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>>16557981
go to a muslim country

>>16557981
You don't, that's how. You can still be friends with someone without trying to micromanage their morality to match your own. And it would be easier for you to not waste romantic pursuits with someone who opposes your romantic orientations.

No idea, but do let me know if you find out. I'm in a poly relationship, and am tired of people acting like I'm abusing my partners with my company.

>why did I fall for jew memes while surfing kekporn

I don't know OP, why did you? are you retarded?

>>16557876
I just want to know where women get their balls please let's not insult each other

>>16557873
You should ask /r9k/. They are the experts on this kind of thing. Don't bother this board.

>>16557871
depends on how you define happy and successful

Yes but your "loser"-ness will haunt you and affect your decisions and actions for the rest of your life.

I'm probably a good example.
>huge nerd in middle school & high school
>few close friends
>college improve, but still tfw nogf
>post college improve a bit more, still tfw nogf
>hit stride late 20s, get gf, stopped being a wizard
>doing well at work, get /fa/, get /fit/, become a popular person
>still feel like a loser/nerd. often feel like I go out of my way to act "cool" to overcompensate for my insecurities & fears.

it's hard for human beings to happy mang

>>16557871
Yes that happens all the time. The most successful and happy people in life are often people who were awkward or not popular in grade-school. It's never too late to change and turn your life around. It's not rare, it's the norm.
Also, "happy" or "successful" people may seem that way in public, but the reality is often not the same.

Just to use some examples if you don't believe me, rapper Eminem has said he was a shy loner in high school, now is a huge musical superstar. Robin Williams was considered happy and hilarious, huge success as well, but was extremely depressed. Everyone is different, just find your own path and don't worry too much if things aren't going as you planned, be grateful of the good things you do have.

How does he know so many celebrities?

Also prepare yourself for a bunch of people getting butt hurt at you for using him.

I don't think you can really do anything except be his friend (actually be his friend don't just use him) until he makes a move.

One he makes a move you can tell him you see him only as a friend. If you've just been using him then he might drop you, but if you've been a good friend to him then the friendship might stay intact.

If you say anything before he makes a move them that might insult him if he doesn't actually feel that way

>>16557882
I am a good friend to him- he has some kind of social disability I think so he doesn't have any friends. I have been very friendly and patient with him, but he keeps pushing the limits of our friendship into an area that I am not comfortable with. I don't really know how to be an actual friend to him since he doesn't really converse well or open up about anything.
I have been trying to actually get to know him better but I dont know- he might just be really boring.
His father has a lot of connections- that's how he knows the celebrities.


And I understand why people would be butthurt- Im not normally this shallow so I had quite a bit of guilt.
That being said, I am activly denying his advances, so I don't think I'm necessarily leading him on. I'm not like flirting back or instigating meet ups.

Plus, the fact that he's using celebrities to "wow" me in to meeting with him in person is a pretty shallow tactic in and of itself. I don't think I'm being signifigantly more shallow than he is in this situation, so I don't feel TOO guilty.

>>16557892
>"him trying to impress me with something other than his personality because he's awful at communication is really shallow"
TOP FUCKING KEK, how's that cognitive dissonance of yours doing? You're on your own princess

Bump.

Halp me pls :( or just share experience

I didn't even know speed dating was a thing anymore

>>16557834
I've been lied to then!

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>>16557777
Shiiiieeet.

Don't. Just be awkward around them and laugh at yourself.

>>16557777
Show them the quads you pulled and their clothes will melt off

How many exams?

Define prepared? A decent grade? Then ya you have enough time but a excellent grade requires constant studying the material from the get go.

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>>16557755
I'm in for three this semester. Just cut the hard one out (Higher Mathematics) for next semester since it really adds well to my cryptography class.

I thought I'm going to ask this since a lot of people are in exam period now and/or have already written them. Imo it's a good timing to hear fron different people what worked for them and whatnot. Especially in terms of (exam)-preparation and studying the material. A decent grade would be really good.

>in 6 weeks
You can learn literally anything in 6 weeks.
You can learn the first 4 years of calculus and the principles of analysis in 6 weeks.
Yes motherfucker you should have more than enough time to get prepared.

Huh? Hey faggot what happened between 17 and 22? Mind giving us more information? Details help craft the advice.

>>16557660
op here. was in high school for another year before I graduated, lived in a foreign country for 2 years in peace corp, worked for about a year, have been in college for about a year

>>16557688

Need more info. You travelled, worked and now are in college, describe how you went from socially cool dude with a hot girlfriend to autistic 4channer?

What happened to your girlfriend and friends? Don't you have facebook? How does someone who is social not make plenty of acquaintances during those 5 years?

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Bleh

How are you guys this evening

IT'S ALL ABOUT MEEEEEEEEEE


fuck off

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>>16557659
>no

>>16557633

have no expectations about results, just say what's on your mind and learn from past experiences.

simply assume people like you as you are, not as you "should" be.

smile and be calm

>>16557661
Why should i botter learning from past experiences if i should have no expectations about my results?

>>16557633
Well if you're of age, go gave a few drinks at the bar. That'll open you up :)

>>16557546
You're accomplishing exactly what you wanted stop being afraid of fufillin the things you wanted to do.

>I haven't hung out in a casual scenario with other people my age in probably five or so years.

Ahh...what? What are you shut in or something? How have you not had any casual conversations with anyone around your age?

>>16557560
I am. After college, I moved and didn't have an opportunity to easily make friends, as I worked with people in their 50s and 60s.

I talk to other people my age, but it's always over the internet. That's why I wanna make sure I don't horrifically screw this up.

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Tall, huh? That eliminates all guys shorter than you.

Yeah, 5'7. I guess that doesn't help.

you're not dressing sexually enough

A side note is that I've had ongoing mental problems for a while and I was considering phoning my grandparents and letting them know before attending/skipping the exam.

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>>16557484
You'll learn things from just reading the questions in the exam. Consider it preparation for the resit.

>>16557498
But the issue is that whilst the exam questions each year have been mostly similar, I have missed out on a lot of the course material and not kept up with my studying. So I wouldn't be learning anything I'd just be writing nonsense on the paper and embarrassing myself

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Yes.

No.

She could be

A) Bored
B) Drunk
C) High as a kite and accidentally texted you

The off chance she knows you are awake and the text is sexualized or flirty then yes she likes you.

>>16557473
I have already fugged this girl

It wasn't a very flirty message, she just sent me a facebook message and asked if I was awake.

She also knows I don't have a smartphone so I didn't get a notification or anything and just saw it after I woke up.

The rum alone is enough

Though you'll probably throw everything up

Paracetamol will fuck you up and you could potentially die.

Just drink the rum and nothing else.

>>16557470
I can usually down that amount of rum without chucking, unless i mix it with other drinks. Just wondering if all that other shit will fuck me sideways.