Hello, /adv/.
Is it worth to continue on a relationship which you're just waiting for a reason to break up or looking for a reason to go on? Should i keep trying? She is dumb as fuck and prone to mistakes a lot. It's getting frustrating.
jump off a really tall building
What kind of mistakes?
What does being dumb has to do with relationships? Or making mistakes? It has nothing to do with feelings. You're supposed to be in a relationship because you mutually enjoy being with each other. Do you?
I'm completely unprepared for my freshman piano jury. I've been supposed to learn this invention all semester and I've been putting it off because I fucking hate it.
Tomorrow at 10 am, in less than 7 hours, I'm supposed to perform it, along with another piece I kind of know, for the keyboard professors. I'm terrified of what's going to happen. How do I approach this? I'm sick of being a music major but I don't know if I can handle the amount of disapproval I'll be getting tomorrow.
Do your best and ask them for advice. It is their job, after all.
>>16567833
Funny story. I just got done with my piano jury today.
Whether or not you want to do something is irrelevant. I've got another jury for trombone tomorrow, and as much as I hate playing the trombone, I practiced everyday. Same thing with the irrelevant crap. I don't want to study, but that doesn't mean I have a good reason not to. If you don't want to be a music major, you've got literally a week to tough out, and then you can switch majors next semester.
>>16567864
My main problem is, how do I say that I'm not ready for the one piece? It's literally just a Bach invention but I'm a very slow learner
I have a problem /adv/.
The thing is, about 2 years ago I discovered /r9k/ for the first time. Initially I thought it was a really dumb board and didn't take anything there seriously, but I still liked to browse the place every now and then.
Fast forward to today and I spend nearly all day on /r9k/. I've come to realize that women are nothing but roastie sluts who are boring as fuck and expect men to do all the talking and have all the interesting hobbies.
not only that but roasties love to cheat on guys. EVERY single one of my friends has been cheated on by a roastie.
my question is, where can i find women who aren't roastie sluts, who won't cheat on me with chad and is into patrician hobbies like me?
i'm 25 and i would like to meet a woman who isn't a dumb roastie bitch
Strange how with all these cheating women around men like you aren't getting laid, huh?
In real life, men are 100 times more boring than women, troll.
Women are the ones who care about art, music, culture, and science, while guys mostly care about sports, vidya and /r9k/.
>>16567874
>Women are the ones who care about art, music, culture, and science
pathetic troll attempt by a roastie 0/10
the only thing women care about is gossiping about other roasties and watching netflix like the lazy fucks that they are
Hey guys.
Pretty new here except for the occasional read, but i have gotten to a point, where I can't talk to anyone about a certain problem.
So the story goes like this:
Been living together with one of my best friends for years.
One day, he meets a girl.
She often visits him, she and I talk a lot when my flatmate is at work, since I'm unemployed and she's in college.
We get to know each other better.
Turns out, we have a lot in common.
We converse about everything, from everyday stuff to the most abstract concepts of philosophy.
They end up being together, as expected.
She visits more often.
We become closer, often getting together to talk or do stuff without my flatmate.
Over a few months, I realise she's very similar to me in almost every aspect, be it thoughts, opinions, taste, past experiences, you name it.
I fall in love with her.
Thinking what to do about it, i decide to hide my feelings to protect my friendship with both of them.
Works out fine, with the exception of the occasional thought of "What if...".
Some time passes, we often hang out in different constellations (she and I / he and I / the two of them / all three of us).
I find out about even more things we have in common.
I fall in love with her all over again.
I can't stop thinking about her and hate myself for being in love with one of my best friends' girl.
i decide to do the right thing and forget about her again, which kinda works.
We can all hang out and talk normally and have a good time.
They ask me, if I would object to her moving in.
Of course not.
So she's moving in.
Some time passes, she and i still do a lot together, talking for hours on end, even when we're meeting other friends.
After one night we spent doing nothing but talk,
i fall in love again.
I try and forget about her again.
Rinse and repeat.
I have had some problems with depressions for years, but this is getting me on a whole new level of despair.
We're literally perfect for each other in every fucking way.
Comment getting too long, ask for further details if you want. I haven't properly slept for like 4 days and my post might be somewhat confusing, because of it. Please, tell me what you think. Any perspective on the matter would be greatly appreciated.
>>16567831
So you're saying, I should just tell her?
I wish it would be that easy, but there's a lot at stake here for me.
I might lose two of my most important friends.
Especially losing her from my life, i think that would set me on a very destructive path...
Bit of a problem, advice?
Past:
>Met a cute girl registering for fall semester classes
>8/10, petite and cute
>hit it off, get number and skype
>shes a bit weird but before long we are doing the whole 3 hour skype calls thing
>now we are dating
>Im a Virgin, only messed around before
>She has had 2 partners before
Last Saturday Night:
>stop buy her dorm and chat with friends
>head to her room and we are undressing
>hard, but not hard enough to penetrate
>she just laughs it off, says its cute
>dont end up having sex, even though we were naked and in bed with a condom
Tried googling advice, but webMD is determined that i have ED.
-Is it actually "cute?"
-Most likely because of nerves?
Also, if anyone has tips for sex with someone over a foot shorter than you they would be appreciated. Pic related
Just keep trying. Mr Winky will work eventually.
>>16567819
Find something to keep you hard for a while,Viagra if needs to be.
Idk about that cute part that feels like my masculinity would be put down, ive only lost it twice during and came back after like them mins, next time if its gonna be a quitter Dont give up your jitter keep trying to get hard,sucked off,jerked off do et OP
don't overthink it and please don't use alcohol for courage to talk to her
I've been living in the US for the past two years in a small town. I originally hail from a large city in Australia.
I'm back for a month over Christmas by myself for the last time before we get married. The problem is, I miss this place so much. I don't know how I can return to the US indefinitely.
According to him it's "not an option" to move here ever, he's never been to Australia and apparently never plans to. I don't hold this against him as I don't feel he should live somewhere he doesn't want to.
I love my fiance but I had no idea how much I missed this place until I came back. I feel like I'm back to my real self here.
Should I marry him and be miserable my whole life or return to where I belong and be a bitch and ruin our relationship?
Any American who is against even visiting Australia is a complete idiot.
>>16567812
He NEVER plans to go to Australia?
He's a fucking dick. Where btw?
Anyway, can you envision you have been married for a couple of years. You get your first kid and you'll be going there by your self like a fucking bogan.
>>16567820
This. Leave this loser.
I'm balding and my gf left me
Quickest way to end this? Balding kills my chances at getting another gf
Balding was already cured, it's called a hair transplant.
>>16567708
Shave it all off, get buff, swim in infinite pussy.
Call the cops and have them deal with it
Hey /adv/. First time poster here. Im...im kinda lost with something. I guess it's normal but i don't want to talk with my friends about it, because they will not be imparcial. I need the wisdom and view of strangers. I don't know if i want to finish my relationship with my GF (5 years together, shes súper cold, always was, no more than ever) and start something with a girl that's súper warm and really really likes me. First time in my life that im confused about my feelings (im 29). What would /adv/ do? Picture kinda unrelated
My general advice is ALWAYS go for the new girl, unless you have kids.
>>16567714
No kids, thank you!
>>16567714
>>16567706
>OP flirts with new girl, obviously has feelings for her, probably hangs out
>old girl gets cold and suspicious
>OP then whines about how cold she is and if he should monkey branch
You're a faggot just like any woman who monkey branches OP. Absolute garbage tier.
I'm 23 and about to graduate college with a degree in psychology and a 2.5 GPA. I have no practical skills. I have Asperger's and have had pretty severe depression and anxiety since I got to college. I've never had a girlfriend and have only slept with two women, only one of which I was attracted to. (that was a few weeks ago)
What should I do? I really want to live a fulfilling life but I'm worried I'm fucked. The only flipside is that my parents are somewhat rich and I have no student debt, I'm thinking of getting an associate's degree so I can get good enough at something to get a job.
What should I do?
You mean a Master's degree, right?
>>16567707
Nope, an associates. There's no way I can get into grad school with my GPA, as far as I know. I just want to learn a skill I can get really good at so I can find a career that way
>>16567722
>as far as I know
They care much more about your GRE score. Have you taken it?
Went to Wendy's about an hour ago. I eat my burger and find some a sharp piece of plastic in my mouth.
I can't make it out what it is. At first, I thought it might've been a tooth from a plastic fork, but upon closer observation, it's not, and all of Wendy's utensils are brown colored, not clear. Its jagged on all sides, so I think it might be a piece of plastic that broke off of something. A container, maybe part of a hard plastic packaging, I'm not sure.
So I go back and show it to the person at the window(they locked up), and the first thing she says is "We don't sell this in our store."
Seriously. I told her I just wanted my money back. So she walks off and I can hear her saying "He gone go home and find some shit in his house to put in the damn burger."
When she came back, I told her "You know, I heard you just say that I put that in my burger and I thought that was very disrespectful. I work fast food, just like you do, and I think I have the right to bring back my food if I found something like that in it, and I'm entitled to my money back, without your attitude." All she said was "Whatever." Gave me my money, and slammed the window closed.
Now, I don't know whether I'm feeling sick from the thought of something being in my food, or whether I'm actually feeling sick from ingesting practically the entire burger before finding the object, that's been who-knows-where. Can I sue, even though I didn't injure myself on the object?
You should sue the shit out of them Take as much money from them as possible.
Call the cops too. Get the police involved
Call Wendy's compliance hotline 24/7
Eight hundred 256 8595 and ask them to hook you up with their HACCP person.
Planning on killing myself soon.
Have a decent amount of "love" and respect for my family.
Question- Is it better for them to think I'm missing or do I leave/send a note?
Oh, a note is far better than searching for you for years.
Wait. Do a bunch of drugs first. Take 30-40 hits of LSD
>>16567623
Op.
What's wrong my friend?
What's putting you down?
So one of my friend Josh keeps using me to talk to our other friend Ryan. Josh will ring me up asking to go for a drive and then try to convince to randomly go to his house without further notice. If or Once we get to meet up with Ryan, Josh will after a period of 15-20 minutes will start to look at me funny or death stare me literally almost as if to say "Why are you here? Ive used you now to get to Ryan now leave". I ask him what is wrong and he just looks upset and says nothing is wrong. I don't seem to understand and I'm presuming, what message does it sound he's trying to convey?
>>16567593
Btw Ryan never answers Josh's phone calls or replies to him but most of the time Ryan does to me, hence why you uses me as a tactic
he wants to have sex with you or your mother
>>16567600
please kill yourself
Is it a really, really bad idea to be FWB with my ex-boyfriend? We broke up over a year ago but started talking again and we both miss sex.
I wonder if anyone here has experience with that and can comment?
no, its a very good idea. you should do it as often as possible
Remember why you broke up over and think if it is worth it.
It can't be FWB with an ex. It's a booty call.
Hello /adv/ I'm sorry to ask but I live in Canada and I've been sorta trying to get things worked out I've tried going out with friends to parties and I always end up playing the situation for attention and no one gives it to me and it makes me sad. I was bullied a lot when I was in middle school and in highschool and it just went to me playing video games all day everyday and I tried stuff like martial arts and sports but I was bad at all of it and people made fun of me for it so I stopped and I just sit at home and play video games for 12 hours or more until I pass out and my parents get mad at me for it. I'm in university and its been really difficult I have trouble eating now because I'm always really anxious and my stomach hurts but if I fail I'll have to die and I don't want to have to do that. I don't really have any friends left now and I had one that got me into reading some self help books but I didn't finish them because I'm afraid that they won't fix me (because they won't) and I don't really have it in me to succeed and all the people I know are different, there are some people that are losers like me but they don't really realize it and they might be better off for it. It's really difficult and I think I might be suffering from mental illness or slight retardation and it really hurts. I don't want to go through another many years like this because it's really hurting me and theres no way out but to have the pain. I went to a psychotherapist from my university for a few times and it was just weird because I couldn't tell him anything because it felt that he would make fun of me as well. He gave me a book but I haven't read it for the same reason that I can't finish the self help books.
picture not really related but at least its a person smiling i think
>>16567517
>i'm sorry to ask
>i'm canadian
Topest of lels
>>16567517
Where in Canada? Different Provinces and Territories have different programs for what you're going through... buddeh.
>>16567580
Toronto, Ontario. Guy
So this guy at school likes me and i've known for a few months. At first he was really annoying, and still is, because he makes sexual remarks that i am not comfortable with. He has made a few attempts to touch my butt and has been throwing things at me just to get my attention. He knows I am not gay. So people og the interwebs. WHAT DO? (pic unrel8ed)
Have sex with him.
go into a store, and start throwing everything around until security escorts you out of the building
Assure him that he with find a boyfriend but not you.