Considering running away from home tonight. 18 years old, any advice would be helpful
>>16570952
>don't
>>16570954
Srs? Are the streets that dangerous?
You'll have to rob a couple liquor stores and steal some car stereos for money
My girlfriend tends to hang out with guys every so often (just him and her) like going out to eat or shopping or whatever. This irks me, because its not something that I'm used to. I trust her with all my heart to stay loyal. Plus, she did this a lot before she was with me and before she had a bf. But still its just a bit bothersome.
Somewhat out of spite, and somewhat because I wanted to, I hung out with a girl and went to the library to study with her. I did the same thing my gf did: refer to her as a "friend", fill up my Snapchat story with pics and vids of her, that sort of thing. And of COURSE my girl finds out and gives me the silent treatment.
Am I just doing this whole boyfriend thing wrong? Idk. I don't particularly like her hanging out with JUST one other guy. She has told me before she prefers guys over girls because they're less stressful and more honest.
>>16570933
she's having sex with them behind your back
The difference between what you did and what she did is that she has always done this with her friends. You knew this was what she did before you started dating her. Also, you're doing it just to spite her, she's doing it because they're friends of hers.
>>16570933
I understand why you're upset.
Get to know the guy better and see how their friendship is like. If they're buddy-buddy and touch a lot then your worries are in good place.
But keep in mind that this is her friend. So their relationship might be nothing but friendly. You can't expect her to stop socializing with someone she knew way before she met you. Is normal and honestly a lot more logical for a girl to like spending more time with male friends.
And that little stunt you pulled with the other girl was kinda bitchy.
It's like you want her to get mad and dump you.
Where is the line crossed between being romantic and being weird?
Like going up to a girl and saying "you're the most beautiful girl I've ever seen". Is that weird or would females take that as a compliment?
>>16570865
Don't talk to random girls.
Let her give you a signal she's interested before you go up and embarrass yourself.
it really depends on the context
if they don't know you then you're going to come off as weird.
>>16570865
Eeeh it depends on how you say it/what you look like.
Most girls would probably smile and thank you. But it's not a good "conversation starter". Like, if you want to just use it as a compliment and move on then you're fine.
But if you're looking to build a relationship, don't lead with something like that.
That's something that you say after you already are already talking to someone on an intimate level. (When I first saw you, I thought you were the most beautiful girl I had ever seen)
Want to get this scar covered up with a tattoo. Any suggestions or pics of your own greatly appreciated.
>>16570797
You're getting a tattoo for the wrong reasons. If you have to ask what you should get, you shouldn't be getting anything. I'm currently having laser tattoo removal done, and it's a slow process. If you're ashamed of your scar, wear long sleeves. You'll only make the problem worse by getting a tattoo to cover it.
>>16570797
Story on scar?
>>16570797
Tattoos are best if they've got personal significance to you. A scar is plenty cooler than a tattoo desu, why do you want to cover it up?
I want to stop being that person who sits around while everyone dances. At the moment, I have very little idea of what I'm doing. What should I know and what should I learn? Should I conform or try to be original?
Is learning to c-walk a bad idea?
>>16570776
>should i try to be original
no. dancing isn't like art. not in this sense. its just people wiggling around socially. i just kinda turn from one shoulder to the next and sway my hips. honestly unless you do outrageous stuff (especially with hands) no one will even notice you. people dont go to these things to look at people dance and make fun of em. im an extremely self conscious person but on the dance floor i feel fine (despite sucking) cuz theres no real good or bad to it. plus everyones drunk so its not like they'd notice if they did.
Do this and you will be the life of the party
http://youtu.be/3cqDXlfASMM
>>16570776
Gangstas don't dance.
>start dating girl
>"hey anon, come hang out with us, just me and my friends"
>I go over...
>all her friends are guys
literally broke up the next day
are girls this oblivious or what?
... Is she not allowed to have male friends?
You're the oblivious one friend, she can be friends with whoever the fuck she wants
>>16570717
>At bar
>Girl comes up to me and says I should buy her other friend a drink, she's shy
>Other girl is sitting at bar, we make eye contact and she shies away with a nervous smile, super cute
>Walk up next to her, introduce myself
>As she turns and gives her name, notice something
>Nose ring
>Double pierced ears
Literally 360d and walked away
That is a pretty serious red flag.
how do i find a girl who is introverted and prefers staying home playing games/reading books/etc like me?
>>16570672
The internet, of course.
>>16570672
>prefers staying home
In her home, obviously. Time to start breaking into other people's house.
>>16570683
what if they live 10 states away or something
>>16570687
Nice normie humor
Let me just say, I'm really glad this is anonymous.
I'm a freelance writer, and I'm not too picky with the kind of stuff I accept. I'm asexual, but I still write erotica as long as it pays enough, and as long as it's not overly-weird to me.
Well, I just got a commission from someone for a good amount of money. So good that I decided to accept it and write the story they want. Only one problem though.
It's an adult baby story.
This is the last thing I would ever chose to write about, but the pay is definitely worth it. However, I'm not quite sure exactly how to make this work. I've been reading adult baby stories to try and get a feel of it, but all it does is repulse me. No offense to the people with that fetish, but it's just not my thing. When I accepted the story, I'll admit I was a bit too eager for the money to consider the fact that I have no idea how to write about something like that in an erotic manner. I try to experiment with different kinds of fetishes to see if anything does it for me, but this is a major turn-off, I've discovered.
So, how should I go about doing this? I'm certainly going to do the commission, but I can't get in the mood for it. Have any of you been able to "force" yourself into liking a certain fetish, or at least into being less weirded out by it? I'm not gonna lie, I have some very odd fetishes, but this is one I've never been able to understand.
Hopefully I can get some help with this. If not, I hope you at least got a good laugh from my situation.
>>16570644
JASON IM GONNA KILL YOU
>>16570666
dang those satan trips doe
OP you're probably being baited by an FBI agent. ask him for half the cash up front and don't deliver.
>>16570666
>666
Jason the devil is going to kill you
you should've listened to the Christians. Don't fuck around with that evil fetish shit. You got the evil on you now Jason
I've been in college for a year and am probably going to drop out. Are there still any good careers out there that don't require a college degree? I'm a pretty simple guy, I don't need to be rich. All I'm looking for is a stable job that provides enough money for me to live comfortably-- not planning on getting married/having kids. Considering becoming an electrician. What are some other options? (If possible 1.) how much do they make 2.) what are the requirements to become one)
>>16570638
bartending.. flipping cars.. any kind of retail salesperson
Tech jobs. You can do IT work really easy. I make about 46k a year doing it and I work from home in my pajamas.
You can also teach musical instruments as a private teacher. Depending on your area you can get away with charging $30 an hour(that's on the cheap side). I did that to get by when I moved across the country.
There's a lot of options and honestly good for you that you're dropping out of college. It's a waste of money. You could get a basic bitch degree from a community college for dirt cheap if you still don't know what you wanna do.
Construction construction construction
I live in a large house that's renting each room out to different people. Earlier today I heard some MALE yelling at a 6 year old, "If I see you in my room again I'm beating the s--- out of you. Stupid n-----".
What do I report this to? I am living in America. In my country this is hate crime worth up to decade in jail.
You could actually call the police or child services. A P.I would be optimal so you have proof, or just get a recording yourself. If you call child services they will most likely overreact and force the guy into custody no matter what because that's what they do. Police will probably not care because the child is black.
>>16570577
kek, icelander detected
>>16570587
Does US child services apply even when it's not their child?
Whenever I orgasm I have the tendency to flex my calves so I can cum, how do I stop this? It's gotten me great calves in the eyes of others, but their bulky imo.
>>16570575
i dont even understand the issue?
>>16570575
>>16570598
sorry just re-read this.
so in your opinion flexing your calves (Which physically excites you to get a better/faster orgasm) is the reason your calves are so big?
i mean stop flexing your calves if its that much exercise but damn girl how much you cummin?
>>16570575
there's no way that this alone is making your calves bulky. You need to be a sprinter or weightlifter or something to have calves that look weirdly built
So ive been having this really nasty, bumpy, hard, and swollen thing on my right leg for about a day now and i'll probably have it for the rest of the week, god forbid.
Im not sure if it is a rash, allergic reaction, or something serious.
Yesterday morning i put on pants and thermal underpants underneath before going to school. At school i started noticing my leg was itching in the same spot that i now have the thing. I scratched it a little during school and after i got home i notice it had swollen into a hard bumpy red ball. Second day now and it's still there but bigger, redder, and more itchy. When i walk i feel it move as if it there was an actual ball stuck to my thigh.
I've had something similar on my left feet in the big toe.
It lasted for about a week or two and was red, bumpy, and very itchy at times, exactly like this one. The cause for that one i think has to do with sandals probably irrating the skin since theyre kinda fucked up. Either way it was irksome and lasted longer than i wanted it too.
I also have had the same thing on my hands. Swollen, red, bumpy, itchy, and lasted for two days or so.
I have now noticed it is on my right foot but not as severe as the bump on my leg. I have red small circles on the same leg.
Please help me figure out what this is?
I wish I could go to the doctor but i am in a bad position in life at the moment.
>>16570494
So totally a trip to the ER. The best thing it could be is Lyme Disease.
>>16570522
Oh my god. No.
Im praying that is just a rash. Same thing has happened but it disappear afterwards.
Ill post more pics.
You must seek treatment now, chronic Lyme Disease will make you a shambling wreck.
Iv'e been thinking about suicide alot lately, and i dont want to do it can someone convince me not to do it without saying there is much to live for or its not worth it because so far i havent been in a relationship yet i get in fights with my parents and i have a criminal record and failing grades so i wont be able to get a good job but i might have to join the military help me not commit suicide give me a reason please im also a fellow anon and i dont want to hurt others i still have friends and i will hurt them if i do it thats why i am asking
>>16570416
Name 3 things that you need in order to make your life amazing. When you do, I'll tell you how to get them.
>>16570416
>ive been thinking about suicide
>please convince me not to
>here are all my reasons not to
those reasons you listed were already reason enough. with the exception of the criminal record everything else is fixable.
>>16570446
a girlfriend a good job and you think of the last thing
The people in my life are driving me crazy. Especially, my parents will not let me do anything besides what they want me to do. This includes STEM degree and not being employed. They also have crazy ideas about a lot of things such as mental illness. They believe it to be caused by "the devils in your head".
I want to leave so fucking bad, but I have only about $300.
I don't know what to do. I'm 20 years old, also.
Go rob a few liquor stores or steal some car stereos, then you'll have enough money to leave
>>16570291
Well thanks for the suggestion, but I don't think I want to go to jail.
>>16570287
Read this book. Or watch the movie, whatever
Then make a decision.
When my little sister was little, she were molested by my older brother. He was about 12-13, my sister was probably about 6.
It lasted a few months maybe, and after it stopped no one ever spoke or mentioned it for a long time.
Recently, my little sister (now 17) told her therapist about it and her therapist spilled the beans to my parents and the rest of our family.
Before, my little sister and brother had a perfectly fine relationship (although I don't think she ever liked sitting too close to him on the couch or anything like that). Now they do not speak and try to avoid each other whenever possible.
My little sister says she never wants to talk to him again. When I asked her why it's different than it was before, she says because he never apologized. She said she doesn't want an apology even now.
It really sucks. Is there anything I should do to get them to be friends again? I think my brother probably feels awkward and really guilty, and doesn't want to talk to my sister because he is afraid. I'm closer to my sister than my brother, so I know her side of things more than his.
Any input is appreciated
That's weird. Don't expect her to want to be buddy-buddy with your brother ever again. Why would you want them to be close after knowing about this?
>>16570233
sounds like some therapist has the vocal runs
>>16570245
Most likely she requested it/agreed to the idea, otherwise the therapist is breaking a level of confidentiality they would be fired for