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super friendzoned? please help
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>Had a huge crush on a girl I met from tinder.
>we hung out 3 times on what seemed like dates (cutesy stuff like apple picking followed by out for dinner, not just 'chilling').
>she texted me every day all the time.
>she suddenly started talking less, I figured she was talking to someone else now.
>told me about 3 weeks ago she has a bf now, someone she liked a lot in highschool. I was crushed.
>though it might be an aspie thing to do, I told her I had feelings for her because i wanted to get it off my chest and it was bothering me, she said she had no idea I liked her and she's sorry.
>i stopped talking to her for awhile.
>I'm finally about over her, she hits me up saying she misses me and wants me to 'be her friend again'.
>asks what I'm doing tomorrow, I'm free but said I'm busy because I don't want feelings to come back if I see her, she said damn because she's off.
>she asks when am I off next, I told her Friday, she says she is too and let's hang out then, I reluctantly said okay.
I miss her a lot and do want to see her again, but I don't want to be that guy who's stuck in the friend zone getting keked. At the same time, I don't want to be that beta douche who can't simply be friends with a girl unless sex is involved. I'm not sure if I can be just friends with her though. What should I do? And why would she be so adamant about seeing me again on her off days when she has a bf now she could be hanging out with?
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She wants a friend.
It's nothing more.
You have guy friends you're not into, right?
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If she still has a bf and you still got feelings or think they may come back, just don't bother
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>>16448743
She has a bunch of friends though, why me?
My boyfriend lost his boner mid sex
I don't know why, but in the middle of me riding him he had to stop me and tell me he lost it. I don't know why, I thought it was going good. He had to pull out and stroke himself until he was hard again before he tried to stick it back in me, but it really killed the mood and he had to finish himself with a hand job
Was it me? I'm not terribly ugly, my tits are decent and I'm not at all fat. However, today and yesterday I've been bloated. Afterwards we were joking and he said my ass was weird but he's never made a big deal about it.
Any idea what would cause this?
Someone suggested that maybe he lost interest so I'd appreciate some tips on how to keep him aroused in the middle of it.
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Maybe your pussy isn't tight enough.
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>>16448694
this happens to me quite a bit, and my partner always acts like its a much bigger deal than it is. but if osmething happens and woman just doesnt want to have sex anymore, its considered no big dela.
what was the weather like? for me this issue usually happens when its REALLY hot. all that humping gets me dizzy and dehydrated and the heat sinks in and i get tired cuz its hot as balls, and my balls are even hotter, and then my penis just shuts the fuck down. can get it hard but as soon as were humping its going to go soft again.
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Don't feel bad, OP. My ex had a smoking body, but I would randomly lose my boner from time to time. It might have to do with the position; when she was riding me, there was not as much sensation for me as one would think.
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What's a job where I can be an asshole?
I enjoy being hated for some reason. Though I'd prefer dynamic assholery. Not just simple being a dick.
Comedian is all I can think of.
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Chef
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Cop.
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A repossession agent take people s stuff on christmas
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Best way to troll feminists?
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tell them you're ugly and you're stupid
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Tell them you don't care, or otherwise, just ignore them.
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Find a cute white girl and have half a dozen kids.
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NEET and Shut-In Advice Thread (Version 118) 2015-11-10 17:03:37 Post No.16448454
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NEET and Shut-In Advice Thread (Version 118)
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2015-11-10 17:03:37
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Welcome to the NEET and Shut-in advice thread!
(Version 118, running since Oct. 31st, 2013)
It has been awhile since we've had an old school NEETthread. After returning to NEET life after breaking out of it for 8 months I have a few things to say.
If you want to escape NEET life you have to stay motivated no matter what. I was able to scrape by through five years of it by keeping myself focused and confident even if things looked bleak. Now that I'm NEET again I've found that I've lost all of my motivation and self confidence and it has been a terrible experience. I can see how people can lose their mind after a year or more of this type of life. I haven't been myself and all of the worst parts of my personality are coming to the surface. I know I'm not the only one feeling this way, this feeling seems to be a general trend amongst NEET and shut-in types.
Getting motivated is easier said than done though. Having people to talk to helps a bit, especially if they provide objective feedback instead of sugar coating everything. We once had an environment like that in our IRC Channel NEETadv and I'd like to bring that back if possible. I'm going to try to be around a little more than usual to try to revive things a bit here and in the channel and I will try to do it right this time.
I'm also restarting the 3 day a week workout at 12:30pm and will be restarting the web lessons as well. If anyone is interested in participating in a a live web development lesson let me know in the thread or in the channel.
Take care everyone.
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What does that pic mean?
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>>16448488
It was the pic the original OP used when she created the NEET community in 2013. It's tradition really, that's it.
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I'm a girl, mildly unattractive, shut-in, virgin, blah-blah-blah...
I finally mustered up the courage to try dating someone online a few months ago. Of course I didn't get matched to people who look like Brad but I ended up meeting a very nice guy. He's so sweet, and he has so much energy, and he's really really tall (I'm 152cm, he's 184) and he just has a great personality about him.
Yesterday he finally convinced me to go to the pool with him now that it's warming up, and I reluctantly accepted and I to never get in the water and always wear my sweater. But then when he came to pick me up in his swimsuit... He's huge. Freaky huge, down there. I've never had sex, I'm petite, and I honestly haven't seen a dick in real life before. I don't want to break up with him, but at the same time he has... Well... Too much.
Should I just stop talking to him?
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Where do you live? I'll take him if you don't want him.
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Is it b8?
If it isn't just make sure he uses lube and gives you an oral job before penetrating you for the first time.
Don't stop talking with that poor guy just because he has "too much".
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Not sure if some kind of reverse bait...
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Where do I find an owner?
I want someone to love me, and in return I'd serve them and do my best to make sure they're happy.
I'm a shut-in... so finding anyone in real life is next to impossible.
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Bumped for interest
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I'll own you
Where do you live?
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>>16448349
You're describing a slave mechanic in BDSM. So, guess where you should look...
Joking aside, if this isn't bait, then I suggest you start seeking people out. Look for people that share you hobbies. Stop being a shut-in if at all possible. If not, then find a social site, and look for people that share your interests. Maybe even a dating site.
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>Meet girl through a (female) friend
>Very cute, outgoing and joyful
>Have drinks, lot of fun
>I end up saying she's a really cool girl, she says I am very cool too
>A few days later she asks me if I want to hang out again, I say I'll let her know when I can
>We have trouble to schedule another night
>Finally yesterday she joins us for drinks
>Ask me how things are going when it comes to girls nowadays
>She dances with my friend, but when she dances with me she get me to grab her by the waist and we dance very closely
>This morning, texts me to tell me it was nice and she would like to do it again, and to learn me to dance the rock properly when we're sober
Is she into me or could it be just friendly ? Again she's very extraverted
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>A few days later she asks me if I want to hang out again, I say I'll let her know when I can
>She dances with my friend, but when she dances with me she get me to grab her by the waist and we dance very closely
>This morning, texts me to tell me it was nice and she would like to do it again, and to learn me to dance the rock properly when we're sober
She obviously wants the D.
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>>16448257
Only one way to know
> ask her out
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OP here.
What I didn't mention is that she has a BF. 5 years relationship, 4 long distance, split several times. The first time we saw each other we talk about this and she was basically saying she wanted to pursue this relationship even though it was hard, but IDK man.
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>Meet girl
>She's cool, funny, I enjoy her personality
>We're into the same stuff
>Hang out a bit
>She's clearly into me
>Not attracted to her (She's not ugly, she's just not my type)
>Tell her I think we should remain friends
>Thought she would cut contact after that
>She still messages me and asks to hang out as friends
>Go to dinner and movies and stuff
Is this weird? I like her but my friends think I should stop seeing her
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if it works for you and her id say its fine, but she's probably not very happy with the situation
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>>16448232
but it's ultimately up to her to stop, you are fine with the situation
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Fuck what your friends think. If you like her you should be with her. It's not easy finding an good girl.
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Is it normal to have a decent amount of friends, but pretty much literally dislike all of them?
I pretty much literally didn't have any friends between 12 and 18, ended up finding some due to changing scenery and the introduction of alcohol, and now I have friends but I honestly just hate most of them. Meeting up with friends is always a chore, and I just keep doing it because it's normal.
Is it normal?
Is there any way to learn to like people?
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Why do you dislike them?
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>>16448216
Because they like me more than I like them. I don't care about how they're doing or what they're up to, but they'll tell me anyway. I don't want to spend time with them but they'll invite me to hang out regardless and I have to go or else I'm not going to have friends anymore. I'd be just as entertained alone at home (or out drinking, depending on the weekday) and sometimes honestly get annoyed because I'd rather be on the internet than doing some pointless shit with them.
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>>16448208
formulate goals, for which you need friends for.
like getting married, moving places etc.
you just lead a very boring life and never really needed friends because you never took any risks.
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>Get rejected by a girl
>She starts dating a guy uglier than me
YOU SAID LOOKS MATTER
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
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>>16448150
He looks like a gypsy
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>>16448145
you know, honestly, elliot rodgers didn't look bad at all, especially for an asian dude, and he was rich. Even he couldn't get a girl to fuck him, and it was because he was a fucking autistic spergelord.
And that's your problem also op, you're an autistic spergelord.
My girlfriend is always trying to get me to let her peg me. Put her vibrator in my butt. I am vehemently opposed to this but she says it's important to her. Let her do it or just stick to my guns and tell her to get back to sucking ?
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>>16448088
Your call m8. You set your own limits
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Let her put it in, then make her suck you off twice. You'll blow in her mouth so fast, and then get hard again and she'll have to work for the second load but it will come.
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Its the new age anon! We should all be faggots doing gay shit with pride!! #lovewins
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So, I'm dating a furry. Or, technically, a scalie, I guess. I've spent the last few hours reading up on this stuff. I met a great girl a few months ago. Absolutely wonderful girl. I could probably fill up several posts with all the 'why she is so great and I love her' nonsense, but I won't.
Back when we started dating, we were hanging out with a couple mutual friends. Moreso my best friend, who is dating her best friend, and then a couple of her best friend's other female friends. Her best friend at some point in the night had made a joke about furries/yiff in hell/etc etc. I thought nothing of it at the time, but I didn't really laugh at it because honestly it was more cringeworthy to me to be throwing around memeshit like this chick had been doing all night than to secretly be a furry. Which this girl, I have now learned, is.
She asked me out that night, we ended up dating. Not a day goes by anymore that we aren't seeing each other for multiple hours. I learned that she makes a decent chunk of change by making tails/ears/backpacks and stuff of animal shit. Foxes/wolves/cats etc. She has an etsy and does this for a living. I thought nothing of it, because it wasn't like she was a furry. She was just cashing in on them. Besides I'm no stranger to /d/ and I've seen my fair share of shit.
So, I come over the other night, and she had been up for over a day and a half doing a rush job on someone's sweater-hoodie thing that's all my little pony shit. She's getting like $350 for this thing, so I tell her it's fine, I can go home and we can see each other tomorrow. She insists on continuing with our plans for the night, so I tell her to take a nap, I'll just busy myself.
She goes to nap, I dick around on my phone before it dies because I'm an idiot and don't charge my phone like I should. I decide to hop on her computer, thinking nothing of it. She's been to my place and been on mine plenty. But I'm very careful with my perv shit. Separate hard drive. Not her.
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I hop on her computer as she naps nearby and the first thing I notice is pictures all over her desktop. Just...porn. Everywhere. Haphazardly saved wherever it happens to land on her computer. In the downloads, in my pictures, the fucking desktop.
I spent a good half hour looking through stuff. I felt horrible afterwards but I was just enthralled by it all. I couldn't NOT look once I had already inadvertently landed in it.
>5% real photos
>5% videos of domshit
>25% Scalie shit, primarily dragons but some other lizardly characters in there
>50% Giantess/Shrinking/Growth stuff, mingled among this is also a lot of dragon stuff
>The rest is what seems to be her own art that she draws, and some of the most recent stuff is clearly meant to be me, and what I assume is her dragon...sona(?) using me like a toy.
I'm at a loss for words here. I feel stupid for even having an issue with this. A person's perversions are irrelevant if you're not hurting someone, really, but I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this stuff. The curiosity is burning me up and I want to ask her a lot of probably awkward and uncomfortable questions.
At the same time I'm worried that the disgust I'm not quite feeling will eventually surface after interest has faded and it'll kill the relationship.
I guess I'm just hoping for people's thoughts on this. Fuck. I'm gonna go have a smoke. Be back shortly.
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>>16448049
Judging from what all the porn is I'd say she's got more of a fetish for power/domination than anything else.
Just try to keep an open mind, after all I imagine you think you've got porn you think she might find disgusting.
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>>16448049
Lucky fuck this girl sounds crazy in bed.
Ask her if she likes dragon cock and buy her one of those crazy dragon dildos. See if she'll fuck a dog for you.
She's a keeper.
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Relationship Advice
So my girlfriend and I go to class. I get out and meet her in her usual spot and see she is laughing a bunch with a douchebag that I've told her to stay away from ( good reasons for that)
I say shit but mostly we ignore it and walk around. As we walk through a crowded area I see her check out this guy three times with her eyes, trying to hide it and stuff. How should I be reacting? How would you? I can't seem to get over this ( it was yesterday )
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> I've told her to stay away from
yeah that's not exactly how it works, you're not her daddy. Either you trust her to not fuck them or you don't.
if she does want to fuck them you're not going to stop her and might as well dump her.
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>>16448040
Well we mutually agreed that she would stay away from him.
This isn't focusing on that though, I just hate that she was checking out a guy WITH me. It makes me wonder how she thinks when I'm not around.
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To control a girl and have her do as you say you first need to make her loyal and submissive to you, you've clearly failed and gave out orders before she was willing to do as told. You've fucked it up already, she's already testing and pushing the boundaries to see how far she can go.
Put your foot down and let her know you are not having it, you've already given in so she may just laugh at you and ignore anything you say. Best bet is to find another girl that's more submissive.
How do I pass the ACT? I'm studying literally all day and I'm barely making improvements. I have a month until I take it.
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I should be clear I do fine on the Reading and English... science is a bit flimsy, but the math is what's really kicking my ass.
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And I dont have money to spend on a tutor or tons of books. I have the Barron's ACT guide.
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>>16448023
take the practice tests
those ACT stuidy guides also free at library