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There is a girl at work who is
>very pretty
>funny
>easy to talk to
>has a geeky side and actually knows her shit
>seems to have a very active social life
>isn't a lesbian
been working with her for over a year and the whole time she has been single
what's the catch? how is a girl like that single?
I even checked out her social media pages. nothing points out to why no one would date her. she has heaps of friends and I'm sure she wouldn't have a problem getting a bf.
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She's riding the cock carousel, it's the only explanation.
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>>18548086
She started hormone replacement therapy very early.
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>>18548095
so she's a man then? that sounds like the catch to me.
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Woke up this morning, all I wanted was eggs and toast. Broke open this egg and dumped it into the pan A FUCKING HAIR travels out with the whites, I fished it out with the shell cause ew. HAS THIS HAPPENED TO ANYONE BEFORE? IVE BEEN SEARCHING THE INTERNET FOR ANSWERS AND THERE ARE NONE
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I suppose it was your hair.
Even if not, don't worry about it.
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DECEARING EGG
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How do you pull off a shirt+t-shirt combo? Plenty of people wear those daily, but whenever I try it on I look like a superhero with cape trailing behind. It's like the wind catches on the moment it spots me wearing that.
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Buy slim cut shirts that are otherwise too short to properly tuck in. Like in your pic, there is barely 2-3 inches of fabric to tuck on the sides.
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>>18548263
Basically this
Make sure you are getting casual button ups that aren't meant to be tucked in. They can be distinguished by their shorter length, basically they are the length of a regular shirt. If the wind starts picking up just button it up until the wind dies down.
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>>18548036
why don't you want your loose clothes to be flowing in the wind? a lot of designers make it that way on purpose
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I really don't know how to be in a relationship and I am used to having a lot of emotional barriers, My bf is really good to me and we joke around about things a lot, and I tend to be sassy or kinda mean but I'm joking and I really care about him. I have had a really big influx of family and health issues and I've been feeling really down and depressed and its very frustrating to me. I feel like lately I've been a lot more annoying and rude than I want to be because of this. I love him a lot and I don't know how to balance coming on too strong and also not being rude to him, does anyone have any advice on how to do this?
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>>18548031
I have been extremely stressed, have been feeling pretty worthless because of my family and kinda feel like im on the cusp of spiraling and I don't like to bombard anyone with my problems especially after being so rude and clingy lately, I just want to be good to him but I haven't ever been in a serious relationship before
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>>18548031
Tell him this, and ask him how you can show him you appreciate him.
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>>18549311
Thank you! I ended up not being a coward and telling him and he was understanding I wish I said something sooner though
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So, thoughts and dreams about my ex (broke like a year and a half ago) have been haunting me for that time. Recently, everything calmed down and yesterday I made a mistake, opened her facebook after like a year, she, as I would expect, is with another guy. I started shacking and I tought my heart was going to fail, I was invaded by an intense hatred, one I haven't felt in my life. I will call it, homicidal hatred towards the guy, a desire to strangle him to death, after some meditation I calmed the fuck down (I know this is just egotisticaly insane) but now I cannot stop thinking about them and I find it like they are laughing me (again, I know this just doesn't have sense) and it's affecting my study and my tranquility (have a final this week). Obviously I am an obsesive kind of person. So, how the fuck do I start being normal? How could I stop the invasive thoughts and the nightmares?
PS: I haven't even kissed a woman since the break up, been in a couple of dates but it's like I don't really want it so nothing came of it.
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i feel u. u have to start with looking at her shit less. block her on all accounts, or make it to where it's difficult to look at her social media. you gotta force moving on before it's a reality sometimes
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>>18547950
just today my phone broke with all the pics i had with her, over a year after breakup, no way to get it back, feels like ive finally destroyed the last bridge, could never delete those pictures cause we were happy in them, simplest and most effective method, just give it time, it fades out
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>>18548252
S-stay strong bro
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One night after drinking a lot, I told a friend that I really like that I loved them, it was over text at 3am and when she replied you're drunk I just played it off blamed music and alcohol.
We used to talk almost everyday but after this happened we barely spoke because I couldn't build up the courage to confront it. We've both gone on as if nothing had happened, but it's obvious something's wrong. Is there anything I can do or am I fucked?
It's been about two months since I told her. Although I do think I love her, I wouldn't mind just being friends because I really like who she is.
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You should have acted normal. You can still do that now in my opinion.
"Never happened".
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>>18547948
>I wouldn't mind just being friends
This is a lie, you know it and she does too. She doesn't like you for anything more, for a fact knows your intention and why its weird now.
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>>18547975
>This is a lie
It really isn't. To me being in a relationship was just some assurance that she likes me too because I'm insecure. I like her for who she is and if we're friends or in a relationship it's still the same person
>>18547951
I tried as much as I could. Over text it was easy to talk but I tried not to be too clingy as I was more self aware now. But I could never face her in real life.
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What is a good person? 2017-07-23 02:41:21 Post No.18547931
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Not me
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A person who mainly helps people and sacrifice his free time and money to do so, I guess.
(not me, that's for sure)
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That's a pretty philosophical question, but ultimately, someone who acts for the greater benefit and always works to minimize negative consequences.
There are a lot of sort of individual 'good' check boxes you can hit and after enough of them, you sort of get a 'good pass' where people accept that you're not there to fuck shit up and make off with the loot.
I can go in-depth, but it's some tl;dr shit.
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should I get lasik?
my vision isn't too bad. It's basically right on the line where you need glasses to drive
I just want to get it because I look shit with glasses
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I'm sure you can find a pair that matched your facial shape
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I've never had any aspirations, dreams, or goals in my life. I'm coming up on 21 and I'm scared I'll be doomed to a life of misery if I don't find something soon. What the fuck do I do.
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At 21 your life is barely starting.
Start by getting a job and providing for yourself.
That's the bare minimum. You've been using entertainment to escape reality and the reason why you feel useless is because you are.
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Do finance, make bank. Now you have money.
With money comes bitches. With bitches comes hole. With hole comes ecstasy.
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>>18548114
I have a shit job and ~$6k but have nothing to do with it
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>living abroad for an internship
>spend 6 months far from gf
>pay her the plane tickets to visit me
>we have been living in the same room for 23 days
>things were fine when she arrived, but now we hate each other and don't even talk anymore
This is making me terribly anxious, this relationship has failed but we will be forced to live with each other for 10 more days, until the date of her flight back home arrives. How do I make things more bearable until then?
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>>18547830
By talking. Sit down with her and figure out where it all went wrong.
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>>18547836
We have done a fair share of talking already, and the general consensus seems to be that we hate each other.
(she's sitting right in front of me btw, and I'm hiding this thread from her)
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I need some advice. It comes to a time when i need to decide what kind of career i want to pursuit. I am undecided between 2 option. In one hand i would like to pilot comerciaol boats for a living. You get to travel the world earn well, but spend most of your time "alone" at sea. On the other hand i would like to study cinema which is something that i am fond of but it is not guaranteed that i will get a steady career.
Will /adv/ help me ?
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Does anyone here feel like they were born just to fail.
I'm 25 and I dropped out of college when I was 20. I went from a business admin major to a marketing major to finally, an accounting major (I don't know why I picked that because I suck at math). I hated all three of my majors and I really didn't know what I was doing in school, so I just ended up leaving.
I've been working at this easy/shitty restaurant for the past 7 years and I'm finally ready to quit. I want to leave so badly. I hate all my coworkers and I feel like the place is really taking its toll on me. Even though its easy, I still fuck up a lot. I feel like a dumb fuck everyday I step foot into that building.
I've tried to find other jobs in offices, but no one wants to hire a college drop out. I can't even get an easy high school lvl office job.
I've tried to get a IT cert, but that didn't workout. I don't really want to go for a trade. I'm not physically/mentally strong enough for the military either.
All I want is to work in a nice office with good people. I just feel stuck right now and I feel like nothing will ever change.
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In my experience life changes take about 2-3 years. They're sneaky and happen before you know it. Though you can force them to happen much quicker if you want.
A lot of people besides turbo-normies probably somewhat feel like a failure. If you didn't graduate college right on time at 22 (for bachelor's), then the pressure for that keeps mounting and your parents start getting angry etc. You're told all these things by society that if you don't finish college, you're a failure. So I'm willing to bet you that a lot of the population experiences your feelings due to the incredibly high and complicated expectations society puts on us, which I highly doubt our cavemen selves were ever meant to handle.
If you really tried at it you could make money online. You can make crazy bucks that sets you for life if you constantly bring forth an amazing/entertaining personality. But if you made some type of small website or youtube channel that people regularly visited and worked at it, you could eventually get to where it covers your living expenses. Then you can grow from there.
The way I look at it, I can always be homeless in my car for a while if shit hits the fan. I never have, but if I end up really fucking up, it's an option.
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>>18547980
>Mfw 23 and just graduated with my master's
>Mfw feel like a failure because I've never had a gf or a job and I'm a virgin
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Need advice, of course. 2017-07-23 01:36:39 Post No.18547786
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So we have A, the girl I like; J, my best friend;and I, of course. I was doing really good with A (we have somewhat of a long history that doesnt matter except for the fact that we 4 [counting J´s ex] have been friends for long time [of course, not really "friendly" with A..]), until the day J broke up with his girlfriend and, when talking with him, he told me that she liked A and that someone has said him A liked him too. This seemed weird to me, I mean, not him liking her (since "someone" told him that), but her: when I was with her it seemed that she liked me. This fucked me up, I am somewhat emotional (has someone read Kempis?)... anyway, I decided to clarify things and talked with this and who, really spy-ish thing, and discovered, eventually, that one girl that likes J made all of this bullshit (really stupid, actually) telling him that kind of things, eventually making him broke up because of jealousy (since he started liking A and passed more time with her, instead of his girlfriend)... talked with A and told me the same story of this other girl talking shit and that J is getting weird sending hearts on that social media things (not really into that, didnt know). So... I really dont want to fuck up things for nobody, he is my best friend, and she is the nicest person i have known in this dead town; what to do? really dont know how to procceed, telling him all of this? waiting? Also, sorry for my english.
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>>18547786
Tell J what you told us?
He doesn't beileve you then wtv he is retarded and doesn't trust you. Then proceeded to go and fuck A in front of him so he understands. Also make things official with A else you might lose her you dingus.
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I want to be a nice person for purely selfish reasons.
People seem to like nice people and I want to be liked.
Will pretending to be nice, actually make me nice in the end?
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I speak from experience. It will not make you TRULY nice, but you should still be nice anyways.
I like being nice because I love it when people pump my ego, and I like to think it makes me a good person (idk if it does or doesn't). Ultimately, it will become a habit.
But don't be TOO nice. People will think you're creepy.
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>>18547779
It will make you a nicer person as in, you'll know how to situation in a nicer way. It won't actually make you donate to charity or shit like that, don't worry.
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>>1854791
react to situations in a nicer way*
I'm autism.
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how to dance at clubs with grills?
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>>18547734
Imitate the black guys you see
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>>18547752
not american tho