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I want to get laid. I'm a bi guy and closeted, kind of. I'm thinking of using craigslist over grinder. just scared of getting raped basically or outed. what do
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>>6630467
you're more likely to get raped via craigslist
also nobody is going to out you on grindr.
why are you still in the closet, anyway
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>>6630483
parents are crazy religious
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>>6630467
Find a guy to be your bf. If it isn't working out, then you'll both know that it wasn't meant to be and everything will be more-or-less OK.
Hookups will only lead to empty feelings and regrets later on down the line. Also HIV.

I'm not gay but I wouldn't mind dressing up like a girl and having a guy stick it in my mouth only. How do I go about doing this? I put up a CL ad but it seems dangerous and probably won't go through with it.

I already finished edging earlier and usually the urge goes away but no it's still here as I'm sober.
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>Wants to crossdress

Ok it's possible you're not gay

>Wants to suck dick
>not gay

GTFO out please

Meh bait/10

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So, i came to the realization that i am gay, what now ?
I don't feel different and honestly i don't want to come out until my grandparents are dead (in about 5 years).
Also i don't wanna loose the three friends that i have.
Would it be worth to come out of the closet if i do not give a shit about having sex or a relationship ?
It seems like a lot of effort for a lot of nothing and the potential to be treated different by everyone.
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>>6630082
No, don't worry about it until you're ready.
Personally I haven't told anyone about myself and only will do so if I have a bf to introduce them too or something
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>>6630082
Where do you live, OP?
If it's in a more liberal area, your friends probably won't care.
You don't have to come out to everyone at once, and telling your friends first is often the easiest and best way to start.
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I'm In A Similar Predicament But In My Case I Do Care About Relationships, The Downside Being: I'm Too Unattractive To Be In One. Is It Worth Disappointing My Grandfather And Mother For The Duration Of Their Lives For Nothing?

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rape edition

▶ Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
▶ Trans Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/h1vLPxyV
▶ Beginner makeup resources: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
▶ Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
▶ Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
▶ Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
▶ Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge
▶ HRT info: https://web.archive.org/web/0000000000000/http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
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Previous thread >>6628713
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more like edgy edition desu
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http://www.vice.com/en_uk/read/everything-ive-learned-about-sex-paris-lees

OMG Paris Lees is getting a BBC show!
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whats up mtfg
im kinda bored
what yall doing
also rape is bad dont do that >:c

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I'm 27 and want to go MTF

Will hormones even do anything significant post-puberty?

I don't want the dream to die ; ;
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If seeing a therapist to pursue addressing gender dysphoria and going mtf, what kind of questions are generally asked and what kind of answers result in a proverbial failure?
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>>6629896
>Will hormones even do anything significant post-puberty?
Yes. I started at 23 and it's fine.

I always tell people to go for it because it's always worth a try. Being on hrt by itself will help even if you don't pass.

>>6629950
My experience from Sweden is that the only clear failure state is having a different mental illness that disqualifies you. They might delay your treatment if you don't look like you are taking it seriously enough, but you should be self-medicating anyway because the system is fucked. Dressing more femininely, saying that you've told your family, showing that you don't give a shit about what the haters say, etc, will work in your favour but you're not disqualified if you don't.
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>>6629950

>How would you describe your dysphoria?
Right: I have a physical disgust and hatred of my secondary and or primary sex characteristics. And I Have a strong desire to have a more female body
Wrong: I just want to wear girls clothes, I want to be a girl and fap, I’m fine with my male body, I just want hormones to make be look cute or young, I think being a tranny is cool or sexy

>How long have you had these feelings?
Right: I wanted to be a girl for as long as I can remember, I started getting physical dysphoria when I started puberty and it has got stronger since
Wrong: less than 6 months, less than 2 years, less than 5 years

>How do you feel when you crossdress? Or make yourself look more feminine like shaving etc?
Right: I feel happy and comfortable, I do normal things around the house when I cross dress
Wrong: I get super turned on and fap fap fap

>Do you have a mental illness
Right: I don’t think I have a mental illness
Wrong: I have depression or anxiety or autism or some other clinical mental illness

>How do you identify? Man or woman?
Right: I feel like I think more like a woman than a man, I don’t like being manly, I want to be female, or I feel that I am female. I do not identify at all with men, I feel like I am supposed to be female, I am either female or transgender
Wrong: man, gay, gender fluid, lesbian, gender non-conforming, (anything other than female or tranny)

>Do you have support networks?
Right: I have family or friend who I KNOW will support me, I have a family member who knows about my situation and they are accepting (you can make this up as there is no way for them to verify without breaking patient confidentiality). I have an online support (don’t say 4chan, just say online group ) or local group I go to, I have the phone number of a therapist/ counselor if I need to see one.
Wrong: I am on my own, no one knows about me, I have no friends, my family hate me

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how do i look for a qt guy to hook up with?
i've tried craigslist but i'm afraid of catching something since a guy i know did catch something.
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>>6629349
>Deluxe punishment bag for punishment
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>>6629349
god I have such a force fem fetish
it's not even a fetish really, just gives me warm fuzzy feels inside
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>>6629349
What do you think of as cute?

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>like guys sexually
>girls are meh sexually, even if they kiss better
>guys are horrible fucking romantic partners
>girls are comfy to be around

Is there a way to make yourself like girls more?
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>>6628786
I have the same issue. I love kissing and cuddling girls. It's the most satisfying thing I can think of.

But I can't get it up during sex unless I think about dick.
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>>6628793
Get a MtF gf who likes her dick, or a femboi bf?
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>>6628857
I'm OP, and I'm MtF. I don't really want an MtF gf, even if I'm more than okay with other MtF friends. Two MtFs dating is just feels squared.

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Pokegirl edition

▶ Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
▶ Trans Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/h1vLPxyV
▶ Beginner makeup resources: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
▶ Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
▶ Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
▶ Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
▶ Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge
▶ HRT info: https://web.archive.org/web/0000000000000/http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
▶Gallery full of cis women of all heights and weights and body shapes to make you feel better about yourself: http://www.mybodygallery.com/
▶ Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
▶ IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg

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does my voice pass?
Also, I'm getting married to Faye and Kaylee!!!
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have a sad cum thread
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Continuing from last thread, yes I probably should tell my bosses I'm transitioning and would like to show up as a girl one day. And that I will need to frequently use the restroom because spiro.

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My story is pretty much the same, always knew I was different, didn't know about Trans until teens, yadayadayada. Anyway, I have been planning on coming out for about a year now, and have a set date, but the time is getting REALLY close and I'm getting nervous. I know my parents wont believe me, because i'm far from a stereotype where you can just tell, and I already know that questioning makes me reconsider myself, it always does, in all situations. So even though I shouldn't have to be asking this question, how can I be sure my feelings are legitimate and not just me over-estimating my differences to other boys?
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>>6628565
By talking to a psychologist who has experience dealing with transsexuals, for one. Get diagnosed. Qualified second opinion and all that.

Expect to never be absolutely 100% sure, though. I decided to transition when I realized that i was "certain enough" and that waiting would just make things worse for me.
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>>6630223
Oh, and once I started HRT it made me even more certain. A hypothetical diagnostic method is actually to just give people HRT and see how they react. If you start feeling bad when on HRT, if you miss having erections and feel emasculated, then you are probably not trans. If you're on HRT and have no regrets, you're 99% probable to be trans iirc.

I really recommend getting diagnosed, though. It will give you legitimacy when you come out to your parents. [spoiler]If you are underage b& and need your parents to find a psych for you, just tell them that you are "thinking about it" and want to meet a psych to figure it out.[/spoiler]
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>>6630223
Hey op im probably one of the more extreme cases (trust me) and I have regrets and stuff everyone once in awhile. They mostly come when I'm extremely dehydrated or in overwhelming amounts of pain. But they always go away and I want to be a woman again. I want to be normal. Nobody wants to be a freak. Sure sometimes I wish I could cute my dysphoria and just be a boy and basically be done with it because its easy. But it doesn't work that way and trying to force it or be on T is just plain wrong and I always felt much worse and I'd have a break down.

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Can we just acknowledge that science isn't there yet for some of us and just because we don't want to get on pills or go under the knife doesn't mean we don't feel how people who do choose that. I mean I get it but consider that some of us werent raised in supportive households and didn't even know the right word to describe how we have felt all of our lives.

I am exhausted with this movement to crucify someone for not getting on hormones the second they start hating their junk. Yes time is valuable to this process but it seems like some of us aren't going to be happy with the options we have. Consider the healers in Elysium. If those could be wired to do a sex change I would, but taking pills and turning my dick inside out just isn't what I want for myself.
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>>6628362
But if even femboys can get into body mod while still calling themselves guys, then how could anyone call themselves trans say they're a woman and deliberately reject any body mod?
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>>6628362
Hormone treatments and 'gender reassignment' surgeries are vastly overrated. You do you, Anon.
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why wouldnt a trans person want to be on hormones
are you afraid of hiding boobs or needing to eventually go fulltime?

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Why do trans girls always dress like characters from My Life Me
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>>6628111
Honestly only weebs do. I find it repulsive.
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>>6628111
because it's cute

>tfw no t-girlfriend who wears striped thigh-highs
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>>6628111
>My Life Me
wtf this looks like questionable content

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So I'm wondering why normal straight men are complaining about no girls ever wanting them, and how it's so hard for straight men to get dates.

I:
>am a mallet
>have huge-ass hips
>have literal D-cup moobs
>have no dick
>am overall mediocre-looking

And you know what? Women are all over me. It's too much to handle sometimes.

Why are they, men who were born right, supposedly having problems with women?
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>>6627987
pic pic pic
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>>6627987
you're probably more respectful towards women than your average straight man. ... or you're lying, or you're attracting lesbians.
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>>6627987
lol mallet I meant manlet

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I don't know if this is were I should post this but this seems like the best place I may be able to anonymously get an answer.

I am a guy, biologically and mentally born that way. I am a 1 or 2 on the Kinsey scale, I've blown dudes and been blown by dudes but I'd never want to fuck a dude or get fucked.
Even though I do completely consider myself a male, I like to be considered feminine, I would much rather be called pretty or cute over being called handsome. I had an ex that always told me I "have a feminine energy" and I really took it as a compliment.

Is there a term for this either in LGBT community or perhaps [spoiler]kinkdom, I know the two aren't directly linked but like I said I don't really know where to ask this.[/spoiler]
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>>6627876
You could literally just go on one of tumblrs' bullshit websites and pick out one of the 342 gender identities that "best describes" you.

Or you could just be yourself and not worry about arbitrary labels. Your choice.
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>>6628426
I mean I am a male, 100%.
I just was curious if there was a word for that kind of thing.
Saging thread because I posted in another thread and your answer is good enough anyway.
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>>6628440
No word for it as far as I know (although I'm sure tumblr has come up with a few). You may have a tough of autogynophilia, which is a term for a man who gets turned on be being perceived as or imagining himself as a woman. It's become a dirty word to throw at trannies on this board.

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>tfw i JUST saw a tall transgirl with stripety kneesocks and bangs out on the street
have any /lgbt/ memes come true in life for you? what were they?
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should have talked to her, sperg
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how do you know if she's trans?
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>>6627713
lmao

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>Be me working as a night auditor in a hotel.
>Be with girlfriend but always been bi and sometimes very attracted to some men.
>Every night I do, there's this man delivering the daily journals.
>At first, just some "Hey" and "Have a nice day"...
>Slowly becomes more of a "Hey, how's it going ?" kinda conversations, always a little more...
>Very into this dude... I think he's really into me too.
>Too scared to make a move while at work (even if there's nobody around)

What do /lgbt/ ? I would love to get in bed with this dude...
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>>6627583
you literally work in a hotel, go find an empty room
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>>6627619
Eh... Wish it could be that easy.
Security cameras everywhere, especially around the desk.
It's a 4star hotel.
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I'm at no position to give you advice on this, but maybe if you asked for his number or name.

I've been through this a thousand times and I never made a move though

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