So bf has always had access to my emails, laptop, phone and he's always kept his stuff private.
Now he's been reading my old emails. He found posts I made on CL like 3 years ago when our online relationship was still new (now we've lived together since the end of last year).
Posts exclusively in the platonic section of CL asking for friends. There was nothing sexual and I clearly always pointed out I was never after anything sexual or meeting up. He says I want male attention. Is this cheating?
>>18494538
>So bf has always had access to my emails, laptop, phone and he's always kept his stuff private.
Why would you put up with that?
>>18494538
dump him Jesus, this is clearly unbalanced relationship and he's terrible 4 u. SRSLY DUMP HIM
>>18494540
>>18494544
>trying to get their relationship broken up so you can try and date OP
Really pathetic anons
What do?
Google ingrown toenail. It's probably because you've been trimming them incorrectly.
>>18494519
This OP.
Get it fixed as soon as possible before it becomes are bigger problem.
>>18494519
>>18494522
turns out it's not
i can move a needle beneath the part that's supposedly "growing in"
the pain is coming from the flesh, of course, so i washed it
My girlfriend of 9 months who told me she loved me every day after we started saying I love you, who I planned a future with, who we named our children with and whom I was madly in love with dumped me only to get engaged 4 months later with someone from her religion.
Looking back she used to say things like
>why ruin something good, just enjoy it while it lasts
>it's better to keep quiet and keep something good then speak and destroy it
and shit like that. She lied. She was willing to make me believe she loves me just to not be alone while she found the guy with the right beliefs.
She lied. She fucking lied to me. She played with me like I meant nothing.
Why should I trust women? If they can be so cruel like it's nothing what's the point of trusting them? They can act and say that they love you and literally like the flip of a switch rationalize lying to you. Just be completely ok with themselves that they just took the piss of another person's heart. Just like that. How do you make sense that women are still worth a shot?
P.S. I plan to kill her
Pic related, Jesus when I keep thinking she'll come to her senses but then I see her engaged status and all hope dies
>>18494512
People who give a shit about religion are retarded and shouldn't be trusted. Just stay with atheists or closet atheists. Religious people should only date those who share their religion, they're incompatible with almost anyone else unless they force their religion onto them.
That being said, don't kill her you fucking idiot. Do you think a single whore is worth you spending your entire life in prison? You'll find someone else and be happier in the long run.
It's not just women ya know men can be equally as horrible. I'm guessing you've never had a job because pretty much every single co-worker is like that
>>18494525
You ever tried looking at someone you love and finding flaws? She definitely wasn't stupid.
Who said anything about being caught? Nigga please, I'll kill that bitch first shot I get.
>>18494527
No, the fuck are you talking about? My co-workers are complete fucking dude bros and they are amazing people. Get a better job.
I have been depressed the last 2 years. I have been going to doctors the past two years to “fix” me I have been on 16 different medicine, in which I take 6 a day just to stabilize me. About a year to two months I started relieving my pain by cutting. I took cut chunks of my skin on my ribs my legs and my arm. A lot of people don’t judge me for my scars but for some reason my girlfriend does. She says she is embarrassed of me because of it and that she would rather have my arm amputated. I am trying to get better but is there anything one else going through things like this. I am 20 years old and I also enjoy sex.. a lot.. but she hates it. She wants to do it maybe once a week and so she makes me feel like absolute crap and makes me feel like im the one with the problem. Shes such a great girl and I love being with her. But I don’t know. Any advice?
Uhh, she's not a great girl..
>>18494505
The meds are clearly fucking with your mind if you think you either do or should have any future with her. Dump her, get through the depression and off the meds, and lift iron the next time you need to cut.
>>18494505
you should probably dump her to fix yourself before she ruins you by cheating or monkey branching. either way imo you have insane amounts of baggage
I recently re-measured my dick out of depression after fucking up my first time with a woman. and I've lost an entire fucking inch, idk if it's unhealthy diet, depression, both, or even something entirely different. Do I go to a GP? Not too keen on going and getting my dick looked at. Really hope it isn't permanent, this shit is killing my self esteem.
What anxiety medication works well? I've been on Busiprone, and it just hurts my stomach, so I quit.
>>18494466
Heard some good stuff about CBD oil, can't say anything myself, except that SSRIs generally suck with anxiety.
>>18494497
I have a job though. Not sure if that will be okay to use; although I definitely trust it more than SSRIs.
>>18494466
Get off the meds. Face your anxieties and overcome them without chemicals fucking up your brain.
So I met this guy online half a year ago. We immediately liked each other. He cut contact with the friend he came with to the online community I played on. SInce then we started playing regulary, he started loosing interest in pc gaming, told me the only reason he would be online was me.We now play on a console, bute during the last two weeks ( we talk online nearly each day for several hoours) became silent. He lost interest in playing/watching a series. He just chills on his bed, as I do during times like this. He has a girl he likes and texts with. I am afraid that he'll loose interest in me as a friend. That he'll think I am a looser and a boring person. I fell in love with him like 4 months ago. We met once in real life and I hope we will meet again soon. Myfear is undescribable. We must have spent more than 1000 hours together, I never had a significant other like that.I do believe, that our friendship means more to me than to him.
I am a man and probably fell in love with a straight guy. I don't want him to break contact due to silent minutes of "voice communication".
WHat is there we can do as activities?
Hello /fit/izen here. Unfortunately lifting did not cure my autism, so I'm gonna ask for some /adv/ice. I've had this female friend for around 3-4 years, she is very pretty and has had bad luck in her previous relationship with a guy that has been on and off. She dosent talk alot about it but I feel very sad for her not finding a man that can be honest and take good care of her. Latley during summer she has been spending alot of time with me and our other close friends. Not really alot of time alone together. But when were alone there is a kind of tension. I think she wants me and I want her aswell. Now that you know a little back story. My question is how do I turn this friendship into a relationship with intamacy and feelings, commitment to each other?
I do not want to fuck up my friendship, but I'm prepared that it will have an impact of this turns out bad.
just do it mate. ask her out. to try and fail will always feel better than to not try at all
So I've been working at this place and my contract is ending in two weeks
This week there came a new employee and I think I'm in love. I think she also likes me, I've catched her looking at me a few times. She is eager to chat with me and we get along.
I'm 19 kissless virgin with two friends (male) and I really don't want to let this one go, but I have no clue how these things work. She's 21 and she is experienced and dresses like a popular girl, yet she seems a little shy.
What do I do to get things going in the remaining two weeks?
>>18494416
ask for her number in week 1,5?
get to know her outside of work. that will show her you are interested in her. chatting after work or meeting up is desirable
are you sure she likes you? good luck anon, but don't get fired or be so thirsty with her, it'll ruin your job life
I'm one of those types of people that could imagine themselves doing anything. I can't seem to decide what I wanna do as a job, what I should take in school, or if I should even go to school at all.
I'm fucking with myself hardcore, I'm so indecisive and I feel like I'm wasting time. I have no specific interests, I like everything and nothing, I'm a bit depressed but it's not that bad. I think I'll get over it when I figure out some sort of life plan.
How did you guys decide what you want to be? Is anyone else here indecisive? How do you get over the sheer numbers of things you could do and narrow it down to something you could be happy in til retirement?
Seriously, I'm floundering between doing something self-indulgent like acting or writing, or doing a trade, or going to uni, or starting my own business doing whatever the fuck, etc etc. All tips and advice welcome, you'll definitely be helping.
>pic not related.
Whatever you do, don't be a neet
>>18494414
Well, I just decided what was the thing I liked, and how to do that most.
I like to do nothing, play vidya, watch tv, etc. To keep doing that, I need money, and some free time from getting it. So, I decided to become a translator. I don't like it, bur I don't mind it, either, so that's how it is.
I'd say you just need to optimize. If you want to just fuck around with various stuff, find a way to do it that's the most painless one.
Not so good an advice, I'm afraid.
>>18494433
That's exactly it, I'm so indecisive I'm just wasting away doing dumb minimum wage contract jobs and fucking around. Feels sad, man.
Found a job on craigslist. Basically id be a perfect fit as i have previous work experience in the field. I emailed the guy with my info and why id be a good fit - he emailed me back shortly after saying everything sounds great, and that he was going to call me at around 2 oclock to discuss the job with me because he was currently busy and that to expect a phonecall from him then. He also said he was looking forward to speaking with me. Responded affirmative to him and that ill have my phone ready. Pretty to the point stuff.
Well its been 3 hours and he never called me. Skipped going to the gym with my thumb up my ass waiting for this dude. What gives? Do i email him again asking whats up? Or do i just keep waiting and maybe email him again tomorrow?
Inb4 find a different job - im already working and will be going to school in the fall again and this job pays awesome, has perfect hours for my schedule, is full time and something i have years of experience in. Opinions welcome on how i proceed from here, thanks.
>pic related how i feel right now
Bumping bls resbond
>>18494406
Wait till 2 tommorrow, email again
>>18494460
This is what i was leaning towards, just figured id ask because i really dont want this one to slip between my fingers. Its the kind of job that is absolutely perfect for how my work/school schedule is gonna be for the next couple years.
A girl is coming over my house to hang out with me possibly alone, on Sunday. This has never happened to me before. I'm not looking for sex right away or anything, since its at my parents home (I'm 25). How do I make it clear I like her without crossing boundaries. How do I not get friend zoned from this. We are supposed to be playing Nintendo games.
>>18494400
>we are supposed to play video games
Perfect situation of a tickle attack. Everything will play out nicely after that.
In all seriousness, just don't panic or appear nervous.
Fucked by life yet again, Im thinking pretty strongly about taking out some life insurance and just having myself an accident, last couple days ive had my hopes up (first mistake), because I applied to a job that I know how to do well and was 1 of 2 people interviewed for said job....interviewer casually told me the other applicant had zero experience and that I would hear from him in a couple days...well guess what the 0 experience person got the job....im just sick of being shit on in every direction I wasn't even concerned with the money, I just wanted something to do with my time besides being a sad fuck plus it would have been a job I would have enjoyed and thrived at. Probably going to buy a million dollars worth of insurance and cash out for my family's sake any suggestions?
>>18494390
Honestly, I'm one step behind you. If I'm dismissed I'll probably join you
>>18494432
At least you have something to be dismissed from
>>18494450
I don't think you got it, I mean, I'm in the exact same situation. Experienced, a job offer for my dream employer fell on my lap, competing with another guy who didn't even seen to know what position he was being interviewed for. I travelled to two interviews (100km each leg) and even spent the night in a hotel on money I couldn't spare, and they said they'd call me regardless of the result today at most.
It's 19:00 local time, I'm already having all the possible bad toughts about it
Cts certificate vs cs degree
I don't have a degree and I don't know where to start, I like coding and science. Also I am 23.
Certificate
>30k for rent, food, tuition etc for year 1 study and year 1 work (hopefully)
Subtracting money I get from work term
>2 years long with work term
Degree
>one year at my college- 5k -then 3 yrs at uni -add 60k- including rent, food, etc
>12-16 month work term (better chance with degree) so subtract whatever I make there
>4 1/2 years long with work term
I'd also get probably 12k in grants, live very cheap and probably a few scholarships considering I'm female. What do?
Those estimates do not include the subtraction of a work term considering I don't know if I'll get one and how much I'd get
>>18494387
where do you live?
>>18494509
Canada
>Be 6/10 basic bitch
>9/10 who looks like pic related asks me out on a date
Am I being bamboozled by chad here? I've always dated average looking men with similar interests. He seemed really nice
Just don't fuck him on the first & second date and you're good to go.
Also, just make sure he's not looking for sex exclusively.
Plus, if he looks like that guy in the pic, he is most definitely not a "chad".
>>18494408
>Famous model
>Not a chad
>>18494382
He might have low self esteem or look for a pump and dump lady
Just don't put out right away and try to determine his intentions
but honestly if he looks like pic related, chances are he's a fuckboy