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2 years ago i met this girl who is my coworker, she started to talk with me and we clicked very good but after sometime i switch department at work and we stopped talking as often, This spring she suddenly contacted me and asked if i wanted to go on a 4 month backpacktrip with her, My first reaction was yes and she started to lightly message me every now and then all cool basically we were just talking about how to arrange our trip which we will go on later this year.
But after some day a month ago we started to talk alot more and our talks became alot more personal i told her alot of my secrets and she told me some of hers, And now for about a month we have been talking daily pretty much constantly and if i don't respond fast enough she starts spamming me asking me what iam doing etc..
She also started to drunk call/text/snap me late at night and our conversations on messenger extends deep into the night until she falls asleep with her phone in her hands.
She currently is on a trip in the US (We are European) and she talks/texts to me everytime she have wifi.
Sounds great doesn't it? now here comes the catch we are both very honest and we don't have anything to hide we always give straight answers (or so i think we do) We got on the topic of sex etc.. and she without any doubt talked about how she is not looking for a relationship but if it happens then it happens, she also has no shame in telling me about previous ONS and other stuff which concerns me as i have grown to like here alot but iam uncertain if she likes in "that way" due to her saying this.
She wants to hangout as soon as she comes home but we have very little free time as we both will work the summer and iam going on my own trip for a week to another European country.
She always say that she wants me to hold her and comfort her whenever she gets sad (which she do quite often) and she wants me to pat her until she falls asleep etc..
/adv/ what is her endgoal? Iam too confused to answer what it is..
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her endgoal isn't really important. what do yuo want? if you want a relationship try it. If she doesn't, you atleast know her intentions. you can always ask her about it too. Like in every situation ever; communications is key. Like seriously communications saves lives.
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>24
>No schooling, shitty job
>Just defaulted on my credit card
>collection notice here
Idk why this is it, but I'm freaking the fuck out. I've fucked my life. This shit is going to follow me for everything I do for the next seven years. I'm not gonna be able to get a student loan, a car loan, an apartment, I'm fucked. I'm so fucking fucked.
What the fuck do I do.
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Start saving your money. Step 1: Learn to cook and buy groceries, not fast food. You can get enough rice and dry pasta to sustain yourself for almost no money if you learn how to make it.
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>>18494243
Saving money isn't really the issue, I've learned to become incredibly frugal due to how few hours I get. I'm already looking into getting a better job, I just mean the long term implications of what this default means for me.
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>>18494234
Move to Sweden
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I set up a website on godaddycom
Ever since then I get at least 6 phone calls EVERY DAY by telemarketers.
I sign up on do not call registry, I also tell them to constantly take my name off the list. They just call me even more!
Most of them claim that my website needs money to get higher ranking on GOOGLE, BING, Yahoo. But I am skeptical that they have anything to do wtih these companies, as calling google, bing, or yahoo to complain seems useless.
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So basically you want to stop the calls?
You should use a service provider that allows you to screen calls if at all possible. If you're in the UK, British Telecom (BT) allows you to require the caller to leave a short message for you to listen to before you answer their call.
We get these kinds of calls at work all of the time (retailer). The best thing to do is to identify them right away with "Is this a sales call" - if they don't answer "No" you can hang up the phone right away.
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It seems stupid to waste your time saying "take my name off the list!", why don't you just put the phone face down.
I work for a telecoms company (the serious kind that chases global fraud, tests emergency service networks, helps the big ISPs set up etc), and we have this stupid telecom company who tries to sell us their services.
So far our ideas have been:
- redirect them to their CEO
- use the Jolly Roger telephone service (if you want fun do this)
- send them to Christian radio shows in the US
Realistic solutions:
- Block
- Report to the regulator (if it's a legit-ish operation)
- Don't respond to the call
- Respond but claim you don't know who they are looking for, "who is this person?"
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>>18494354
It's really bad man, I get OPs pain.
I bought a 5yr domain and forgot to select "Privacy" so I ended up getting spammed all night till I woke up and immediately put it on. It stopped the calls after a few weeks but holy shit.
They still call but like once a month now (probably old list).
OP should've gotten privacy for $7.99
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How do I make sure that a woman isn't a cheating whore?
Just in case I ever start socializing and dating women.
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idk, talk to her and get to know her like an adult
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If she is female then she's a cheating whore.
Stick to 2d.
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>>18494205
Who cares, dude? If she cheats, you dump her. There are plenty of people who can be loyal in relationships. If you're constantly worried about a girl cheating on you, you need to get your head right before you start dating
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Ok so I'm lactose intolerant but I consume it anyway because I fucking love dairy. It's like my body fucking picks and chooses when to act up.
>big bowl of vanilla fudge ice cream
>nothing happens
>big glass of milk
>again, nothing happens
>order pizza with 5 different cheeses
>diarrhea
What the fuck
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Well just acknowledge that you can only consume it when you have a period of time to yourself where you can rush to the toilet?
My Dad has ulcerative colitis, which means eating any hot food leaves him on the toilet for the entire next morning. He just makes sure he's got nothing planned until the afternoon.
Either that or you can just stop eating it?
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>>18494246
Idk I was thinking maybe it's just cheese? Or a certain type of cheese? I can eat a good bit of white cheeses and feel nothing.
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How are UK (or general) universities seminar/tutorial/exercise classes formed?
Do they take a random sample of X and sort by last name?
I dont want to be in the same group as last year. I need to make new friends
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Is buying a condo a good idea? I would like to move out of my parents house but don't want to fall for the rent meme. I'm also not sure about buying a house because it's double the price at least.
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Depends on what you want in a home. You can also rent while you save up money to buy a nicer place. It's a good step between living with your parents and "holy shit, I own and am responsible for a building now"
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>>18494170
fun fact, even after you buy the condo you still have to pay "rent" in the form of condo dues.
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>>18494314
property taxes too
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Been in a relationship for 2 months. Been great and enjoying each others company. GF doesn't want sex and wants to wait. Me, virgin, not sure if wanting to wait or go balls deep. Tbh I feel I'll get my chance but she's special and I don't want to ruin a good thing because of impatience. What do?
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>not sure if wanting
Then you don't want. Be open, communicate, and let things happen naturally between the two of you.
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>>18494168
Just because you don't get your dick wet 2 months in doesn't mean the relationship is worthless. Sexual intercourse should be something you should do once you're in a stage of crazy intimacy and I guarantee you're not even close to that with just 2 months.
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>>18494168
Make yourself a favor and don't listen to nutjobs like that:
>>18494226
She wants you to wait for what exactly? Marriage? Her time? What is in for you meanwhile?
This goes way beyond losing your v-cards and much more about your personal values towards it. If she wants you to wait forever out of being a puritane and you can't wait to get your dick wet, you're both in your right to think like you do, but you simply don't share the same values, and it means much more than having sex or not.
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>always been a guy more for relationships instead of just casual dating/hooking up
>because of this I didnt really date in high school, rejected girls who liked me if they weren't THE ONE
>do this in college until I succeed in getting with a girl who I had a crush on for about a year
>we date for over 2 years
>had a bad breakup; details are long and probably not important, but she fucked with my head pretty bad, and I lashed out by doing a few things I regret now
>decide to do a full 180 and go full fuckboy
>fuck 2 girls on tinder in the past week
>more dates lined up
>still feel empty and not even really enjoying some of the best sex of my life
how do I actually get over her? Just time? People tell me to find another actual relationship, but I can't force something like that the way I can get one-night stands. Solving breakup pain with another relationship seems kinda toxic anyways
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>>18494159
So you had sex for "revenge"? Like if you had sex then somehow that will disappoint your ex? That is the worst kind. Sex to me is nothing special until I find that wife material then I would enjoy it a lil more, even though it is the fucking same thing all the time.
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wasn't for revenge, I havent been in contact with the ex since we broke up. Havent told her or really plan to tell her, just thought being with a bunch of other women would help me get over things but if anything it's making me feel worse.
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>>18494159
Well start by understanding that casual sex and sex in relationships with someone you care about are two different things. I'm not saying one is definitely worse, but if youre looking for the relationship kind from casual hookups you're gonna be disappointed every time.
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How do I become good enough to have a gf?
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By posting better animes.
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The best thing you can do is to stop giving a fuck and focus only in yourself
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>>18494148
by aiming for a girl on your level.
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So, I've been in a relationship with a significant other for about a month and a half now. In that month, we have gotten closer and more affectionate towards each other.
So one day, were at her house and start making out *feelsgoodman. So she gets on top of me and we go crazy making out. After going in for a while I grab her ass and we make out for a while. She doesn't even flinch and we make out more.
For me, I've always been nervous that I am overstating someone's boundaries and after we chill and make out for 30 minutes I tell her if that was alright. She says she had been waiting on me to make a move like that for a while, so I am chill.
So after chilling and relaxing, she leaves and texts me saying she made it home and she had a great time.
Idk why, but for me I'm nervous I'm not going at her pace and going too slow for her liking even though she says Constantly we are going at a perfect pace. For me, I'm just slow because I want to enjoy the relationship and make it last because she is definitely a special girl. Which I told her and she was cool about it. Idk maybe I'm just over thinking it.
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what are you, fucking twelve?
month and a half you should be slapping her butt daily in a relationship ffs...
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Let's just say my constant anxiety and past relationships every time I did this someone broke up with me
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But then again, the last few gfs I dated were not into me so probably thinking like a dumbass
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Friend trying to get closer?
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I had a hard time in college until I met my current friend group in college. We've all become really close to one another in practically no time.
I'm closest to a female friend, "Michelle" (Not her real name). We've helped one another with homework and art projects since we both love to draw. Over the summer, she's been texting and calling me a lot. I noticed her starting to ask me questions about my personal life and I would get really defensive. She didn't dig anymore but has started to gradually ask me things about myself, overtime. I feel like I can trust her a lot, but I'm still not quite sure.
I really don't want her to be my therapist or some nonsense like that. She prompts me to talk about my problems and I think I'm unsure because I honestly only have three confidants in my life. Maybe I'm just not used to having female friends? Anyone want to give their thoughts?
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I've been on vacation for 8 days now, I'm supposed to work tomorrow at 3am but a friend just called me saying he's got two VIP tickets to see Ghost and Iron Maiden. I won't be able to make it to work if I go to the concert, so I'm trying to decide if I should call out of work.
I know some of you may not like this genre of music but I've loved Iron Maiden since I was a kid, and I'm really struggling with choosing to be responsible or see this show. The worst thats going to happen to me is a write up, and the people I work with hating me for a couple days.... but fuck...
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Go buddy. I saw Iron Maiden in London in May. The concert was awesome and will more than make up for a few days being hated
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Hey /adv/ I really want to buy my long time girlfriend a wedding ring and ask her the big question but I don't know the best place to look... Are there any legit websites I can go to for getting the best deal for my money? The most I want to spend is 10 000
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>>18494104
Don't buy into the jewish diamond scam, diamonds are worthless
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>>18494104
Get moissanite
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yK_9GN5r-Jg
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don't listen to women on what they like -- true/false? 2017-07-07 07:09:15 Post No.18494097
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don't listen to women on what they like -- true/false?
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>know a girl
>she always talks about how she wants a bf who doesn't smoke or do drugs and isn't "alpha"
>sexually inexperienced like she is
>claims not to care about dominance or stuff like that
idk should i really believe her, cause i feel like she prefers what she says she doesn't want. like, she idealizes this type of safe guy because of insecurity but in reality he would leave her... unaroused
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who cares if you believe her or not? she'll never fuck you so long as you both may live
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>>18494122
dunno how u can extrapolate that off a single post on an anonymous imageboard but alright
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>>18494143
Not him but you read like a flaming faggot. Who gives a fuck if you think that she thinks that you think - stop. Be a fucking man, hit that if you want it otherwise stop fucking orbiting