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Hey everyone, I need some help with my girlfriend. I have been with her for a little over 2 months now and she is opening up to me. As of last week, she said that she hasnt eaten properly for months now. She says she has gone for multiple days without eating anything. She hasnt even had a full days worth of food (breakfast, lunch, and dinner) for months now. She claims that there is nothing wrong and everything is fine, but i know that it isnt and i need to find out what is going on. I know that this is a very specific thing to ask help for but if anyone knows anything, it would be appreciated, other than what google says such as "eat small portions slowly." Please help anons. I need it right now. Thank you guys.
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Feed her ur cum
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Try to open up conversation about it more. Ask her why she doesn't eat. Because she's not hungry? Or because she feels guilty after eating? Also offer her small, healthy foods when you see her. Like yogurt or an apple. Don't force it on her. But mostly try to talk to her about it
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>>18546922
What this anon said

How old are you both? I feel like this is fairly common for high school/college age

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Anyone else tried using Tinder to make friends? (opposite sex or otherwise)

Seems like more attractive people are more fun to be around. I keep meeting social duds on anonymous internet friend sites and am getting tired of it
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You got the dud

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This morning I was sneezing a bit. My mom came over and gave me this shitty nose spray that doesn't work at all and just makes it worse. When I told her this, she got mad and said stuff like why are you disrespecting me? I am your mother do as I say etc etc. Things got a bit heated with us shouting at each other and I eventually gave in and sprayed it just to make her leave me alone.

Tonight, she told my aunt and older sister what happened in the morning, but skewed it by telling them I said "I'm not taking it, you're not the boss of me".

I'm an atheist but my mom thinks I'm still Muslim, so she told me I'm gonna go to hell for disrespecting my mother and saying no to her, and to always agree with her no matter what she says.

I understand the "my house my rules" thing, but is this just taking it too fucking far???
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>>18546720
shoot her dead my dude or rape her into submission either is fibe
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>>18546720
Well you're an apostate so you're definitely going to hell, just not for the reason your mum thinks
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That is taking it too far.

>25
>Live in midwest, nothing going on around here
>Skinny drunk nerd
>go to grab a burger at local joint w my friend
>bartenders hot as fuck, like 32-35
>tell him about my immense love for drum n bass recently, how i want to produce soon
>Bartender tells me her boyfriend is a local dnb producer, hes throwing some grill out at some bar downtown next weekend

should I go?
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him being my roommate, her being bartender. i'm not gay
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go you feggit
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>>18546717

why are you asking us?

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>GF of 2 months
>She broke up with me after a month (Stressed because she was moving was her excuse)
>Got back together for at least 3 more weeks then I broke it off with her.
>You don't know what you have until it's gone.jpg
>Message her and asked if I had another chance with her before college starts again.
>She said 'Yes you do, but I need space for now that's all.)

What does she mean when she says 'I need space'.
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>>18546671
>What does she mean when she says 'I need space'.

I think she wants you to ask her on a date to the planetarium OP.
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Just move on, that relationship is a lost cause.
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>>18546683
Honestly that's my dream date.

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I am seeing a mental health professional this week for anxiety.
What should I expect from this meeting?

Also, I am most likely on the spectrum for Bipolar manic disorder. Should I bring this up?

Thanks 4chan.
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>see threrapist
>become slightly relieved
>go home
>get depressed again
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>>18546663
Professional as in therapist or psychiatrist?

Therapists can only do so much for bipolar disorder. See a psychiatrist instead.

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Hi I'm 18, entering my senior year of High School. I live in North New Jersey. Does anyone know of a good place to meet girls my age? If not a specific place, a type of place, i .e. mall, movie theater, etc.
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>>18546576
uh... school?
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>>18546576
Bar and drug some hoes my nigga
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>>18546576

you already know all the places to meet everyone. there isn't some super secret place that exists full of reasonably attractive women who are just sitting around wishing more guys would show up.

Bars, cafes, coffee shops, all the typical places where people are when they arent doing anything in particular. You dont have to limit your self to that, you can go to the park or to the book store, or really anywhere and talk to people there to. its a myth that you need to come up with a realistic reason to have to talk to a girl. like if you see a girl at the mall you don't have to pretend you have a question that you think she might be able to answer cuz she happens to be in your immediate vicinity. girls arent dumb. they know you why you talk to them. so if you see a girl who isn't in the middle of transit go ahead and go up and say hi and introduce your self and see whats up.

most girls will reject you but thats going to happen. the goal here isn't to create an excuse that forces the woman to interact until she loves you. its to just put your self out there and see what develops.

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a year ago I met this one girl 7/10 I sorta liked her for a bit and she had this piece of shit of a bf who a few months ago talked shit about her behind her back after they broke up. She was sorta depressed but kinda happy for awhile after a few weeks. Then her Ex I noticed would often insert himself into places where she might have gone and tried to redo the relationship. It worked and 4 month later they are back together and I now think to myself this cycle is going to repeat itself over and over again for years. I want to know now how to stop it to break the trend and fix this awful relationship which will likely never end.
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Edit: Cycle

how 'd I mess that up
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>>18546574
If you're not already friends there's really no way you can do this

Sometimes people just gotta learn the hard way
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>>18546615
me and her a friend but we have been a little distant lately

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Why the fuck can’t I focus? How do I just sit and study and not procrastinate?
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>>18546569
First relax.
Breath in and out deliberately, slowly and with you diaphragm/stomach.
Do this for a bit. Try to forget what's on your mind.

Then get to crunching.
If you're going to procrastinate might as well do so while calming yourself.
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Get tested for ADHD.

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Every time I try setting a major goal for myself such as becoming POTUS or writing an operetta setting of the Contest episode of Seinfeld, I immediately become overwhelmed with the entirety of the task and abandon the venture and go fap to russian amateurs while listening to Prokofiev. How do I not do this?
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I love Russian women, good thread
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step one of management is that goals have to be realistic, if you want to get into politics start with your local city council. if you want to be a composer, start with short stories / songs
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>>18546557

once you set up a big goal figure out what step one is and then just commit to that.

So I'm not socially awkward (pretty good with people actually), relatively good looking, and have had girlfriends before but my entire social circle is like 100% male so I don't know how to get a gf.

If I got to know a girl I was interested in I wouldn't have a problem making her my gf but I basically only know guys.

I figure the best solution is to make friends with a girl (even if I don't want to date her) and hope she'll introduce me to friends?

There are some events where I can go meet new people but I feel even if I get to know some random girl what are the odds she introduces me to her friends?

When do girls introduce guys to their friends? I feel like everyone already has a social circle so even if I become friends with one then it will end there.

And I feel like a girl won't invite a male friend to go do stuff for fear of sending the wrong impression.

I suppose the exception is when they're just both in the same group of friends. This is actually where I have had some female friends in the past but it's summer (I'm a student) and everyone's gone so I don't know what to do.
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Slight addendum I said I'm not socially awkward and am good with people but really what I meant was I am pretty confident and have a decent social life despite being a fucking autist.

Also I do actually have some female friends but it's been awhile since one introduced me to a girl that I ended up dating and either way barely any are around in the summer (college) sooooo ;/

I even catch girls checking me out but I don't know what to do in that case (other than smile back) because I'm an autist and I would prefer to know the person before trying to go out with them anyway.
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>>18546507
Could you better explain why you feel it is important for you to be introduced to women instead of approaching them yourself?

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Guys, I need your opinion. I just walked home at 3am from the centrum city. I sit there waiting for the buss when I see a car stopping in the middle of the road, and the driver is running out up to a girl walking by. I start walking up to there and pretending my destination is that way just to check that there's nothing fishy about it. When I walk past them, she's sitting on the pavement obviously drunk, and he's like "I can drive you home", so I immediately thought they knew each other, and maybe were in a relationship also considering how many cars that were driving by, and thinking that no one would be bold enough to just stop in the middle of the road, blocking traffic without stopping for someone they knew. But the more I've thought about it, the more I think I should've asked her when walking by if she knew him.
And now I can't sleep. What do you guys think?
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He took her to the woods gutted her asshole and put her clitoris in her cervix
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Is this the mind of a neckbeard virgin? Fucking weird.

I don't know why I feel so lonely.
I have a few friends. Most of them are REALLY popular and very friendly. The problem is that even if they try to help me and try to make me feel less lonely and less pathetic..I don't feel anything. I feel lonely everyday. The last 1 and a half month I go out with them less and I just sit home like a total NEET and play games and watch anime. Like Last year we used to go out every single day. Now like 3 times a week or smth.The Summer vocation here is 3 months and everyone is going out with their friends everyday. Ik I'm being really fucking selfish but I can't help it anymore. I can't even bare being with them sometimes. I sometimes have a really strange feeling that I just can't describe towards them. Like I want to leave them or smth. I'm a 5/10 5'10 F so I can't really get a decent boyfriend and I'm too shy to find new friends and socialize. I feel like I'm waisting my youth. What do I do /adv/
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You can be my gf
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>>18546393
You need some peterson.
SORT YOURSELF OUT.
CLEAN YOUR ROOM.

But for reals maybe you're going through some mood swings. Relax. Take a deep breath and sleep it off.

Maybe try talking to people more. It's the best medicine.
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>>18546427

This, just get out of your mindspace and don't propagate it. Have good times with pals.

I've been playing some vidya for some pals who wanted to see games they would otherwise not ever play. Shit like that is great for casual talks.

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Think I have MS.
For years I have been getting tingles all over my body, especially my head. Arms, legs and head jerk on there own.
Started to stutter occasionally when talking. Seem to have most of the symptoms.

Is it MS or to much autism from the Chan?
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>>18546352
what are your drug habits
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>>18546388
Smoked weed and drank. Haven't done either for years.
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>>18546352
Fuck I have the same symptoms, though they rarely happen
Go to the doctor

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im drunk after some fun with friend in germany so its night what to do now? cant type corectly to drunk
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Sleep it off and stop drinking alcohol.
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get raped and/or beaten by migrants
p sure that's the new fad
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>>18546320
thanks anon sure

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