Femboy here, I want to look feminine and push my twink death with a few years, but I don't want tits. Will bicalutamide/casodex do that for me? Keep me feminine without the breast growth? I like my manly breasts and I'm not trans.
Like? soft skin, all that?
But wont blocking my T make me sterile and super super tired or some shit? I mean normal men with exceptionally low T are fucked and have to go to the doctor for it
Why do you care about gender?
This is an honest question.
Why do you let gender define you? Why do you literally live by it's defining characteristics and stereotyped media behaviors?
Why do you look in the mirror and call yourself a gender first, instead of a person?
You fundamentally miss the premise. It's about our bodies as individuals. Even if I lived on an island by myself I would take HRT and change my body to be more female like.
Gender roles are a social construct but gender identity is a biologically hardware do expectstion of your shell and its function. My shell does not match the neurologically hard wired gender thus I experience serious mental and physical pain when my body does not match my expectations of what I know I should have.
Your question fundamentally misrepresents the discussion and centers it around other people rather than the self.
The only reason we stress so hard about passing is so we are treated like people, not trans people. We are forced to conform to the roles of society otherwise nobody will respect our gender identity.
>Why do you look in the mirror and call yourself a gender first, instead of a person?
I don't. Society does. If we don't conform to gender roles and expectations then we aren't seen as people.
I don't, which is why I am acknowledged to be a guy (fuck) yet I have long hair like a girl, and behave and have interests which are much more girl-ee.
From what I like to do in my spare time (not watching sports or playing video games), to where I work (babysitting), to what I eat (not meat lmao), fuck what people think and fuck conforming to them to make them comfortable.
I support people being transgender, or wanting to dismantle gender norms, but it's not (mostly/generally) a big front-line issue for me (dismantling gender norms) because you can simply walk over them, and easily so.
• Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• hugg renren
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
My gf and I are transgirls.
I stay at her house many days a week, even whole weeks because I feel good there and her family allows me to dress like a girl (my family dont).
But she have a young brother who's 13, so I try to not dress as a girl when he's on the house because even if he's very mature and understand our situation and all, I feel he's still too young and dont want him to go around his house seeing guys in skirts all day.
We 3 have a lot in common, we are a lot into videogames and the little kid and I are big fans of Earthbound/Mother.
But sometimes Im scared that since he's 13 already, Im scared that he may feel something for me. Like they usually show on TV about little brothers having feeling for their big bro's gf.
>But sometimes Im scared that since he's 13 already, Im scared that he may feel something for me. Like they usually show on TV about little brothers having feeling for their big bro's gf.
No chance if you're ugly.
I think the creation of this board is taking the joke too far, are people actually unironically claiming to be gay/transgender/other retarded delusional made up gender
Do I have to bluepill and tumblrfy myself to live a happy lesbian life?
You know, the sad and pathetic thing is that the perv frominsisted he didn't have to medically transition(cause it's evil), could be a big hulking man, and everyone should be forced to call him a woman.
When there's Femboys who go much further in changing their body and look like short haired girls, but they still insist that you shouldn't call them women or treat them like one.
this is one of the many transsexuals who started at 12 and look how masculine her face is. Almost as bad as Nicole Maines who grew up to be 6'2'' and has severe brow bossing and a very manly facial archetype
this picture is near a butch dyke and you can totally see how the tranny's head is bigger, expanded and more masculine. By "head" we mean the whole head and face.
Why does no one talk about transmen ever?
I like sticking things up my butt, get hard watching big dicks in porn. But I don't like watching a guy having sex with another guy (turns me off), I prefer straight porn and always imagine myself as the girl instead. Also like to crossdress.
Aside that, I am 100% a straight male.
Am I bisexual, closet gay? What is it? Is there an explanation?
I have only had sexual attraction to females in real life.
It's what I am thinking of myself. But it's weird that I get turned off by the idea of hooking up with a guy, but it would be hot if I suddenly turned into a female. The bisexuality doesn't seem so "genuine".
Maybe I am bisexual but also, unconsciously, an homophobic?
>cute guy messages you on grindr
>have a good conversation about majors and politics
>turns out he's actually 16
>"That's not a problem, is it? Just makes it more exhilarating than if I was older, right?
>currently sweating, haven't replied
This is a setup, isn't it? For God's sake i'm only 19 myself, I don't deserve to be on To Catch A Predator.
idk, i said shit like that when i was 14 and was legit
what's the age of consent where you live? it's 16 in most of the west (including most us states)
someone trying to bait you would probably claim much younger, be targeting someone older than 19, or both
Tiny pepe edition. Are you a Scrooge or a Cratchit?
old thread: >>7364217
Bottom surgery info:
Passing guide for AAPs:
Old sites, but still great one-stop-shops for FTM information:
My advice is to remember that without a bra or a binder it is a greater risk of your shirt snagging a nipple piercing. My m8 ended up wearing a band aid on his permanently, which kinds of kills the fun.
Can an individual be gender-disphoric, but still be sex-euphoric?
Example, Person X is biologically male, but is pressured into a stereotypical boy role by parents. Person X identifies as a girl, grow her hair out long and dress appropriately for her preferred gender, but enjoys having primary and secondary sexual characteristics of a male.
*aherm* ...asking for a friend.
Pic unrelated... most likely.
Yes, that is transgender. You have dysphoria from being the other gender.
But you don't have dysphoria over your sex, so you are not transsexual. I am transgender and transsexual, I am a woman and I hate my dick and broad shoulders. You are whatever the fuck you believe you are, and you like whatever the fuck you like about yourself.
What does a neophallus look like? Google Images just turns up a bunch of surgery photos. I want to see a modern, healed one.
these are fairly randomly selected, so not unusually good or bad results, just typical recent results
There are a few idiots here who keep making fun of the skull, however, it is not simply the skull that clocks you but the extended facial planes. The whole face (not just the neurocranium) expand in height, width and depth. No amount of FFS can fix that.
We have just been informed today of another person who had FFS and is extremely disappointed. She now believes us since we have been telling that FFS is a scam for years, and yet she decided to go ahead with it anyway.
Look at the picture here. No amount of FFS will save her. Look at the facial planes how everything is expanded whereas in real women everything is *contained*
you can just see how masculine her skull is and no amount of FFS will reduce the facial planes
and now the fucking idiot autogynephile piece of shit will say "autism" and he can't get any new material. This one started transition super early and yet her face expanded in height, width and depth