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Do girls like to be ignored? Does this make it easier to make them your GF?
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NOOO!
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Aloofness works when you're already desirable.
I went through an aloof, 2cool5u phase and it got me nothing. A pretty coworker mentioned she thought I was stuck up when she first met me. I guess I could have turned the tables into a confessional, a la "I just feel kinda empty, people are 2 feet away from each other and they're not even THERE, you know, it's like our whole culture is just becoming more and more separated from each other..." Try to BS my way into her pants type of thing.
Otherwise leave it to the male model types.
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not unless you're a manipulative sociopath and the girl is already in love with you
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Why is it 'wrong' to improve yourself just to get women ? 2017-07-08 03:30:25 Post No.18495418
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Why is it 'wrong' to improve yourself just to get women ?
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Let's say you excercise and recently started weightlifting, because you're not handsome and want to improve your looks.
Secondly, you're saving up money, pursuing a better job, and eventually going to college to find a career and increase your earning potential.
Would it still be silly to do these things solely (if not mostly) because you want to improve your odds when it comes to getting women, maybe even marry one some day ?
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Because you're speeding toward a mid-life crisis. Women can sense how desperate you are.
The question is why wouldn't you do any of those things only for yourself? THAT, otoh, is attractive. Do you think you'd be a fucking burnout slob if you didn't grovel for pussy?
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>>18495418
There's nothing wrong with improving yourself. Your motivation is flawed. Not that it's a bad thing to want a woman - but if your sole reason for making yourself a better human being is so someone will slob your knob, you're doing it all wrong anyway.
And it probably means once you get slobbed, you'll stop trying to improve. Meaning your basically a desperate piece of shit. Improve yourself because being a worthwhile human being is a good thing, not because your dick is dry.
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>>18495431
Not OP, but what if I want some pussy but in my current state cannot do so? It's wrong of me to work towards pussy?
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I have one month to get ready to take a physical agility test. My future is literally depending on me passing this test.
Full test:
>18 push ups in under 60 seconds. (Easy, got it.)
>21 Sit Ups in under 60 seconds (Easy, got it)
>Hop a fence, then drag a 150 human shaped dummy 10 yards. (The fence is no trouble, but I need to get my strength up to not struggle with that dummy.)
>300 meter sprint in under 77 seconds. (Currently, my fastest time is 82 seconds and that is pushing HARD. This is very much my weakest link right now.)
>Mile and 1/2 run in under 16 minutes. (This happens directly after the sprint. My endurance needs a major upgrade to get through this.)
What would be the best way to prepare? Would my plan of just doing this exact test daily until the exam day work?
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>>18495347
It would help, but mixing it up. Would probably work better.
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ask /fit/
we are all obese neck beards here.
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>>18495347
Best bang for your buck, at least with the with running, is to do exactly what you're training for. "Principle of specificity"
I'd go 6 days a week, alternating days between running and the pushup/situp work. Sundays off. Last week do everything same, just at very low intensity. Don't even sweat.
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what's a hobby that i can do on my college campus that girls also like?
i want to meet girls.
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>>18495253
lifting will help make you attractive, but most grills dont care about that anyway
Maybe go feel out the girls at your campus and find out what they like, people are varied and like lots of stuff
Otherwise pick up common normie things like cooking, watching popular shows (game of thrones, walking dead, mad men idk)
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>>18495275
>lifting will help make you attractive, but most grills dont care about that anyway
False on so many levels. Next you'll be saying girls don't masturbate
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>>18495289
Not him, but unless you reach the top 1% of aesthetics, you won't be getting girls solely with your gains. You still need game (if you want hookups, fuck buddies, etc.) or other desirable qualities (if you want a gf).
You should obviously lift for a ton of different reason, but it's not a panacea for getting pussy.
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Medical Mystery
This is my last resort. Can't stand living like this anymore and the doctors literally tell me "I don't know what's wrong with you" and just give up
>eat ANY kind of food
>20-30 minutes later eyes feel sour and puffy
>start to feel feverish
>nose feels like it's burning
>start sweating profusely
>stomach starts feeling super warm to the touch
>no fever tho
>get really sleepy
>aches and pains all over body
>become very sensitive to light and sound
>throat feels disgusting and painful
>no red throat tho
>irritability through the fucking roof
>no abnormal temperature
>mood swings up the fuckin ass
>pounding headache
>everything feels surreal
>short term memory is fucking shot
>foggy brain every fucking day that gets worse with eating
I'm losing my fucking mind. I literally woke up a few weeks ago feeling like I'm in a dream and the feeling hasn't left me. I have done a CT, Ultrasound, multiple blood tests and the only thing that came back odd was my elevated liver enzymes but apparently it doesn't bother the 4 doctors I have seen
If anyone can figure this shit out I will fucking reward you
ask away for details
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Sounds like allergies. What do/don't you eat?
Might try asking the RayPeatForum
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>>18495193
>eat ANY kind of food
really any? have you tried eating nothing but steamed veggies for two days? im not doubting you im just checkign to be 100% sure.
it sounds like celiacs disease, which is very simple so they probably would have checked for that
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>>18495203
I eat everything from vegetables to meats to wheat. Never has this been a problem before until a few weeks ago
I'll take a look at the forum
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fucking tired of feeling like shit all the time
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>>18494689
For some reason or...?
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>>18494715
do you enjoy feeling like shit?
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What does that have to do with anything?
I asked why do you feel like shit?
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>matched with a girl on bumble
>met up with her once, went to her place but we didn't have sex, just made out etc.
>she ghosted, idk why
>fast forward to today it seems she made a new bumble account
>it keeps on getting front loaded (for over 24 hours now) and idk if I should swipe left or right
>if I swipe right and she does, too then it would make me look like a punk ass bitch
What do?
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Why would swiping right make you a punk ass bitch? If she's not interested she won't, then no big deal.
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>>18494224
If we match I mean.
I'm thinking she would think that I ain't shit because she ghosted and I still swiped right.
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>>18494233
She ghosted you so she won't think shit about you either way.
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Hey so I was born in this shit hole place called Pakistan. My family moved to the Uk. I was very happy growing up. I felt like I was at home there.We went to Italy and Switzerland for vacations.Nothing could be better.
Then after 4 years my family decided to come back here. Fast forward 10 years and I have been depressed and have anxiety and irritable bowel syndrome all because of this country.Valium and Xanax are the only thing that helps my ibs and the pain. I hate the people here and their mentality.I have all the money and cars here but I still hate my life.I have no motivation to do anything here like go on a vacation to Dubai with my bro or even wear decent fucking clothes. I spend all my time on the internet and video games.I have had only a handful of friends here in these 10 years because of my depression etc.
Now that I am 19 and have finished my college,my parents have given me the opportunity of studying abroad. My parents want me to go to the Uk but the thing is that after studies, getting a job there is impossible for a foreigner.Plus you only get 3 months to find a job or get out. I am also gonna try Canadian and Australian Universities but I have heard from countless people that the embassy does grant visas for these countries. This is my only chance of going abroad for extended period of time and the likely option that I have is only UK. After this I will be on my own and my parents won't fund me. What do I do? Whenever I think of returning back from UK after my studies I feel like being trapped in this country forever. If I don't somehow make it out of this country permanently then I will probably kill myself. I would rater live in the west and have a normal life than be a millionaire.I feel like I have been trapped in a jail for 10 years.
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>>18493550
Uk is not a good idea with the whole brexit thing
Try Germany maybe
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You have seen what a good civilization is like, use your experience and intelligence to make your country a better place. Grow some balls and become a hero for your people.
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>>18493556
germany?
i dont shit about germany but sounds dangerous
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It started when I first got with my girlfriend about a year ago. When my mom first sat down at met her, she barged into my room in the middle of the night after my girlfriend left and I awoke to yelling, hearing things like "do you have no self esteem?! Look how ugly she is!" I had been living with my mother for 17 years by that point and was generally used to verbal abuse, so I didn't mind it and just went back to sleep.
Ever since then, she would routinely text my girlfriend every time she was upset with me, and accuse me of "following my girlfriend into college" because we were both going to the same college out of coincidence. She wanted me to go to Georgia Tech since she is living in Georgia, despite the fact that GA Tech is an extremely expensive school and would put me in a lifetime of debt.
Then, one day she texted my girlfriend and said "I really just wish you would have encouraged my son to go where the money is instead of following your ass into college. Smh" and when I told her to apologize, she texted my girlfriend again stating "I said what I said." My girlfriend was not raised by a narcissist, so she only put up with my mom's disrespect out of love for me, but that was the final straw for her and my girlfriend began arguing with my mom. After everything settled down, my girlfriend offered to apologize several times, but my mother refused to accept it.
My mother has been dangling that incident over my head these past few months, saying "I can't believe you would let your girlfriend call me a bitch." Now she has been making posts on Instagram making herself as the victim, posting things like "only a bitch lets someone disrespect his mom. I might as well have raised a girl."
Fortunately my family is on my side, because they all know how my mother is. But she's been posting about me on social media and now I've got dozens of people private messaging me and verbally attacking me who don't know anything about the situation.
Pic related.
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Sorry if the post is long, but this shit is really eating me up. Now she has told me I'm dead to her among other things. What should I do?
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You're mom's a retard. Don't give her the time of day.
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>>18492480
Tell her you went to college to study and money means nothing to you. It might not have to do with the girl but it seems as though your mom thinks youre throwing your life away by not earning big money. Let her know money isnt important to you and follow your passions.
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My girlfriend cheated on me 3 times (same person) while I was on a road trip. She told me right away. I have no idea what to do. I love her. We were going to move in together the day I got back, which is 2 days from now. Please help me figure this out, I'm too emotionally fucked to deal with this rationally on my own
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>>18491943
Infidelity doesn't guarantee your relationship will end. When someone cheats, there's two main reasons why. One, they were missing something from their actual relationship. Two, they cheated because of personal problems, such as determining their self worth through sex.
It's possible to get through cheating. You just need to have a lot of conversations, a lot of communication, and a lot of working through this in an emotionally healthy way.
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>>18491956
Don't listen to this person
They cheated on you break up with them right now.
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>>18491943
You break up with the fucking whore, OP. She can't be trusted to not jump in the sack with Chad Thundercock for a couple of weeks at a time. What happens when she gets bored in the relationship a few years down the road? Worse, what happens if you have kids? The answer to this question is to ALWAYS break up if kids are not involved. Even if kids are involved, there's little reason to stay together after infidelity. She isn't the person you are in love with - you love an idealized version of her that doesn't exist. Don't let these pussies tell you otherwise.
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Guys, I haven't tried to check a 4chan archive in years and it looks like the sites I used to use caved around 2014.
Do you know an archive that's still up?
I'm just trying to find some old fucking /co/ threads, man.
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so not even kidding pls help didnt know if /b/ or /adv/
sorry if really shitty typing
just sitting in my room
totally relaxed browsing 4chan
get to start hot
head is spinning
decide to move next to fan
fan is blasting
im sweating bullets
its been like 20 minutes
am i dying?
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>be me
>single for a couple months
>talked to this random girl a while back
>immediately hit it off
>could've probably gotten her if I wanted
>found a different chick at same time
>got with her instead
>have since broken up with her
>original girl I was talking to got a boyfriend
>fat cucklord
>knew it wouldn't last
>waited patiently
>now there broken up
>she immediately starts talking to me again
>talking going smooth
>see in snapchat story she's watching show i like
>huge fanboy of said show, and she is as well
>say we should watch it sometime
>says yes
>going to
What should I do? How do I not fuck this up? Genuinely like this girl and she's pretty attractive. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks
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How do I bring something up that i'm upset about to a girl (not my gf) without sounding like a bitch? I'm upset with her lack of recent communication, it feels dishonest, but I still want to be friends if she is being truthful. How can I bring it up without either accusing her, or making myself look clingy/jealous?
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Is it possible to get thicker bones in mid to late 20s? I've read that peak bone mass is reached by or at around age 30 but that could just be a meme.
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Yes, lift heavy
This is a health question. So how is your metabolism? Your thyroid function? Think big picture before narrowing down to something so irrelevant.
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>>18495152
You can't.
But you see how big fat people are?
Their bones are tiny and yet they're still huge.
You can do the same with muscle.
LIFT bitch
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>>18495167
>Yes, lift heavy
What lifts should I do? How many sets and reps? I've mostly been doing pushups, hammer curls, lateral raises, deadlifts, and occasionally benchpresses.
>So how is your metabolism? Your thyroid function?
I'm not sure how to answer these questions, to be honest. I guess my metabolism is pretty fast. I don't gain weight very quickly, as long as I don't go overboard on junk food.
Last time my hormone levels were tested, they were mostly normal but had to be checked twice due to one irregular result. The first test was administered slightly later in the day (around noon), and showed free testosterone levels below the normal range (around 9 ng). The second test taken early in the morning gave a drastically different result (around 16 ng).