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(Telling the whole story but a tl;dr version will be green texted at the end)
I identified as a FTM trans guy for years (as in, since I knew what it meant to be transgender since I never felt like a girl. So, like, since I was 12.) I'm 21 now and had only been out to a select few people for varying lengths of time. My most recent group of friends even called me by my boy name and used he/him pronouns with me. This was the first time anyone had really done this with me, because when I was in high school, even when I came out to my friends, they refused to acknowledge it at all which made my disphoria worse.
But recently I've realized that, I'm not FTM after all. Now I consider myself Genderqueer/Androgyne. I didn't realize this before because I only knew about the nonbinary identities after high school and even so, because I'd been groomed by Tumblr (-__-) I had heard that it's possible to be FTM but still be feminine, thus making understanding my identity even more confusing because part of why I was never taken seriously when I came out was because I presented what they (my friends) considered to be femininity.
So, in short:
>I "was" FTM for several years and came out as such to a small group of people
>I never presented very masculinely as I preferred femininity/androgyny
>Now I identify as an Androgyne
>My fears are coming out and having people not take me seriously for being nonbinary or for having a "tumblr identity"
>My fears for coming out to people who know me as trans are them saying "you really weren't a guy" and "you really did change your mind" and otherwise mocking me.
> Have any of you gone through an identity shift like this? What was the outcome/reaction?
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>>6634252
Look dude, you're probably just a feminine trans guy and that's fine. You don't need to put on a meme gender label just because you don't fit into a masculine stereotype
Before I came out as FtM to myself I had a period of "I'm not suuuper masculine and I rarely have top dysphoria (I have bad bottom dysphoria though) I must be a specialgender nonbinary fruitcake"
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>>6634252
you come across as more of a feminine trans guy rather than someone that's non-binary, when it comes to gender expression, no matter what your gender identity is your expression does not have to be congruent with it in order for it to be valid
i would say you're non-binary though if you honestly don't feel like your gender is entirely masculine, but you have to figure out if it's gender expression you're hung up about or not
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i remember the good old day when you had a personality
nowadays you just have an identity the more obscure the better and ju longer down on the oppression totem pole the better
or maybe i'm just old and cranky
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So we're up for the banner contest on the 1st. What best represents /lgbt/?
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I feel like our interactions with /pol/ are known better than our local board culture.
Probably out to be something about our ironic prominence of LGBT right-wingers.
Milo, the transgirl wearing the Trump hat, etc.
That or
>Straight man poo
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>>6634020
An island inhabited by lepers
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Hey /LGBT/
I've never really posted here before I'm more of a /pol/ guy (pic related) but recently a trans girl came into my life and I can't get her out of my head. She lives in a different continent to me but we (in my head at least) are perfect for each other). Sometimes I think she's too good to be true and the fact is she's so far away it more or less is. ;.; but yeah I can never get her out of my head and I just wanted to ask for /LGBT/'s love stories/ heartbreaks and hopefully support
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>>6633278
If you can get her out of your head.... Just let the flower of love take your souls
Ok... Do you lost something if it werent true?
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how about her how does she feel?
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>>6633643
I think.... He hadnt think in that
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Let's say you start hormones at 25. Obviously your hips won't grow, your breast growth and fat redistribution will be abysmal at best and you'll never attain a normal female figure but why is that? Aren't bones supposed to get completely remodeled every couple of years, tissues changed and fat shifted in place so every decade you are closer to having a female figure? Supposedly if you start hormones at such advanced age, will you still look the same at 50?
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>>6633119
>will you still look the same at 50?
no lol
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breast growth is reduced because your metabolism is slowed down, but then again I've seen some hons that, despite their flaws, have some pretty nice natural breasts.
hip growth/other bone growth doesn't happen because of epiphyseal closure
but fat redistribution can happen at any age. it all depends on your sex hormones. Menopausal women start to get bellies because they have less estrogen.
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>>6633143
Im not a doctor but she/he got a point
I stopped going out in girlmode altogether except when I visit my endo to get more hormones. Is it bad that I have been basically leading him on and that I have no intention of going full-time because I look ridiculous and like a total man? I feel so bad for him but since he's a hugboxer who said I look more fem than when I first started he kinda deserves it, to be honest.
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>>6632796
He's just afraid you'll write terrible reviews online and make him lose a lot of money
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>>6632796
No anon, that's perfectly respectable. I'm sorry thing didn't work like you hoped but I'm happy you're on hormones and that they make you feel better. Please be strong, okay?
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Do you think he cares either way?
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Has any male bodied people here just taken regular estrogen supplements? I really want a femme appearance but HRT is really an option right now. I know it woldnt be as good as regular HRT but is it worth it? Any experiences?
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>>6631911
Well... I alredy tried to ask things like this... And i will just say
"Never lose the hope my friend"
And for the hormones.... They have a pretty good effect
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>>6631911
The older you are the less it works.
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>>6631911
No and I have sexy legs
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Gay General - The Illusion Of Choice Edition
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It's all about the illusion of choice and the complete control of the masses. The oligarchy meets secretly amongst themselves and decides which of them will volunteer to run for election. Some run as left wing, and some as right, pretending to be in opposition.
This is the Hegelian dialectic in action. It gets back to the illusion of choice.
Hegelian dialectic, usually presented in a threefold manner, was stated by Heinrich Moritz Chalybäus as comprising three dialectical stages of development: a thesis, giving rise to its reaction, an antithesis, which contradicts or negates the thesis, and the tension between the two being resolved by means of a synthesis.
For example when people are talking about 2 political parties, Republican or Democrat, what they’re actually referring to, without realizing it, is the thesis and the antithesis based off the Hegelian Dialectic. The only real debate that occurs is just the minor differences between those two parties. Nothing is said or done about the issues that neither left or right is discussing. This in particular will become more apparent as the election draws near.
Almost all major events in history employ the Hegelian Dialectic of: Problem – manufacture a crisis or take advantage of one already in place in order to get the desired Reaction of public outcry whereby the public demands a Solution which has been predetermined from the beginning. A classic example is 9/11.
The centrally controlled mass media gives 100% media coverage to the predetermined candidates and no coverage to anybody else. On election day electronic voting machines automatically change the winning votes to the predetermined candidates. Meanwhile, the populace feels their vote actually matters, even though it is the electoral college which actually casts the votes. The electoral college is a small group of establishment handlers who tow the party line every time and ignore the will of the people.
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What kind of undies do you prefer your bf to wear ?
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>>6631619
none so he becomes the antithesis to the undie wearing me and we can synthesize the fuck out of each other
am I doing it right, OP?
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>>6631619
none, lingerie is for girls
and underwear is a waste of money
why does anyone need underwear?
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I wish I was a girl
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>tfw girl
Suck it, losers.
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>tfw parents got angry at you for not being born a girl
hmmmmm
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>>6631184
>tfw want to be a girl
>tfw bruce-jenner-tier masc man with lantern jaw and don't even exercise hard or anything
I've kind of come to accept the fact that life is going to be a horrible experience for me and I'm never going to have the thing I want the most or feel happy or fulfilled
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I posted this on /adv with only one poster giving me a nothingburger reply. Please bear with me, I don't care to rewrite
This isn't about me, but I'll greentext for context:
>together with stunning and intelligent gf for five years
>she's a closet lesbian
>sex probably fewer than twenty times last four years
>she wants intimacy, but not sex
>depressed
>relationship ended 7 years ago this summer
>remain friends, I care about her
>call it sibling-like love
>nobody knows her as good as I do
>she still struggles, and I'm there for her, even if I'm pining
>I date other women and fall in love btw inb4 cuck meme
>three months short of six years ago
>she's admitted that she's only interested in girls
>we're at a party together
>she meets girl
>I instantly know
>less than two weeks later they're official and exclusive
>3 1/3 years ago my ex proposed
>1 year ago they get married
Her wife is beautiful, kind, fun and intelligent as well. Everything I'd wish for my ex. In recent years I've become almost better friends with her than my ex, and hung out more with just her on occasion.
To the issue:
Last night I talked with my close mate, who's also good friends with my ex. They hung out last week and drank wine. My ex got a little tipsy and admitted that they're not doing very well. Lesbian bed death.
>mfw
Cont'd.
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I'm a different man now than I was when we were together. I was a 25 yo boy when we broke up, and now I'm a 32 yo man, I've had a lot of experience in relationships after we ended, and my seduction game and sex life is a different beast altogether.
I understand women more than most other people I know, not to brag.
She's ashamed of having these troubles only one year into her marriage, and apparently it's been going on for years. She rarely talks about it with people, and it's easier for her to open up to our common friend, since he's a 32 yo virgin asexual - which means he doesn't really know how to give any advice in the matter, but he's a good listener.
I want to be there for her, and I know a few things that should work, even though this is a same-sex relationship. I mean, women are women, right? My mate tells me he doesn't believe that's the case, and that lesbians are exposed to more testosterone when they're developing in the womb, therefore their brains are more male than heterosexual women's.
>idkman.png
Should I talk to her? I think it's such a shame that two beautiful women (positively the hottest lesbian couple in town, both feminine) can't share a boiling hot sex life. I believe that with little effort anyone can improve their game, and my advice doesn't rely on gender, I want to talk to her about seduction in general, and specifically in LTRs.
It's not my business, I know, but I care about both of them.
Shut up and see them fall apart, or try and do my part for my good friends? What do?
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lesanon here.
First, it would show a betrayal of her trust that your friend went and relayed this personal info to you. She probably told him in confidence and he violated that trust. You going to her will just bring that out.
Second, if she wanted your advice, she'd ask for it. It's really none of your business until she does. You can be her (their) friend and offer advice when it is requested but otherwise stay out of their personal business.
Third, if you want to help you could offer suggestions of what to say to your friend, let him put them into his own words and tell your ex. But your name can't be on those words. He can't say "I talked to anonfriend about your problems and he said..."
Having said that I can say that most of my relationships have failed because of a difference in libido between me and my girlfriend(s). It might be because I was always attracted to older women as opposed to a woman who may have had a more equally matched libido.
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>>6630323
Thanks for replying. Yes I'm aware that he went and told, but she should also be aware that my mate isn't someone you tell secrets to, and at least not expect him to keep it from me. He and I hang out almost daily, and tell each other everything. People joke and talk about how we're like a married couple. She knows that she can talk to me about anything, so the fact that she tells him specifically, and not other close friends, I feel is a cry for help. She's afraid that she'll let a lot of people down after everyone chipped in and made a big wedding party for them last year. She needs to talk to someone, but my mate isn't going to give her any sound suggestions, and he doesn't agree with me being able to help them, since I'm a cis man.
I wouldn't be stupid enough to approach her with it like I heard it from him. In the past, before they got married, she has admitted to me that their love life wasn't 10/10, but I guess I thought it had improved. Last time I went out with her wife I asked her directly, and she told me their sex life was good.
It might be that my ex has gotten a higher libido since switching teams, since she's the one complaining, and I was the one wearing the shoes she's got now, back when we were a couple.
I would thread carefully, and just run with follow-up questions, depending on her answers and body language next time I ask her how she's doing.
But what about the testosterone thing? Tbqh I haven't looked into it - is there a consensus amongst /LGBT about homosexual brain chemistry, or is that /pol tier science? Explain it to me like I'm eleven years old.
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Did anyone managed to make profit out of escorting?
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yes
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yes op i used to be std free but now I've got a lot too give back to the community
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>>6630108
sharing is caring bby
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Can I still get bf if I have a small penis?
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its spelled benis
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thank you spepl helper
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>>6629621
yes but who ever has a bigger peepee will be top
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Help me /lgbt/.
I saw a non-passing tranny today that was around my age and I feel like I'm going to have a mental breakdown.
They were around nineteen, fairly slim, with long hair and a very feminine face but their slightly large shoulders, short legs, long-ish torso, and masculine gait gave them away in an instant.
There's literally nothing you can do about any of those things, so what's the point of socially transitioning if all people will ever see when they look at you is a mentally deranged man who let their fetish overwhelm their life.
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>>6628661
>what's the point of socially transitioning
attention
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>>6628661
why cant you fix a masculine gait
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>>6628692
because a male skeleton is a male skeleton
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Who here /girlspajamas/?
Nothing like tight, soft hip hugger pj pants around my ass to rub up against hard dick, or baggy silky shorts/pants to lay around in late into the morning.
Any cis guys here that like womens PJ's?
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>>6628556
cisbiscum here. Yeah, crossdressing in general, tight clothes in general make me hard, but I don't fit into those clothes like I used to.
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>>6628556
wearing my gfs now because mine got wet. they have toy trolls on them
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see yall at the trans clinic in three years
>being gay isn't a choice
>I'm forced to dress like a girl
>I'm bi only on Fridays
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>>6628274
Why is LGBT the biggest meme?
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>>6628274
>tfw parents never forced you to trap in public and at school lest you wanted to be locked in your room all day and fed scraps
what the hell!
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>>6628274
Forced in what way? Is your life isnt it?
>tfw you hold your trans gf every night before you fall asleep and assure her that she's safe and protected, and that you'll never stop loving her.
This is the best feel
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pls fuck me ilu forever
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>>6628252
>tfw the green-haired transgirl just broke up with her korpeon bf
1 step closer
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>>6628265
Sorry bruv, there has to be a deep emotional connection present first