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Sandnigger here. Just curious, what is it that I must do to make /pol/ like me?

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Okay so here's the thing.

I got a job this summer in a local restaurant as an assistant cook. I'm very new to all that as I literally got off school for that shit and I've hoped to get experience while helping other cooks out. I was also promised I was never going to be left alone to lead the entire kitchen by myself. However, it turns out my boss expected much more from me than I imagined: he expected me to learn how to make everything he has on the menu in literally a few days and often left me alone without no one helping me, and often it would end in a massive disaster. Because of this he literally put so much pressure and anger into me that I would come home from work extremely depressed. I've also had no free day since july up until a few days ago, and the working time are insane (up to 12 hours per day, 9 hours average)
To top it off, I've been promised a paycheck of approximately 440$, but was only given 280$ every month. He had temporarily closed the place down due to lack of tourists, and also didn't pay my last 2 paychecks because he claims he's indebted and can't pay it all off.

Should I leave this place and look for a job somewhere else? Or should I be patient and wait it out because he promises "I will prosper" if I stay at his restaurant once he reopens. I don't know, all this pressure, it's too much for me.

tl;dr
>got a job as an assistant cook
>boss expected me to be a professional in 2 days
>pressures me to insanity
>makes me work an insane amount of hours
>doesn't pay as much as he promised
>wants me to continue working at this place in these conditions

wat do?

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>Be me
>Be 18th Birthday
>No happy birthdays, no gifts, no cards, no nothing.
>Not a word from "family"
>Not a word from "friend"
>Get over that
>Dropped out of college due to depression, paranoia, schizophrenia, anxiety and stress in general.
>Spent last 4 months alone in my room
>Cry every day
>Realise how lonely you are
>Mom doesn't even know you exist
>Feel like if you just vanished, no one would notice.
>Realise that you have no friends.

In reality, I wake up, get on my PC, take a shit or piss as well as eating and drinking here and there, then go back to sleep.

No one in real life has contacted me in the last 3 1/2 months.
I'm literally invisible.
I'm spending Christmas alone.


I need advice for fixing this...

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Sorry, it's pretty deep but I thought the best place to turn to would be 4chan.

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Should I wear jeans or chinos tomorrow?

btw I have no gf

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Got my car inspected, it failed and for BS about my transmisson mount having a crack in it, they want to take the whole damn thing out. Not going to happen.

Any northern VA fags have a non-cunt inspector friend or some such nonsense?

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OK is it me or is this sentence grammatically incorrect?

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So i started this new job in construction and the ppl i work with , all seasoned and know there shit.I honestly just started construction and dont know shit , my spanish isnt all that great which is what they speak , so im literally just winging it. If that wasnt bad enough im a slow learner , and these ppl have no patience and arent really trying to teach.... Ive asked for help and my reply was literally "no , i dont get paid to teach , figure it out" but yet whenever i do something they correct me or simply take the job im doing away and start doing it , as if to put me down , im now be ridiculed like laughed at.
Wtf should i do ?

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Is it wrong if I start a religion named 'Cookie Cutter Lord'?

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So there is this new guy in my work team that is aprox c rank autist. Since i used to be kinda
> inB4 "used to be" "posting on 4chan"
like that i tried to help him get used to this place. Today i was talking to him about some unimportant stuff and that dude started calling me names. I thought whatever and let it slip.
But later i walked around a corner and heard him talking sh!t about me to my coleagues.
> nerd rage activated
As i'm giving him a piece of my mind he's just standing here not even talking back that little b!tch.
Now, hours later, i am sitting here in my place, still salty as hell that i tried be this fvckers buddy and thinking about what should i do next:
A) never speak to that man unless necesary.
or
B) Wait if he's gonna try some dmg control.

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I have failed as a student. I have failed as a son. I have failed as a person. I'm fat and ugly, every girl I meet either friendzone me or look at me as some kind of monstrous troll. I have failed in Darwinism in every way as possible.

I feel like I want to kill myself. I'm doing the world a favour.

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Hello /adv/

I really don't know where or how to begin. I guess my problem(s) stem from alcohol and drug abuse or, more specifically, possibly the underlying mental health issues that could have caused me to self-medicate to such a high degree. If this kind of topic interests you, please continue reading and maybe offer up some advice, a kind word of support, something to make me laugh, or even make a donation ((I am being upfront about that ([email protected]), but everything else is appreciated equally or even more so)).

To preface with a little background, I am a white male in my 30s. Growing up, I was considered to be above average intelligence, excelled in athletics, and had a lot of friends both male and female. I have always been a "successful" person, financially and socially. I got into sales early after high school and eventually made a career selling e-commerce solutions in the auto industry. I have never felt about myself the way that I think people perceive me to be, though. I feel inherently introverted and disassociated. I found that expressing some vulnerabilities with people, even in a 1-on-1 professional capacity, created a bond and made it easier to consult with them about growing their business.

Anyway, I fucked up. My drinking over the years really took a toll on my physical and mental health. It destroyed my career and my relationships with people I thought would be in my life forever. I won't get into how much I drank or how much blow I used, because I always felt that it was counter-productive to essentially brag about something so detrimental. Let's just say that I had a serious problem and I lost everything. My job, my house, my cars, my freedom, my girl, my license, my friends, and most importantly, myself. Looking back, it's easy to see why I laid in bed at night and wondered what the fuck was wrong with me. I was a shell of a person.

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My fiancé has been paying my cellphone bill and expenses since last February ever since I got laid off from my job. I had been going to interviews and job hunting with no success, so he had been paying for pretty much all my expenses. I don't like it and it makes me uncomfortable since I'm used to paying for myself, but he insists that he wants to help me out and goes out of his way to pay for me and says that I don't have to pay him back. I didn't want his help at first, but since I was in need of the money, I accepted his kindness. But because he had been paying for my expenses, he became very demanding. At first it was only fair since he was paying for everything, but he began controlling me whenever I couldn't fulfill his requests. He would bring up something he paid for and say "Who do you think has paying for ____ ? Did you forget that I paid for THAT? "

I recently got hired again and I'm slowly getting back on my feet, but as soon as he heard the news now he's asking me to pay back EVERYTHING he's ever paid for me these past few months. What the actual fuck? I just feel like there's something really twisted about this situation but at the same time I can't help but feel extremely guilty that he's spent so much money on me.

What should I do?

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What's it like to get kicked out of the house in high school and be forced to live on friends' couches or on the streets? Does anyone have any experiences they'd be willing to share?

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I met a girl in my class and we really clicked from the start. She's cute and smart and we are both into the same things. I started flirting with her, she was responsive and flirted back, there was a lot of touching and teasing. I'm 100% sure she liked me. She has a boyfriend tho, for 2 years already. And she seems happy with him. I still thought I had a chance with her.

So yesterday me and classmates went to a party and she was also there. I said she looked cute today and we continued flirting for the whole night. We sat on the bench and talked, the vibe was really nice. A girl from the group came and said jokingly that she just came to check if we hooked up already. We go to the club then, a lot of dancing, she was grinding all the time on me, I lifted her up and spinned her and so on.

I take her outside and as I'm about to kiss her she rejects me. She said that she really likes me, but that she likes her boyfriend and that she can't do this to him. She said that if she was single she would be happy to be with me, because she really likes me. She said that she doesn't know what can happen in few months time tho with her and her bf.

I think I handled it well. I said that I respect her for not cheating on her boyfriend but that she must know that I like her too much to just hang around as a friend. And then I walked off.

CONT...

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Sup /adv/
I'm in need of advice by some oldfags.
Turned 30 this year. gf wants to move in together. She's 5 years younger, attractive, hot body, always horny. So far so good.
But I just don't think I could ever enjoy this "normal" life, move in together and play fucking "come done with me" with our damn couple friends. I'm absolutely terrified that my life will stagnate, there are so many things I still want to do that I wouldn't be able to once we make that step. I'm also still way too attracted to other women. But she certainly is the best shot at a "normal" life I ever had so far.
Don't want my life to stagnate and don't want to cheat. Don't want to turn into a desperate single either.

What do?