My country sucks.
I just wish there was not so much corruption.
> People are very futile and influenced by the media
> Country without technological advancement, delayed education
> Rude people, who dirty the streets and have little notion of civility
> Politicians seem impressively only have one goal: to fuck you
> Absurdly It's unbelievable how the government sucks money from the population and it is not translated into improvements, and the people only know swear on the internet, nothing changes.
> Shitty music (not that I care too much about it, but nothing good is produced here)
> Idols shit (no major military or major political)
> Inverted values
> Value the bad
> A country where if you are not "trickster" and not knowing take advantage of everything, you are "stupid"
> Many drug traffickers.
> Just wanted to grow up in a different environment
> I am poor, although I have many ambitions in life. I just do not want to accept this vicious cycle of a sick society ...
Just wanted to maybe get out of here, or achieve success, take advantage of capitalism, and be successful financially and in all areas of a nice life ..
> What the Europeans and Americans is that almost all are different from Latin and African? Why their countries are so civilized? What is the secret of progress?
> Why they are polite and do not like to interfere in others' lives, unlike these backward societies with late minds?
> How would you live in a country of this? What do you think of corrupt nations and with a rude and foolish people?
> How to get out of this vicious cycle of mediocrity?
note: do not live in Africa, and I'm not nigga
I thank those who respond. Thank you anon's. I am grateful to 4chan for many things !! That's it!
>>16574370
Europe/the West plundered the gold and natural resources of Latin and North America for hundreds of years. Therefore, they became extremely wealthy. Therefore, they had the Industrial Revolution (technological improvement and economic growth) before everyone else did. And they figured out how to manage this tech improvement and economy before everyone else did. So that's why they're "civilized". Also "civilized" Britain/France/Spain fucked up and murdered/tortured millions of people in Latin America and Africa, so . . . those societies lost their wealth and resources/were massacred and fucked up = of course they're having trouble now. It takes a long time to undo the shit things the assholes in England/France/Spain perpetuated in Latin America and Africa.
>>16574384
So how to understand the development of the United States?
Yes, these countries were screwed. But today there is no breakthrough in people's minds, basically. I understand that these countries could try to create a new story, at least evolve as a society. Exploitation and failure is no excuse for a sick society, see Japan after so many disasters and wars ..
>>16574370
Tell me the country, just curious
I am 21 and I just moved into a new house in tennessee and I'm from Chicago. I am so scared its unreal I'm in my bed right now in the dark and alone I'm this strange place. Guys how can I become more comfortable here?
Just go out tomorrow, hit the local shop and places you'll be going regularly, get lunch at a cafe or a diner or something. Check out your new neighborhood, be nice to people. You're gonna be fine, there are gonna be little differences but deep down people are pretty much the same everywhere
Go to the Stax museum and check out Isaac Hayes' car. Also walk through life like you own it.
What part of TN are you in. And I guarantee that any part of TN besides Memphis is better than Chicago in every way.
i fell so fucking pathetic all the time because i don't have any friends or a gf.
what can i do to feel like i'm not worthless?
>get a job
i'm already in the university
>exercise
i exercise 3 time a week, that's more than enough
>i'm already in the university
Is this supposed to be an excuse as to why you can't work or something?
>wanting a gf for the sake of having one instead of falling in love with someone an wanting to be in a relationship
you're a jerk that's what. no cure for that
Join a club you like faggot. A sport works too. And:
>3 times a week, that's more than enough
That depends on how long each session is. If it's an hour or so. You could probably do with four sessions a week. You a guy op?
What anime should I watch next /adv/?
Watch this season's new animes, e.g OPM, Osomatsu-san, JK Meshi (lol)
If you're looking for an on-going series to follow, Iron-Blooded Orphans
If you want to marathon a completed show, Bakemonogatari.
>>16574223
>filename
HAHA doesn't matter. Still would give him the dick.
Did I do good or bad?
Log story short I told someone I can't talk to them until they define their feelings for me and tell me what they want from me because I feel like they're leading me on. They would always avoid the topic when brought up as if I didn't ask it.
Well anyways we had plans over the Christmas break cause we would both be in town. Is it safe to say whatever plans we had are canceled unless they do approach me about the ultimatum I gave them? Is forcing someone's hand in this scenario a good idea or did I hurt myself here?
>>16573954
>giving ultimatums
yeah you fucked up pretty bad
if it were me i would have deleted your number immediately
>>16573982
Are you a male or female and could you elaborate?
Of course your plans are cancelled, YOU cancelled them when you told them you can't talk to them you dipshit. Let me guess, you're butthurt that a girl who sees you as a friend treats you like a friend?
This is my 2nd full day not smoking. I'm feeling very well and not craving too much. I do get a brief passing craving now and then.
Anyone here ever quit? How'd you do it or how was it? If I can go to sleep in a couple hours and get on the 3rd day, then make it through that, I think I am on my way.
Quitting smoking is really freakin hard but I think I might succeed this time. I kinda lucked out that I was really tired today for some reason so I was lazy af and didn't think about it too much. I also didn't drink caffeine which seems to make me too jittery and then I want to smoke and I took a nice walk for some physical activity. :)
I haven't had a cigarette in 4 months now!
>>16573940
If you can go 3 days without any nicotine then you can break the physical addiction. It's all psychological after that my friend.
>>16573949
Wow, man. That is fantastic! If you ever have a day that really pisses you off, just prepare beforehand that whatever you do, you won't smoke. You are out, my friend!
>>16573957
That is what my mom used to say about habits. I am really feeling happy and lucky that I am not craving right now. I've been keeping myself on an even-keel emotionally today and I think that helps. I usually in the past pick up a cigarette when I'm irritated, stressed, whatever. I thin part of beating addictions is getting yourself evened out on the side to begin with so you're not all.... kinda crazy mentally or emotionally which is what drives addictions in the first place. :)
First year in University. I feel like when I get my BsC at the end of 4 years i'll be in a mound of debt with no decent job. Plus I really don't give a shit about learning academic shit.
I was considering going to college and taking a 2 year paradmedic course. Can anyone provide insight on how the paramedic business really is in Ontario?
I doubt you'll have a problem finding a job. Ontario is huge as fuck. If you can't find a job with one company, odds are you'll only have to move like two hours away, unless you're from shitty NWO like me. But no you should be fine
Also if you're worried about osap, don't. They're pretty good about letting you decide how much you pay each month. Rn I'm at 90 a month
Bump for interest
Alright /adv/
I finally got my court date for something I was arrested a while ago.
tl;dr is, said dumb terrorist shit over Paypal which caused Paypal to call the cops and then said cops raided my house, keep in mind this is in Canada, Quebec.
After fiddling with my hardware for a good 3 hours they read me my rights and told me I was being arrested for possession of cp and I was like wtf you high.
He asked me if I knew what hentai was blahblahblah then brought to the police station for questioning, 2 hours later I was free to go on the promise to appear in court with no restrictions.
So with my computer taken away I just bought a new one because fuck living without a computer. I got a lawyer but seeing as being arrested over hentai is not a common sight most lawyers I've talked to had literally no idea what Hentai even was, the one dumbfuck I had to go with (because I have no money for a lawyer so legal aid for I) LITERALLY had to search on wikipedia what Hentai was.
So with a shit lawyer that makes sure to mention that he has no experience dealing with a case like mine every time I talk to him, morale is real fucking low.
Could I just literally say "How do you know the age of the characters?" And derail the whole thing because they have no proof of their age? The only other reported case I can find of someone being arrested over hentai was some dude who spent 60 days in jail for it. Thankfully I'm not in the news yet but when that happens and if I actually go to jail over fucking hentai I think I'm just gonna off myself really.
>>16573750
Hentai isn't illegal, senpai. It's the characters in hentai manga/anime that are depicted to look like children. I thought everyone on 4chan knew that canada came down hard on loli.
If you say you interpret them as "Over 18" Then you will probably end up in a really long court case. You may end up getting in some controversial issue, but probably charges will end up being dropped.
in the end they are not real, no children were harmed in the making of these drawings. you probably won't get convicted or anything.
how do i become confident and social as quick as possible?
>have job at a place that requires interaction with clients
>lots of normies, i'm basically the only aspie there
>told by my boss that if i don't change, i will get fired in 4 months
help /adv/
>>16566516
well quick the fucking job, get another one.
>>16566535
i assume you meant 'quit', but i want to keep my job. i also want to be both confident and social
>>16566516
Well tell us what specific problems you have with interacting with clients.
Everybody has some degree of social anxiety. We need to know just how much you have so we can begin to help you.
hey/adv/ i need some help. I am really self conscious of my breath to the point i can barely hold a conversation with some one with out me thinking about it. sometimes it feels like my breath is fine but i can't beat the paranoia of having it.
What can i do to assure i have good breath all the time? i have cut down on sugary foods, always drinking water to stay hydrated and been brushing my teeth 3 times a day.
>>16574948
I have this too. Usually I just always try to carry gum with me and pop it in before talking to someone and it takes away the anxiety 100%
>>16574955
i been doing this as well, but the thing is that im tired of always having to carry gum with me
worst part was that not long ago at a party i was making out with a qt and she just randomly stopped and walked away. hasn't really helped my paranoia there. we were both hammered tho
I look back at the woman who gives me a heart attack
I see her brown hair flowing freely behind her back
I sink into a pit of black i need a cigarette
Many women could be her but she doesn't know that
And for some reason the only woman I want
Has the intelligence and maturity I can't have
I'm feeling very uneasy and stress is coming
I'm never enough for anybody I find myself loving
But this is still a very unfortunate happening
Because I miss her so much I long for her with everything
Without ever feelin her touch but I know it's extremely warm
Somehow I feel like she is with me
I envision her body and her being
It envelops my soul, her brown eyes staring deep into my psyche
She says the cutest thing but her cuteness is a knife
It slices into me and slowly I fade away
Inside I slip away into an abyss every day
I'm caught in a regular state
Of looking back...
not your personal blog
not advice
take it to /trash/
>>16574849
so i'm going to completely ignore op's shitty writing.
how true is op's pic? i was always taught that men can't be fixed and to avoid problematic people. has anyone found that "the right person" changed the way you are for the better?
>>16574851
just wanted critique
so /adv/
At work I received a text message from my room mate claiming that he came home to the window being open, Door being open, and my room door open (which is always locked) . The window's screen had been pushed in. looking as if someone broke in through the back window.
He instantly accused my gf and accused her of living with me. That she broke in because the window is small and my room was open. Which didn't happen.
I raced home to my room to see if anything of value was missing. only thing stolen in my room was a small jar of weed. about a gram of weed.
I told him that only thing taken was weed. He said that I attracted this to the house and basically wants me to move out. I told him I have no idea who took it. Now he wants to talk.
Any ideas? my thoughts is he wants me to move out so his friend can move in. All I want is an explanation and an apology for blaming me. The guy had ZERO sympathy and totally took this as my problem that I caused.
I work full time and gym 4x a week. I hangout with my gf on the weekends here. I have ZERO enemies.
Maybe that's his reason to get you out because he needed an excuse to tell you to fuck off because he thinks you're annoying. Nobody rational acts this way there's definetly something else going on.
>>16574832
Sounds like Ryan from Wilfred wanted revenge and smelt your weed.
>>16574832
he has been here the longest ~4 years .me 1 year. I get along with my room mates talk when I can but usually I work.
he said he doesn't want to goto the landlord but he has friends that will take my room.
I have no idea.
haha white people problems
That sounds awesome. Do you not have that much girth or what?
>>16574841
>>16574848
7 long, and wider than a regular bottle of body spray.
omg i have the same fucking problem
Hey, I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. I guess I'm looking for a boyfriend but I wouldn't mind having a girflriend either.
What I came to ask anyway, is, what do I look for? I don't even know what I want and I can't base anything off experience because I've never dated. I guess I just want some opinions on what you think the best person for me would be.
some of my good and bad traits in my opinion anyway
>caring
>empathetic
>intelligent
>good sense of humor
>blunt about my feelings I don't like to beat around the bush
>hopeless romantic, i feel like i have a lot of love to give if i find the right person
bad
>kinda spoiled
>can be clingy/attentionwhore but not on purpose
>blunt can be misconstrued as me being insensitive
The guy I currently like is
>tall
>bear mode
>very kind but not naive
>basically a gentle giant
those are the main things I like about him but the issue is I"m probably going to give up on this particular guy for reasons and I've noticed that all the guys I've liked in the past I've liked for different reasons. Which is why I feel like I don't really know what I want/what is best for me.
Any thoughts on what type would be good for me? If you need any more info just ask.
>Any thoughts on what type would be good for me?
Are you retarded OP? We don't know you or your potential love interests, there's no way anyone can help you with that via 4chan. This thread is useless, go back on tumblr
How the fuck are we supposed to know what you want?
>>16574692
>we don't know you
that's why i said to ask for any additional info you would need
>>16574693
You're not. I don't even know what I want. I'm asking what would be good for someone like me? What types of traits should I look for?
Sorry, I just thought if match.com can do it, 4chan would be able to do atleast a better job.
Hello,
I'm at a point in my life where I'd like to meet someone special and have a family and kids.
However the women I seem to meet, don't really seem like people it would be a good idea to do so with.
All the women I see around are wearing revealing clothes like leggings or tank tops, and wear too much makeup, or they have tattoos, and stuff like that. That's not what I want.
After a few bad relationships earlier in life I dropped out of the dating scene and threw myself into work and I don't have very much friends. I also just moved into a new area for work, so I don't really know anybody.
As far as me I'm very fit and make a good living, but I'm very boring and don't speak very much, which I know a lot of women don't like, so ideally I'd like to find someone boring aswell with hobbies like knitting or reading.
But it seems like where I have moved there is a deficit of marriageable quality women.
I'm much less interested in how attractive the girl is compared to her character, but I'd want someone that wasn't fat just so they don't die when we are 50 and leave me a widow
>>16574604
Also, i predict someone will say 'church' but in my church the only women are age 5-12 (no for obvious reasons) or 60+ or married already.
How old are you?
>>16574655
25.
But my financial situation is far better than most 25 year olds, , if that's going to be an objection.
Ideally I'd like a girl around 18-20 which I realize is what every other man wants too and comptition will be stiff but I feel like I can be demanding and picky because of my income
To be honest I feel like any woman should be really happy to have me so I want a woman that I feel happy to have.