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>>16616021
>I want nothing more than to get very rich
You sound like the typical Jew to me.

>>16616032
You sound like a typical faggot.

Find a partner, start a new family and keep it together.

Prostitutes.

Can I ask what you're doing during this multi-year process to make yourself a suitable bachelor?

Those feelings usually come in waves, when you feel it coming on spend lots of time with any dateless virgin friends you have but don't actually talk about those feelings with them. I would recommend a D&D group.
Also masturbate a lot.

>>16616030
I'm back in college at 29, getting my degree so I can move up in my career.

To afford it I had to move back in with my parents.

I'm also out of shape and working on that, and trying to overcome the confidence issues that afflict so many on this site.

I'm looking at like 4 more years until I have a real job and my own place again, and it's not just that I don't know how I'll stand the time in between, but that I'm afraid I'll become terminally inept when it comes to dating by that point.

Hookers aren't an option, first of all I think I'd feel worse about myself after doing it, secondly bringing a hooker to my parents' house would be insane, and thirdly I can't really afford any of the hookers I'd want to be with.

>>16616076
I try, but I have so few nowdays, and the ones that are still around make me feel worse, sadly. I feel like I'm stuck in some kind of halfway life, where I'm more socially adjusted than any of my single friends, and all my "normal" friends are long-term dating or married.

I was in a serious long-term relationship until about 3 years ago, and everything went to hell at once, my industry collapsed, I broke up with my ex, etc. Most of my friends date from that period, and the way it "should" have been was that we'd be a bunch of married couples doing double dates and shit, and only my life went off the rails.

D&D has always frustrated the shit out of me, some friends play but they're so fucking aspie that I want to flip the table over when they spend an entire hour arguing about one turn.

Obviously there's plenty of fapping going on, but it doesn't really make up for being alone and single.

Obviously, this is your 'in'. You need to ask politely if you can fuck her like one of her tentacle monsters.

Not even joking.

>>16616013
i would but she might like me because i appear "innocent"

>>16616038
Then just innocently ask i-if she's into that sort of thing... It's embarrassing, but it's okay if it's with you, Hentai-chan!~

>>16615995
>How do you guys get motivated to change your life for the positive?
The knowledge that I get to come home and shitpost on a Turkish hotdog eating board is what motivates me.

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Really easy

Don't let you dreams become dreams

>>16616014
Well, that makes sense to me. Seems like you've got it all together.

>>16615985
No and no.

If you have smart guy friends they would encourage you to have more girl as friends.

>Is it stupid to go to college to try and make friends?
Kinda if that's all you're going to college for instead of furthering your education.

>And is it gay for me as a straight man to prefer hanging around women and want female friends for non sexual reasons?
Absolutely not. I have a lot of girl friends and even gay friends whom I get along really well with and don't want to have sex with them at all. It's fine.

why dont you ask a cop or something, theyll just be glad you were honest

>>16615973
>Should I be worried?
Yes. It's the end of the world being a kiss less virgin at age 24.

>>16615915
Are you writing chemistry in fucking Arabic?

>>16615938
It's English

>>16615947
You can't fool me. Probably building nukes to fuck up America.

Besides dressing for the position, getting a haircut and what not you should also NOT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THE OUTCOME. Have many interviews lined up so if you don't get that one then not to worry!

Most importantly, you have to get along with the interviewer (your potential boss). This is so important I cannot stress it enough, everything else is secondary, i.e. you can train someone up, but if you can't work and get along with them everything else is much harder.

>>16615904
Also, recruiters aren't looking for your best interest. Only you do. They only do it for commission.

Find a job you actually want to go for. It will show in the interview.

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It's all in how you sell yourself, OP. You've gotta give them a REASON to hire you! You've gotta have something that makes you sparkle among the the other rubble to catch their eye.

What have you done for your community? What super cool plan do you have in mind that not only improves you - but benefits the company as well?
What can you offer to them that no other loser before or after you can do?

How's your presentation? Updated and eye-pleasing resume format? Do you look like a fat slob in penny loafers, or do you look like you got your shit pulled together enough to someday lead the company? (If not - BE that person.)

Network like a motherfucker. Make cards with your contact and website information. Better yet get a QR code they can scan! Show them you don't fuck around!

Good luck!

>>16615888
Honestly, he's probably not thinking about you at all right now. Other people have their own lives; things that seem important or significant to you are meaningless to them.

If I can ask, why did he want to break up with you before? That's probably the key to understanding his behavior.

>>16615901
He said I was unbearable, I was complaining for nothing and criticizing all the time (it was true but he is like me xD)
Now I'm not the same, I changed for him, I don't know if it was enough :/

when you're in a relationship, you both have to be the one calling the other (metaphorically; you need to put in the effort).

Otherwise, break up.

>>16615881
Online dating is shit unless you're hot. Just ask girls out awkwardly IRL until you meet one who pities you enough to go out with you. That's what I'm doing.

I've had my dating site profile up for about two weeks now, and haven't made any progress at all. However, I think that is to be expected knowing how dating sites work for each gender.

Dating sites are really a supplement to real dating and encounters, not a replacement. It's something meant to fill in the cracks of an already active dating life.

If you're anything like me, it's all you have right now so it feels like failure. But it isn't, the odds are stacked against you right from the start, so why fret? People aren't horribly disappointed every time they enter and lose the lottery; they enter for the dreamy thoughts of "what if", they know they're probably not going to win. Keep it together and keep the thing open, just don't check up on it that often.

>>16615881

people need to learn to just be content in life and just be open to something that might happen.


if you arent happy in life why would anyone (man or woman) want to date you? they dont want to be something you cling to in order to give their life meaning. the best thing you can do in life is enjoy it. other people like to enjoy things other people are enjoying.

>>16615879
> the sex was so good, i wanted to be her husband


not the only one that can give it to you like that.
that's a guarantee bro.

you've been pussy wiped. your not in love, your just infatuated because of good pussy. go out and get laid. watch, she'll fade away.

>>16615884
no you fuck, the relationship was more than sex. everything we had was mutual and in sync. our tastes, hobbies, everything. i had already lost my virginity at this point, to another girl, so i'm not pussy wiped, and if i wasnt so insular i bet i could get lots of sex. we were in love, no doubt about it.

>>16615879
It was a month bro. You need to chill. How do you know that you two could have been compatible long term? I'm sure that she is a nice girl and all but if she left you to be with another guy she's not the one for you.

This is what happens when you're 'friendzoned but break out of it'. She's always going to be less invested in the relationship than you are, because she wasn't all that enthusiastic about dating you in the first place. She's not going to care if you break up with her

>>16615872
>>16615872
>She's not going to care if you break up with her
The relationship was a lot more involved than I've summarized in my post, and I'm pretty confident that she will care. If she doesn't it will be easier for me to get over after... first girlfriend and 22 by the way.

>>16615883
Well in that case, she's not going to be as broken up about it as you're hoping she will be.

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>>16615867
Well, okay, guess i'll have to accept it then

>>16615837
she sounds like a dirty hoe

stop putting in effort, or do whatever you want desu

>>16615837
If you're just looking for sex, drop this. Look for others in the mean while.

>>16615837
Ide also like to add that she gave me her number via snapchat the day after our date. Its not like she gave it to me at the end of the date or gave me a fake one so she could just get away from me. And she expressively asked me to contact her. However I did maybe detect a vibe of cold feet in her voice and was not surprised when she said something was up and couldn't make it. However why would she call me this morning and ask me out if she wasn't interested?

Ive been lead on by girls before and given false signals and have learned from it but this has me stumped.