how to cope with the fact that i won't ever have a gf in my lifetime, not even once
wish i was joking
Most people think that until a serendipitous situation happens to find a girl. Believe me, even the most desperate and loser 4channer can get girlfriends depending on the situation.
>>16557689
Embrace it man! One day she'll be there.
>>16557689
Christmas is coming OP, just ask Santa.
You were a good boy this year, right?
What is your preferred height preference in a mate?
Please specify the gender
I ask out of curiosity and because of the feedback from my last post.
Mine: I'm a 5'7 female my preference is dudes 5'11-6'4
I don't have a preference per se, but I do have an unaddressed itch to date a really tall girl.
6'0 guy my preference is girls between 5'4 to 5'0.
>>16557554
Hansome manlet here 5,8. I go for a girls shorter than me but they want taller so I'm here lol.
ITT We discuss christmas presents
What do you buy for your friends / girlfriends / boyfriends for christmas? How long have you been friends / in a relationship with the person?
I've never really bought presents before but I started dating a few months ago and I have no idea what kind of a present I should get... Any tips?
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>>16556573
What is your SO into?
>>16556573
I'll give you a bump, I'm trying to think of what to get my gf, she's into stuff like Dr Who and K-pop
Girlfriends: jewelry usually works
Do not buy clothes
Boyfriend: never had one, but I imagine most bros would be thrilled with a nice bottle of alcohol
A friend of mine threatens to kill herself every so often for attention. Her favorite move is to empty pill bottles, feigning that she swallowed them all; I sometimes find the dissolved pills in the toilet or in the trash.
I'm worried that one day she won't get the reaction out of me that she wants and will actually go through with it. Anyone ever dealt with this?
She needs to learn how to talk about the things that are bothering her and stop scaring her friends with bullshit. Good job sticking around. I would have wiped my hands of it after the first time.
>>16556072
We actually do talk about it. It has to do with a guy she has been with for a very long time. She does this whenever they are getting ready to split up in order to keep him around.
>>16556066
Just let her go through with it. You can find more friends, OP.
How did she broke your heart adv?
I sat outside of a party and heard her kissing and probably later fucking a friend of mine in the master bedroom.
I'm no hero, I'm no good person.
Let me start with how I broke A's heart.
A and I were together for 4.5 years. I was getting scared that maybe she was all I would ever have, because none of my friends liked her. They hated her, they said she was horrible, I took her for granted and I felt nothing anymore. I met B, B was dating a friend of mine for a week, but I felt connected to her. I did nothing with B, that I would not have done with a friend. That being said, A is 19, I am 21. I go to bars. I drink. I couldn't tell A I was going to a bar without it being explosive, so i stopped telling A when I went to bars.
I talked to B a lot, and we connected, they understood me and I was understanding them. So I slowly broke up with A, and we split. B and I "pre-dated" sharing days and nights, sharing Thanksgiving with our families... We officially dated for a week, December 1st to December 7th. I can't deny I didn't love it all, I loved it all and it was great. But when we weren't together I remembered how I got to where I was, and I hated it.
We had to break up, I broke us up because I ran away from my problems with A. I needed to work with A before I could be with B.
I learned yesterday that before B and I were officially dating for a week, she spent a lot of time with a close friend of mine, she lied about where she was to be with my friend. I hurt. I deserve to be hurt. My friend told me everything today... the lies. I feel used even though we weren't dating. If you didn't want to be with me, why did you make me feel like it was what you wanted? I really did like you.... I wanted to be with you, but I wanted to be with you and have it be right. I'm trying to work it with A now.... but god dammit B... I don't want to hate you.
>>16555054
I'm sorry guys, I'm so intoxicated right now from all of this, I don't think A will really want me after she knows what I did with B. We were single by then, but A still feels hurt, and I did a lot with B in that short span. I'm destined to be alone, I deserve every bad thing that happens to me. I want to hate B, I want to hate my friend for lying and doing things behind my back.
B told me she was back up at school, getting ready for a test... she wasn't at school. She was with my friend. B told me she had to help a friend in need that was having a bad trip, she left me in her living room, and I waited for her. She was with me friend. B would tell me she was at X when really she was at Y. She lied to me, but why? we were both single, we had no reason to lie. I was so honest with her... why did she keep lying to me? She was afraid I wouldn't leave A, she was afraid I would get back with A. In the end I did, so that did happen, but who knows how long it will last. I wanted A and B, but that isn't a choice. When I was with B, I dreamed of A. Now that I am back with A, I am dreaming of B. Kill me, if there is a god I want death. I WANT DEATH, GOD, GIVE ME DEATH.
I don't want to hate B, I don't want to hate my friend. I want to keep them around, but I feel hurt, and I shouldn't. I shouldn't be hurt because I deserve this but I feel so pained.... I want to be angry at them but I just feel sad.
How would you name your daughter, /adv/ ?
Catherine after cats. Maybe Estellize.
>>16554304
Use the same first letter of a parent/grandparent female family member, out of respect and tradition.
>>16554304
>>16554304
Laura. It's a universal name that works in many languages without changing the spelling. Bonus point is that it has a Latin origin. Cons are that a lot of Lauras I've known were total cunts and it reminds me of them.
That or Elena (grandmother's name).
How do I initiate sex or make the first move with a prude woman?
We've been dating for a while and we don't kiss but she wants me to marry her next year and is very serious.
The thing that sucks is she doesn't get sexual with me at all and i'm scared to make any sexual moves out of fear of losing what we have. It's like I'm in the friendzone but she wants to marry me wtf.
what do?
She is Asian/Filipina for what it's worth.
Make a move. If she refuses reevaluate your relationship and talk to her about it. Find out her reasoning and go from there. If she flat out refuses tohave sex ever, then think about leaving, because sex is an important part of any relationship
Be romantic about it
Keep her around and keep insisting until you can't stand not pounding that pussy for another day, then start looking for another woman. Your options are pretty black and white.
My current girls ex is going to visit her in an hour. She said it was the only way he would stop since she blocked him from social media and deleted his number. This guy said he would not leave her until he got to see her one last time because hes obsessed. I told her I should be there and anything he wanted to say to her he could say in front of me and my gf said she didnt want me to be there because it would cause more problems.
How do I get rid of this asshole? He is seriously getting on my nerves and theres nothing I can do
>>16558570
You are now aware that your gf is currently being raped and killed while you sit here shitposting on 4chin.
>>16558570
Kill him.
>>16558570
Bro for once grow balls ignore your gf and be there when he comes by and let him say his shit.
If he starts something fuck him up something to defend yourself.
Do not talk shit back n forth he starts it then you just punch his face as hard as you can.
This is all a ploy to try to fuck your gf.
I'm new to this website and I heard it's a big thing so... Here I am, can you guys tell me anything about the boards here and what ones are good/bad, how to use 4chan, ect...
Thank you all.
PS: No I'm not normal.
Nice dubs but check my 6
>>16558355
okey so:
good boards no matter your taste boards:
>r9k
>adv (adv is just a filtered r9k t b h familia)
>b
not so good but still better than most boards:
>g
>wsg
then everyone has a main board lets say you are a horse fucker:
>>/mlp/
also take a rare pepe u will need it
>>16558407
Thanks for the frog, what board is for people with an egg fetish?
Also what's the worst board?
>Have a friend in high school (he's a guy and I'm a girl)
>We are not that close, but he made the effort to stay in touch and we went to different unis in the city
>Am now a freshman
>Recently he texted me and asked me if I want to hang out with him (nah, he probably doesn't have feelings for me inb4 he wants to ask you out)
Is hanging out with him dangerous? My mom is worried that he'll have a bunch of his friends coming with him, they'll ask me to go to some private area and do bad stuff to me.
it depends on the kind of person he is
If he's just asking for you and him to chill then I don't know how your mom is jumping to that conclusion. I mean, that could happen and she could be right, it just seems like a heavy assumption.
>>16558378
Back in high school, he isn't a pothead/whatsoever.
Okay, guys.
I'm 20 and I met this wonderful 31 year old woman.
She's brillant, funny, charming, beautiful. She's not perfect but she seems perfect for me. However, one of her best friends - her 'brother', as she says - is also her ex and her first love. They've spent nine years together, he was about to marry her and then, he fucked up and cheated on her. She found someone else since but their relationship was a failure. She stayed single for a year and a half. Then, I met her.
She told me that her feelings for him 'muted' into a brotherly love but I'm a really skeptical.
What should I do? I'm lost. My experience is really limited.
You're a distraction dude. She's going to love you in a side dish kind of way, but you're really there for entertainment and validation.
Women in their 30s can be really weird. The conflict of independence and reproduction makes em make really bad decisions and choices.
>>16558260
Yeah.
Everybody's telling me to run as fast as I can. But I think I'm in love with her. I fell into a fucking trap.
Hard to tell about her feelings; i mean, its been 9 years that they spent together, its not like she will forget about that ..
but since your age gap is so big, you may be a dastraction; but since she is 31 im also not sure if she will only play games; her time is limited and maybe she wants something serious, like family and children
So somewhere in the back of my head, on some level, I know she doesn't want to bother with me. She's never been the type to put in work in her relationships, and being in an LDR is all the more reason for her not to bother.
Anyway, we've still been talking and when she said she "just wants to be friends" and that she needs a break and to think, she also said that she doesn't love "as much as I love her" and other such things. Needless to say she hasn't changed her mind in 2 weeks and she also hasn't thought about it, because she's not the type, and she has to work 11 hours a day
I've always been the retard type that doesn't give up. I've been very committed to what we've had, when she was talking about moving here next here, moving in with me, about our future, potential marriage, sex, etc, it was great. Now that's gone at the drop of a hat because she can't handle the LDR and work at the same time. She went through an extra busy time during which we didn't talk as much and I guess I was overly clingy or something.
Anyway, point being: how do I do this? can't break contact with her because I still feel there's something there and she just needs someone to stand by and show her that this matters. She was truly happy, and she got excited to hear my voice and stuff like that. I can't believe people tune out on the spot like that.
>wat do
And plus, now I've got the worst case of yellow fever because of her...
Don't break contact. Don't give up. But absolutely date other girls. Tell yourself you are only doing it to make her jealous, to get her to come back to you. But don't shirk your duty to date other girls.
Oh boy. I had to read this shit three times.
>I know she doesn't want to bother with me
Then become a man that she would want to bother with, if you love her so much.
>she needs a break
How often do you talk to her? And how? About other things than the relationship?
>she hasn't changed her mind in 2 weeks
Did you give her the break she needed? You are obviously in denial. This relationship is over, but if you play it right you can start over...
But...
>how do I do this?
>can't break contact with her because I still feel there's something there and she just needs someone to stand by and show her that this matters.
>how do I do this?
No contact. Beginning, middle and end of story. 3-5 weeks, however long it takes until you've changed enough to not be a retard, or until you live in close distance from her again.
Because
>I guess I was overly clingy
Number one reason women become unattracted to men.
The only kind of successful relationship you can have with this girl, is a new relationship. When everything changes, change everything.
>>16558259
I can't even tell if this is sarcasm or serious but
...it took me a year and a half or so until this girl dropped in on me randomly and then we kept talking. Chances are she'll find a guy much much sooner than I will
If you are serious, I know what you're getting at. Replacement is the best way to get over someone; it's just that I'm not all that great in hooking up with random girls.
But yea, anyway. I can't break contact with her just like that in either case. I'm almost willingly prolonging this depressive state I'm in
>might as well bump with /mu/sic feels
Is it possible for a male HS teacher that you have a crush on (and he can probably sense it) to like you back in a fatherly manner? I can sense that he truly cares about me, but I doubt it's anything romantic.
>>16558134
>cares about you
he's a good teacher
>romantically
don't send him to fucking prison
>>16558165
>he's a good teacher
Well some teachers are also good at teaching but they... ugh... don't care about their students as much
>don't send him to fucking prison
I have enough common sense to know that is bad. I'm not planning to date during high school but I can't control having a crush, you know.
Why wouldn't it be possible, of course it's possible
What else do you want to hear
Hey /sci/ i am needing help medically. If there is any doctors or better yet eye doctors on the board, please, help me figure out whats wrong with my eyes!
Symptoms:
>vision is blurry if object is farther away only in right eye
>eye crust forms a lot
>brim where eye lashes are located is swollen and discolored as seen in photos
I haven't done/taken anything different besides my new prescribed vyvance 30mg medication for ADHD.
I have had weird problems with this medication so far like weird chest feeling and now my left rib stick out all in the time frame of me taking this new medication. But anyway if someone could help that would be very appreciated thank you and sorry if bad spelling i am on my phone and i keep seeing spots from my phones flash
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Sorry there side ways, i can only upload the from my phone
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bestfriends girlfriend is more into me than she is into him.i cant fuck her though because he is my bestfriend and always has been.god dam her ass fat though.
what do /adv/?
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Tell your friend, ask him is he's breaking up with her, and if he is, ask for permission to fuck her, thus giving him a solid reason for dumping her.
>>16558095
Tell your bro to dump her and then kick her out of the friends circle.
>>16558155
we have been flirting though so now we are both in the wrong now