So I have a very good friend who has a birthday on the same day when my gf-s mother has a birthday.
I am invited to both, but unsure which one to attend.
Which one should I go to? I already told gf and her mom that I'm coming, but at the same time this is one of my best friends..
>I already told gf and her mom that I'm coming
Then it's settled.
>>16573132
talk to your girlfriend and see how she feels about it. if its something that makes her moody, talk to your best friend and see if oyu cant just hang out together the next day or the night before.
but if ur gfs like 'she dont care, she old' then say thanks and go hang iwth ur friend.
theres also the 'oh i can show up for ur mums bday but leave like an hour later to go to a friends birthday.
i mean if im an old lady and my sons bf says 'oh i gotta go, its my best friends birthday' im saying 'oh its so sweet that you stopped by' and then i stop caring cuz i dont really know you as anything other than that thing that fucks my daughter.
but seriously. ask gf. if shes cool, hang iwth friend.
next year try to schedule him around this sort of thing.
Go to both. Spend a few hours at each one.
>I did some horrible that hurt her
>She was so hurt she was freaking out and when her mom texted me asking what happened I didn't answer (It was 1am and I was tired)
>We don't talk for awhile
>I try to apologize so I put roses and a apology card on her car
>I learn from her mom that she had to go to the ER because she was having chest problems (because of me)
>I rush over to her house to see her to apologize but only end up talking to her mom
>couple of days later she left a majority of the things I gave her on my car (letters, clothes, jewelry)
I don't know what to do I know I should just give up but I miss her and the pain won't go away. What should I do?
You know you're going to have to tell us what you did before we help you, right?
Her mom is super involved in your relationship. Are you in highschool?
What did you do?
Anons, need new shoes. Big fan of darker tones. Need ideas! What are you guys wearing?
> pic related, my old shoes
>>16572970
>/fa/
seriously though just go to the store, try them on, look at yourself in the mirror etc.
Chelsea boots and oxfords, mostly.
You're at least 18. You're allowed to wear shoes like that if you want. You might even prefer it once you try.
I have a bunch of social clothes and daily i mainly wear casual
/adv/, help me. I'm so pathetic. How the hell do I text somebody that I've never met before and know nothing about without making a total pasta-palooza out of it? I am by no means people-centric. I'm incredibly awkward and if there were ever a contest for worst at initiating conversations with people, I would win first place.
>>16572938
>how do i text someone i have never met
you'll have to give us more context.
>hey bb you want some fugg
doesn't work if this is for someone ur trying to buy a car from off of craigslist, or a potential new employer looking for seasonal help.
Do you have an actual reason to text them? Or are you just trying to say "hi" and get to know them?
Why are you texting people you don't know? If I for whatever reason was texting someone I didn't know my first text would be:
"Hey is this (name of whoever I'm texting)? This is (my name)."
And if even this text seems psychotic, I'd probably further explain how I got their number if they replied to the first text.
Me and my wife are taking a erotic self class at UCSD and we have to write a paper on our sexual experiences and about nudity and sexuality in today's society. We also need other peoples views and opinions on it. Also for part of our final we have to undress in class to give our lecture and masturbate. It's bad enough having to do that in front of others in the class but for my wife to be there to see that and for me to watch her do that in front of everyone is very weird. Would like other people's opinions or views on it.
>>16572883
What the fuck? Where do I sign up?
>>16572883
is this a real thing? sounds like a penis inspection day meme.
either way i hope its real, i wanna sign up.
>>16572883
What the fuck
I've had all kinds of sex with all kinds of people; every position, every race, every body type, if you can name it, I've done it.
I've taken every drug known to man.
Now there's nothing left. I am a carnal man, but there are no more sensual pleasures left to try.
I'm empty. I'm desperate. I'm bored.
What now?
>>16572778
Let someone shit in your mouth
Have you been in love?
Travel.
So this is stupid but, after being with this girl for 2 years we broke up a few months ago. I was heartbroken, but recently we were able to reconnect as friends; I know it is dumb, but I really wanted that kind of...closure. It made me feel much better talking to her a little and knowing she doesn't hate me and such...
However now it's getting bothersome. I still have feelings for her so I know I put myself in this position, but I still wanted to. But now she is sending me snapchats every few days and its usually of like some guy at her school or whatever... lately it's all been of the same guy, although that can be a coincidence but who knows?
Basically she is sending me this shit, I don't know why, probably to fuck with me though. Like she'll not talk to me for 3 days and then just send some vids of a guy in her class making funny faces. Fuck off with that shit.
Anyways she just sent some - I looked at it with a Snapchat spy app so she doesn't know I looked - should I open them so she sees I looked? Should I respond to her at all? Should I ignore her? Should I delete/block her?
I'm thinking I'll just ignore her, but wondering if I should just tell her not to message me... I would miss her a ton but if this is her idea of being 'friends' then I think I'll pass. Thoughts? Thank you!
>>16572566
break it off completely
Watch this movie (500 Days of Summer)
>>16572566
>Should I delete/block her?
this
>>16572572
Yeah, true... Yeah that is an amazing movie, watched it after both my break ups. Ill have to take the lesson more seriously, maybe im due for a rewatch.
I guess its a matter of preferece if i wanna sit her down and say goodbye? I think i will... I dont want to just block her and walk. I want to say bye.
Hi guys, 18 year old anon here.
I have been together with my girlfriend for about 3 months now, we really like each other and for the most part, our relationship is going well.
But no matter how sweet and beautiful she is, i don't feel satisfied. I think this is mainly because i don't feel sexually complete with her. She has a pretty low sex drive, We fuck roughly once every 1-2 weeks.
Eventhough this may not sound like that bad, i don't feel good about it. For whatever reason my sex drive has been going through the roof the last year or so. I am pretty much thinking about sex the whole day, every day. And even when we just had sex i'm horny again about an hour later.
During the week when i am not with my gf i am constantly eyeing other women who i would like to date/have sex with. I am starting to feel guilty about it.
I have been pretty upset about the whole situation for weeks now. I love my girlfriend, and i don't want to lose her. But for some reason i just feel incomplete. Almost like i would need 2 girlfriends to satisfy my sexual desires. How do i deal with this?
>>16572455
get a gf who likes sex
Oh fuck dude, I dunno - why don't you talk to her about it.
it sounds like this isn't gonna work out, sex is a very important part of any relationship and it sounds like its especially so for you so don't feel like there's anything wrong with feeling this way. I suggest ending it and finding someone else more compatible with you, you've only been together 3 months and if you were charming enough to get one gf then you'll be able to get another
Sup /adv/, seeking some advice here. Met this girl a few months ago through a mutual friend, thought she was cute, but didn’t start liking her till I got to know her. She has a ton of problems though, had an emotionally and physically abusive ex and is on anti-depressants…anyway she’s been through some shit. She started talking to a guy so I said fdb and stopped snapping and texting her. On Halloween, she came to my friend’s party and just straight avoided me. She stopped talking to that guy, and I invited her to a Christmas party this past weekend and she was trying to talk to me whenever she could and get close to me. She had finals this week (she finished today), I texted her yesterday how her finals were going and didn’t get a response, but she sleeps all the fucking time and is weird about texting sometimes or maybe she blew me off idfk. I was thinking about texting her later if she wanted to hang out, drink and watch a movie before she left for Christmas break.
The main thing I’m seeking advice on is should I even keep wasting my time with this girl, or just move on? I have a huge crush on her, but it is what it is. I’ll get over it if I have to.
bump
bump
>>16572392
Holy fuck OP, you seriously ask us whether or not to move on after you've given us so many red flags?
How do you trust someone when you've been cheated on before? I'm 22 and 3 of my 4 relationships, I was cheated on. I don't think I pick bad women. One was a virgin, two were strict Catholics, and one was a medical student. I just think in today's society, women will fuck any attractive guy that throws them a bone. Even Muslim girls here are sluts. Should I just give up on serious relationships? Literally all women my age are nothing but sluts. My older 31 year old friend told me to date an older woman and fake it until I make it. Is this sound advice? How do you fake trusting someone?
>>16572345
The young girls want all the yummy dicks. The older women have had their fill.
>>16572510
wrong, female sex drive only increases with age up until menopause
you just gotta learn to satisfy your woman OP
The common link in all your relationships is you. If they're all ending badly, then you're doing something wrong.
>I think I'm in love with a kindergarden age girl.
What should I do? It's my sister's daughter
Kill yourself
>>16572337
stop trolling m8
in any case >>16572338 is right though
>>16572338
Solid advice anon. You're a real nice person .
Sister died yesterday in a car accidents. Pic related.
I'm keeping myself strong or just in denial, but I need to be strong for my family. Parents are devastated.
Can you guys give me some good advice to help my parents?
You seem to care a lot about family OP. You say you need to be strong, but do you mind if I ask how you're really doing?
Let me guess, dumb bitch was texting and driving?
>>16572332
First, sincere sympathy for you and your family.
Second, try to take a cue from your parents' behavior. If they want to talk about her, do. If they can't, don't press. Don't judge them. Everyone grieves in their own way, and whatever they do is right for them.
Third, if you can try to take as much of the purely practical burden off them You do as much as they will let you to notify friends and family, arrange the funeral, handle the legal stuff, etc.
And finally, give yourself time to go into a quiet room and do your own grieving, whatever form it takes. It is nice if you can help your parents, but don't try to be superman.
Can't get any matches on tinder.
Am I really that ugly senpai? what do
Dude, Tinder is for people who want to get laid everyday. If you're looking for a real commitment go do some hobbies you like and see if there are any girls. Usually good relationships are about compatibility. Not money and good looks.
But hey, do whatever the fuck you want.
>>16572280
Yes. Kill yourself or become a fag
>>16572280
>dat jawline
Take better pictures OP. ProTip, this one is not artsy or 'interesting', however much you think it may be.
So, i got really drunk last night, and ended up sending my aunt a picture of my dick. I'm hoping she doesn't tell my mom, but I REALLY hope she's into it. she has never made any advances on me, but she wears pretty revealing clothing, and bends over for me all the time. I think she was a bit of a hoe in her time. Advice? Opinions?
lmao you are screwed
You might be fucked, but let us know what happened in the meantime, OP.
i also told her i wanted to fuck her, etc. etc. BUT, if she's not into it, i feel i can convince her i thought i was sexting someone else.
Help anon
I have a huge crush on my girlfriend's sister!
Her and I kind of butt heads but I catch myself eye-fucking her whenever her guards down. She's thick in all the right places like girls in pic related.
I keep trying to think of ways to fish around for a neg or pos reaction to my advances but can't think of any that might have her get angry and tell her sister.
She has a boyfriend too but seriously just makes things more interesting.
Should I play the long game? Does anyone have any kind of experience with this? Should I just extinguish my lust?
I think you should seek help man retread this shit and tell me you don't sound like a weird creepy loser
>>16572249
OP:
>help anon
Anon:
>you should seek help
Thanks senpai. Also I'm aware of how much of a perv I'm being.
>>16572245
Quit being a piece of shit and either break it off with your girlfriend or be faithful.