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Is the type of stuff I fap to bad for my health?
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>>16616982
what do you fap to?
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>>16617011
Uhh here is an example
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>>16617029
Yes.
How hard is it to move to another state?
I'm 22 and im still living at home. The driving force with my wanting to leave is that my parents are constantly yelling at each other and I no longer want to deal with their shit when their arguments spills into my space.
I can get the money easy I just want to know how hard it will be. or if anything how hard would it be moving out in my own city first and then out of state
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You man listen,
I telling you this straight up. Wait it out. I can relate to what you are saying, just listen to your parents and don't doing anything illegal or stupid.
They are your parents for a reason. Listen to them and talk into a neutral and affirmative tone. Yelling and cursing at them ain't gonna solve squat!
Just be a good and simple man. That is all to it and live your life the way you want to.
Peace out brother!
Everyone in my family hates me and wants me to kill myself and so do i. Someone please help me, i literally fuck up everything and im a broken human
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>>16616904
stop being such a whiny bitch and do something about it instead of just giving up. spite for your enemies will motivate you to succeed
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>>16616912
Thats what i was thinking when they were being cruel to me. Like they want me dead, but them being that cruel gives me a reason to live if only to spite them. Inheritance wise they would benefit from my death a lot, I do try to change my life, but I also mainly feel hopeless. I hate even leaving the house because becauseI have panic attacks and im fucking ugly and awkward as shit, so it makes it hard to change or keep changed. Like I said ive been through a lot and this is just one more thing cutting me down and keeping me broken. Stuff like this kills me inside
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My boyfriend keeps comparing me to and pointing out 10/10's. He keeps saying he wishes I was hotter. I'm skinny already but he wants me to wear sexier clothes I guess but I'm not a show off.
I've told him just how horny I get when I look at him. I've said I love him but he won't say it back. But we have amazing sex.
Why am I not enough for him
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2015-12-29 08:40:32
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>>16616887
this is some delicious bait
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do you need advice for anything
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I am 26 and I feel like life has passed me by. I have never had a girlfriend and have no experience with women. I have been on dates but unfortunately they never lead anywhere and the woman always ends up saying something like "Its not you, its me, you are actually a really good guy." I don't really question them but god damn.. it sucks when you try and try and try and try and make it seemingly no where.
What can be done? At what age would a normal male have done all this? I know people who are 23 and are getting married and having kids already!
Can someone help? Like what is a adult male supposed to have done by now? It feels like a true handicap because my mind is just going crazy trying to conceptualize the act of a relationship. I try to imagine it... and I can't. It actually kind of hurts. Like if a girl kissed me right now, I would feel happy.. but in pain.
My emotions have fallen into disuse and now, emotions that were normally good.. make me feel like shit. Like joy? Joy makes me feel ill and like someone has a death grip in my trachea. Very strange concepts. Am I fucked up?
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>>16616881
You're only fucked up if you believe yourself to be. Don't fall into the circular logic pit of hell that is "overcompensating for lost time".
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>>16616891
but how is it not lost time? What girl is going to want to fuck a 26 year old male with NO EXPERIENCE with women. I don't even want to have sex that badly but I do want to experience intimacy.
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>>16616950
It's only a problem if you're a complete autist about it. My friend dated a 27 year old who was painfully bad with women, she broke it off with him because he only ever talked about himself and never took an interest in her life. They had a ton of shit in common and she thought he was attractive enough, he was just pretty autistic
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How do you start a conversation and get a date on Tinder? I have almost 350 matches but never send any messages because I don't know what to say. I just want to get coffee and fuck.
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That's so easy. Just say hey and compliment their pictures and profile. Small chat and ask if they're free for a cafe at a time you are.
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>>16616877
Look at their profile. Take a little bit of that surface information to start a conversation that way. Make a joke. Tease her a little.
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2015-12-29 08:37:35
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>>16616877
You must be really interesting
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Getting to Know Oneself 2015-12-29 08:16:08 Post No.16616821
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I'll do my best to formulate a post that's intelligible and coherent, but there's a lot on my mind tonight. I feel adrift.
I'm 28 and I'm currently at an impasse in my life. I'm fortunate in that I'm employed--I have a nondescript office job at a university--as I know many people my age, some younger and some older that are less fortunate circumstances. For instance, my best friend graduated college cum laude from a prestigious university and he hasn't had a job since, save for temp work. He's thinking of going to medical school but, he has Low-Testosterone and it poses all sorts of life problems for him. I am not without my own health problems, however.
Without further ado, I feel like I have somehow lost myself since graduating high school and somewhere in college I became a lesser facsimile of myself. In effect, I am lost and I am stuck.
I can feel this post drifting into that typical existential angst/despair post you see late at night. I won't try to blame external factors for my life's situation. I just don't feel my life should be this way. I haven't been derelict in my choices and I have tried to be attentive to my decisions as possible. Here are some questions that come to mind...
>How does one find one's life's work?
>How does one earn a happy life?
>Are middle-class aspirations dead? Home-ownership? Marriage? A family? A yearly vacation?
>How does one find oneself?
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>>16616821
>How does one find one's life's work?
>How does one find oneself?
do a bunch of different things that interest you until you find one that you have a natural aptitude for. it may take a while, but it worked for me
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>>16616839
Please, do tell me more about your process and how you found yourself.
I've thought about going back to school to try my hand at becoming a college professor, but that's like playing in the NBA anymore. Shit's not easy.
There's this super cute girl I'm friends with and I'm not sure how or if I can hook up with her.
When I was in an open relationship, we became friends and she said she'd be down to hook up "after for time (she had just broken up with her boyfriend) and only if my current girlfriend was okay with it." That never happened because my girlfriend wasn't cool with it.
Then she told me she'd leave her boyfriend if only she had a rebound or someone she knows and is comfortable with to partner up with (a hint at me?).
Now I'm single, I rekindled our friendship. We drank at my house the first time we hung out again. She had her legs across me and kept making jokes about "setting the mood" and cheating on her boyfriend, and even called me hot. Later she asked to sleep in bed with me so we cuddled all night. I didn't make a move because I'm super beta. We hung out a second time and the same thing happened, but this time I threw up that night and couldn't make a move.
Since then, she isn't as touchy or flirty with me, and when we drink, she never stays over (even though there's only been like 2 occasions since then).
We went to a club the other night and started to make out for like a few seconds while dancing. But then I went in again a few minutes later and she kind of backed off.
Did I lose my window of opportunity or is there still a chance?
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>There's this super cute girl I'm friends with
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>>16616824
not op but why did you greentext this
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>>16616818
window of opportunity gone
trust me op, i missed many because im a beta faggot i know when its over
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I don't know why I'm posting this here.
I live in an expensive city with my mother, I pay rent. We share an apartment where we have lived for 24 years. She has a decent job but the city is expensive so she doesn't have much in savings, and my parents divorced when I was little and she has no spouse.
I've been living with her to save money to move to another city for work, but her memory is starting to go already which is scary because she's only mid 60's. If I leave, she will wind up in some shitty low income retirement home, so I'd rather stay, and continue to split rent with her. If this is the case though that's basically my life for the next 30 years. I will have to give up on my career I already have a degree in and go back to school to become a dental hygienist or something. But to do that and pay the rent I will have to take out another round of student loans. Just feeling very desperate right now.
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Don't punish yourself for the mistakes of your parents.
You need to do as much as you can without fucking yourself over. If she is getting senile as you claim she will at some point need professional help, so you will have to put her in a home despite how amazing you may think you can be at managing the mentally deranged.
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>>16616813
do you have friends/a girlfriend/other family?
You shouldnt go through this alone, because taking care of your aging mother can be a big burden.
Why do you feel you have to get a different degree?
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>>16616843
I'm going to be crucified for this...I went to a prestigious art program at a good university. If I stay in my city I am too far away from the industry to make a career of it.
I have friends. Haven't had a girlfriend in 4 years. Went bald in the last 9 months; girls 3 years younger than me think I'm ancient and girls my age are starting to get married. I know I'm just feeling sorry for myself now but I'm terrified of this impending isolation closing in on multiple fronts. I can't let my mom be senile in a strange nursing home.
I should mention that my dad is pretty well off but none of his money will be going my mom's way.
Thanks for listening and replying.
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>cook pork chop for the first time on new george foreman
>few hours later my stomach hurts like fuck
I realize this is an odd place to ask, but stupider things have been posted.
Is it safe to take ibuprofen? I think I have food poisoning.
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>>16616779
it could be psychosomatic
if you believe you actually have food poisoning you should go to a doctor though
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Always cook port until it is white clear through. There must be no blood visible in the juice.
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>>16616779
if it's food poisoning it won't last more than 24 hours, you should take a massive dump at some point and immediately feel better. if it's like a stabbing type pain that continues for more than 48 hours you should seek a doctor
pepto bismal would be better than ibuprofen at this point
How do you convince yourself that life is worth living?
How do you restore your interest in living?
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I have started things that I need to finish.
My desire to live is entirely selfish.
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>>16616778
checking out in your 20's an 30's is very premature, you'd be surpirsed how quickly life can change over the course of a year even if nothing ever seems to change.
it's this time of year that I like to reflect on where I was at this time last year and it usually does amaze me how many things in my routine have changed. everyone struggles with this, and for me keeping my mind busy helps tremendously and makes me feel accomplished.
if the movie still sucks when you turn 50 or 60 I don't think anyone will blame you for ending it
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I'd recommend that you read Eckhart tolle: the power of now. Being is all the meaning you need. Seeking meaning outside yourself is only part of happiness
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Why do people run away from their problems? 2015-12-29 07:59:14 Post No.16616767
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Why do people run away from their problems?
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>Alcohol isn't going to solve it
>driving off isn't going to solve it
>sex isn't going to solve it
Better question is why are people so stupid to try to solve a problem by creating other problems? No self control?
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>>16616767
I'd say they lack the cognitive ability
Read Flowers for Algernon
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Depends what the problem(s) is
I run from mine because I've not found a solution in 10 years
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>>16616767
its often easier to run, in a short term sense. most have either forgotten or never learned how to play the long game.
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Can I subsist on 1 or 2 hours of sleep a night and if so how? There arent enough hours in a day.
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>>16616754
You know the CIA uses sleep deprivation as a form of interrogation
Its not a good idea
If you don't go to sleep you will literally go insane and die
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Yes but your risk of cardiac troubles increases ridiculously, you'll feel tired, may hallucinate, fall asleep sitting, etc.
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>>16616754
It isn't worth it, man.
You work much more efficiently when you're well rested, well fed, and healthy.
A person who eats healthy, exercises regularly, and sleeps 7 hours a night will be infinitely more productive than a person who only sleeps 4 hours a night.
Don't work harder. Don't work more often. Learn how to manage your time more efficiently and you'll find out how much of it you really have.
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Right now I am going to school to be a ESL teacher, which I realize is not going to make very much money. I am also doing linguistics, but I am not going to grad school so I don't know how useful I will be.
Is it possible to go back to school and try to go to a vocational school or maybe even try for med school after a few years out of college?
I just feel like I got on the wrong track, but I really want to at least follow through with my Bachelor's and teaching certificate first.
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>>16616727
Why dont you try translation and interpretation? I feel is the lingüistics related career that pays well and all you need is to learn a couple of languages.
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Can someone estimate my height?
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>>16616719
6 feet.
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>>16616719
5'11"
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5 foot and seven inches Maximum