What to do when too depressed to have a wank?
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Nice original thread faggot
Alright guys, I decided I'm going to attempt to reach out to my oneitis, but I can't decide on the best way to do so. Before I suggest what I've considered so far, a quick rundown on our relationship
>girl starts talking to me in high school
>sperg out and confess after graduation
>she turns me down
>later she runs into me at CC
>she starts texting me, eventually asks me to meet her for lunch
>we have lunch but I'm too autistic to contact her afterwards so we don't talk after
>don't see her until May
>just wandering through the mall, stumble into Hot Topic
>suddenly oneitis greets me
>seems really happy to see me, asks how I've been doing
>we talk for a bit, then she excuses herself to help a customer, we say goodbyes and I leave
And now I've mostly conquered my autism. I have actually gone out on dates with other girls in the past year and I'm much more confident in my ability to maintain relationships with people. At this point I want to start talking to her again, but I'm not sure on the best approach. I've thought of a few so far
>send her an "across the bow" text mentioning something that reminded me of her
The risk of a text though is that she may have deleted my number and she may not know it's me texting her. Not entirely sure how I would deal with that.
>show up at her Hot Topic and start talking there, ask if she wants to catch up sometime
Risk of that is I have no excuse to go there except to see her, and I don't actually know her work schedule so I might end up walking in and out a few times.
Any advice on how to restart contact would be greatly appreciated. If you can think of another approach, that'd be great too.
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>>18546213
every fucking post on this board is the same. No one is psychic. Sounds like she might like you since she asked you to lunch. Shoot her a text and ask her to get together. Maybe don't call it a date but at least make her wonder if it's a date. Then again it might depend how she rejected you in high school. Either way if you ask at least you'll know.
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You could always try to kill yourself at hot topic so that she would never forget you.
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>>18546263
I guess I didn't structure my post right, I'm not asking if she likes me. I just wanted to know what the best way to contact her was, as we haven't spoken in over a month, and haven't texted in about eight months. Anyway, I'll chalk your post as a vote towards texting, thanks for the input.
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Love girlfriend; love her family a hell of a lot less 2017-07-22 11:28:31 Post No.18546165
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Love girlfriend; love her family a hell of a lot less
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Title says it all. My girlfriend is a good match for me, we're both kind of messes that float in the storm. It's good for us, because we understand how to attain the ups and mollify the downs and we understand each other quite closely. We share interests, sexual preferences, we mesh pretty well, she even tends to pick the things off my plate that I don't like. We work.
The problem is her family is a bunch of irresponsible fucks who bring her down any chance they get. It's ludicrous and they all do it; grandmother, siblings, mother. The mother has a shit-tier manchild-friend that she refuses to shed from her life, and plugs for money and work. The siblings are just generally self-absorbed twats who don't care if she has problems, because theirs are always more important. Grandma's just a self-righteous cunt.
She loves them all openly, and I've never once told her to stop loving them. But the older we get, the less tolerable this becomes. We've been doing this for some years now and it's never really gotten 'better' (I'll grant, not really worse either)... it's just shitty behavior by garbage people because they can't accept that their own fuck-ass choices lead to their misery. IE, addictions. (and I have my own addictions yes, but I make a very strict budget that has no problem shedding them if needed-- I also never let it become another's problem)
The thing is, I can't be picking up the pieces when her shitty family just rips into her for whatever-the-hell-it-is-this-time-- calling her dumb, calling her an emotional wreck, calling her a fatass, calling her lazy, calling her whatever the hell they pull out of the hat this time. And I'm fucking done; we had another episode recently that caused her to miss her fourth day of work after beating an illness because she didn't get to sleep that night.
What the fuck am I supposed to do?
Pic unrelated, the only thing I got on this brick that ain't tiddy.
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>talk to your girlfriend
>try to convince her her family is shit
>plant seeds
>once she agrees with you, get her to tell her family to fuck off
>???
>profit
Also, how much love does she have for her family? Rate on a scale from "meh, they're family, gotta love them" to slobbering-on-her-dads-knob"
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I'm 27, male, and live in a suburban community outside LA. How do I meet people and make friends? There's nothing to do out here and regularly going to LA isn't feasible.
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Does begging for you job back ever work? 2017-07-22 10:35:38 Post No.18546031
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Got fired from a job I loved after complaining I was disastisfied with my current role, and the lack of progression I've seen compared to other people
Now I've lost my job, and if I don't find something soon I will likely lose my home, my apartment, and I've already had to cancel what would have been my first ever holiday abroad in two weeks time
I sent emails and texts to my bosses apologiesing and begging for their sympathy
I was once told by the owner of the company that if I wanted to work for him, I'd always have a job for life
I've heard nothing back yet, and have receieved an offical letter of my termination, but no final pay slip as of yet
Is there any hope in asking for a job back, or have I just made a bigger fool of myself after being fired?
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>this job is shit
>wahh I want it back!
Just find a new job
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>>18546031
You stupid bastard. You should've been applying to other shit while on that job.
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>>18546031
Plan for the worst, hope for the best. Assumed you are fucked, start job hunting immediately, but extend that heartfelt letter of apology to the owner and ask how you can set things right/prove you are dedicated to a job you love.
If it doesn't work, you tried. If it does, great!
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Not exactly an advice thread, but I believe that this could potentially be just as helpful. Anyway, it's more of a support thread, just, let it out.
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I dislike being my goofy self around others, so I try to be "normal"/invisible.
I think I'm afraid of what people would think of me for behaving like myself as opposed to what I think they think I should behave as. I'm dreadfully afraid of social rejections, because they would validate my belief that people inherently dislike me.
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>>18546068
Do you have a problem with acting normal?
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>>18546074
I probably do. My idea of normal is to avoid eye contact and keep to myself so as to not bother anyone, and to speak only when spoken to so I don't seem stupid or unstable. Though deep down I would love to just have a conversation with a stranger. Admittingly I don't have strong social connections with people, and I think this affects my ability to be normal.
I'm quitting porn and all that garbage, and I'm recently for a month
All I want to do is fuck but I have no FWB's yet or anything.
How do I stop myself from furiously beating my meat all day to porn?
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>>18545904
the thing about motivation is if you arent willing to stop your self from watching porn altogether, how are you going to find the motivation to do something else that will then motivate you to sotp watching porn?
you could remove internet, or put your PC in a common area or take the door off its hinges or put up porn blockers but your response to each of these will likely be 'i dont want to do that because of X reason or that is unreasonable to do'.
so all you can do is make the choice to stop.
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>>18545904
The point of going nofap is making you horny enough to actually go after women ffs
Get a women to jizz in and get done with it
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>>18545904
why cant you use your imagination?
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What is keeping me from cleaning my room and my apartment? It's filthy. I'm surrounded by filth. Yet there's a subtle, yet loud force that keeps me from just cleaning it. I just saw a cockroach in the place i keeps cups, even. Is it depression? Laziness? How can i get rid of it?
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>depression? Laziness?
Yes
Yes
What's always worked for me is itemizing.
Go throw out the trash around your PC. Or all the mountain Dew Bottles. Or kleenex or whatever.
Then pick up your laundry. Then file papers/documents.
Etc.
Go through the list and stop when you get overwhelmed, but complete at least 1 task a day. Start small. You can do it!
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Shut off your pc and wait for your real "laziness" to emerge in an outrage to do something. Since you are so filthy you wont probably do anything outside so you will hopefully start to clean your room. It is not laziness it is pc addiction.
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>>18545914
Thank you. I'll try it.
Bump.
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>be 19 y/o
>Spent childhood with overprotective parents
>Mostly didn't talk to kids nor made any friends since I was the loner type, which I didn't want to be
>Didn't have time nor did anything to look into the new big things like movies, music, etc
>Mostly sticked to my hobbies and never branched out, didn't know why
>Years go by and all of these people are dying
>I never knew them nor cared or pay any attention too
>Be that one faggot who gets yelled at for not know this shit
>Made a lot of friends leave me since I'm not one of them I guess
Okay how bad did I fucked up?
What should I do
>Mfw
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Well you actually did not fucked up at all since your parents did and you was clever enough not to make things harder between you and those people who give you something to eat and a place to sleep.
So your parents are wrong, but we dont go any further like some teens and cry all the time about dumb parents and a ruined live which is not ruined at all and move on like a person we actually would like to be right know.
Your attudude is " i did not wanted to be a loner type guy, did not have time for new stuff"
So what we focus now is on making new friends, and learning stuff that normal people talk about, watch frequent news to get along with society and pretend like you just moved to an other city and are looking for new friends. Spend your time wisely. Dont be mad at your senpai or yourself.
You are just hours away from beeing informed about all shit other people know, because things that are in right know last anyway for a few days.
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Advice omegle chat thread?
Just search omegle with "/adv/"and let's do some venting / listening
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My younger sister is in a bit of a bind, so I'm turning to you guys in order to help her out.
She's on her high school speech and debate team, but she can't come up with a topic for one of her speeches.
It's an eight minute long speech informing the audience of her topic, and she can use visual aids to help get her point across. She's done her speech on weeb crap like Vocaloid and visual novels in the past, but she pulled it off really well and didn't sperg out like you'd expect.
She wants to do a less weeby topic this time, but she's willing to do something . It can be on anything, really, so long as dumb parent judges can understand what she's talking about. It also has to be appropriate for high school. Doing a speech on the ethics of loli porn will get her kicked off the team (trust me, she's tried).
Can you guys suggest some interesting but understandable speech topics? Thanks.
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This is really strange. Neither you, nor the girl who supposedly didn't sperg out when talking about VNs and vocaloid can think of a non-weeb topic to talk about? Surely she ism't stupid, right?
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Maybe talk about the use of quantum physics in society? That's what I'd do.
But I'm guessing someone easier would be appreciated. Perhaps something about Net Neutrality? Thats something thats actually currently important.
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>>18545874
The ethics of animal farming and its subjective being correlated to culture.
That would make for a good topic.
Your sister can talk about asians eating dogs and how this is no different than us eating pigs, yet feels wrong.
In the end, she can summarize her speech by declaring their is no god and morality is relative.
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I work at a sleep clinic and my girlfriends grandmother came in but I wasn't working. I haven't met her grandmother properly but from what my coworker described, it sounds like her grandmother has dementia. My girlfriend is really sensitive and family orientated and I don't want to make her stress over something that might not even be true. How do I talk to my girlfriend about this?
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You wait and pretend not to know anything because how would talking about this make anything better. So you keep quiet until she gets a real diagnose and you and your gf can stay problem free for a while. Like i dont even see an pther optin
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Should I refrain from dating until I don't have any insecurities (male)?
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I've got a 1200 dollar budget set up for a gaming PC, /b/ros, but the graphics card market is fucking shit right now.
Should I just become a cuck and buy a prebuilt? If so, what would be best in the 1200-1500 dollar price range? Or should I just wait for the market to fix itself so I don't get my balls busted by these current prices?
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And sorry about the /b/. I copied this from my first attempt. I'm sure you can guess how helpful /b/ was.
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>>18545775
The easiest way to save some bucks while being retarded is to look up a high end prebuilt PC from a firm that specializes in gaming PC/high end PC's and then simply buy the components yourself. This saves you the trouble of figuring out "is all this shit compatible and sheeit" while saving the installation costs.
The next level is to adjust stuff like the case and memory to your own needs.
Then you could just figure shit out by yourself with /g/ stickies and stuff.
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>9 years old
>Family loses house
>We move states
>Most of our stuff was put in a storage unit until we could find a proper home
>Ended up homeless instead, sleeping in our old minivan
>10 years later my parents have a real house, not just moving from homeless shelters to tiny apartments
>$10,000 in missed payments to storage company
>Get a call a few months later saying they finally auctioned off the unit
>Countless photos, childhood mementos, and thousands of dollars of tools all gone among other things
>None of this mattered to my dad though
>He didn't care about the money he had lost, they were just things
>All he cared about were two paintings his mother made for him, a couple months before she died from lung cancer
>She had been in the hospital for nearly a decade and she would paint to keep herself busy because she couldn't speak
>Willed her favorite two to my dad
>No idea where the rest ended up
Pic semi-related, the closest image I could find based on memory of one of the paintings
Anyways, it's my dad's birthday in August and I want to find the paintings for him. They're priceless to him. All I know is the company who auctioned them. How the hell could I go about locating their new owner?
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