I sent my gf a message on snapchat and she left me on read for an hour. Yesterday, she did the same thing, but left me on read for 3 hours, but she eventually sent me a kissing emoji ( I guess to let me know she's not ghosting me and still loves me). But as of right now, she left me on read for an hour. What do I do?
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>>18493906
Shes getting f u c k e d anon by c h a d. Break into her phone is the only way to test my hypothesis
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Just ask her in a playful manner why she's doing this? If she goes on the defensive, then >>18493930 is right.
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who goddamn cares? social media really is the last gasping breath of society
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my fingers are shaking too much,slight headache and bad stomach It happen after a bit too much tobacco any thing which can help
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less tobacco
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Did you go to a hookah bar for the first time?
Same thing happened to me, just drink a lot of water and sleep it off. The
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I'm just out of high school and my 17 year old girlfriend just told me she is pregnant. She is on the fence about getting an abortion, how can I convince her to go through with it? (I'm over 18 and age of consent is 16 where I live btw).
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>>18493859
First you need to reassure her that no matter what she decides to do you will be there 100%. Then you can discuss your future with or without a child. I just went through this with my gf. We were on the same page from the beginning and still are today. Our careers and relationship are our top priority so it was a hard decision but one that we felt was right. I told her that I was not ready to share her with anyone.
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OP, start reading:
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3vri4k/you_got_a_stranger_pregnant_a_guide/
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I had an abortion at 9 weeks, no regrets.
Do what's best for your life. Sign over rights and move forward if it's what you want. No one should be forced into an 18+ year commitment! Fuck that!
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How to tell apart disgust from attraction when I catch a girl looking down on eye contact guise
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By raising your self esteem and acquiring a perception of the world that isn't self defeating by default.
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I have no idea how to act towards my dad, I know it's something that should come naturally but I'm not good at judging people. I live in Scotland and he served in Iraq and Northern Ireland, he came back had me then became a heroin addict. Even went so far as to hide drugs in my room when I was a toddler, it split my parents up and I lived with my mum. Most of my memories of visiting him are dark, he'd take me with him when he went shoplifting because it gave him a high. Other than that it would just be the two of us in our old house watching depressing movies or listening to depressing music while he bombarded me with his thoughts, stuff like "I'd kill myself if it weren't for you" which I know is bullshit because to this day he never tries to contact me unless someone on his side of the family guilt trips into it. He hasn't had a job in over 10 years and is wasting his life away on government benefits, doing nothing even when I try to engage with him. Part of me always respected him for being a soldier but I don't know if I should be doing more to help him or let him lie in the bed he made for himself.
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I'd add that he's off the smack now, but just as hooked on prescription methadone. Still smokes weed and takes other drugs casually.
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Hey /adv/, for a while now I've faced the issue of not really caring about anyone, like I really do not give a damn about what anyone feels like, what anyone has done. Classmates approach me and talk to me occasionally, I do reply and we have a small chat but after a minuscule amount of time I just lose interest in the conversation and feel like I don't have anything to say to continue the conversation but they seem like they do so I keep awkwardly ending conversations just because I don't want to talk, this is the case with almost everyone that's tried talking to me. I almost never initiate any conversations because I do not care about what others want or think, instead I have long monologues with myself inside my head. I really have 0 motivation to go out and hang out with friends even if they call me to go with them, I don't care that I disappoint them I just only really care about myself. I really dislike people in general in my area, I feel really disappointed in them for no real reason. Whenever someone messages me I just feel this huge amount of dread and want to throw my phone away because I know that I'll have to spend time chatting with these people even though I just want to be left alone. I wouldn't really consider myself depressed, I do not want to self-diagnose myself but I don't think any of this is right and I do not know how to get out of this mindset. Whenever I try to change this state that I am in and eventually go out I just want to go back home and spend time with myself. I feel like a therapist wouldn't help me much, ones here just shove pills in their patients' throats instead of having any long conversations or trying to solve their fears or whatever else through verbal therapy. What am I supposed to do? How do I change myself? What am I supposed to do feel motivated about talking to others? I do not want my friends and family to feel meaningless to me...
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>>18493836
i feel this exact same way OP. I try to be polite and open to people, but it gets exhausting to pretend to care about whatever they're talking about. I just enjoy being alone and watching everything around me instead.
anyways, bump for interest
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Me three. Though in my case I do feel very lonely sometimes, like "why doesn't anyone want to hang with me?" But when they do, after 30 seconds I want to jump out a window, and I think "oh, right, I didn't want to hang out with them either".
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Is it inappropriate of me to bring beer to a child's first birthday? I used to drink with the parents all the time, and I feel like it's just going to be a bunch of adults and a kid that can barely comprehend what's going on.
Bonus question: what kind of gift do you get a 1 year old?
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>>18493830
Children actually love beer. Get the one year old a 12 pack. You can drink with him and really get to know them. They also make great wingmen at the bars.
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If they're Mexican they'll provide alcohol. If not, bring your own case and see what happens. Bring diapers as well, they are always a good gift. You're welcome, op.
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>>18493830
Ask the parents? I'm sure there would be people okay with it and people that wouldn't be, we don't know them.
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My girlfriend broke up with me because her grandfather offered to pay for her to go a couple hours away for college, and she doesn't want to be "serious". She also said she doesn't like that we passive aggressively argue sometimes and claims she doesn't like me anymore. Thing is, she's said these things before to distance herself, doesn't mean it, and then we got back together and it became serious. I don't know whether to give up, or be there, or if she's going to come back. When I first asked her if she didn't like me anymore, she couldn't answer. I really like her, and I don't believe for a second when she says she doesn't like me and doesn't want to be with me because she hasn't meant it before. But I don't want to be a delusional piece of shit either.
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My girlfriend only wants to fuck 3 times a day but I want 5 or 6. She said she gets sore. I think she's lying. What's her problem? Should I just get another girlfriend?
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>>18493808
Fuck her till she bleeds!
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>>18493808
Do the Bill Cosby diet.
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>>18493808
Nice bait
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Hey /adv/ can yall please help me out if im correctly diagnosed as bipolar type 1? Ive had instances were i would just zone out and have homicidal thoughts. Like on the immigrant issue ive zoned out to the point of thinking illegals should be used as human experiments. I dont want to cause harm /adv/. I want to live peacefully and i think these thoughts are the result of the current pc culture. When im in the mania phase i walk rapidly around my house and i feel very motivational. These both last minutes 20 minutes at most.
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If that's your only example then you aren't bipolar you fucking idiot
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Theres more. That one is just recently. The other episodes lead to thinking about suicide, or hurting myself. There was one where i was wanting to cut my face up so i could wear a mask that way no one would recognize me
My social life is nonexistent, all my friends have cut me out of their lives, my physical health and emotional well-being are rapidly deteriorating, and I have absolutely nobody to talk to about it and no hope of recovering anything I've lost or moving on with my life and actually trying to start a career. I had a normal life at one point and hopes and aspirations like anybody else and now I don't even have that much. I barely even know what the date is half the time. Two weeks can pass and I won't even realize it. My life is escaping me in huge chunks.
It's just not right, it shouldn't be this way. I almost feel like I'm living in some awful alternate universe where everything is upside-down and there's no way I can fix any of it. Bright patches are few and far in between. This is an existence, but it's not much of a life. I have some talents and people who care about me but there's so much wrong that I can barely find any reason to be happy.
I don't know how to end this rambling mess of a post. I just wish things could be better. Sharing this mainly because I just want to talk about it all.
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>>18493802
Do you have the capacity to kill yourself? If not just wait till you die.
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>>18493802
Who gives a shit?
4chan is absolutely useless for advice.
You are screaming down a well.
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>>18493802
You're young. You sound young. Life has ups and downs, cycles. Some cycles are fun,social, etc. Others are times when you regroup yourself for the next up time.
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I've been traveling solo for six months and I've become really badly depressed
It's a combination of knowing there is nothing for me back home, not being around anyone I like, and the constant stress
because I'm away from home I don't know who I can get help from, there arn't any shared mental health services or anything online I can find.
I just spend all day languishing in dirty hostels eating food that makes me feel awful because I'm scared if I spend my money I'l be forced to return home
I'm missing having my own space terribly, I just want the brats to stop yelling and being drunk, to cook food, fuck to cook something that doesn't make me want to die while eating it
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Go home. Depression is linked to stress. The nonsense you are doing now is not going to get your better. You have to let go, return home, and start working on your issues.
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>>18493796
home isn't a sstressfull, but it's soul crushing
I worked 50 hours a work for bosses who ripped me off, no girlfriend, living on and off with family or friends, no study or career
I just can't bring myself to go home to that
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>>18493780
in the meantime, grab this audio + book set and give it a spin, it ought to help, it's the Mindful way through depression. good luck m8:
http://www.mediafire.com/file/stl5ctg1ptogszt/MWTD.zip
I don't know where to post this but I'm posting it here anyway.
There is no pain. But yesterday during mid-erection before masturbation, when the penis is in that not-hard-not-that soft phase, my penis was bent to the right in a very unusual angle. Almost more than 180 degress in angle. Scared the shit outta me.
But then, I continued taking it further, reached full hard erection, reached orgasm and masturbated.
After this happened, I'm so so scared.
Can anyone tell me if this is normal or not normal? I don't know what to do now.
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>>18493761
180° angle to the right = dick originally pointing to the left :)
You're American aren't you ?
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>>18493764
No. Asian.
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Let me tell you why you will never be happy.
You dismiss your own wants with 'that's selfish'.
You function in 'what is right?', not 'what do I want?'.
You wait for X because 'it's my duty' or 'I can't live without'.
Never mind your own needs, they say, think of the needs of... of whoever. Your health. Your parents. Your friends. The state. The poor. Of the army, of the king, of God! The list goes on and on. How many catastrophes were launched with the words "think of yourself"?
It is this great inversion, this ancient lie, which has chained humanity to an endless cycle of guilt and failure.
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>>18493756
>How many catastrophes were launched with the words "think of yourself"?
This one seems to go against the other stuff you said...
Anyway this is a good advice for some but some people could become happier by thinking of others.
In the end I believe life can't be summed up in simple rule.
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>>18493756
>Let me tell you why you will never be happy.
Convincing people they're just as miserable as you are isn't going to make your shitty attitude any more valid. Pedal your pseudo-intellectual self-pity elsewhere, anon.
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Should I give him the benefit of the doubt?
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Every time I try to dump him, he makes me feel so fucking awful. Like he will literally stand outside my house for 3 hours and he tells me if I don't show up, it means that I'm a liar. I used to be in love with him but this man lives in fantasy land and aside from partying we haven't got much in common. Also he has no shame, like literally no shame. He has been 'depressed' for 2 days, i do my fucking best to reach out to him, I stayed up all night on the phone (we don't live together), and then he ditches me at 5 in the morning and tells me he wasn't sleeping and he was just holding his head. We had planned a romantic date at his house but he selfishly went out without telling me and next thing I know, he's calling me from the pub we usually hang out at, and I can hear how drunk he is. And when he's drunk, he spills the beans like a fucking bitch and that makes me so mad.
He just texted that if I love him I should show up at his house ( I can't drive and that's his shtick, emotional blackmail) and that he's 'very close to losing his life'. All this because he's graduating with a third class degree because of the same shitty antics he used to pull every other week instead of studying.
I'm lost, I still have affection for him in my heart but is it fucking worth it, knowing that he's never ever going to stop being a loser.
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>>18493734
This is well deep. I think that in reality you've just been answering your own question and are basically looking for justification from an outside party. Honestly if my lover bailed on me when we had confirmed plans to go do something else (especially as menial as the pub say) I would probably high tail it but I do understand that you want this to work and clearly have strong feelings for this person.
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>>18493734
>Like he will literally stand outside my house for 3 hours and he tells me if I don't show up, it means that I'm a liar.
That alone is behavior worthy of breaking up,
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>>18494024
agreed
desu you should call your local mental health services on him the next time he implies he might kill himself...he can't emotionally blackmail you on 72hr mandatory hospital stay
you can use that time to file a restraining order (start taking evidence now if you can - record your calls etc)