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>>16455485
not that smart because you can´t even seem to read this isn´t /b/

You're going to get shot in the face

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>>16455485
The issue is not overthrowing the government. With enough money you can hire mercenaries and buy black-market weapons to succeed in any revolution.

The problem is that it is absolutely guaranteed that one of your allies or your own generals will eventually realize that if it's that easy, they might as well kill you and take all the prizes for themselves.

>>16455456
Do you regularly get morning wood?

>>16455690
Nope, never.

Ok ok op , coming from a guy this happened to.... Make a smoothie every morning , put a banana or 2 in that bitch , gets the blood pumpin like crazy down there , put some protein powder in that motha fucker , i use to nutt in like a 1-2 mins , with this powder it takes me like 5-7 mins probably longer but i make her nutt within that time and i get bored so sorta make myself nutt. But yeah it works

Stop using, so many, commas, Shatner.

There's no way to tell until you flirt with her.

>>16455421
Sorry, Spock.
I do flirt to a extent.
She says, She's too old for me, But she wanted to meet me in a hotel and "watch movies".

Must mean something?

>>16455419

This is no different from your average "I like my friend" situation. Visit, act normal, gauge her interest.

You either make a move or you don't. If do, you either get laid or shit'll be wierd for a while between you - maybe forever.

You're an idiot and she's being semi safe. She's doesn't know who tf you are, you guys are just having sex. Get an STD screening and get over yourself

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Just get tested bitch

>>16455396
then she should be open to the risk, right? it just feels like I'd be backing down from my morals

A few. My best friend is an old college buddy but I've also made close friends afterward. It was through the same formula I always give people when this question pops up:
- find 2+ new activities with low barrier to entry (cost, appeal, etc.)
- do those activities regularly (at least once a week) with the same group of people each time
- when you're comfortably familiar with people there, talk to them
- invite the pleasant ones to do other stuff with you (hence 2+ activities; use the other(s) as your invitation)
- keep doing stuff and talking

On a normal weekend I hang out with people. I also try to squeeze in at least one new thing that I've never tried before. If neither of those are available I'll go hang out in public and catch up on some media I missed or deferred throughout the week.

No friends, no.

>>16455378

Thanks for the reply. Yeah, when I read that, it really resonates with what I see at college: Most of the people who hang out outside school also do stuff together on a regular basis. My hobbies, now that I think about it, are as indivudualistic as they come - music, VG, books.

I figure I'll start looking for some new stuff to do, even if I don't have that much freetime anymore. Also, excuse the spaghetti - never really bothered with this kind of stuff until recently.

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>>16455295
> So fast forward a year
> Things are going well still
> GF has stopped self harm completely because of me
> After around 2 years of being together relationship begins to die down and isn't what it is before
> Were more like best friends who occasionally do couple things
> Well recently I've noticed this girl
> Similar age who works as manager in a bodycare shop in my town
> She always gives me the eye
> I give it her
> I can tell she likes me
> I like her back
> My GF knows about how I feel since were really open with each other and she admits the other girl is cute (my GF is bi btw)
> Recently due to my social anxiety and depression I havnt been feeling too well and my GF has helped me through this and I appreciate it greatly
> However i still dont feel too well and I'm still suicidal
> This girl in my town is a 10/10 in my eyes, she's so perfect
> She has a great personality and looks so cute (I'm into the cute innocent look on girls I dont really like hot model type girls)
> I really like her
> I have bad attachment issues so a crush will quickly turn to me loving someone
> I'm literally in love with another girl and my GF at the same time
> I really want this other girl but I dont want to leave or hurt my GF
> Where would I live? What would I do without her?
> Am I just overthinking it all?
> I really want both these girls in my life but I know I can only have one
> My GF who I love so much and I couldn't live without, or the girl of my dreams who is a perfect 10/10 to me
> If I had it my way I would have this new girl but with some of my GFs traits and all of our memories together
> I'm so lost
> Me and my gf also recently brought a hamster together and I love that little shit loads too
> And what would happen to my depression and anxiety without the support of my GF?
> I need help this is driving me fucking crazy
> Wat do?
Pic related looks similar to girl I like

First time starting a serious thread so I dont know what to expect

>>16455295
go for the dream girl, get into a fight with your gf, break up, try not to regret it, regret it really hard, be depressed about it, get over it, realize that she wasn't your dream girl and you didn't love your gf as much as yout thought

Learn to man up. As long as you're getting some, hair doesn't matter. Just ask her to trim it up.

>>16455217
I can't.... hairy pussy makes me want to puke

Deal with it. Trimmed is superior.

Even if she shaves every day, there will be stubble, and it'll hurt.
It's pretty common to give yourself tiny cuts when shaving, and considering what else is around the crotch area, cuts often become infected pimples or abcesses.
Ingrown hairs.
Increased sweatiness and chafing.

No, dumbass. She didn't give a flying fuck about you. Find someone who does.

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>>16455151
If she cheated on you, her attraction to you was already low. If she does come back around it will only be for her and the children's security.

If you love and respect yourself OP. Turn away and move on.

No, you should not forgive her. It hurts, I know, but she deceived you for a month at least. I would call that long term deception.

People who practice long term deception like that, don't do it for any other reason than, deep down, they enjoy deceiving someone.

In her life, you were here anchor point. Deceiving you was what was getting her off. If she really wanted your manager more than you, should would have left you for him.

But she didn't. What she enjoyed most about her affair was that she was deceiving you. She had a perceived power over you, and reinforced that power over you by cheating on you and still having you. She felt like a puppeteer.

She'll do it again. More than once. And if you have children with her, it will ruin them.

Forgive her, it's in her nature. But don't take her back. Don't be friends with her, and cut off contact.

She will ruin your life. You can move on, there are lots of women out there. I know everyone says that, but it's true. The hurt will pass, and you will forget. You just gotta toughen up.

When you do, you'll feel like a fucking champion.

Is visiting him instead an option?

>>16455118
What if maybe it helps for solve problems in your family? At least now, if they focus on being nice to your boyfriend or maybe just tryng to look like a good family, they maybe solve their problems.
Idk, in the worst case your family fights but your boyfriend still there with you, so its kinda nice to have someone to be there when you need it.
Also sorry for mistakes, english is not my main language

>>16455154
It is an option which I'm conflicted about, as I don't want to leave my family for christmas in this state.

Personally, I would like to think that I wouldn't care, though I admit that I've never been tested on that (and am unlikely to be, since I am happily off the market).

But unfortunately, there ARE men who think this way. 4chan is certainly not a microcosm of the dating scene as a whole, but there are enough of them even on /adv/ to prove that they exist, and that's not even touching /pol/. Then again, many of these guys are people you wouldn't want to date anyway.

>>16455096
Not sure why'd you would come to /adv/ with this given its reputation but whatever.

There's nothing to really be done about it. Some people will care, others wont. Eventually people will forget or new people will come in and things will go back to normal for you.

>>16455096
>Is this actually true?
no its bullocks

What did you expect?

>>16455080
That he would answer...

Pretty unfair thing to ask and unfair of you to put him in that situation on the spot.

The reason why we have a 7 billion population is because we are much more compatible than you think. There will be another girl that is as "right" for you as she was. You won't find her as quickly if you're still crying over her two years later

>>16454890
2 years is a real long time to stay hung up pal. I broke up with my ex a month ago and it still pains me but there are definitely days I feel better. You need to put her out of yo life son

>block her on social media
>delete pictures/texts on phone
>get on with some extra curricular activities

honestly, don't live in the past man. Things/people change and its not entirely your fault if something didnt work out. Don't wallow in self-pity, embrace life.

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>>16454890
Learn from your mistakes dumbass!
That's what happens when you take shit for granted and I pretty sure you will do sum bullshit like that in your next relation ship, sooo try this,

Holla at her again to see how she feels ,
If she don't want nothin to do with you, then there you go!
Y wast your time?
Look for some one else now !
She isn't worried about you any moar
Soooo GET OVER SOMEONE WHO IS OVER YOU!

sounds like a drama-addict to me...
just see how it goes next time you see her, but more of that shit would be an indication of crazy.

>>16454899
I think I need some affirmation, just, hypothetically speaking, assuming there's no background to this,
is it fucking normal to not have even 5 minutes for a talk over the phone with your SO while you're at home, perhaps busy, but not doing any lectures or anything that would involve other people in an imperative manner? Fuck.

Don't feed the drama. Get over it, never bring it up, act as if it never happened next time you see her.
If she does it again, tell her that it's not ok, and if she doesn't listen, tell her that if she wants to continue this type of behaviour, she's free to go and act like this with someone else, but you won't accept it.
She'll either clean up her act and apologies, or she's not worth keeping around.

Did you at least make a move?
Does she know you're interested?

>>16454854
This girl only accepts my invitations when there are going to be other people coming.

I tried like 3 times to ask her casually to go for a drink or to see a movie and she always says that she's busy. But when I call her and say "hey me and "random common acquaintance" are going for a drink, wanna come?" she always accepts.

Hey OP, Its clear as day that she isnt interested, and when a womans says shes not interested, she means it, You should probably stop seeing her altogether. Get your mind away from her. Try taking up a hobby or meet some new people.

You're shit at foreplay

More foreplay.

She's not worked up enough. The vagina naturally expands the more aroused a girl is.

I think on average I'd spend about 15-45+ minutes of pure foreplay with most girls, just slowly escalating bit by bit.

Lube and get her really horny first. Also, let her ride you so she can controle speed and penetration