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So just got laid for the first time and I did pretty well.
>Lasted longer than 7 minutes
>She orgasmed several times before I even came

The thing is though, two hours after we finished fuclong I had to take a leak, and when i pulled back the foreskin I saw red bumps and my dick hurts overall. Also when i piss it hurts.
>Yes, I used a condom. No, it didn't break.

Girl said that it was merely soring, but I'm just not sure. Should i post my dick pic just so you can get what I'm talking about?
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>>18495092
Red spots*
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>>18495092

>Should i post my dick pic just so you can get what I'm talking about?

No. Go to a fucking doctor you doofus. We're not doctors.
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>>18495113
I've seen dudes getting clarified and confirmed that they're clear of STDs. Gotta give it a go before spending money man.

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Im stuck between a rock and a hard place.

>spent years with bf
>spent my youth with him
>we were going to get married
>then depression kicked in
>he's always had it but its been managable
>not anymore
>he has been nothing but a self destructive mope for two years now
>he screams at me
>has a drinking problem
>etc
>ive done EVERYTHING
I CAN
>suggesing help
>politely encouraging help
>forcing help
>going to doctor
>going to therapist
>refuses to work with them at all
>when i have a bad period, he's stuck within himself
>im expected to do everything
>all he does is bitch and whine 24/7 about his life but doesnt change it
>shell of the man he used to be
>move to another state to try and remedy this
>better living there
>all other facets of our lives improve
>BUTHIM
>still refuses to get any help
>gets angry at me
For being upset

What the fuck do i do? I feel so stupid.. but i believed so hard i could help him. I love him, and i dont want to leave but i feel so alone. I hate myself for being angry at his depression, but i feel so helpless and have my own issues that i deal with alone now.

What do?
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Tell him if he doesn't change you'll leave him, then if he still doesn't change dump him and cut all ties. You'll thank yourself later
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Be brave enough to discuss this with him, and if you are afraid his response will be violent then maybe talking it out is too late.

How do I increase my math skills? People ask me questions about it like "how much is this item if it's x% off. Or like just even basic math like what's this minus that. I want to be able to do math in my head without calculators. Where do I begin? I'm 22
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https://www.khanacademy.org/math
>>18495063
>Or like just even basic math like what's this minus that. I want to be able to do math in my head without calculators.
Practice
Also, tricks
https://www.youtube.com/results?q=subtraction+tricks

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How do I tell my parents I want to join a fraternity without them freaking out? I don't quite know their stance on frats, and I frankly wanted nothing to do with them until my friend dragged me along to their rush event yesterday. I met so many people who were into sciences (I'm an aerospace eng major) and were extremely smart (their average gpa is higher than my school's overall average gpa). I just loved the general vibe of the frat and felt like they'll really help me become a better person, and all the alumni from them are so fucking rich. I want to be successful and social, so I feel like this is the best choice for me. However, if I tell my parents I want totry to get bidded, they might murder me. How do I tell them it's for the better?
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Why do you need to tell them? And ignore the incoming posters who know nothing about frats beyond what they saw in movies
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Are you expecting them to pay for it?
And/or are they paying for your education?

If the answer is no then their opinion doesn't matter.

But if you were my kid and wanting me to pay for it I'd tell you to fuck off with the overpriced rich kid club so you can get laid and drink instead of studying
>"B-but maaawwwwmmmm it's not about partying!!!1 It's about netwooorrrkking and unity and shit"
No it's not. Its about being at the college equivalent of the "cool kid table" and serves no purpose to academics.
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>>18495065
Yeah, I'm expecting the shitposting and all that, but it's because they're paying for my college tuition and kinda deserve to know what's going on in my life there

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So my gf is dumb as a box of rocks, the longer we are together the more it's apparent. She has no common sense and can't seem to follow simple directions. Is there any way to teach her. I snapped and called her a dumbass tonight because while looking right at a toolbox didn't know it was a toolbox because a can of wd40 was on top...
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Hey /adv/ I have a bit of a dilemma. I just broke up with my girlfriend because I found out she was grinding with some random guys at a club. However, I am not that upset about it. This is my second girlfriend and both I haven't really missed/cared about that much. I think part of the reason is that I haven't really given myself recovery time after breaking up. I dated both for about a year and a half and got into each just a month apart from each other. Anyhow how do I find a girlfriend that I value and really care about? Thanks.
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fall in love.
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>>18495036
why do all women dress so fucking stupid nowadays?

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Genuinely need help.
>be me, friendless shell of a human being after suffering a trauma.
>become normal enough to rekindle lost friendship
>dude is ok by me at first, but he's a heroin addict and is really deceitful
>About 98% sure he talks mad shit about me and manipulates me for certain purposes
>hanging out with him has also improved life a lot in some ways though
>can socialize easier, he's supportive to my face, we generally have a good time together, spend a lot of time together, feel comfortable around him
>these are all big things for me
>however we bought drugs together, he took too much out of shared baggie and gave bullshit reason
>has done this several times, and has borrowed money over time I doubt he will pay back
>I know him and his family for many years, know they're all generally a bit dishonest and manipulative
>not sure if benefits outweigh the cons
>Not sure if this is unhealthy for me

I have a propensity to drop things and move on, but after he weasled drugs off me (essentially stole) and since I'm certain he's talking shit, I really want to move on. However, I am alone without him. No family, no friends. Barren, desolate, dead alone.

What would you do?
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>>18495014
Drop him and move on. You can make other friends, and he's a junkie, so how much worse off would you be with no friends at all?
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>>18495097
Have you ever been alone? Like truly alone, in that there isn't another person on planet earth you can trust or get something off your chest with? I have. It's miserable. I'm not the type of human being that can just be alone, completely, forever.

Junkie or not, which I don't care about, he did do me wrong though.
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>>18495118
Yes, I have spent much of my life in that position. I've also spent time being damaged by users. I prefer the former.

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Ex girlfriend is legit gonna drive me to killing a mother fucker. Me and her broke up a month ago, literally out the blue, no she wasn't 'planning' it for a while like some girls do. Because she started a new school and got with him a week later. But they barely kissed and that only lasted a few days. Then she started talking to another guy. Then it was another guy. Then it was another fucking guy. I should point out, before me she was not like this what so ever, I was her first for everything, I bought her out of her shell, and now she's talking to a new guy every week which btw, are all fucking unattractive betas. Through all this, we argue.

Today I had enough, she says she don't like me, tells her best friend and sister she doesn't have a connection with me anymore. Tells me she's having a hard time and going through a lot which okay, she is, but still. I tell her she's acting like such a fuck girl recently, she's acting like she never loved me more than anything, and in the midst of all this, suddenly she goes out with someone in the middle of fucking arguing. Oh but what happens next really shows the logic of fucking women.

20 minutes later she dumps him lmfao, tells me its for my benefit, I ask wtf how? she says all these arguments ain't healthy, that the things I said have made her miserable, says I don't care about her anymore, I said well look how your acting recently, and of course I care why do you think we still argue if I didn't care. Then she says why do you think I'm acting like this, I said having a hard time is no excuse to throw yourself at any guy who talks to you, then she said no its not that ffs. I said what is it then? Then she tells me no I can't say, you won't and cant understand, I'm like omfg stop being complicated and just tell me, she says no I cant with crying emojis and then goes to sleep.

WHAT THE FUCK !!!!!!!
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My question to you is why the fuck haven't you cut contact with her yet?
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>>18494967
She obviously likes you but can't put it into words. The words being something like this;
"Oh I'm so stupid for leaving you, I told myself I'd be better off, I tried so hard to be happy with someone, anyone, to try have that connection that I miss so much, but I'm too much of a fuck up and I've messed up so I can't"

You said you were her first? You could give her another chance when the time comes, that is however, if she hasn't done anything with any other guy, if she has ditch the bitch.
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>no she wasn't 'planning' it for a while like some girls do. Because she started a new school and got with him a week later.
Oh you're so adorable... Accept that your ex is a monkey-branching bitch and move on.

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>be me
>get a fastfood job while going to college
>most coworkers go to college, fun stuff relatively good times for the low pay
>get along really well with one girl
>shes a 'confused' lesbian, she had her first bf while I was working there
>find a better paying job
>one day go to my psychologist
>shes there too in the waiting room
>start talking
>become friends
>she's super clingy and basically only hangs out with me
>talks to me all day over facebook, wants to hang out all the time, all day
>buys me stuff
>cooks my favorite food for me
>love being treated like this
>hang out with her often
>she wants to cuddle and spoon sometimes
>get really aroused but she never wants to take it further
>now Its more or less me obsessed with her instead of the other way around
>she tells me we cant date because she only likes girls
>we share drugs sometimes
>one day have a bad experience and shes scared to take drugs again
>she starts hanging out with other people too now
>everywhere we hang out now, she starts being passive aggressive and annoyed with me
>starts canceling plans
>stops talking
>still think about her nearly everyday


I really loved her.
What I dont understand is what the point was of this entire ordeal. Thanks to me she managed to get a better job but would she really use me just for that? Ive never had someone be so nice and go all out just for me

I just dont understand what the entire point of it was
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bump could anyone explain what she was doing
is this normal, am i the retard here?
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>>18495239
>bump could anyone explain what she was doing
You're a lonely and clingy beta who fell in love with the first girl to give him attention and she's a crazy bitch who doesn't know what she wants.
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>>18494965
bogus

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Honestly, is it foolish to hook up with someone solely due to their looks ?

Let's say she's egocentric, a bit vapid and materialistic, but she's absolutely gorgeous and you actually have good conversations with her (she asks you questions about yourself, you make her laugh, you get along,etc)

Would it still be a bad idea to get with her just because she's pretty ?
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>>18494929
>hook up
>get with

You're talking about noncommittal sex? If you're both ok with that, more power to you. Good luck not catching feelz.

If you're talking about a relationship, maybe you should start by discussing the difference in your perspectives on the things you think she's vapid about. If she sees it your way and warms up to you, good sign.
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>>18494929
Yes.

Theres nothing there. Your brain does all kinds of weird shit to get you to fuck someone like tell you you have great conversations.

In new dating scenarios you can read a phone book together and it would be wonderful.

After like a year youd absolutely despise her.
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>>18494929
You'll regret it when she's not on top of you. So if you can deal with that go ahead.

Or just sleep with her, I'm sure she's probably fucked random dudes before

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I'm afraid my family and friends don't want anything to do with me, what am I doing wrong?

Family members get annoyed talking to me, and friends rarely ever want to hang out with me.

I just want people who enjoy my company in life but since I'm retarded when it comes to emotions I can't tell when we're going good, if I'm annoying, coming on too strong or what.

I'm just tired of being lonely, how could I remedy this?
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>>18494927
Shameless self bump
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>>18495013
I don't know. How old are You? I'm 26 and still have this problem...
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>>18495021
19

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How does one get rid of social anxiety? I seriously have a few good things going for me. I'm good looking, I'll be studying engineering this fall hopefully making good money when I graduate. I've had five sexual partners all of them 7 or above one was probably a 9 or 8.5. Cute girls always check me out. I dress well and I appear very normal. But the one hurdle in my life at the moment is my social anxiety. I'm very shy and quiet but when I actually get to know people and comfortable they seem very fond of me, as if I have a good personality just tucked underneath this anxiety. While the anxiety gets in the way, I'm very knowledgeable of social etiquette. It just seems like in new situations that i'm not comfortable with, without any conscious thought my heart races and I get really nervous. I absolutely dread any kind of social spotlight, I basically lock up when I have to speak in front of people. What do?
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>>18494908
constant exposure until it becomes comfortable, force yourself out of your comfort zone. If you're capable of not abusing medication you can always see a therapist and they can prescribe you some anxiety medicine that you can use as a crutch until you get used to situations.
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>>18494918
I was on SSRI's for 6 years and just recently came off them. I want to do this on my own without having to do resort to daily medication. But i'm prescribed 30 .25mg of xanax for 2 months, that i basically take .75mg to 1mg on a weekly basis
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be careful, OP, it's only gonna get worse. enjoy feeling good about yourself now.

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australian wants to move to burgerland
what state would be the best for lax gun laws, affordable living, and still not be a shithole for a nurse's wage?
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Florida or Georgia
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>>18494889
Nurses make decent money most places here. Hours and work are bullshit, but the pay is decent.

As for lax gun laws, Arizona is the best, but pretty much any state not New York and California (or the city of Chicago) aren't going to be too burdensome. Incidentally, those places are also hella expensive. Be sure to check local ordinances first of course.
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>>18494904
what are the benefits of the two if you dont mind me asking?

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How do I talk to a strange woman without annoying her? I don't even know what I would talk about and it seems rude so naturally I don't speak
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If you don't have anything to say, you don't talk to someone. Don't initiate a conversation expecting the other person to carry it.
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>>18494869
Chloroform rag over their face is a surefire way for them to relax around you.

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Hey /adv/ i was wondering if any japanons can tell me how small town japs receive white skinned mexicans? I love the landscape over there. Also how well are the environmental jobs there for a foreigner? Thanks.

Pic is just captain kuchikis bankai
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>>18494835
If this isn't bait then you're in for a real treat.
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>>18494835

small towns in japan have virtually no experience with 'white skinned mexicans'.
>how are the enviornmental jobs there for a foreigner'

like their experience with white mexicans, virtually non existent in the small towns.
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