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my sister is neglecting her cat 2015-12-14 18:05:12 Post No.16565494
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So my sister recently got a cat, but she's never here to take care of her.
When she's not at work, 90% of the time she's at her boyfriend's house. All the while the litter box isn't getting cleaned and the I have to be the one to feed the cat.
During the other 10% I've asked her to clean the litter box but she pouts and makes up some BS excuse saying, "after my two other cats ran away the litter box duty for my new cat is now both our responsibilities." when the hell was that a thing... well i mean it's not like she treated her other cats any better.
No matter what I do it doesn't get done. I've told the parents but they've totally given up. At first I tried to ignore it (other than the feeding) hoping she'd feel bad about neglecting her cat, but it got to the point where there was more shit than littler. I just couldn't stand it anymore, so I've totally taken control of this cat's care.
In a way I'm afraid of letting this cat live with her when she moves out, because I know it's not going to get any better. I'd be happy to keep the cat if she wasn't so attached to it.
What the hell should I do, anons? or what can I suggest to my parents to get her to take responsibility.
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>>16565494
Is it an indoor cat?
If not, throw the litterbox away and force it to litter outside.
Or say to your sis that you've arranged for the vet to put the cat down because she's not taking care of her.
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Post, talk and treat it as your cat. Make it your cat, post Facebook updates with your cat, talk about how you care for it. She'll get pissy and want the cat, and as long as you don't back down she'll either do the work or accept that its your cat.
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>>16565503
It's 100°F here and we have coyotes, so no. that would be giving them a free meal.
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Girlfriend's number of previous sexual partners 2015-12-14 17:19:23 Post No.16565422
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Girlfriend's number of previous sexual partners
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2015-12-14 17:19:23
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Would the amount of people your partner has slept with affect your judgement of them?
I recently discovered that my 20 year old girlfriend has slept with about 20 guys, although only two of them could really be considered serious relationships (one she dated for two years).
Now apart from this revelation, she's pretty awesome overall. She's incredibly honest, funny, beautiful, has an awesome body and we can talk about anything. I feel she helps make me a better person. However despite all this, I can't help but feel a little bit irked by her amount of sexual partners.
How would you feel should you have discovered this about your SO? Keep in mind it could be considered hypocritical of me to feel this way seeing as though I am 25 and have had a considerable number of sexual partners myself.
Tl;dr bothered by the amount of guys my young girlfriend has slept with. How would you feel?
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I wouldn't feel anything about it. It doesn't change who she is as a person. The number of partners or how many times she's had sex doesn't matter.
Don't fuck up a good thing because you're insecure
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>>16565429
>wanting a blown out used up slut
What is wrong with wanting a pure woman? If she's had more than 1 sexual intercourse experience she is a wore that WILL cheat because muh sexual liberation
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How to know if you are in the friendzone or wheather you have a shot for something more with a girl?
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Ask her.
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If she's nice to you, you've probably been friendzoned.
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>>16565401
Only one way to find out.
Fuck, OP, what is it saving you by guessing? God forbid you get rejected, it's not like life moves on or anything.
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I know these 4 girls (sort of) who are into business related things. But they don't seem like the the typical business/economics types. It's so weird. How do I tell them I think they should change their majors without offending them?
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Why do you want to tell them?
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>>16565259
Precisely what business is it of yours?
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>>16565259
Why would you bother? I like that I'm surrounded by morons. Makes it alot easier to appear outstanding. You should encourage them.
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I haven't been in a relationship yet and I think it's about time since I'm 19. But I have no idea what could go wrong or what I could do wrong once I have a gf.
I just want to know, what are the lessons you guys have learned while being or after a relationship?
I mean the kind of lessons like
>This relationship failed or turned to shit because this happened or I was too much like this
>In my next relationship I will do that so it doesn't happen again.
Stuff like this you've taken away. I just want to learn from that.
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>>16565072
Don't get in one.
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If your gf is picking a fight, it means she wants/ needs sex.
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>>16565072
Massacre time needs to be a real show. Need/10
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Am I attractive? Some people say I am but they just do it to be nice, so I need you guys to tell me the truth.
Score between 0-10 and some advice?
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are you a girl or a guy?
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That nose tho
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>>16565088
A guy, dude. Are you asking that seriosly? hahahaha
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Girlfriend getting lazy 2015-12-14 13:49:11 Post No.16565040
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OK, so I have this predicament. Almost 10 months relationship (though we know each for much longer) and I get the feelings she's getting lazy, taking me for granted. It's all my doing too, because I'm fucking madly in love at this point, it took a while to develop these feelings, and now I'm showering her with love, but I feel she's not really putting much effort. Now, from what I managed to get from her (passive aggressive withdrawn type, difficult to talk about own feelings), she wants to feel I'm committed and that's partly why she's a bit distant, hesitant, even though we often talk about things like marriage, kids, getting old together. It's fucking difficult for me at this point to play push-pull game and make her chase me by becoming cooler and letting her see she can lose me, is this my best bet? Femanon point of view also appreciated.
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I hate to be the one to tell you, but if she's passive agressive and can't communicate open and in an adult manner, this whole thing probably won't last. Because that's the one thing you need. How old are the two of you?
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>>16565099
we're both oldfags, feeling enough biological pressure. she even indirectly expressed the desire to be proposed to. am I being kekked. goddamn love is blind, I'm a mess of emotions right now. Big part of me just says fuck it, do it, get married, you ain't getting any younger
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>>16565115
How old tough? 10 months is rather short to get married, but it might be that she's pulling back because she feels her biological clock ticking and thinks it's about time to take the next step. I would, however, advice against it. Feeling obliged to rush in is not a very good start. Have you talled to her about the situation? If yes, what did she say?
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Why do some people pursue their interests instead of learning to like a job which pays more? 2015-12-14 13:30:45 Post No.16565004
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Why do some people pursue their interests instead of learning to like a job which pays more? 2015-12-14 13:30:45 Post No.16565004
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Why do some people pursue their interests instead of learning to like a job which pays more?
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And some of these jobs which pay more are not even that stressful (eg. actuary)!
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If you ask people on their deathbed about their life, they will rarely say that they wished they had earned more money.
(Unless they're from Chad and die from explosive poverty at the age of 22, I suppose.)
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>>16565017
Yeah, but really all jobs are stressful, so why not just like ones which pay more?
Plus some jobs that pay pretty well (eg. nutrionist) are not even that stressful.
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>>16565034
How much money are your dreams worth?
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Sunday Weekly Wisdom Thread 2015-12-14 13:25:27 Post No.16564994
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Sunday Weekly Wisdom Thread
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2015-12-14 13:25:27
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The time has come once again for the weekly advice thread, a day late but here nonetheless.
Come here and ask to get an advice, a second opinion, or a different point of view on human relations, an illness, religion, existentialism or anything else you've got.
The less vague you are the more helpful the replies can be. Replies may take a while, some even hours, but you are guaranteed an advice back, full of wisdom™.
Everyone else is free to give their advice as well.
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I'll be bumping with some scenery.
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Very anti-social and I need a career
I want to be a manager because it's easy for me to understand but I don't want to deal with others..
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>>16565054
As a human being you can't be very anti-social and there's joy to be had with interracting with people.
Why do you classify yourself as "very anti-social"?
What bothers you about interracting with others?
Is it mostly about the people around you, or people in general, or yourself?
What do you occupy yourself with on your free-time?
Before you work on omething you plan on doing for a good while, you should open yourself up, because human interraction is inevitable, and it's a neccesity for us, for our happiness.
I guarantee you that you'll be more happier, and through this you can find out what you actually want to do with your life, rather than just being a "manager". Asnwer the above questions for me.
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my younger sister is getting dragged into degeneracy
she was interested in singing and we were all behind her, then theater, which was fine as well
but now her friends are lesbians, she's going out with guys by herself at sixteen, dressing like a whore, drinking, we don't know what to do
I understand there are some people who think all those things are ok, those people need not post in this thread
she listens to the majority, the all encompassing propaganda in our society; she thinks her friends are good people and doesn't see why we object, it seems cruel and unusual to her because she hasn't seen with her own eyes where the slope downwards goes
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The harder you try to control her the harder she will resist. Most 16 year olds are like, especially girls who feel the need to explore and experiment.
Rebelion is just ingrained in society, we see things don't agree with (sometimes not even for logical reasons) so we push back. She doesn't understand your families need to control her. Love her and support her decisions and don't make her feel guilty otherwise you will lose her. Just say you want to be there for her no matter what and if she needs space just trust her. You can't protect everyone bro, that's just how life is but you can guide them to a position that is stable so they can make the right decision. She will be alright, just don't let your parents threaten her with exile and all that crazy shit families do to their kids and take her side, its better that you're with her for the ride and you can make sure she is safe than by forcing her (pushing her away really) to do and behave the way she simply isn't. Keep what you love close and nurture it. Pick a flowe but don't let it die. Do you get what I am saying?
Sorry if shitty spelling, I'm on my phone.
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>>16564946
She needs to learn pain and suffering
it makes people more modest.
If you're interested I could suggest some things
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>>16564961
see I don't want to push her away, but we can't just sit back and do nothing
we won't let degeneracy into our household, the further she goes the welcome she will be
she doesn't realize the impact she's having on all of us
there are consequences of what she's doing that she can't even understand yet, and she won't be able to undo later on
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Watching porn with girlfriend and talking about it.
My girlfriend watches porn, I don't, she showed me a video and told me that's how she wants me to fuck her, I'll of course happily oblige but, what are the pros and cons of this porn watching? Is it healthy for the relationship, how should I talk with her about it? She seemed unsatisfied with how I responded to her at first, I didn't really know what to say.
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Watching porn is totally normal.
People watch porn.
It's a thing that people do.
Don't try to change your partner.
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>>16564919
So how should I talk with her about it? This is confusing.
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Despite what that anon says, watching porn isn't "normal", it's something that a group of people in this day and age do, and it yields nothing positive to anyone does.
I know you already sense it, just talk to her about it. Ask her why she's really watching porn and if she ever tried to break out of her habit. She'll probably say it's just a thing she does for pleasure and she might reply that she may have a hard time if she stopped or something to that effect.
I'm a guy with strong sex drive and I used to watch porn masturbate multiple times a day, knowing it's bad for the body as well as the soul, just because I thought if I went on too long without masturbating all my thoughts would be filled of sex and women and that I would have trouble functioning within people etc. etc. I stopped masturbating a good while ago and it turns out it's the opposite, you simply forget about it after a while and get your focus, your will back and you get to direct it to constructive things.
Most people who frequently watch porn are people with not much to do with their day, their lives. Idleness begets boredom and people lean to fleshly pleasures, but referring to outer sources for things that should be intimate between the two of you has no 'cons' and will only do harm, at best it will waste your and your partner's time, at worst it'll end your relationship. Talk to her about it.
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Do I need an active social life to KEEP a girlfriend?
Key word is keep here, because I know I will need one to get her in the first place.
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Generally speaking, yes. This almost goes without saying for extraverted women. But even introverted women, though they enjoy their solitude, generally don't like to be isolated, and an isolated SO is an isolating experience.
But I'm confused: did you think you'd be able to just drop your social life when an SO entered the picture? Social lives do not work that way.
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yeap the more social you are the more value you have to her.
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>>16564943
too bad the actual value to social life is nearly zero
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Can i call the cops and jail someone if they're a sociopath? Or do I have to confirm it through doctors?
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r8ngDnWwFBI
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do you think they'd believe you? Without proof, you'll get nowhere. Even with proof it's likely you'll get nowhere.
Suprised you had to ask this question. Think about it logically:
What if you double crossed someone and they wanted to get back at you? If they could just report to the police that you were insane and have you jailed for petty personal reasons, that would create a huge issue.
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Perhaps in the mental ward, which is still a sort of jail.
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You are walking down the street this bloke slows down and yells "You worthless piece of shit!" then drives off. Continuing to walk down the road the car is stuck in traffic. What should you do?
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smile at the hate I've spread
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>>16564842
I'm missing something here.
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>>16564835
"You shouldn't say such things about yourself"
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superiority and inferiority complex 2015-12-14 10:33:04 Post No.16564711
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superiority and inferiority complex
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This might come off as nonsensical rambling, but I'll try to explain my situation as best I can.
Lately I'm starting to view myself as overall better than most people. I see others as nothing more than dumb animals, with the possible exception of some close ones. I look down on pretty much everyone. And every time I see someone that might have it better off than me at the slightest I get a strong sense of hatred towards that person and can't think of anything else but wanting to make their lives as miserable as possible.
I don't know how I became like this, but I don't think it's a good thing. I'm kinda lack social skills and don't have many friends, and this mindset probably won't get me any. Even though self confidence is supposed to be the key, right?
I'm not even sure what I'm asking for here, just something, anything, I guess.
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thank you for the post, op, i'm struggling with the same thing.
I don't know if it's your case, but i both love and hate this kind of attitudes at the same time. I'm brainwashed and i think it makes me more unique.
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>>16564718
congrats, you are both sociopaths. please see a psychiatrist.
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>>16564728
Granted, they could also both be edgy teenagers.