I'm 19 and never had a gf, should I mill myself? I've been rejected by 4 girls and am suicidal over the idea that everyone else my age has dated and fucked and played around with girls and I hardly have any female friends. I tend to smoke lots of weed and listen to good music to deal with the loneliness. I talk to quite a few girls, but they always end in us texting for a few months give or take and then never hearing back from them again. I'm hopeless at this point.
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You must be some ugly bastard, just kill yourself and hope to be reborn beautiful
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OP what do you listen to?
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>>16562458
Kanye, MF DOOM, Madlib, Travis Scott, Lil B, Animal Collective, Death Grips, Swans, James Ferraro, Drake, Pavement, Kendrick Lamar, etc
HEY 4CHAN!(: help needed.
Last night (@ 10pm) I smoked a joint with my friend, (9 puffs in all) I was VERY high.
However.
Today I wake up and I feel high.
It's been 5+ hours ever since yesterday and i'm still somewhat high.
I feel weird sensations around my body but my eyes are not red and i'm aware of what i'm doing.
It's probably a level 3 high opposed to a level 10.
Was my weed laced?
Is this because it was great weed?
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standard
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What do you mean "standard"?
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>>16562361
Dude, enjoy the aftermath.
The day next to a smoke out, you are really chill, concentrated and it's all good.
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Hi. I've got kind of a fucked up situation here.
I was in a very toxic relationship with an abusive girl (I'm a male). She was very sick (had an eating disorder and anxiety) and was also abusive. Not only did the eating disorder take its toll on me mentally, she got physical many times. She broke my rib, and I still don't sleep properly at night because of the rib pain. I kicked her out in May of this year, and about three months ago I tried to end things completely. She kept saying no, kept convincing me to work things out. But after that we never really saw each other anyway, and eventually I broke it off. I had trouble doing this for so long, and I did try way earlier in the relationship, but I felt responsible for her in a way. I kept feeling like if I left something bad would happen. Sure enough, a few weeks ago she was hospitalized again for collapsing at work and she needed a feeding tube.
The really bad news? Turns out she's four months pregnant. And while there's still time to abort, I'm pretty sure she's set on it. Not only that, she then tells me her previous partner just messaged her and told her he had HIV. I donate blood frequently so I think they'd tell me if I had it, but now I'm gonna go get a test anyway.
I had met this new girl two months ago who was really just a godsend in so many ways, and she has been very understanding of all this stuff.
But I struggle. I don't sleep at night. I feel like my life is going to be over here. I have 40k+ student loans, and she keeps trying to say she doesn't want my money but I'm always on the hook in the future. But for me it's not even about the money. I go to bed every night with a reminder of the worst year of my life, the worst relationship I've ever had. And now I'm gonna get stuck paying for a kid for the next 20 years? I can't honestly handle knowing I'm going to have to be reminded every month of one stupid silly mistake and one crazy girl.
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To continue, this girl is fucking crazy too. She said to me "I'll get rid of this child if you give me another chance". I didn't want to say anything because I'm with this other girl. Like I said, she knows everything. But anyway my ex tried to message her to "warn her" of me.
Anyway, it sounds crazy but I just can't really handle all the mental stress. And if you wanna talk about "I made the mistake and have to live with it", I don't think that this is a typical case. I really can't see myself going on if I have to be constantly reminded of the worst time of my life for the rest of my life, and pay for a kid I never wanted. I don't know what to do, who to talk to, who to get help from. I feel powerless, vulnerable, and helpless.
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Tell the girl "have the kid if you want, but I'm having nothing to do with it. You're on your own.". Bluff. You'll be surprised how scary this will sound if this girl has nothing. To be honest, if she's as crazy as you say she is, then I wouldn't be surprised if she's lying about being pregnant to try to keep you. Get the fuck out of there.
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>>16562443
She knows I want nothing to do with it. This is what I mean about her being crazy. At first she said she'd get rid of it if I stayed with her, but then she turned around and said she's keeping it because of some other guy...
She has barely been with some guy who wants to apparently be the father. Then she said she'd just go after him for child support if he ever left. But all he'd have to do is take a paternity test and then she can just turn to me.
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Hey /adv/, I'm at loss, hope you'd be able to help.
There is this girl, we've known each other for few months now, recently we went out few times, usually to take a walk, or grab a cigarette. We've been to cinema once, the talk with her is really great, we seem to like each other. But there is this guy, she say that he's her "friend", but I don't know what to think about this. She spends time at his home, they talk a lot, and I'm pretty positive they're dating and/or fucking. Am I being logical or paranoid?
>inb4 drunk
>inb4 bad english
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Hey son,
She's your FRIEND. You are friendzoned months ago.
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>>16561948
Not really, this would be a thing if I'd consider her more than a firend, and she wouldn't. I'm not really hitting on her, neither am I "madly in love". Pretty much it's a status quo, and I'm cool with it.
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>>16561956
Then wtf is the problem?
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Are women ok with knowing your prime reason for dating them is because they're pretty? Or is it seen as some kind of horrible offense?
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Prime reason for asking them out = okay
Prime reason for continuing to date them = not okay
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>>16561847
>EpicKid
Underage B&
Please go back to Syria and continue to masturbate to pic related, fucking mudslime piece of shit.
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>>16561864
Do not never in your life try to act like you know me senpai
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>go to doctor because stomach problems
>doctor says it might be ibs, eat more wholegrain and more veggies etc.
>doesn't help, cut out gluten for 2 weeks, improvements, feel better, no stomach problems, just avoid all bread, cakes and cookies, eat veggies and drink plenty of water
>go to doctor again after introducing gluten again, problems with digestion, feeling bloated, dizzy, nausea, weak and tired
>doctor says it might be gluten, go through check ups and more, gluten is definitely the sinner
>try to tell parents, they don't care, they say there's no such thing, buy the same things, don't try to help, says gluten-free is fake
>can't buy my own stuff because all my money go to paying for staying here, forced to eat what's eat what they buy because they don't buy anything else...
Wat do?
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Did you call me?
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>>16561607
Seriously...
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>>16561601
Get a note from the doctor, they should listen
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I dont have anything to do besides playing vidya. I would focus on education since i am about to face college next year but i cant get my shit together and i drop focus when i study. I guess i should find a hobby. What are your suggestions anons?
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See something you find cool, do it.
Youtube,4chan,reddit,real life. These are examples of places you can find these things.
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Boxing. It's amazingly addictive. You'll be fitter faster and know how to handle yourself
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Anything that doesn't involve staring at a lighted rectangle.
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I started working in a small company (10 people) a few months back. I've become decent friends with a girl who works there, and in the past few weeks we've gone to a few concerts in the city together. During the last one, we spent most of the time talking, and when we parted, she gave me a long hug and squeezed my arm. I read this as affection, so I invited her to another gig, but she had a flimsy excuse which seemed to me like she wanted an out. Since then, we've still been talking and have been friendly as ever at work.
So am I reading too much into things? And should I even think about things progressing with a coworker?
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Her flimsy excuse was that over the weekend was her mom's birthday, and she didn't know which day they would celebrate. But there were 4 different shows over the entire weekend, so it could have easily been worked around.
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Women sense when you are onto them.
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>>16561441
Wut
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>tfw I got rejected by a girl who posts "forever alone" memes on facebook
should I just an hero /adv?
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can i see her face?
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>posts "forever alone" memes on facebook
she was garbage
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Can women love?
" If you really love someone, you need to give them total freedom, to do as they please, because you want her/him to be happy, even if it is at your expense, even if it means she/he has an affair. You should be very happy for that person because you love that person and your concern is her/his happiness."
ve been in love and wouldn't leave the person for someone better, but I don't know if it was unconditional love. It may have not been. If the person changed, I probably would have too.
"So no, you're right. I'm capable of love, but not unconditional love. I change like the weather."
" Actually, a study was done. It was an extensive survey done by a scientist over a couple decades. She found that women obviously go through stages, but when they are ready to mate, they subconsciously look for two types of mates. One to bear them a strong child and one to be a caregiver to take care of the child. She came to this conclusion after studying the survey answers and looking at how other primates behave, especially the ape family.
So, in a way, you''re right. Women biologically have a drive to push the situation into their favor for breeding. Now, this is a little controversial as a theory, but it makes sense as a survival trait not only for the female, but for any child she may give birth to. It's innate according to this study; not for everyone, mind you, but for most of the female population.
Source(s):
Scientific American article. I had to check this one because I thought it could be wrong. It turns out, she had good sources and credibility on the research."
"Men will often test a woman's "unconditional love and support"
"Men in Love" Therationalmale
"Women in Love" Therationalmale
"Unconditional Love From A Woman Is Impossible." - Returnofkings.
Let's settle this once and for all advice. Can women and men for that matter, love?
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>>16560645
I know it's wishful thinking on my part that I think a random subset of 4chan browsers will settle one of the biggest questions of humanity in a matter of seconds, but hey, why not try?
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>>16560645
If humans can invent the concept of love, they can do it
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>>16560704
So if I invent the concept of time-travel I can do it right now? Please be serious for once.
How do I stop being a push over /adv/?
Examples: ordered pizza, but they didn't give it to me right away(hipster pizza place), I only went to ask for it after the girl I was hanging out told me to man up and go get it after some hesitation.
Too scared to get my ideas out during my meetings with the club president.
Be really nice and afraid to tell truth sometimes so I don't say it.
Very hesitant when saying my own opinion and being stern.
How do I become more blunt?
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Don't.
and don't listen to that "alpha male" bullshit if that's where you are going with this, sorry if I'm just assuming but.... A real "alpha male" is someone who doesn't pretend to be anyone else. They just are who they are and they are successful and awesome just being them. You may find some small things you should change about yourself, but you never have to be blunt. In fact, the world could use more indirect people who think about things more carefully. People say they like me because I'm blunt, but I'm not. Actually, I carefully think about what I want to say and deliver it in a nice way. Just keep being yourself, you don't have to change for anyone.
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>>16562220
Do it anyways.
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>>16562234
It's not that I'm trying to be an alpha male, I'm just trying to know how to be more assertive, I usually stand back and hope things go well, rather doing an action which I know will beneficial.
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Hey /adv/
Im from The Netherlands and i really dont know what to study... I thought about medicine or maritime officer. salary is a big thing for me. I could study anything I want, I just dont know what? any advice?
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It depends what environment you'd want to work, oh and you have to not hate the course content.
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Medic fags,
I was think about studing medicine to become a surgeon. what do you think? any regrets? I have a rich as fuck dad, so i wont have any debts. what should I do?
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Look up one of those liberal arts colleges. The ones in the Netherlands are really good and will land you a good job, too.
The one in Middelburg is quite nice and part of the Utrecht university. I've heard good and bad things about Utrecht university college.
At these schools you get to choose courses every semester (half a year) and let them build towards a major. The work load is higher than regular universities and you'll have to write a fuck ton of papers and give about 10 presentation per semester.
I've visited friends at several places and I do think the one in Middelburg is the nicest. The students are cool and they have tons of activities, especially since it's only 600 students. The city itself is small but fun in its own way; very culturally active.
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>male
How the fuck I should find a hobby?
I tried (for a year or more):
>Spanish courses
>Ski
>Boxing
>Gym
>Fishing
>Writing
Nothing inspires me.
I've realized that all I do enjoy in life are 4chan, fap and drugs.
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>All I enjoy is 4chan
If you look on the home page you'll find that 4chan has pages for a number of different interest groups, life styles and hobbies.
Lurk other boards more often. See if anything inspires you,
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>>16562123
Stop fapping, stop brownsing 4chan and stop doing drugs. You will suddenly find everything a lot more enjoyable.
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>>16562135
not OP
i tried DIY, cooking, model kits (after seeing /toy/), guns
I tried a bunch of interests off 4chan and didn't stick with ANYTHING
im having an argument with my sister about video editing.
she says its possible to edit out 2 minutes of film (retail camera footage) without anyone noticing, but that sounds like serious bullshit to me.
Even if they edit the timestamp, I feel like 2 minutes is a huge gap in film.
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Why does the only form of editing need to be a cut? You could mask over some shoppers from other sections of the footage to blend the seam.
This is easy as cake.
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>>16562055
can you go a little more in depth to what that means? I have literally zero knowledge about this.
also, it was a pharmacy video. not sure if that makes a huge difference (legally)
basically the situation is this:
>mom has health condition that requires her to have narcotics
>sister is a nurse, drops off scripts at a major chain pharmacy
>the doodle all over the fucking script and claim it was altered and won't fill it
>sister is adamant about not talking to the cops / lawyer about it because they could edit the footage out
>mom will be dismissed from 2nd pain clinic and out of meds of she doesn't talk to the cops.
little backstory behind it
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>>16562071
also forgot to add, according to my sister if my mother files a police report and nothing is found on the pharmacy's end, she could lose her license.
>Be straight dude whose social circle is filled with machismo
>Bros went to a bar
>I arrived late and they are talking to a group of people (they are faking being nice to them)
>One bro is cool as fuck, however he is gay
>He tells me he can hook me up with a job so we exchanged business cards
>Friends giving me shit and I'm being ostracized because of it
Part of me says I should stick with bros, but my moral voice is saying fuck them because they are homophobic Faggots and I am being ostracized anyways
I could care less if a person is gay, I could still be friends with said person
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Your friends sounds like a bunch of idiots.
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>>16561967
Wow your friends sound like idiots
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>>16561983
As soon as the gay dudes and their girlfriends left they straight up started talking shit about them. Which was shocking.
I've known these dudes since before and they had my back and all, and they are not bad people. So this event of bigotry is quite shocking really. Now nobody wants to hang out with me because of said incident.
What do?