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>>16618288
Do you and your brother fight like those cats?

>>16618296
>>16618296
Lol, but yea more or less. He's the one that will come beside me to bother me since he knows how to annoy me. He will basically try to bother me to the point that i break, just like that cat.

At this point i've stopped trying to argue with him because it's pointless. He will make fun of my argument somehow and try to make me look like an idiot. Arguing with him is pointless, he knows he is bothering me and doesnt care

>>16618288
All you can do is ignore him. I had to live with someone similar, and once I learned to just go about my business and let it roll off my shoulders, they'd only end up pissing themselves off.

What exactly does he tell you? Are the things he says grounded in reality or is he just trying to put you down because you're the favorite? What are you doing with your life?

Please anyone I don't know where else to go

Bi male here. Do you live with them?

Bi male again. Id rather not do twitch but I recommend that you weather it out until you are independent, THEN come out. Nothing else I can recommend

The most sound input I have for you right now is that the job market for chemical engineering isn't the best, unless you want to do research. I'd recommend the combined degree

>>16618272

ChemE is kind of a super-charged MechE degree specialized to chemical.

>aerospace and mechanical (combined degree)
>combined

They are the same degree with different 3rd/4th year electives. Same is true of Electrical and Computer Engineering.

>>16618935
>>16618689

But, ChemE's can work in different industries, maybe not as much as MechE's. Aerospace and MechE sound like my best bet right now.

>>16618268
Been on the giving and receiving end of this situation

It never ends well. There's nothing you can do

>>16618268
Move the fuck on, not worth wasting your time with someone who doesn't feel the same

>>16618268

accept it or move on. there are no cheat codes that will make her like you.

>>16618264

its a scam. they were popular messages like that back in email days, but now we all know about junk emails like that. we get 30 nigerian princes offering us millions if we give them our bank account info.

this is just the evolution of hte market. someone likes you think they got a text from someone they know (When in reality their phone number just fell into a strangers hands) so they look into it.


foreign numbers are likely safer for them to use, and they may in fact be foreign as well

Replied with "I have a proposition for you as well: fuck off."

>>16618264
it's an obvious scam.

>>16618189
I think it would go with the graphic design career or at least you can start by there and then do a mayor

>>16618189

3D animation IS an art, so yeah. you gotta remember that every school is in fact for profit, art schools just get a bad name cuz its considered a useless skill that cant be taught.

but 3D animation isnt the same as just throwing a pencil down on paper. unlike regular animation it is an active industry that still has a majority of its workers in the US. its not just cartoons either, learning 3D animation is very much learning visual effects in general because thats what most of them are these days. so if you want to get into 3D animation I do recommend going to school for it.

but first and foremost, i recommend just looking at tutorials for a free or pirated software and trying that. see if you actually can get into it and enjoy it first. there are plenty of resources right here on 4chan at 3DCG. read the sticky, download blender, and start messing around. go from the ground up.

first, steal some 3D models online, and learn to rig and move em. then just make stupid little shorts doing that. you can even get like video game models easy and free (I use legend of zelda ones). once you master that, go back and learn how to actually model characters. then make a bunch of those. than learn how to do their clothes and hair and then backgrounds and shit.

you can learn a lot for free, and if ur dedicatd can skip school and just make ur own reel.

>>16618251
Right. My girlfriend also mentioned that there could possibly be opportunities with 3D printing coming into relevancy.

I'll definitely check out 3DCG's sticky, originally I'd skipped it because of the slow pace of the board. But I'll definitely revisit.

Being that you seem pro-school, as far as study, what would you recommend? Graphic design as well?

>>16618197
I like this because it sounds broad and perhaps a bit more real world applicable. But I also don't want it being too broad and the actual knowledge I desire only being a small portion of the program, y'know? But I have yet to look into it.

>>16618188
Socialise and be active like get into societies and shit. Everything else will make it's way if you go for it, friend and even maybe relationship but start by making friends and shit

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Lost my vcard at 23. To a stalker type. (Friend rented a room at her house: friends w/ her brother). She wouldnt do much at first so I would come back every other month it seemed. Anyways I feel like garbage. Havent seen her since September.

Im 5'6 175 pounds. Grow some balls and a heart.

Ie; live your life

>>16618188

if you go out with the intent to get something specific you will often come back disappointed. all those ladies out there arent going 'oh i hope i find a bf tonight'. and as much as you will pretend you arent looking for a gf, you are.

they arent even looking to get laid. women go out and have whatever fun they want and actually socialize the way they are meant to (say, drinks and dancing) and if anything else happens its just gravy.

so do what they do. go out, have fun, and make your only goal to meet more people. dont go in flirting and hitting on them, they're used to that. its perfectly fine to go up to a woman, meet them, have a nice conversation, than say 'it was nice meeting you, maybe ill see you around'.

sometimes you will. often times you wont. its okay. cuz at the end of the day at the very least you are learning to treat people like people instead of means to an end.

>>16618138
>I'm not a fedora tipping atheist that will try to shove my beliefs down anybody throats
>but I generally believe that the world would be better off without religion
Pick one. Also if she's even remotely into her religion, this is going to cause huge problems down the line.

From my experience its fine. Most people are socialized into religeon but don't actually believe it. I was raised a christian and then one day went out and actually read/researched the bible and basically went, wow this is a bunch of bullshit. Most people just aren't that inquisitive and dont take the second step. My advice is just be courteus about her religeon don't bother with the red pill, but if she starts to seem overly jesus freaky run away. But other than that don't worry about it until you start getting serious, then maybe have a convo.

>>16618138

>so whats it like going ot a catholic school?
>do they do daily church services?
>how was that?
>my mother was pretty religious but it never really stuck.

people love to talk about their views on religion, so state yours, ask some basic questions and she'll open up about it. just keep asking more questions.

>>16618101
consider the situation.
>Are you looking for a relationship with her?
Don't do it. She's a cheating whore.
>Are you looking for a pump and dump?
Do it, wear a condom and tell her bf how much of a whore she is so he can act properly.

100% of the cases you'd be better of finding someone else to focus you time and attention.

>>16618109
I don't wanna date her just hook up

So you're saying best case for me is to bang her and then tell her boyfriend?

>>16618098

>is this a bad idea
>i know it wont change anything
>5 years
>dry

dude, go interact with someone else, there are like 5 billion other players in this game.

>>16618127
But is there a way to make her look my way again or is there only 1 chance with a woman? I want to know if other guys were in a situation similar to mine and how it ended up.

>>16618844
>But is there a way to make her look my way again
You never had a chance to begin with.

Without friends? Sure. But not complete isolation.
As you grow older you have less and less friends. That's how life goes.

Yes. Though it's helpful to keep acquintances and just interact minimally now and then (I love Facebook for this, you never really need to talk to anyone, just like a few pics/posts and comment happy birthday once a year).

This way if you ever need anything or run into them and want a favor, it's within easy reach.

Of course, you prune dead weight (broke or clingy friends with no worth or that are too taxing to even minimally interact with).

>>16618095

sure, why not? worse case scenario is you realize you are wrong and come back and try it again.

most people find the level of interaction they need and built their life to facilitate that. me i just need a friend to see once or twice a week and play either video or board games with. others prefer all alone.

but if you grow to resent people its not that you like to be alone, its that there is a deeper issue here. being alone should make you happy, not re enforce the bitter.

>Windows 10
>upgrade
Lmao

>Windows 10
>upgrade
>up
>grade
pfffttftftftfthhhhhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
>dumbass

>>16618093
bump...
I waited for them to fix major bugs before switching, which didn't seem to have happend

>>16618064

there really isnt such thing as shitty goals.

imo it sounds like you have your life together (enough so that you can afford to buy custom porn, also, details?)

DESU 90% of life is getting to the point where you make good money. after that, things like getting fit, enjoying hobbies, traveling, furhter education etc. all come with ease cuz you have the money and a consistent schedule (hopefully).


so yeah. sign up for a legitimate korean class at any local learning institution. dont try online shit, that doesnt work til you at least have a foundation.

every schools different but most will offer classes twice a week at least, that is about casual. so take those nights for learning. lets pretend they are tuesday and thursday.

you would go to the gym monday, wednesday, friday.

spend saturday and sunday working on youtube videos.

as for masturbation, filling up your schedule SHOULD give you less time for that in general, so thats good. but if you put up a sign that says 'no fapping til after (insert X time here)' it helps. thats what i do and i manage not tofap til about 9pm. by then there isnt anything left for me to do that i need my creative energy for (masturbation takes that out of me) and there is nt enough time to make it some huge session. at most i fap again right before bed for like 15 minutes. not enough to obsess over and run out of porn / purchase custom porn etc.

>>16618100

as for making all of this your normal schedule, DONT overload yourself by doing it all at once. for now, just look up korean classes, find ones you think are frequent enough to learn, but not every night of the week, and spend the first month just getting used to doing that.

then in month 2 (February) start going to the gym on those off days.

then march, start doing youtube videos on the weekend.

work your way up to being that busy.

How about doing something for your community? Volunteering or getting involved in an organisation?

>>16618020

cant really duck out tho, can ya? my recommendation look at what you want to do after the marines and just spend the next 3 years preparing yourself for that. people generally have to deal with 4 years of highschool than college, so this isnt much different. just another rest stop on the road of life. just get ripped, stay ripped, study something, spend any freetime you might have developing a hobby. you're on the internet now so i imagine you arent in buttfuckistan or anything.

>>16618020
Make the most out of it.

Set goals for yourself, and try to enjoy it, even if you have to enjoy it ironically.

You're stuck doing so you might as well put you're all in.

Sure. See how it goes. That's kind of weird, though. You're not just a typical slut but somehow had sex with 4 people he's close to? How's that happen?

>>16618013
>I'm a huge slut
>how can I redeem my past and wash out my slut reputation
You can't, better live up to it and keep being the filthy slut you are.

>>16618013

this is both hilarious and erotic.

that being said, it sounds like he nor his friends are really mature enough to handle this particular situation. so maybe its time to duck out and fuck a different group of guys.