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>Study harder next time

>>16450568
There won't be a next time. I don't think I'll be given the opportunity.

im in the same boat except im 19, i just made a thread about it too. I firmly believe college isn't for everyone and it probably isnt for me or you.

I am sturggling to find jobs and actually the girl i like doesnt like me back. I am fucking depressed because i simply feel that i cant be a fully functioning in adult in todays society and should just die now.

>>16450544
sounds like she is shy and maybe has body image issues. wants you to do all the moves because she feels clumsy and ugly when forced to do them, doesn't like to be licked (allegedly because it makes you seem less dominant?) more likely she isn't into it because she doesn't like the look/smell/ etc of her vagina

>>16450548
I'm really not sure it's a body image thing as her body is litterally 10/10 as far as I'm concerned, it's not like she is overweight etc

bampu

Pussy ranges from tasting like nothing to tasting like a sour, stinking deathmaw.

Pray you get the former.

>>16450497
A clean vagina tastes really good. I've heard people describe it as metallic but it's also sort of sweet. Definitely musky, tastes like a body part but so does kissing. An unclean vagina isn't as nice. I hope you're lucky.

>>16450497

While you're still in the touching kissing phase, once her pants are loosened up, slide your hand down and run your fingers over her vag and into it for a second.

Bring your hand back out, go back to playing with her tits. You're going to hold one of them or pull the bra aside a bit if its still on, and then lick or kiss her breasts.

This is to distract her, what you're really doing is smelling your still-wet fingers.

If there's any indication of foulness, you know you don't want to go down there right now.

Maybe you can get her to play in the shower and clean things up, or maybe you can still get some sex without eating that pussy.

>>16450458
Maybe try working various entry level jobs until you find out more about yourself. Then use the Occupational Outlook Handbook to browse for something that fits the criteria you've gained through life experience.

You need to realise that a 'career' is less and less of a thing. People jump around all over the place with their jobs nowadays, it's becoming more and more uncommon for people to stick to one job or company for their whole lives. What they do is do a job they like for a while, then move on to another, usually related, job, and then repeat the process.

>>16450458

Try brainstorming some lists. "Things I am above average at" "things I am not good at/don't enjoy" and see if that leads you anywhere.

Volunteering can help too. I volunteered for years in college and it really helped me direct my interests and find out that I actually hate certain things I thought I'd enjoy.

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Hang out around guys that have their heads stuck up so far down their ass that you'd think their joking until you see they're serious. I have a friend like that, it's so weird but at the same time for some reason its working.

I can clarify/go indepth if you want.

keep doing what you're doing. I have the same problem, just worse. I've been called hot by hot girls, girls ask for my number, felt up, looked at and kissed. Girls walked past me other week and i heard them say i was hot. Im virgin though. I truly believe im ugly as sin. No matter how much i work out or take care of myself still feel ugly.

>>16450493
>I can clarify/go indepth if you want.

do you mean hang out with overly confident guys?

Depending on the agenda, you should stay the whole time. There are some wakes that are more like a viewing than a funeral, in which case it is acceptable to leave at some point. However, if it is an actual funeral service then you need to stay for the whole thing.

Depending on your relationship to the deceased/the family you aren't expected to say or do much. If a family member/spouse of the deceased says anything to you, say you are sorry for their loss. Most people don't want to talk too in depth at a funeral; they are mostly going through the motions and trying to keep it together.

There are mostly no rules. If you have feelings express them, otherwise "sorry for your loss" .
Lost my wife a month ago. I myself don't expect more unless you were really close.
Maybe different in your country.
You don't even have to go *unless* you're really close.

It depends on the type of service (religious or cultural). If it's just a viewing, then you say "sorry for your loss" to the family and hug/shake hands depending on your relationship. If you aren't close to the family, you really don't have to attend. People will understand. You generally don't have to talk much; just be polite.

If you don't have anything to wear I'd suggest going and getting a pair of dress pants and a decent, collared shirt. Generally you should wear black. If you're really broke, it's generally OK to wear anything half-decent, but just be respectful. Don't wear anything overly flashy, dirty, pajamas, etc.

>>16450408

No. Caitlyn Jenner is beautiful and very charming. I have a thing for slightly awkward women. She's like a baby doe.

>>16450411
I was hoping I wasn't the only one.

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it's pretty weird, but then so is human sexuality on the whole. so whatever. there are much more attractive trans girls out there, but i'm sure you know that.

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I've always been a pretty quiet person, but when practicing in a community I really came to know the power and importance of silence. We spent days at a time in silence, sitting together. Eating meals in silence and communicating silently.

It's a beautiful opportunity to pay attention to your mind, as well as learn how to sort of FEEL one another. Speaking has its benefits, but silent exchanges seem in many ways more fulfilling and open. Just sitting in someone else's presence can be a beautiful experience.

But back out in the "real world", I've felt more disconnected than ever with people. Silence makes people feel uncomfortable, and I've noticed that instead of experiencing a moment of silence with a curious presence other people get scared and say inane things to fill the void that never really existed to begin with. Like I said, people think I'm weird. This all sort of compounds my social problems.

I don't know that this will make any sense to anyone else. I'm asking for advice sort of, but feel fairly confident that no one will know how to respond or maybe even what the problem is. I have trouble understanding it myself. There's a lot more I could write but I don't know what would be helpful for you to know.

Assuming the thread doesn't die without a single reply, I'll be here to answer any questions you might have about um. This stuff.

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Oh for some reason I wanted to add that while I seem to be doing better, it feels like I'm one mistake away from falling back to where I was. Losing my job, failing my classes, trying to kill myself. Like I'm doing everything right outwardly, but inwardly everything right on the edge of total destruction.

And I've tried making online friends to sort of alleviate the loneliness, but it never feels real. I think the experiences of closeness in silence and meditation have sort of shown me just how lacking online social experiences are.

And like. The personalities we present online are obviously not our true selves. We carefully construct these online identities and work to maintain them. We do similar things in person of course, but there is some authenticity in real interactions that just can't be faked.

So I guess maybe what I want is a real person to talk to. One that maybe would understand me, and be okay with us not talking constantly. I really wish there were a decent (or even crappy) sangha where I live, but I would need to travel to find one and that is just not possible.

Sometimes I think I maybe should just give myself over to monastic life, but I don't think I'm really ready for it. And I don't know which places would be willing to ordain a trans girl. I know there's a Zen center in San Fransico I could join, but Zen is a little too hardcore for me. Not very into that.

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Let's try a bump.

>>16450206
Cut contact, as I would not want to be associated with such person.

>>16450206
Call you out on it and ask why you have those pictures. Gauging your reaction, I'd then mull it over for a couple of days and decide whether or not to report you. Of course, by then you'd likely have gotten rid of the evidence, but just getting your name down at the police so they have a record of a report is good enough.

No friendship is stronger than my hatred for sick fucks who get off to kids. You don't know if you'll never hurt a kid. You don't know what you will or won't do 5, 10, 20 years from now. So every last one of you should be nipped in the bud.

>>16450206
Depends. Is it a boy or a girl?

>>16450105
She's going over there to play twister with all his black friends.

>>16450105
I sometimes refer to my boyfriend as a friend because I don't want to sound like I'm flaunting him or being presumptuous when I mention him to another guy

>>16450105
Dude, do you really have to ask? Actions speak louder than words.

>>16450057
bring lots of lube and make sure you have health insurance

>>16450061
>health insurance
damn!

>>16450078
You're going to need it when the Hepatitis rolls in

>>16450045
Can they actually legally kick you out like that?

>>16450051
Probably. I'm late on rent.

>>16450045
No parents or friends or coworkers or money?

>>16450016
And he still talks to you?

>>16450016
So you don't ignore people you consider trash? What? You go out of your way to greet them or something?

Most of us ignore people we consider trash. Also, you must be over the age of 18 to post in here, fuck off.

>>16450016
There's literally nothing wrong being like that. It's called being realist. If you don't like him leave him.

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>>16449948
Is he gay? If so, deep throat him. It should make him atleast treat you better.

Well done for being incredibly understanding and balanced. I admire that of you, I think you ought to be proud.

It's quite hard to change a boss, let alone anyone. I think the best advice for you would be to find a new job. The only way I could see things improving is if EVERYONE got together to make some sort of balanced comment about his behavior. While people might think he deserves it and you should all fuck his shit up, he's a human being with feelings, and if everyone turns around and says "We all hate you, you're a dick" he's going to shit. Whether anyone deserves it or not, it's quite unfair to say "change your entire existence instantly, we all hate you."

After writing this out, I should probably say- you should find another job, because it's not your job to fix either him or his company/department. He has a duty of care to you that he is fucking up big time, put yourself first- be there if he asks for help.

>>16449948
Post his phone number on /b/, they will kindly council him.

Sleep earlier dimwit

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>>16449931
>implying that will make a difference
OP is a faggot who doesn't have self control. It's that simple.

Light from computer and phone makes your brain think it's midday = harder to get a full and proper sleep.

Are you eating healthy? Bad diet can fuck your sleep up- coke before bed (drug or soda) is not a good idea. No caffeine after 3pm.

Are you feeling stressed or sad? If you are not relaxing and taking care of yourself, you can have problematic and not nice sleep- nightmares too. Take time to relax and look after yourself.

Are you not tired enough? Sometimes we need to be 'more tired' to get 'more sleep', so things like running during the day can aid you sleeping. As a lot of people spend a lot of time doing mentally draining tasks, the body is often left behind and a bit too energetic.