dont talk, think, see anything with him ever again. He stopped existing.
It will get better, but only when you stop thinking about him.
Now go and play csgo.
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On a bus bound to meet my girlfriend. I should probably break up with her when I arrive, but I really don't want to. How do I increase my resolve?
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I cannot figure out if my stomach hurting is because I'm hungry, or I have anxiety. I always assume it's anxiety and just starve for days. It's becoming a habit now.
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>>18490363
u weigh a lot ?
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>>18490363
>starve for days
how about just take the middle ground and schedule regular meals with healthy amounts of calories and nutrition. make sure you eat at least 1000 calories a day, but if you are trying to lose weight, eat at most 1500.
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>>18490744
fasting for a couple days occasionally is not bad for you, but you need to be smart about your dieting before and after to do it right
my little brother is playing video games all day (next to my room) and making a lot of noise while he's playing (chatting with other people online) I can't focus on anything because of it . I told him to shut the fuck up but he ignores my request.I literally want to kill him. what should I do?
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>>18490356
You need to be 18 or over to be here anon.
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how is this related to anything>>18490359
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>>18490371
Because it's such an inane and stupid problem.
Just dob on him to mummy and fuck off out of here you cunt.
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Hi, at about 2 am today I was at my computer and heard a really loud ass car outside driving around my cul-de-sac.
Normally when I hear a car in my neighborhood this late it's one of the neighbors and their car sounds like a smooth cruise but this van was going hella fast into my cul-de-sac, so when I heard the loud ass noise I looked out my window, saw it momentarily stopped in the middle of my cul-de-sac, then peel the fuck out.
2 mins later I hear it zooming by the street next to my cul-de-sac, then it stops and turns around and zooms right back from where it came from. And I know it's the same car cause its engine was making the same noise it did when it fukin sanic'd into my cul-de-sac.
I also saw this van a few months back where it also did the same shit and was going hella fast around the neighborhood.
So the van is white, windowless besides the front, no logos or words on the van, couldnt see license plate or model cause it was going too speedy and its too dark to see it at 2am.
Told my family about it and they said it could have been a newspaper delivery van, but I think it was going too fast and it didn't make any stops to throw newspaper at ANY of the houses. The only stop it made was in the dead center of my cul-de-sac for like 3 seconds before it sped away. Also if this was newspaper it would be a routine thing, but I've never seen or heard it before in the years of living here besides tonight and a few months back, despite me staying up at 2am all the time.
So I called my city's non-emergency police number to report the vehicle cause maybe there have been other reports of it and they could possibly identify the vehicle. They just sent a cop to drive around my neighborhood like 15 mins later after i'm pretty sure the van was long gone by then.
So don't know if I should continue to care and maybe even set up some surveillance if it continues or am I just being a pussy feggat and should forget about it?
What do you think? thank u
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>tfw can't stop procrastinating
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>>18490298
There's a difference between can't and won't. Time to exercise some self-discipline.
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Anyone who has adhd have positive effects to medication? My life is spiraling out of control and I'm worried that medication will just make it worse. Ive tried Adderall xr and it doesn't work. I feel like I'll never be normal or be able to do anything anymore. For reference I'm 23 and about to drop out of school because of my inability to focus.
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Hey OP. I have tried Ritalin and it worked for a while but stopped. I only seemed to be barely more focused. I hated the side effects. I was shaky and my appetite died. I currently have adderall to try out. I need to see what's my good dosage so I can have a easier time in college. I don't need meds to live, cuz mine isn't that bad. Everyone has a different reaction to meds. I can only wish you luck OP.
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>>18490284
Thank you for your comment. I'm confident now if I get on medication, my life will be better.
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>>18490291
Welcome man. Just keep trying to find your right medication and dosage, then you should be all right.
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I got caught with Marijuana
do you think it disqualifies me from working with children? I live in Australia
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>>18490244
Charged or just cautioned?
> blue cards can be issued to all people including with convictions as long as no history of danger to children and good character.
In saying that I don't want no drug fucked cunt near my kid.
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>>18490244
Usually any criminal record means you can't work in a field that deals with kids, yes. Whether the mark on your record is permanent or not depends on local laws, though.
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>hearing scratching in the bedroom walls
>house is two stories, bedrooms are downstairs and directly upstairs is the living room
>live in the city, have never had problems with any pests (not even ants) in the four years living here >house isn't dirty either
What are my possibilities here?
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probably mice or another rodent, get yourself some traps (don't use glue) and set them up tomorrow
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>>18490185
Would they really be running around in my bedroom?
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>>18490188
yes.
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Hello fellow /adv/isors, I come to you with a somewhat unique situation that has me at a bit of a loss. It's a long story, but I'll give you the gist of things and hopefully I can get some helpful advice about what I should do.
>be me, 24m
>met qt 3.14 at work several years ago, dated for 6 months and broke up
>reconnected a year later, began dating again despite the fact that she was getting ready to move 1k miles away
>accidentally fall head over heels for each other, talk about marriage and kids and shit
>she moves, I save money for 2 more months and move to be with her
>things turn to shit shortly after I move in, she becomes entirely different person, bitchy and selfish af
>knew after about a month that I was going to have to move into my own place once I get a job and a steady paycheck
>things continue getting worse, takes me another month to find job and begin working
>work for two weeks, about to get my first paycheck and start looking for places (haven't told gf about any of this)
>out of the blue, gf decides it's not working out, we split up
>kind of upset due to her shit timing as I don't have money to move out right away and I don't have anywhere else to stay in the meantime
>in the following week she becomes the biggest cunt I've ever had the displeasure of spending time with
>selfish as fuck, always asking me for money when she knows I still haven't gotten paid
>fight about shit constantly, can't be in a room with her without it being painfully awkward
>This goes on for about a week until I decide I'm moving back to hometown for fear of her kicking me out without notice and having to be homeless until I can make plans to move back home or find place of my own
>Kind of butthurt about the entire situation, just because her timing and attitude after we broke up was absolute shit
>Move home and begin moving on, easy not to miss her since she turned into a cunt, but still think of her fondly sometimes and wonder what things could have been like
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(cont.)
>been a little longer than 2 months since I've moved back
>been pretty depressed, moreso about life than about losing my ex
>No contact with ex since the day I left, deleted her on social media, deleted pics of us etc, seemed to help a lot
>Kept ex's phone number and kept her sister on social media as sister has always been nice to me
>Overall, i'm doing pretty well, getting ready to get back out of my parent's house, got a decent job that I don't hate and pays well enough to live on
Now this is where I start having problems:
>see post on ex's sister's instagram 2 days ago
>ex is in hospital, bandaged nearly from head to toe, no indication of what happened
>looks like a car or motorcycle accident, she's super beat up
>continue investigating, discover that she's in a lot of pain, having a hard time walking and functioning in general
>my heart sinks to my feet as I continue to scroll through pictures of this person who was once so precious to me, covered in bandages, on the verge of tears in every photo from the pain she is feeling
>It seems she's going to be alright, but she has a long recovery ahead of her
>No broken bones or head injuries, in a few months she'll probably be good as new
The part that is troubling me about this is that part of me feels so bad about her situation, like I should have been there to protect her or like I should be there now to comfort her, but I also know that I don't have any desire to date her ever again and that it would be a disaster if I were to somehow wind up back together with her. I guess I'm just having a hard time figuring out why this whole accident seems to have effected me so much when my ex's existence up to this point has been basically meaningless to me. I can even recall telling one of my friends not that long ago that I wouldn't care if she got run over by a bus. Now that she (sort of) has, it's got me feeling things I wasn't prepared to feel.
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Any other anons with this condition? I've got type 1 and if I wasn't getting them fixed in August I would an hero. Literally want to fucking die.
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Ask your parents for a refund.
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So my girlfriend has had an eating disorder for a good while now, and it has put her in the hospital a couple of times. I have tried to do everything I can to support her through it but there is really nothing I can do. Recently she discovered that she has to spend at least a month in a residential care facility to try to recover. She has been stressing out really badly about this and has been avoiding spending time with me. She called me last night after we were supposed to get together and told me that she needed to learn to love herself before she could continue to love me. We both really want to stay together, but for now I have completely cut off contact with her. It would have probably been easier if we had just broken up, but neither of us wanted that. Now I am basically stuck for at least 2 months just waiting. I've looked into it and most eating disorder recovery programs recommend staying out of a relationship for at least a year.
Does anyone have some experience with this kind of thing? I don't have anyone to talk to that really understands what I'm dealing with.
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How desperate were you to start dating a crazy person?
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>>18490120
I don't have experience with eating disorders however it's like any other long term illness. If you love her and I mean really love her there's nothing wrong with waiting. You accept the person and deal with the issues. Otherwise, you explain to her the truth and move in. However, there are no guarantees in life. Something could happen to anyone at any time. Therefore, if you ever get married running out the door is less of an option.
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>>18490120
I've not been in your spot, but I did have a sister with eating disorders. When she was institutionalised, she was really not in any state to be in a relationship. Eating disorders are awful, because they're mental disorders with severe physical consequences. They're also difficult to overcome. Right nows she's smart, if focusing on recovery is her main goal. Also, you'd do wisely to stay somewhat distant, until/unless she gets better. Eating disorders have a high mortality rate, so if you want to protect yourself too, keep some emotional distance in case she doesn't make it. But cutting contact completely isn't necessary, probably. Having people they can trust and who care for them is important to mental health patients.
I have been struggling to control my emotions lately. I have been diagnosed with bipolar and borderline personality disorders from different therapists. I dont know why I feel like I lost control when I am in relationships. I get paranoid, emotional and a wreck. I try to bottle up, to deal with the anger. In the moment, I cant think logically. Its so much anger and I feel it overwhelms me. Any advice?
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Has your therapists that diagnosed you told you what you can do?
Can always try and meditate, that's good for psychological problems. Look up how to.
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In relationships only? Try writing down all the paranoid thoughts you have. See if there is anything that can be traced as a root cause. With out more details it's hard to give advice. But maybe your paranoid thoughts cone from some uncertainty or insecurity which leads to anger issues which then turns into other emotions. Each emotion is connected to others and are capable of igniting another type. Anger to sorrow ECT
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Oh fuck I just ticked all those boxes
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>girl i recently started talking to
>one day she suddenly changes completely
>doesn't reply for hours and just acts totally different
>i don't think much of it maybe she isn't interested
>tells me she's sad and its not because of me
>didn't ask her she just brought it up
>we are not that close that i really want to know whats up but ask anyway
>just says something about the "dead can't come back" or some shit
>at this point i don't really know how to respond we were just flirting a bit before lol
>i only say i'm sorry for her loss and think im done
>then she drops that its about a dog
>and no not her lifetime friend kind of dog it was her grandmas dog
>and no not her 15 years friend that was always with granny no she had that dog for less than a year
>so she is totally hart broken for (now) 3 days because of a dog that her grandma had for some months
So /adv/ is that a red flag ? I mean how will she react if something really serious happens in her life ? Or do you think thats somehow understandable and i just lack empathy for thinking she is totally overreacting ?
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Yup, red flag, cut contact.
Just imagine what she would do if you tried breaking up with her after a relationship, christ.
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She is definitely over-reacting. Is it a red flag? Most probably.