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I'm 20 and living with my absentee father
my little sister of 16 has just moved in, and I'm finding her behavior increasingly intolerable

it's a combination of a refusal to do housework, lack or regard for anyone else and sustained unprovoked abuse

I could just move out, but living at home has worked out for everyone so far, and it would seem unfair that I should be forced out.

being 16 is no excuse for poor behavior, and the world will teach her the lessons if we don't.
My father is rarely home, and has never enforced a singe rule in his whole life, since he is not on the receiving end of my sisters behavior he is unwilling to get involved, and she takes his silence as a sign she can do whatever she wants
I am unwilling to fight fire with fire and just be hostile to her in return, it is an option but I'm not sure t would help

it's a difficult situation for me, I'm not going to accept being abused in my house, yet to take action myself would usurp my father and he would not accept this.
the longer it goes on the worse she is getting, so whatever I do, I'l have to do it soon
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Have you tried pulling your sister aside and having a word with her?

Either way, you are going to have to piss someone off. The question is, who are you more scared of? Your father, or your sisters future?
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You're an adult, you're perfectly capable of looking after yourself. Your sister is a minor, she has to live with a parent or guardian. If you can't handle it, move out. "I was here first" is no excuse.
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>>16574490
I can control my own behavior, but I can't control hers

what you are saying amounts to "she should be able to do the wrong thing because I am able to tolerate it"

her poor behavior cannot be excused by her age or position in the family

I could put up with it, but why should I have to?

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How do I get to sleep?
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Bleach
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>>16574482
I'd like to wake up afterwards.
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>>16574405
I usually close my eyes when I want to go to sleep. You might be doing it all wrong.

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I think I am going off the deep end /adv/. I am so sick of seeing beautiful women and not being able to ever EVER EVER do anything with them legally. My mind is disturbed, A part of me just wants to say FUCK IT and run around the city slapping as much female ass as I can before the cops gun me down. Then my rational mind says "No, that would be a stupid idea."

I am so sick of not being able to attract a female though. I feel so incompetent. I am 25 and I just don't seem to have what other males have and I don't know what that is!!! I feel like shit. I just want to hold a woman.

Its so strange, I can't remember the last time I hugged someone. I feel like my emotions are like this warped shadow of what emotions are supposed to be. What should I do?

I have seen so many beautiful women and I literally CRY MYSELF TO SLEEP because I know I will never get to hold them so what is the point of even seeing them. WHAT IS THE FUCKING POINT?!
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>>16574397
KEK
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Get a prostitute and empty your balls you fucking aspie
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>>16574397

Just stay at home.

They are humans. Their right to not be slapped and manhandled by strangers is far more important than your selfish desire to use their bodies for your own pleasure.

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Anyone here, if you know about laws in Japan can you help? Even if you don't know any laws can you still please offer advice?
>in Tokyo 3 months ago visiting my brother.
>After messing around near Akiabara ( or however it's spelt) we decide to explore a smaller group of stores.
> I find a little girl ( no older than 6) looking lost , and worried.
> I wouldn't really like to explain why, but I gestured to take her hand and walked her around and did stuff with her.
> I met my brother back at the nearest metro station and left her there.
Can I get in any trouble ? I was a bit drunk , and she wanted to got with me, she grabbed my hand when I held it out.
This sont a joke I am very much serious. I'm not looking to get in trouble I'm just curious to what I did would be considered .
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you're fucking digusting
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>>16574333
Very funny trolling . You gonna offef me arral opinion? If not, and you are serious how am I "disgusting"??
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>>16574336
My opinion is for you to kill yourself.
I hope the cops get you.

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My new driving instructor hit me in the head with his clipboard. He also slapped my hands because they were not placed correctly on the wheel.

The thing is, its not just him. I realized a lot of people tend to hit me in the head. Am I looking too much into it or does it say something about me? Why do people hit me? It's not hard or anything, but I don't think it happens to other people.
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Probably because you're a pussy. What did you do after he smacked you with the clipboard? I bet you apologized to him.
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>>16574178
Actually I flinched away and said "hey!?". It wasn't hard or anything, but I got really bothered, especially after thinking how often people do it to me.
It doesn't help to other people right?
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>>16574172
How does your face look? Some people are made to be punchable.

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Does anyone really enjoy their jobs and going to it? Not every day but they don't look for excuses not to go.
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>>16574126
Bestiality.
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Honestly, though sometimes I don't want to go, I love managing a little pizza bar and time always flies when I'm working there. Then again I love customer service and micromanagement so the job fits me well
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>>16574167
I really, really wished that I loved customer service I really do. I just can't stand people, especially asshole people.

The issue is there doesn't seem to be any jobs where you AREN'T interacting with some sort of customer. Sucks.

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tips on how to grow or seem taller? Just saw pic related and feel depressed
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Manlet here. We're fucked, bro. Even though it's fashionable for the ladies to boost their own heights, us dudes need to wallow with what nature gave us or be laughed off. We will die out soon enough.
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>>16574063
How tall are you?

I'm already kinda tall (around 6'1") and people say I look taller depending on my outfits. Try wearing boots and jeans, that's what I almost always wear and I guess it helps
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>>16574063
Elevator shoes and a pompadour can add about 6 inches.

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Will the CIA want to hire me if I major in International Relations and German?
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>>16574056

Nein.
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>>16574056
You want /adv/?


Don't work for the CIA
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>>16574061
Warum nicht?

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Good ways to manipulate?
I'm 6'1" ,white, good looking, Iq 134 , Looking for some tips on manipulation plz, i'm going to start of with girls.
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>>16574036
What are you trying to manipulate them into doing? Too broad of a question OP. I'm a sociopath so manipulation is second nature to me but you need to tell me how you want to manipulate someone if you want my help.
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>>16574048
>I'm a sociopath so manipulation is second nature to me
lmao
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>>16574036
See, I would help you as I've studied psychology and sociology, have doctorate degree in both, and quite a vast knowledge about the mechanics of manipulation. But
>I'm 6'1" ,white, good looking, Iq 134
says you are not worth it, so I won't help you. Here's a clue though: if you want to get some help, make the effort not to sound overly proud. People are less likely to help conceited morons.

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SO if a guy suggests drinking together or going to an event together, what are the chances that its a date??? We are friends already.. So how possible it's just a friendly outing?
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If it's just the two of you then it's probably then chances are higher than usual.
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>>16574042
yeah it's gonna be just me and him
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>>16574020
Most guys assume you get it's a date. "Hey! Wanna go on a date with me?" feels uncalibrated. Guys who try to play it safe will try to be your friend and get you from that angle. Remember: if he's not gay and you don't look like a hideous creature (1-2 looks scale), most if not all guys will have an agenda. Always. The cool ones admit that to themselves and don't hide their attraction, THAT is only difference.

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Listen. I'm not ex military. Or super trained. Or a body builder. Or even someone who goes out and fights for fun.BUT. If YOU enter a place I am at,for the purpose of slaying innocents,you will NEED to shoot me first. And make sure I am dead to. Because I,will not stand aside will you murder. I won't allow it. I'm not armed with a gun,I'm a felon,but I do have a knife,and very basic self defense training. The point brothers,if one man enters the store let's say with a handgun and start shooting and 3 or 4 good men and women charge him to take him out,what's going to happen is more likely then not you will succeed. The gunman is not going to know what to do. He is going to think he's shooting up a building of sheep,not a den of lions.become the lion. The fear of death is weakness in my eyes. Even if your a devote atheist and you take action and lose your life,if He is up there he will thank you. Not everyone can answer this call but the few of us that can need to. Chris Mintz was IS a fucking hero. If more people saw the way he did that spineless shitstain never would have killed as many innocents as he did. Anyway. Just a thought. I'll try to respond of anyone cares to.
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I wish more people thought like you, but it takes more than thought. It also takes training beyond what you currently have. This is not to say that you need military or even police training, but it does take commitment to learn this stuff. Your body will not let you take on the bad guy unless you have spent considerable time unlearning that instinct.
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As a Canadian, all I can think is why the fuck do Americans think like this.
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>>16573966
Agreed brother. I took a few weeks of a Krav Maga class a few years ago,and it was eye opening. We we as Americans have grown fat and complacent. We have forgotten how this and all other countries were won. By blood shed. I highly doubt I'll be accepted in the military but I will be trying again in just under two moths. But the fact is I will try. Same with an attacker. I will try,I find there's no excuse for me not to.

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I can't keep doing this. I cannot keep putting up with the inconsistent hours, early wake-ups, hard physical labor, downright deplorable work"mates", and LESS than non-livable wage. I can't keep job hopping from one place to another after I inevitably become Ill at the thought of working that job one more day. It's been like this every fucking time and it never gets better. I havn't had a single job worth caring for, putting effort into, or spending my time on. I don't know why I kept thinking "it will be better at the next job". I have no feeling of accomplishment or fulfillment in the shitty fast food, retail, sales, and labor fields I've worked. I was thinking tonight..I havn't even done a job where I helped someone. I would feel good if I could help people. Real help, not that fake customer service horseshit.

What are some jobs that involve making a difference? I want to make ripples of positivity on the world and it's people. I want to work for a cause, not an underwhelming paycheck and shitty lifestyle. Firemen for example. They put out fires and save lives and get payed livable wages.

So /adv/, what are some fullfilling, selfless, and well payed jobs out there?

Im 21 and in the US.

General job advice/venting thread.
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>>16573941

There is a related thread here: >>16573745
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Be a security guard man. It's not glorious but if you work for a good firm you won't feel like you're selling your soul or anything. And what I mean by that is you don't have to be fake. Anything that comes out of my mouth is the same as it would be if I was out of uniform and I love it. No submissive customer service bullshit

As long as you have the balls to tell homeless people to leave the property then you're golden. And I know it's not the beautiful civic service you're hoping for but occasionally people actually do give me some grateful gestures for dealing with

>that weird guy over there in the trenchcoat
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>>16573959
Its not even mildly related, what kind of joke is that? Bet I won't see you directing the ocean of relationship advice threads to just one either. Why don't you just answer my question?? If you clicked on my thread just to tell me not to have it, fuck off.

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>19 y/o guy
>go visit my gf who lives about 1 hour and 30 min away
>leave home about 4pm
>on my way there, the bus takes longer than it should because an accident happens
>get there around 7pm
>we go see christmas decorations with her little brother
>come back nearly 11pm, they go home, I head to the bus stop to make the trip back
>buses are supposed to pass until 1am so I figure I'm fine
>buses stops coming early
>11pm I'm on the point and already there's no bus
>my phone dies, can't call anyone
>haven't eaten pretty much all day
>wait until 1am or so, realize there's no buses coming
>have to wait until they start circulating again at 4am
>no money to get a cab
>I'm very far away from home
>wait all night on a gas station (only place open nearby)
>try to charge my phone, doesn't work
>try to borrow a phone to call someone, none of the numbers work
>meet a ton of druggies, see two revolvers, almost get fucked a ton of times
>finally 4am comes
>get on the bus
>I arrive home around 6am
>tired, sleep-deprived and starving
>my mom's boyfriend comes up to me very aggressively without even asking me what happened
>tell him to fuck off
>he picks a fight with me
>I beat him up
>go to sleep
>everyone's acting like every single thing was entirely my fault now
>older sister jumps on the opportunity to call me an asshole and a bunch of shit

I don't know what to do. It was a fucking mess. They didn't even try to listen to me. Am I wrong here?
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>>16573889
Cool story. Thanks for sharing.
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>>16573889
Stop being poor.
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>>16573889
20yr old here
hey man, had a night like that in november, thought about posting it but kept it for myself.

just relax, there are some shitty days in life, I would recommend to try to think it through and get some life experience from it.

I'm not the same after what happened to me, I'll never do the same mistake again.

BTW, why didnt you just sleep at your gf?

How can I turn money into more money in two years or less?

I have 1000 dollars, I want to invest it somehow.
I know nothing of starting my own business or the stock market, and no college degree and an $8 per hour job.
What do?
I want to be able to make a down payment on a house in under 6 years
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A grand is not enough to invest in anything worthwhile if you want a decent return within a few years.
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>>16573745
It's easy. If you have scissors you can cut each bill in half and make double the money in about 10 minutes.
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>>16573745

Invest in finding a better job. I am NOT trolling.

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Any idea what I should get my 28 year old sister for Christmas? I'm not that close to her and don't know what she would want. My mother suggested I get her a gift card but I hate gift cards.

Basically what would a 28 year old married woman want for christmas?
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diapers
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>>16573699
Candles and dildos.
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I asked for a vacuum and computer parts. Oh an a new second monitor.

You should just ask her!

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