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boyfriend breaking up with me
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2015-12-14 02:04:33
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I think my boyfriend wants to break up with me, but he doesn't know how to go about it. It would be the first time he has broken up with a girl. How do I make this easier for him?
Should I avoid him in public places so he doesn't have to pretend he still likes me?
Should I text him less so he doesn't have to respond?
Or should I not do that, so he can bring up the topic in normal conversation?
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Huh? Do you want to break up with him is the first question.
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Why don't you just break up with him
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don't jump to conclusions. why do you think he wants to break up with you?
I'm unphotogenic to the point where it's ridiculous. I only look decent in 1 out of 1000 pictures. I don't consider myself ugly and I have my reasons for that but I'm still very worried. Will this ruin my chances with women in a world where pictures are everything?
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cameras aren't magic, you're ugly. Hell yes being ugly will hurt your chances.
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>>16563074
I've met people who are pretty in real life and not photogenic either
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My boyfriend looks great in person but shitty af in pictures unless someone is behind the camera and poses him. He has mad high cheekbones and stuff which don't really transfer well to a flat image.
If you aren't meeting people online, it's nbd, but if you are, have someone else take the pic and pose you. You've got to have at least one buddy that would be willing to do that
How do you make a girlfriend feel insecure?
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Why would you want to do that?
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>>16563055
tell her she has a pathetically small penis that can't pleasure you anymore.
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>>16563055
pay attention to other women
duh
Hey /adv/.
I'm a 20yo, 5'4, 6.5/10ish fem and I work as a barista in a crowded city mall. Today while I was making drinks, a guy came up to the counter and started asking me personal questions, particularly questions about my tattoo, which is covered by my clothes and not visible. I was super uncomfortable and my boss told him to leave the cafe.
A few hours went by, and things were normal. But then I was in the back room and my boss told me not to come out front, because the guy had come back and was waiting for me. After like 10 minutes he asked my coworker when we open tomorrow and left. Thankfully I'm not working tomorrow.
My boss wouldn't let me leave alone and walked me to my car. I'm home alone now and I'm anxious about going back to work on Tuesday, and about this escalating to like stalker-level. He had no way of knowing about my tattoo so like idk how long he's been watching me.
What do I do about this?
tl;dr
>some creepy guy at work asking about my tattoo that isn't visible
>got asked to leave but came back to wait for me
>I don't want a stalker, how fix
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I'm pretty sure if it was Ryan Gosling or some shit he wouldn't be creepy.
He must've seen it once or twice before and was asking a legitimate question to you. Maybe he was too shy. Just shake it off you fucking pussy bitch.
tl;dr kill yourself.
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>>16563024
call him a bitch ayyy
just keep close to friends who can protect you and look out for you during/after your shift
not hard OP
call the cops if he escalates
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>>16563049
It's still legitimately creepy if he saw it some other time and then came back specifically to ask me about it. It's not like he was just making polite conversation while waiting for his latte. He didn't buy anything. He came over specifically to start questioning me about weirdly personal things while I was working, and he was asking other things, like where my mom lives and shit like that. That would be weird coming from anything. He wasn't hideous or anything, just weird and making me uncomfortable.
And then he came back after being asked to leave, so like it's not like he was behaving normally.
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Found out my girlfriend has been using Tinder even though she told me she deleted it. She's updated her photos and everything, but her description says she wants to make "friends"
I fucking hate this. I'm crushed, I thought we were in love. what do I do
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>>16563012
Instead of whining about it in 4chan, sit that bitch down and talk it over before you become a c uck lmao
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>>16563012
if the relationship has been longer than 6 months, you should try conflict resolution, otherwise you should just break up
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>>16563012
Tell her it's something you don't tolerate in a relationship. Be prepared to leave her. It's a shitty situation.
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I went to a friends house yesterday , and late in the night tried to post a thread. I got this....should I think any thing of it.? I didn't mention it to him. I mean it could just have a been a mistake.
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>>16562984
You now know why this friend isn't interested in you, you're too young for him.
The friendzone sucks, brake contact with him its much healthier in the long run.
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>>16562991
But I'm not gay....and he's a good friend, not just gonna cut ties suddenly
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He could have a dynamic IP and the ban isn't actually his, so giving him the benefit of the doubt for now wouldn't hurt, I think.
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How the fuck do you introduce physical intimacy on a date?
I've now been on two dates with a girl, having never dated other than once when I was a teenager. We talked so much shit together, got kinda tipsy and it was awesome but nothing physical has happened and I don't know what I'm expected to do. I think she's really cute but I don't know how to make opportunities for physical contact that aren't just obvious or creepy. Or fucking terrifying.
We had maybe one moment where we were leaning in pretty close while talking, but that was all. Oh and hugs on greeting/goodbye.
As far as connecting emotionally and having common interests I think it's going really well but I feel like I could just fudge it by not taking the lead. She's pretty awkward herself so I don't think she'll initiate anything. She's also a fucking massive hipster so I feel like being too cheesy with romantic gestures is a bad idea.
I know this is a dull question but it's hard to find advice on this topic that isn't aimed at normies.
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Offer to give her a back massage. Give her a back massage.
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>>16563167
Knowing OP he would give her a back massage and nothing else.
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>>16563182
Well, 4 out of 7 times I did this I got myself a new girlfriend.
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Do people still use facebook?
I'm 22 and pretty much always avoided it because i'm anti-social and don't feel comfortable having people know things about me/who I know.
I also think it will be awkward to add people...I could at best add 10-15 people, which normies seem to laugh at.
IDK is fb useful for anything? I'm a college student + working professional.
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If you don't have facebook already, don't bother. You are know part of the people that will survive The Great Brainwash of 2033.
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>>16562895
idk every time fb gets brought up in conversations it always ends up coming up that I don't have one/should get one.
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I made a facebook so that I don't look like a fucking loser. I have no other social media, and I mever added anyone on FB. They have to add me because I am cool.
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How do you deal with being a first-hand witness to a loved one's suicide and that you probably contributed to their pain?
It's never going to get better.
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Story time, OP?
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>>16562809
I was getting bitchy because he was withdrawing from me because he was depressed. I was a selfish dumbfuck. I tried to help him feel better but nothing would.
I was supposed to see him the day he died(Thursday) because I'd left after half an hour on Tuesday. At 11:40am, he texted me to come over now. When I got to his place 2 hours later, he wouldn't respond to any of my messages.
The next morning at 11:04, I get a message from his mother that he had passed away.
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>>16562802
That kind of guilt never goes away whether you really are or not. You have to lock it away in a part of your brain you don't access often. You can't let it consume you. It was his decision to end his life regardless of what you may or may not have done.
I'm sorry that you lost your friend in such a way. Take the time to grieve, it's natural to feel sad for the loss of someone you cared about.
Is it possible to make a living off poetry?
if anyone replies or cares ill post a poem in reply to myself
if i do pls rate out of ten
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why dos noone reply to me on 4chan
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alright now post
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The skill is useless monetarily. Have fun flipping burgers.
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Are you still an asexual if you want sex in theory but not in practice?
How do I change one or the other?
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No, you're just afraid of sex and falling for le asexual meme.
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>>16562777
How do I stop being afraid of sex then?
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Wanting it in theory is understandable. Your brain is telling you to breed, pass on your genes, and society is telling you that you need to crush some puss sometime in your life.
The real question is if you're asexual, or just in a weird time in your life.
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In your own definition define. boys or girls
NERDY
CUTE
TOMBOY
CHILDISH
PREPPY
MARRIAGE MATERIAL
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Sure I'll bite
>NERDY
Having a strong fascination with certain topics normally considered odd with the general public, eg video games, sci fi/fantasy
>CUTE
Charming in a sweet and non-sexual way
>TOMBOY
A woman/girl who engages in what is typically considered "male" interests as opposed to "female" interests, which is kind of stupid in 2015 or outside of gradeschool. Like football I guess.
>CHILDISH
Unable or unwilling to accept certain responsibilities and acting with the mannerisms of a grade schooler. Either willingly incompetent or never being held to higher standards.
>PREPPY
Dressing and behaving like someone in upper middle to upper class society - fairly expensive name-brand clothing, typical "high society interests", no street behavior, little if any street knowledge. Nearly synonymous with sheltered
>MARRIAGE MATERIAL
Able to provide emotional, financial and sexual support to their partner without losing their individuality
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>>16562559
>NERDY
In 2015? A member of the young adult population.
>CUTE
Visually appealing in a way similar to the selected for appeal of children.
>TOMBOY
A girl who dresses in an androgynous or masculine way.
>CHILDISH
Behaving in a way the speaker, and/or society, disapproves of.
>PREPPY
Making excessive effort to appear a member of the upper echelon of socioeconomic status individuals.
>MARRIAGE MATERIAL
Someone trustworthy and competent enough for engage in a lifelong relation ship with.
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>>16562559
Sure, I am grill if it matters.
>NERDY
Having strong interests in things like vidya, anime, sci-fi, etc.
>CUTE
I always thought of cute as more of a demeanor than a physical look. Someone who is cute is shy, bashful, and when they come out of their shell, their presence is both pleasant and somehow attractive.
>TOMBOY
A female that is very heavily active in activities mainly concerning boys (and assuming that she doesn't do it for male attention). Is hardy and doesn't doll herself up like most girls do. I guess this is my definition of someone that is full-on tomboy. I know there are people in the middle.
>CHILDISH
Not acting in a way that is appropriate for their age group, in short. Doesn't think before they speak (may say offensive things or jokes about things at the wrong time with little concern for other people).
>PREPPY
Obsessed with expensive brand-name clothing. Has wealthy parents that gave them what they wanted. High maintenance. Needs material items to boost self-esteem and feel higher on the human social food chain.
>MARRIAGE MATERIAL
Someone you feel such chemistry with that you could see it working out for life. Someone who also seems loyal, independent, reliable, etc. Also, being able to realize that you could marry them outside the subjectivity of love. You can pragmatically see life working out together, not completely blinded by love or infatuation.
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I'm bisexual, but I can't get off with woman.
I actually really prefer women, by a good margin. But for some reason they can't get me off. Vaginally, handjob, oral, it doesn't matter. I cannot cum with them even after a really long time (2+hrs). And if I'm wearing a condom..... forget about it - is hard to stay, err, hard
I can come with a guy pretty much any way in minutes on the other hand.
I'm not that gay, I promise. But my current girlfriend is beginning to wonder I think. She hasn't ever mentioned the fact I don't come in an angry context, but the past several times she's made passing comments about it. She knows I'm bisexual, but I think she's convinced I'm gay. I feel like I'm falling to make her feel good about herself, because whenever we finish she kind of like Samus in the OP pic..... kind of annoyed.
Anyone else he have the same issue?
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Sorry for the dumb grammar errors towards the end there. Meant to say failing, not falling, among other things.
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Gay, Straight or Lying.
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Does it help if you imagine she is a guy?
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>started dating my current GF about a year and a half ago, met during the summer
>both still in university, but she's transferring to a better art school up north
>after living together for the end of a semester and through the summer, she moves up and we're okay with this
>we spend our year and a half visiting each other every few weeks, no problems whatsoever, perfect long distance relationship
>no cheating, no trust issues, just easy and fun
>she comes down for Christmas break and the summer, lives with me again (her mom is in this town too)
>we travel the world literally in one summer, go to like 5 countries together that neither of us have been to
>again, perfect
>current semester starts, its my final one before i graduate (she still has a year because of the transfer)
>she constantly tells me to get ready to move up like we both want to (i have job offers there and the city is wonderful)
>as her finals heat up and mine cool down, she becomes more distant due to work
>eventually starts telling me not to move up, despite having been the one making all the serious plans
>literally demanding that i dont move up because ill distract her during her most important years (putting her portfolio and senior project together, getting applications, etc)
>tell her thats okay, ill just get an apartment in the city on my own and we can both focus on jobs and stuff and building our lives until she's ready to move in with me
>she remains adamant about me not moving up and drops the conversation by stating how she's too stressed with finals and doesnt want to say something stupid
How do I react to this?
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I'm in good standing with her friends (her initiative, she added me to group chats and they all added me on social media), should I ask them what they think?
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Looks like you got keked and she's distancing herself from you either to soften the blow or to avoid dealing with the eventual breakup.
Tell her to fuck herself with a cactus.
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>>16562369
I really don't want to assume she's cheating, and I seriously doubt she is. She's extremely adamant about the subject and has broken up with past boyfriends over them doing it to her. Plus, she's been incredibly faithful throughout our relationship, and it's only now (like the past week, specifically) that she's had such a 180. I do believe it's just stress and finals, but how can I be certain?
Is contacting her friends a good idea?
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I'm looking for a cheap car, mostly to drive myself from and to work *2 miles away*, my budget is <5000 and I'm open to going to auctions.
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Craigslist
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$5000 is plenty for a decent used car. If work is two miles away, why don't you bike? It'd save you money on gas, save the hassle of parking, and be exercise. You can still easily get a car with the leftover money
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>>16562277
Because I'm lazy
I've been looking at the 05-06 Chevy impala butt don't know if they are good or bad, please give me suggestion on good budget cars