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There are many things you should consider before hand. What worries you most?

>>16457470
Well, what's a good way to gauge how ok they will be with my needs? I'm kind of scared of penetration and don't know how enjoyable a 3some would be without it. I don't want to be selfish and waste their time if they don't end up getting what they really want from it.

>>16457481
Wait, are you a guy or girl?

Hey, im a guy with the same problems to the point that it ruined sex. Honestly the best thing I can suggest is finding other ways to express sadness. I used long walks so I couldn't jack off as much.

Im not completly past it either. Especially when feel depressed. Hope what little I have helps

mastUrbating

with a 'u'

>>16457319
I usually don't masturbate when they are people in the house or people to have sex with.
Surround yourself with friends or get a boyfriend?

Maybe cut back on computer time and pick up a new hobby.

I understand how you are feeling and have been through that. You can do it, femanon. Take control of your body, limit yourself.

I was under the impression that people knew that these psychiatric medicines are bad for you long-term.

Maybe start doing some work and try to lead a normal life or kill yourself.

>>16457223
I took paxil for about a year and it wasnt hard to get off of but it was the weirdest feeling ive ever felt going cold turkey. I dont know what they do and I guess it depends on what youre taking them for but my experience was they are terrible.

>>16457233
>Maybe start doing some work and try to lead a normal life
Well, that is the attempt. Depression on one hand disrupts the hell out of my sleep and eating habits. On the other hand, now suddenly having random intense panic attacks is not much better for "leading a normal life."

If anything these are concerns for disrupting my work and normal life.

Don't have any facial hair unless if you can actually grow decent facial hair.

Otherwise it just comes down to confidence and your ability to hold conversation.

How many women have you asked out?

>that greasy gelled back hair
>that peach fuzz facial hair
>that massive ogre nose

terrible style bud, sorry

>>16457091
You do sound like a whiny bitch, which is probably why you don't have friends.

>>16457095
>12
Thought about that before.

run away from home and live with the homeless

>>16457070
do you lift weights too? I've read conflicting data on how THC affects weightlifting because the science is young.

I want to relive my first dab. Moon Rock. It was called fucking Moon Rock. I should have known.

>>16457070

Your poll is missing the best one, the G Pen Pro.

I've used a few other ones (atmos blows), and this is the only one that can really vape flower on a regular use basis. The only problem with it is that the charge port on the device is so easy to break. I exchanged 3 before finally returning it. If you are not an all day smoker then it is the best choice. I personally don't think any of the vapes on the market currently can handle all day smokers.

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>>16457108

I do... But honestly not that much weight and not often. I'm more of a pushup-pullup guy. I shall research this more.

Dab some DMT btw desu senpai.

>>16457118

I wish I could add that in there... Atmos does suck, I used one for dabbing and it was quite inefficient. I'm more of a once-to-twice a day smoker. Maybe bi-weekly social smoker. The only one I really used was the flight box and it was pretty cool. I shall research this though, thank you.

Try to get into classes you need as early as possible, beg if you have to because down the line you are gonna get fucked for a whole year.

I'm 23 almost 24

Literally the two most important things I found out - and wished I found out sooner - are as follows:

L I F T
I
F
T

and


R E A D
E
A
D

I'm not going to tell you why because you already know why. Just do them.

>>16457023
I'm 20 and failing half of my classes.

If I could talk to my 18 year old self, I would say "FOCUS ON SCHOOL YOU DUMBSHIT! FUCK EVERYONE ELSE! YOU'RE NOT STUPID YOU'RE JUST A LITTLE BITCH!"

And then I would slap and shake myself until I got the point.

No seriously, focus on your schooling. Everyone and everything else is entirely irrelevant. Get organized, study and make sure that you are getting the most out of the money put into your schooling. It's extremely important.

Furthermore, get a hobby (even if this is against what I said). Read more, stop visiting this shithole, get rid of your television, start running, wake up early and go to sleep early. Drink more water. Do your homework and keep your word. Actually do what you say and stick to it.

Also (and this is just for me), just come out already. God damn. No one cares. You've spent too many years being depressed about it. For no reason. Stop. It's pathetic. You're better than that.

>I might just keep my mouth shut, I don't want to get family in trouble. I don't think I could ever forgive myself if he gets arrested

Sounds like you've got larger problems than what your friend would think.

On the upside, unless if your friend is an inhuman asshole they'll probably just be empathetic about it. People aren't going to have some weird negative reaction towards you for that.

>>16457014
>I've got larger problems

What are you trying to say ???

>>16457010
Was it by someone you still live with?

>>16456829
If you have to ask if you're smarter than everyone else then you aren't smarter.

>>16456829
there are different types of intelligence, you can have a 200+IQ but have minimum to none emotional intelligence

you can only tell if you are smart by how well you can manage yourself

Intelligence is a difficult thing to define like that. If you've got to stroke your mental dick over being superior to others I'd gloat about IQ scores and being hot shit at pattern recognition, that seems to be the poplar option.

Otherwise like most people you can go about not really caring once you realize that there will always be people who severely outclass you.

Go to drama school, I know you'll make a killing just from this post alone!

if i came off as an overdramatic bitch im sorry but i want to off myself for the last few months and im tired of worrying about this

Jobs could care less about your high school GPA just as long as you have an actual diploma! And community college accepts EVERYBODY.

>>16456778
If you can find one willing to sleep with a moderately ugly guy.then why not?

yes, just think of it as community service. i've fucked a few beasts, but at the same time ive fucked way more average looking to hot girls.

Who cares sometimes you just wanna fuck with far less effort. Lower your standards for meaningless sex and watch you become happier

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13 yards, are you sure?

>>16456765
I'll take things that never happened for 1000, Alex.

They will call the police on you. I'm sorry, but you're done for. One witness is all it takes these days.

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Why do you even need to be in this meeting? Just have your brother apologize, and stick to the story that he was not aiming the toy at her.

If there's no damage the lady can't do shit. I'd apologize in a way that makes it clear you're just glad nobody was hurt and there was no damage.

Give her a good meal and she should forget it

>>16456709
I don't know. Kill someone and find out, I guess.

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>Feeling of exileration followed by remorse, indifference, or joy depending on what kind of person you are
>Followed by police apprehension, life sentence, and lethal injection if you're a minority

Only way you don't get caught for murder in modern society is: A. You're a criminal mastermind, B. You have enough money and power to make people look the other way or C. Negligence and shitty cops.

Go bac k and look through the posts some guy just posted about this.

>>16456694
I've gotten panic attacks before. Going to a therapist is a good start. It might take a little time before you see any results though.

Sometimes taking deep, slow breaths can help. Knowing that I'm having a panic attack and that I'm not really going to die also helps a lot. Instead of trying to fight it, I just let it run its course and it seems to go away faster. Sometimes I can do that right where I am, and sometimes I have to go someplace quiet and less stressful, like a bathroom or something, for a few minutes.

You might benefit from some anti-anxiety meds too. It's better to see a psychiatrist for psych meds than a family doctor/GP, but if you can't get in to see a shrink, then a family doc will do. I was prescribed Klonopin and it works pretty well, although it dulls my wits somewhat. I try to only take it if the anxiety is really bad.

If you're worried about getting in trouble at school for leaving early, tell them you're getting treatment for the problem. Get the therapist to send them a letter explaining that you're being treated for anxiety.

Good luck OP, I hope this helped.

>>16456716
Some solid advice there, anon, thanks.

In relation to leaving the room to allow the panic to pass, alive done this but it only returns when I'm back in the situation. The only place I get panic attacks is in the classroom. I'm in my last year of school so missing this much school, in a school solely existing to help students achieve the best results possible is bad. The staff wouldn't be too happy if I missed much more, but my health is coming before my education in my mind.

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I don't have firsthand experience with this so I can't help much, but it may be useful to look up "grounding techniques" so that you know what to do if/when you have another one, that way at least you're prepared and it won't be as scary. Ex: pic related and the following link

http://expertbeacon.com/grounding-techniques-you-have-your-next-panic-attack/#.VkUx2WSrS2w